FabSwingers.com forum: First Club Social Event

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm looking to attend my first Club Social Event.

Any tips for a single male. Theres a few upcoming events but just curious as to how things are there and are couples or single fems looking to interact with us left out males.

I was never in the popular group at school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been and funnily enough posted a similar question lol.

One of the things that kept coming up was that sometimes single males could follow ladies around, not understand (or accept) no interest, and be impolite. So start by avoiding those lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking to attend my first Club Social Event.

Any tips for a single male. Theres a few upcoming events but just curious as to how things are there and are couples or single fems looking to interact with us left out males.

I was never in the popular group at school

Hello OP, you don't have to be in a popular group to attend a social, take a look at some of the events that are happening, pop your name down and go along, chat to people who are like minded and enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

that sounds like a good plan. never good to pester and be the stalkative creepy type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for the tip, im excited but slightly anxious too.

natural reaction i guess

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Try Atlantis Evolution in Stoke-on-Trent, very friendly and welcoming !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would need to know where in the north west you are in order to reccommend a good club near you! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go and enjoy it ,, make to effort to chat to people ,, etc ,, i go to chameleons ,, and quite often leave not even chatted to a single male ,, never mind had any fun often followed about by a few but if they cant be bothered to chat or be sociable , then im not interested in fun with them ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say go without any expectations other than chatting and getting to know people. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im currently in blackburn paula.

advice on decent clubs in the area would be much appreciated.

newbie like i said, but im a very talkative, sociable, extrovert.

not in a creepy, pestering way though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i've seen theres an upcoming event in newcastle debs?

im there around that time, as i travel all over the uk with my work.

currently in blackburn at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been thinking about going to a club and would rather go when I know single males will be there because going on a couples and ladies only night doesn't appeal to me but I'm rather nervous a bout it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've seen theres an upcoming event in newcastle debs?

im there around that time, as i travel all over the uk with my work.

currently in blackburn at the moment

I don't go local social events, but i do go to local clubs and clubs further afield. I am going to the fab social at the townhouse (Wirral) at the end of Feb. If you get there, I'd be happy to say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been thinking about going to a club and would rather go when I know single males will be there because going on a couples and ladies only night doesn't appeal to me but I'm rather nervous a bout it "

I'm going to visit a few clubs this year, so if you'd like some company then let me know. Always nice to have someone to go with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to visit a few clubs this year, so if you'd like some company then let me know. Always nice to have someone to go with.

Thanks Hun but we are miles apart

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thats very kind of you debs.

how do we confirm our attendance to an event?

plus are location details, prices etc all stated?

can we interact with guests on fab before we attend to get comfortable and have the ice broken.

please advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Events and clubs normally advertise on the forums clubs/events. All the details are on there. You just pop your name down on the forum thread and that's pretty much it.

Some events post a list of who's going so I guess you could contact people beforehand.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

perfect very helpful

seems easy.

now i just need to attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was never popular at school and have been to one social meet on a different site, had lots of fun, people spoke to you - unlike school, you are all there because of one interest.

Go for it and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs il write it again deleted it by accident lol .hiya all and im a newby at all this too tbh im shittin meself of goin to a club haha so if ya fancy goin let me know pal ( not gay btw ) just could do with goin with someone first off I live near Liverpool and would live to go to one soon or if there is any ladies who are up for taking 2 studs under there wings please txt and put us out of our missery lol tyvm x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"i've seen theres an upcoming event in newcastle debs?

im there around that time, as i travel all over the uk with my work.

currently in blackburn at the moment

the newcastle event is a social in a non-playing place in a non-playing atmosphere... so remember that the word social means Socialising and nothing else....

don't think that "social" is some sort of code word for orgy.. it is not!!!

its a chance to get to know people and then decide if you want to take it further at a later stage... so if you are not a person who can say hello to people, and just talk generally then it is not likely to be for you....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for confirming _abio, had no idea.

luckily i can talk and interact without getting too hands on.

i guess it would be a good idea to have a hotel booked close by, should there be any chemistry with those who attend.

thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with no expectations other than to chat and have a good time. Sometimes single males are afraid to approach couples and single fems as they don't want to appear pushy. Just be yourself and chat like you would in vanilla life. Remember user names. No need to buddy up with other single guys. Their approach maybe different to yours, however people may see you as a team which could work against you.

Good luck

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