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Why can't I enjoy normal night clubs?

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By *ust_for_fun88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

Since I've been going to sex clubs I can't enjoy myslef in normal night clubs.

They just bore me, there's no excitement or adrenalin

Does anyone else find this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I've been going to sex clubs I can't enjoy myslef in normal night clubs.

They just bore me, there's no excitement or adrenalin

Does anyone else find this?"

Nope...I've not enjoyed normal night clubs since I was about 20. Full of idiots normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting to go to a club - can't wait now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am the same. I find normal pubs etc very flat compared to the decadence of the kind of clubs and parties we attend

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By *ust_for_fun88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

Glad I'm not the only one ,,, I was go home feeling like I've wasted my time and money lol

Much rather hit a sex club and make the most of night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I enjoy night clubs dance clubs and the underground clubs still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never enjoyed club night, full stop. I don't think you are unjust in your feeling, even if the sex clubs play a huge part in it.

Usual clubs blast music too loudly, people intoxicate themselves to near-depth and you can't strike up a fun conversation. That's less the case for sex ones, in my opinion

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Yes I am the same. I find normal pubs etc very flat compared to the decadence of the kind of clubs and parties we attend "

Agree but find the music a bit loud in one sex club as well (only on certain nights).

Him

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We, as a couple, haven't been to an ordinary nightclub in more years than I'd like to remember. The last one was in Wales with some vanilla friends of ours and he made me cum while stood at the bar with them by fingering me from behind. When I orgasmed they realised what he was doing, laughed about it and we carried on drinking.

He, however, still attends Raves (he's a HUGE Deep House nut, too many records, CD's, MP3's to count as well as his Mod, Punk, and Electronica collection - can you tell he's telling me to type this? lol) and goes at least once every 8 weeks to a concert or Rave. We're off to see OK Go next month at The Forum in Camden, followed by Stiff Little Fingers in March. He normally takes our daughter but I've decided I want to see what he gets up to when he goes out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never go nightclubs any more....I hang around at various music festivals for four solid months of the year so it seem to get that side of things out of my system.....

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Both still enjoy on occasion. Mr enjoys people watching ( especially ladies in skimpy clothes) Mrs enjoys dancing. Living where we now do miss the rock and Goth clubs the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont go as i dont like the music and theres no rock night clubs near me.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Since I've been going to sex clubs I can't enjoy myslef in normal night clubs.

They just bore me, there's no excitement or adrenalin

Does anyone else find this?"

Unless there's a band or a club night We really want to check out I agree we just don't seem to get the same buzz out of Vaniila clubs.

Like you said it's a thrill seeker adrenalin junkie type of thing I guess

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well todays dance music is so boring the only people enjoying it are on drugs and most of them look bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope,love night clubs ,love dancing

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think it looks funny that everyone seems to have too many clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the op .

It seems pointless going to a normal club now . Loud music so no chance to chat . No chase , no buzz .....

We have been going to swinging clubs for 4 years now and wouldn't go to a vanilla club again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a swinging friend's vanilla party with some other swinging friends and by 10 o clock were all itching to get naked...lol...mind you, they had some seriously hot friends...

It kind of worried me though that we seemed to have lost the art of small talk in a social sense...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I've been going to sex clubs I can't enjoy myslef in normal night clubs.

They just bore me, there's no excitement or adrenalin

Does anyone else find this?

Nope...I've not enjoyed normal night clubs since I was about 20. Full of idiots normally."

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