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By *ilthygorgeous1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

We both lead busy lives, work hard running our own businesses and when not working we have family commitments so play time can be very limited but fortunately we try to squeeze a naughty night out every couple of months or so. We were just interested in how often others take time out to get naughty??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as often as I would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Averages about once/ twice a month. Not on this profile though. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to this place, and still looking for my first meet.

Not that easy baring in mind people lead busy lives, distance and the odd time waster here and there.

Good things come to those who wait.

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By *ilthygorgeous1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Averages about once/ twice a month. Not on this profile though. x"

That sounds perfect. Is that because of Vanilla commitments or just all you have time for?

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By *ilthygorgeous1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"New to this place, and still looking for my first meet.

Not that easy baring in mind people lead busy lives, distance and the odd time waster here and there.

Good things come to those who wait. "

They certainly do and judging by your profile and your pics we are sure you'll do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the bestie every week with new people it takes more organisation but have a few in the pipeline planned for the next few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree zoya, alot of people have regular friends with benefits if you want to call it that.

however to find new people that are genuine, reliable and in which you have that connection with, does take some time.

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

I've been very lucky on the site , when I'm in the mood and have a few hours free I can normally get something arranged at short notice , as long as the guys don't live more that an hours drive away . Pretty spontaneous and exciting a few times a week suits me . It's great being single and getting to choose . I've met some amazing guys and always have a pleasurable experience, not always ending in sex might I add . The secret is relax , don't have any expectations then enjoy every moment ,

I've made some good friends on fab .

Been here since June '11 and feel like part of the furniture .

Happy fabbing

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I don't meet every week.. I'm happy for it to be once a month or so if convenient where work and family are concerned. I also like to get to know someone before meeting even if this means chatting for a few weeks first.

I do however find it's getting harder to find genuine people on here that are not in some kind of a rush and that actually accom in my area because I can't lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Averages about once/ twice a month. Not on this profile though. x

That sounds perfect. Is that because of Vanilla commitments or just all you have time for? "

Both really. We go to clubs, parties, arrange our own meets, allsorts of different things. We plan ahead and always have a couple of things planned. It's good to have things to look forward to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often at all, mostly due to location and lack of single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky enough to have a regular fb, we're both single with no ties so can meet pretty much every weekend. I occasionally attend clubs as I find it much easier than arranging meets on here, kind of given up arranging meets on here, its too much hassle, I just like the forums.

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By *ilthygorgeous1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

We'd say although we do chat and meet new people most of our meets are through our network of existing freinds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average about once a week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both lead busy lives, work hard running our own businesses and when not working we have family commitments so play time can be very limited but fortunately we try to squeeze a naughty night out every couple of months or so. We were just interested in how often others take time out to get naughty??

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Same here. Too many outside influences hamper play time opportunities. And we do get the time finding people can be next to impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats my bday 11 june so wheres my card please and its such a special occasion for us both I think we should give each other a sexy present in the knack to start with lol I couldn't resist that sorry my bad???? X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not as much as I used to. If my local GB organiser gets in touch it can be once or twice a week. If I'm on his shitlist and I sort my own meets out then probably once a month. I'm fine with that though as work and other commitments mean I have plenty to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats my bday 11 june so wheres my card please and its such a special occasion for us both I think we should give each other a sexy present in the knack to start with lol I couldn't resist that sorry my bad???? X"

What ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ever any ones interested so about once every two years lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can vary....work gets in the way. I don't count time spent with my bestie from here (eg last night going round to hers for a home cooked Thai curry or staying weekend in her caravan).

But between these kind of things...probably as often as I want/need to?

It helps having another local fb virtually on tap tho lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd say although we do chat and meet new people most of our meets are through our network of existing freinds. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as I can make but it's quality not quantity , travel work family take all time so what's left I use for fabbing but had only a couple of meets and they were at clubs

I don't try hard enough I recon

Golf today , less interesting I know

Happy swinging

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than some less than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough, life always seems to get in the way!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've finally got to the stage where I work a lovely 9 to 5 and my kids don't need me around anymore so all my weekends are mine. It's taken some doing though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet as much as I used to..

I meet a few times a month with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's trying to find the time, with a hectic work life and a family it's nowhere near as often as we'd like.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

On average once maybe twice a month, can go longer like now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average I meet once every couple of month, if I book holiday I maybe fit a extra meet in, I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal "

Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far).

