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How long would you wait to meet

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm interested to find out how long you cpls and singles would wait to meet up with other peeps , my longest has been 7 months after a few false starts and when i met them it was well worth the wait and would you meet a cpl with out pics on there profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have done well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm interested to find out how long you cpls and singles would wait to meet up with other peeps , my longest has been 7 months after a few false starts and when i met them it was well worth the wait and would you meet a cpl with out pics on there profile "

I chatted online with a couple visited for coffee and a chat 3 times before we got to play that was over a 2 year period, and YES it was worth the wait

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as long as it took someone to feel comfortable enough to want to meet me... for me that doesn't have a time limit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm interested to find out how long you cpls and singles would wait to meet up with other peeps , my longest has been 7 months after a few false starts and when i met them it was well worth the wait and would you meet a cpl with out pics on there profile "

Not quite sure if you mean how long to meet someone you have been talking to, or how long to wait after joining the site to first meet.

If the former, maybe a month tops unless they had good reasons. If the later, well, we had our first meet a week after joining FS and it's still one of the best we've had. Even better he's become a bit of a mate.

Pictures on profiles are nice but if they are not present then we ask to see a good, recent photo within a couple of emails.

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

i agree there quiet a few peeps on my friends list who i chat to but as we know it can be hard to arrange meets work etc etc

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would never meet anyone i hadnt been on cam with unless i had seen pictures and they where verified.

Longest i have gone before meeting someone i dont know, sometimes it happens that you become friends with someone but think that you will never meet because of things like distance and then something happens that means you can actually meet. Ive met a guy from america who i never thought it was going to be possible to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has never taken long to get A meet, but as can speak for how long after a meet to playing, I have known some couples for 2 years before we actually played and that in one case was seeing the couple a few times a week socially.

There is one couple on here I still hope to play with one day and have known them for about 4 years, at one point they did invite me to play but then I met Sasha and they don't play with couples (sods law strikes again)

So I don't really care how long it takes or if it will ever happen so long as I can keep making friends along the way

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

my marker seems to be 2yrs too due to situations stopping us from meeting but have to all very worth the wait xxxx

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

same here and thats best attitude to have make friends online it might be a month or a six months

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I'd wait until the time was right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined Fab just over 2yrs ago and started talking to a guy. We developed a sort of friendship, exchanged pics, emails etc, but work and family stuff got in the way of meeting.

We arranged to meet a couple of months ago, we were all off work and it seemed the time was right.

He didn't turn up

He'll wait till Hell freezes over to meet us now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only speak from experience, no meets as yet, over a year. Maybe due to being 53 smoker male and having a small goatee, who knows.

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Had the same kind of experience with a cpl chatted to them on fab then msn for a few months the day came to meet didnt show you put it down to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and he makes great tea lol

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

we prefer meets pics dont really bother us.after all nice pics dont always mean nice people.

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Same here have met a few people with out pics being on there profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a cuople after 7 months before and it can be a few months with most we get to know due to work, sitters and the ferry! But we haven't had any probs so far as are honest from the beginning and if people cannot wait then their loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being patient is usually a good sign of being genuine - and it works both ways.

When someone is still interested after several months without also being a daily message pest it's a good sign.

I think that I've known most of my contacts for at least 6 months before playing.

People on here looking to meet "tonight only" or at short notice nearly always turn out to be time wasters.

But there are always exceptions I'm happy to say !

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i have been chatting to a guy on msn for 4 years, finally met him a few months ago so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got to agree it don’t matter how long you wait, I like to get to know people, and it can worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet socially usually within a couple of months and meet to play shortly after. Frequent meets are not always possible as we all have lives outside swinging.

There is one man I met over a year ago and he basically lives down the road but we've been unable to meet to play.

He keeps in contact and we're hoping to finally get naked. He is absolutely gorgeous and I'm sure he'll be worth the wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never really thought about this to be honest

I have chatted to people for months befor we have met, mainly because of timing, finding a time im not already busy when they free too

If it takes months so be it

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thats why i put this post meets can happen within a few chats but others can be weeks or months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends what your after

People i class as swingers are ok with talking, meeting when we are both ready etc

Other i class as people after a quick fuck and they just want it NOW!

I have on a few occasions had messages from guys saying they are blocking me as they dont talk to time wasters because i not call them after a cpl of messages or arranged a meet within a day of contact

Which is fine if thats what they want

Im a single woman who meets single guys my spare time is usually booked up, upto 3 or 4 weeks in advance with men i have already been chatting to, why should i meet them straight away?

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I agree there you carry on some times as we know some peeps you can meet them at a drop of a hat im one of the lucky ones who has his own place and can accom but you carry on nn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends what your after

People i class as swingers are ok with talking, meeting when we are both ready etc

Other i class as people after a quick fuck and they just want it NOW!

I have on a few occasions had messages from guys saying they are blocking me as they dont talk to time wasters because i not call them after a cpl of messages or arranged a meet within a day of contact

Which is fine if thats what they want

Im a single woman who meets single guys my spare time is usually booked up, upto 3 or 4 weeks in advance with men i have already been chatting to, why should i meet them straight away?"

Well said, totally agree with what you say. Especially if like me you are looking to meet up with people on a regular basis, not just one "offs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man I met had waited maybe 3years.... to meet me.

Others a fair few months and others 15 minutes.....

And the bettee meets have been the patient guys

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