FabSwingers.com forum: Picture Swap

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been asked if i had any pics to swap with another couple. When i replied we have plenty of pics of us on our profile they responded they wanted to see pics of other people we had met or pics that we had been sent of others.

We thought this was very wrong and naughty.

We respect peoples confidence and confidentiality. This didnt even enter this couples head.

What the fuck is the world coming to when people think its ok for them to pass pics around that was sent to them in confidence.

What are your thoughts on this. Are we being a bit arsey or do you agree

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

My response would be a huge "F" off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's just an odd thing to ask of someone. we would never send someone else's pix to another party. (not that we ever get any lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You not being arsey and i totally agree with you,they sound like pic collectors after wanking material.

When photo's have been taken with other people in them the other people have our word that they are for our eyes only,would never dream of sending pics out with others in them.

We dont send out personal pics anyway,we dont mind sending face pics but thats it and if anyone demands we send pics then they are blocked and we wont meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have plenty of rude pics in our gallery on here. and if the pics do contain any other person we have had permission off that person to display them.

The thought of someone sending our pics on we have taken with them makes my blood boil!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with you

well done!

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

we would have told then to FUCK OFF in no uncertain manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My response would be a huge "F" off"
haha @ huge F... off lol what you said ^

* sits on coffin * give finger to pic collectors

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

dont you just hate "got any pics"does our heads in ...well done you,,,, a big fuck off from us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After looking at your profile I can't see why anyone would possibly need to see more. They obviously aren't interested in meeting or pics of you would be enough for them. Probably a pic collector being rather unsubtle about it.

Genuine swingers respect other peoples confidentiality.

There's always the possibility that some local SOB might try and get hold of pictures to use them for blackmail purposes!

Fuck off was the right answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My response would be a huge "F" off"

Mine would be a big "F" off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm i get asked for pics even after chatting on cam

i always think its a bit odd when people do that

just walk away xxxxxxxxx

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I often get asked for pics of all the people coming to one of my parties. The thing is, that there are places where "guest lists" are published and people get conditioned into thinking that every private function should have a public guest list as well.

Well, tough. On a couple of counts ...firstly, on the grounds of confidentiality and respect for privacy, I wouldn't hand anyone elses photos out, and secondly, a lot of my contacts I've made in "real life" from meets in clubs etc, where the people aren't on this site or even on the internet (shock!) so I wouldn't have a photo nor would one exist on a profile anywhere.

It makes me laugh too when people who as for photos don't even have a profile photo on this site.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I agree with you wholeheartedly...

If I ever take photos, it is with the promise that they would not be shared with anyone else. If they wish to share the evidence of the event - that's their choice.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

we have been asked for pics too, at the beginging of us joining fab we added a few people to msn who all they wanted was to see pictures or swap pics hubby notist that he posted a pic of two diffrent ladies as his wife! realy pissed me off when on free porn sites have loads of swing pics or vids it makes you wonder how many of us there are on thease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too believe it is wrong to pass on other people's photos, vids, and personal information without their consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have been asked for pics too, at the beginging of us joining fab we added a few people to msn who all they wanted was to see pictures or swap pics hubby notist that he posted a pic of two diffrent ladies as his wife! realy pissed me off when on free porn sites have loads of swing pics or vids it makes you wonder how many of us there are on thease"

Thats part of the reason dont bother with msn anymore,got sick of people asking for pics all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we message with a view to meeting we send a couple of pics. That's your lot, if not good enough then we wont be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If we message with a view to meeting we send a couple of pics. That's your lot, if not good enough then we wont be meeting."

We couldnt believe they asked for pics as we have said before we have quite a few on here alredy and most are quite graphic lol

I think our pictures show what we are into lol

But to ask for pics of someone else was ludicrous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did absolutely the right thing. All the genuine meeting people on here know that a read of a profile and then maybe an exchange of face pics , before a chat on the phone , or any other method is all that is required if you genuinely are wanting to meet.

This certainly sounds like somebody who just wants to collect photos for wanking. To ask for photos of a third party is so wrong !!

Our answer would be " There is plenty of free porn on the web ".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we message with a view to meeting we send a couple of pics. That's your lot, if not good enough then we wont be meeting."

yep, job done.

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By *ufftedMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Many people are on this site are here for wanking material nothing else, even couples. As for sending pics of other people thats a deffo no no. I met a couple who asked to take photos and I said yes because it was just for their viewing, but you never know they could have passed them on to other people, but they seemed very nice genuine peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite F off!

That's why I don't mail people when they say they want to take photos. I feel it's a bit risky to have photos taken on a first meet, I don't mind pics if you know the people quite well.

Maybe not everyone is as respectful to others privacy as you are and this person asking has gotten other pics off other couples. Scary stuff!

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

What is on my profile is the only pictures, I dont have any in the private gallery, when i get asked to send pictures, i just say look at my profile.

I dont send pictures as i dont want any published on the net, or get into the wrong hands.

So i agree yes it is wrong what they asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very wrong. How bad of them to ask you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend on here reported to me that another guy was using my pictures on his profile. Wonder if this had happened to anyone else?

Makes you feel violated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A friend on here reported to me that another guy was using my pictures on his profile. Wonder if this had happened to anyone else?

Makes you feel violated. "

It happened to us a few years back on here,someone emailed us to let us know,admin soon sorted it out for us but was so annoying that someone could browse profiles and take the ones he liked.

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

i found out from a cpl we know that we were on a site we were on that my pics were on same site under someone elses name!!!!checked it out n there i was ,all copied n pasted.i was fuming ,neverthe less they got kicked off the site !!the bloody nerve !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say----Goto Noels Swap Shop! lol lol

Heya ---Posh Paws! lol

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