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

3 times a week or as often as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My message was in relation to _em4ejacs statement sorry for confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal

Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far)."

Profile police?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal

Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far).

Profile police?"

Yes those that tell you what's wrong with it. I didn't even ask haha

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

With a couple who we met at a club but made first contact with through fab usually every week , quite often see them twice a week but very happy to sit down have a drink , a chat and a good laugh ,,,,,, its not always about the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets, never have time for one to ones these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm a single mum working two jobs so my time is very limited, sometimes I go longer than two months without a meet, if I could accommodate I could meet more but I don't, someone very local who can accommodate would be ideal

Exactly the same for me. And it seems nobody in my area accoms. Yet I get endless mail expecting me to accom even tho it states I can't? I've even had the 'profile police' onto me this morning because it says I can't accom or travel(far).

Profile police?

Yes those that tell you what's wrong with it. I didn't even ask haha "

Just ignore them. Who cares what they think?

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

Not enough.

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I've been very lucky on the site , when I'm in the mood and have a few hours free I can normally get something arranged at short notice , as long as the guys don't live more that an hours drive away . Pretty spontaneous and exciting a few times a week suits me . It's great being single and getting to choose . I've met some amazing guys and always have a pleasurable experience, not always ending in sex might I add . The secret is relax , don't have any expectations then enjoy every moment ,

I've made some good friends on fab .

Been here since June '11 and feel like part of the furniture .

Happy fabbing "

So take it all veris not showing then as you been on a year etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often have several meets a day- during the week. Weekends i tend to not have any unless it's with someone i know who doesn't want to sleep over.

Have only just started planning meets and it's going well for me but i still have my spontaneous ones as well and enjoy those too. I have a lot of free time and hardly sleep so can do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site its next to impossible to meet one so I don't rely the site for sex, instead have sex about once a month in the real world

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I meet two or three times a week depending if we are both free

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By *ilthygorgeous1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Good to see there's many in here getting meets. So often we read posts from people moaning about the lack of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he's home we try to get a meet every night but it varies how long he's home for. could be home 2 days then he's away again or home for 3 weeks and away for 10 weeks. Quite a pain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with us both working couple with a child. find it hard getting a sitter. when we do get alone time it can be a few hours in evening. Have had the odd meet in that time but seems rushed. so in all, Not as much as we'd like. never mind time to ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and get out to play once every two or three months. This suits us fine at the moment. It used to be once a month but we found we were getting fed up with it and not looking forward to it us much so had a break. Now we have found a happy medium and are enjoying it much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to do it a lot more in our 40s. possibly once a week or so at it's peak. Now perhaps once every 2 to 3 months. Tbh we've got fed up of all the fannying around that goes on to get a meet. It's probably us. Being in our 50s like a good book, we tend to get left in the library a lot more nowadays LOL.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Depends. Usually once a month due to work but when he's on holiday we'll play twice or more a week. Certainly twice in the weekend off and maybe fit in a mid week meet if we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around twice a month generally although nothing's set in stone, just depends who takes a fancy to us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I had a regularish friend but he seems to have gone silent and off the boil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes 3 times a year, on a good year...

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I got through phases where I meet more frequently, but every couple of months.

I don't rush in to meets, and am quite fussy.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Every single weekend bar this one as it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every couple of months

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

One every month or two months at the outside. Depends on who, where and my availability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ones or twice a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varies for us as we work shifts and never the same week on week. Been a while since we had a meet as busy over xmas.

Hopefully that will change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as often as I would like"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely. Get more wind up merchants and time wasters than real people at times and it puts me off trusting the potentially genuine guys. That said I have met some great people. Just need to re tune my twat radar...

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By *ecretLiaisonsCouple
over a year ago

Beccles

About once a week for us. Had a great time since we joined last Feb x

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By *ilthygorgeous1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Twat radar! Love it!

We have to say we've been lucky in the sense we've not been messed around by anyone so far but it's sure to be in the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough, need some more players in the Brighton area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twat radar! Love it!

We have to say we've been lucky in the sense we've not been messed around by anyone so far but it's sure to be in the post. "

Can't say I'm surprised ... You guys are a hot couple! Definitely gorgeous and according to the name filthy too - perfect combo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we meet once a month with the same regular female for 3some fun , like the poster to busy running a business and family for loads of meets . Looking to expand it but our emphasis is on safe fun fun so also enjoy a sat evening cam session with couples and the odd single .Although we are going to be a little more adventuress and meet a couple or two but its just a reat for us not a thing we take serious like ebay f/b lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 or 3 evenings a week .

