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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does any other married man on here find it difficult to get the girls to even reply if you have been up front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The large majority of people, and i include men or women.........won't knowingly play with someone who's married. Which probably explains the lack of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The large majority of people, and i include men or women.........won't knowingly play with someone who's married. Which probably explains the lack of response."

Indeed. And probably not off-set by the quality of the profile and photo. Turn the light on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. "
I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. "

swingers site or not, I'll stand by my comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. No worries that's what opinions are all about. Had another read at it and can't see where I suggest an affair

swingers site or not, I'll stand by my comment"

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow.

swingers site or not, I'll stand by my comment"

Lol! Caught in the act of away match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its as hard to get a reply if ur single lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its as hard to get a reply if ur single lol "
I dont feel so bad now. Thanks and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cheating non the less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. "

You aren't looking to swing. You clearly state that you are looking for a regular person to have sex with behind your partner's back. How is that not an affair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its as hard to get a reply if ur single lol I dont feel so bad now. Thanks and good luck"
Thanks and yes good luck to you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow.

You aren't looking to swing. You clearly state that you are looking for a regular person to have sex with behind your partner's back. How is that not an affair?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. Not looking for hearts and flowers. Im not going to be going out on a date. This would be a mutual sex only arrangement

You aren't looking to swing. You clearly state that you are looking for a regular person to have sex with behind your partner's back. How is that not an affair?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? "
nope but if it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. "
Yes its a swingers site...does that mean you have to play with cheating scumbags that have no respect for their own wives...why would another even entertain you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow.

You aren't looking to swing. You clearly state that you are looking for a regular person to have sex with behind your partner's back. How is that not an affair?

"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. Yes its a swingers site...does that mean you have to play with cheating scumbags that have no respect for their own wives...why would another even entertain you "

this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The majority of men find it difficult if forum posts are any indication. There are some who are very successful and married men are among their number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get reply s and make friends but maybe because the wife is also n this account, if your married you should state that you are, being here as single then posting that your married does say that you are looking to go behind your wifes back and people don't like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? nope but if it works "

Honestly. I have had to set up a ticket based system. Have to turn some away sometimes. It's crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been asked if going with a married woman would make a difference

nope I treat men and women the same.. I dont meet attached men women who cheat

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Does any other married man on here find it difficult to get the girls to even reply if you have been up front. "

Your a single male just getting a message is an achievement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its as hard to get a reply if ur single lol I dont feel so bad now. Thanks and good luckThanks and yes good luck to you too."
cheers think im going to need it after the negative feed back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. "

What are swingers? In your opinion. Asking because everyone has different ideas of what swingers are.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

there are alot of actual single men on here and i find it easier to meet those as there is no drama involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any other married man on here find it difficult to get the girls to even reply if you have been up front. "

Even singles guys find it hard to get responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you're married and playing away you should be upfront on your profile. Better to get no interest from some than entering into a conversation, only to find out later down the line they're not happy to meet attached guys. That just wastes your time and theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh that quaint little religious ceremony called marriage where we stand before the all seeing God and swear to be true to each other until death.

Ten Commandments? Swinging?

Such a giggle really

Cardinal Gimp.

Oh and i thought discussing personal messages in a forum was a No No

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Its as hard to get a reply if ur single lol I dont feel so bad now. Thanks and good luckThanks and yes good luck to you too. cheers think im going to need it after the negative feed back "

Don't worry about the negative comments at all just do you and stick to your preferences and don't let people change your mind or make you feel bad based their views there are all types of people on here I have come across many different profiles on here were the single lady or couple are happy to meet married men some even prefer it for whatever reason so my point it there is someone out there for you just have to find them good luck with the search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow.

You aren't looking to swing. You clearly state that you are looking for a regular person to have sex with behind your partner's back. How is that not an affair?

Not looking for hearts and flowers. Im not going to be going out on a date. This would be a mutual sex only arrangement

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I've sorted out your quote.

Have you considered an escort? I'm not passing judgement on your infidelity or your motives but all you want is to get laid.

You are offering nothing to the woman of this site - what incentive do they have to meet you as opposed to the 100s of other men on here?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Does any other married man on here find it difficult to get the girls to even reply if you have been up front. "

No, I don't. I get messages from men, ladies and couples. They tend to contact me, I don't often initiate contact. Only to a select few. This site works well for me but it is only one aspect of a swinging lifestyle.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Even if you were single you would struggle!

Your profile says absolutely bloody nothing about you! It's about time, men learnt to utilize their brain rather than their cock.

They must think every female will be throwing themselves at them, as after all, all they really need to do is join a site like this and be knee deep in pussy

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Yiu are pretty much saying in your profile tvat you are seeking someone to have an affair with. Most people on here aren't seeking that. I would disagree with that. Im certainly not looking for an affair. Is this not a swingers site. Thanks for your thoughts anyhow. No worries that's what opinions are all about. Had another read at it and can't see where I suggest an affair

swingers site or not, I'll stand by my comment "

Unless your wife is happy for you to have sex with other women, you ARE looking for an affair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Loving all these church goers and saints. I think he's learnt a lesson about the forums. Just make sure you sort out some googly eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attached but upfront about it and able to get meets so it can be done.

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