We currently enjoy dogging and can meet up to 6 people a night .

Love it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nearly as much as we'd like to!! Lol.

Our free time has to be planned with military precision. With work and family we have to. We'd love to have more improptu meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree zoya, alot of people have regular friends with benefits if you want to call it that.

however to find new people that are genuine, reliable and in which you have that connection with, does take some time. "

It takes a long long time!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Shooting sex films makes swinging a busmans holiday for us so apart from the obvious action during films we limit swing fun to about once a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to play once a month, as we don't want the lifestyle to take over our vanilla life. This also helps build up the anticipation and excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given work commitments, probably once every 3 mths at present.

For us its quality over quantity everytime and as others have said, this part of our lives is added spice, not normality.

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By *hameless-2Couple
over a year ago

_hameless-2 ~ HULL

Most weekends for us. Even if we don't play at some party's it's always nice to mix with friends in the scene just for the social side and the laughs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice a year at the current rate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male with personal standards - so not very often.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Every 2-3 months depending on work commitments. I might play a few times in a week if I've got plenty of time off but that happens rarely. People have got arsey about that in the past but I've stopped feeling guilty and now see it as another form of filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I had a regularish friend but he seems to have gone silent and off the boil "

slight cockup on my part. I forgot he was going away. contact has been made, couple of months and things will be back on track

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Meets are usually like buses...nothing for ages then a few come along at once

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

I still haven't found the time to jump in and do it.

Between me working 50 hours a week and mister between 20-60 hours (including both days of the weekend for us both) and then juggling 2 children under 5, can't accommodate in our small flat and can't drive either it's just not been practical yet to fit people in :-/

Not enough hours in the day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like once a fortnight but not played since end September lol not for not trying just let downs and no shows lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets about one a month if a five week month, if a four week month none

generally two partys a month

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Once or twice a month with people I know, not that often with new people unless its a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love to play every fortnight but in reality its every 4-6 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times a month but more if time allows, Which it normally doesn't.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Not as often as we would like. Hubby works 12 hour days Mon to Friday so week nights are out and I work as a barmaid so work a lot at weekends. Add to that our family commitments our time is very limited.

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By *ady SalfordWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm fortunate to be able to play has much as poss atm, as my work and family commitment isn't so intense.. But good things don't last forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play whenever i want to really! Thought bloody single men never complain about not getting meets, im lying in here in gorgeous lingerie, stockings heels, sexy makeup etc and been stood up because he decided he was tired but waited hr & half to message he wasnt coming!

Grrrr we have feelings too you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a funny old thing. There's no rhyme or reason with me. Lol. A combination of infrequent (fairly) spontaneous meets, planned meets and the odd right-place-right-time play at parties.

And then you have this month, no parties and no signs of a meet. As I said, no rhyme or reason but I have a busy enough life so it never bothers me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tommy works overseas and usually does a 2 month away 1 month home rotation, plus we have two very young children, that being said when he is home for those few weeks we plan and cram quite a few bits in, usually at least 2 club visits which we love, maybe a social and definitely 1-2 meets from our friends list

We like to take photos and videos too,

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24


"I don't meet every week.. I'm happy for it to be once a month or so if convenient where work and family are concerned. I also like to get to know someone before meeting even if this means chatting for a few weeks first.

I do however find it's getting harder to find genuine people on here that are not in some kind of a rush and that actually accom in my area because I can't lol."

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always quality over quantity these days for me. So it depends who i click with, or depends if its a real woman and not man hiding behind a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far the average is once every two years....

Mostly due to everything coming into alignment, work, free time, attraction etc etc...

We also drift in and out of having the interest or desire to share ourselves with others

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I go through phases. I had 17 meets in November, several of those with my fb every week.

By 3 Jan this year I'd already met three guys. But then the last time I had a meet was Saturday.

I've noticed that I'll have a really huge appetite for sex every other month and will go hell for leather. Then I'll have a few weeks off.

I'm often err late for work or late home. I do an inordinate amount of late night shopping and have an awful lot of long lunches and medical appointments. Where there's a will there's a way!

Contrary to popular belief I'm not horny 24/7 lol

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

We like the anticipation and excitement of meeting and always have a good time but not always ending in sex that's about 3/4 who we meet, As a couple In the summer season we could have sex almost every day. Connie xx

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