FabSwingers.com forum: I am stupid?????

By *ityboy2001 OP Man
over a year ago

All NW

What is the point of web chat? just a lot of guys wanking and the odd not particularly attractive fem or couple sitting on their sofa looking grubby

Or am I missing something?

I've yet to see or read anything that would interest me

Where as the rest of the site works well for arranging meets apart from the idiots pretending not to be men...and the endless swinger club updates...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of experience were you expecting from chat?

You do understand there is a lot more to swinging than the internet?

Many people chew the cud with people on here that they have met at parties and clubs so don't strictly need fab to get off.

Fab is a site for like minded people to meet and that is all what happens from there is up to us.

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By *ityboy2001 OP Man
over a year ago

All NW

Chew the chud - not heard wanking and typing bollox referred to that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not for you dont go in the chatrooms...

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By *ityboy2001 OP Man
over a year ago

All NW

I understand that but posted to see if anyone could enlighten me on what is happening there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its not for you dont go in the chatrooms..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What sort of experience were you expecting from chat?

You do understand there is a lot more to swinging than the internet?

Many people chew the cud with people on here that they have met at parties and clubs so don't strictly need fab to get off.

Fab is a site for like minded people to meet and that is all what happens from ithere is up to us."

wé always have fun on cam.... n really enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the point of web chat? just a lot of guys wanking and the odd not particularly attractive fem or couple sitting on their sofa looking grubby

Or am I missing something?

I've yet to see or read anything that would interest me

Where as the rest of the site works well for arranging meets apart from the idiots pretending not to be men...and the endless swinger club updates..."

Erm excuse me I go on cam and I am not grubby!!! If you don't like the chatrooms the simply don't go in them it's that easy!!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

You can connect with someone and chat to them in private, you can make the video feed private as well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to upset half the site with one easy post... funny stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to upset half the site with one easy post... funny stuff"

Was thinking the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass! I never use it!

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By *ityboy2001 OP Man
over a year ago

All NW

"How to upset half the site with one easy post... funny stuff"

Actually 95% of the site the wanking men the 5 % I'm quite happy meeting in the flesh...

OK I based my comments on the fems showing off that i saw that day which might have been rude but fairly true IMO

But WTF is going on ???? Seems even more trivial than the endless Hows you msgs...

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"How to upset half the site with one easy post... funny stuff

Actually 95% of the site the wanking men the 5 % I'm quite happy meeting in the flesh...

OK I based my comments on the fems showing off that i saw that day which might have been rude but fairly true IMO

But WTF is going on ???? Seems even more trivial than the endless Hows you msgs..."

Sorry that the women on here aren't up to your standards. Maybe you should ask them to put a bag over their heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can connect with someone and chat to them in private, you can make the video feed private as well ."

yeap,very true and have a damn good giggle,but the op is correct bout loads of grubby lookin females n guys jerking off,it can be very unappealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hardly use the chatrooms on here, or any chat apps either. but when i do i make the best of what's in there.

i hardly ever wank, just don't enjoy it half as much as sex so don't get horny enough to want to wank, but when i feel like it and i got no-one to do that with i go in chat on here and ask guys who wants me to watch them (coz i like watching guys wank, it turns me on more) and then i get naked and wank with them, and yeah that's basically it. sometimes i hang round afterwards to chat to guys.

so there you go, it is a chat feature, you can chat to people in there, a lot of people wank in there too (mainly guys) some women put on shows for the guys, i just like to watch guys wank in there because that's always going on. iuse it as it can be. if you don't like it then find other stuff to do.

not sure what you're expecting from chat but if it isn't what you expected then that's not their fault, you just had the wrong expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its not for you dont go in the chatrooms..."
+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to upset half the site with one easy post... funny stuff

Actually 95% of the site the wanking men the 5 % I'm quite happy meeting in the flesh...

OK I based my comments on the fems showing off that i saw that day which might have been rude but fairly true IMO

But WTF is going on ???? Seems even more trivial than the endless Hows you msgs...

Sorry that the women on here aren't up to your standards. Maybe you should ask them to put a bag over their heads.

lol,,its true some women and guys go on cam lookin like they just got out of bed ,obviously there are plenty that look nice,but wow some folk have no pride in their appearance.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It must be hell on earth for you, OP....logging on....reading club updates......looking at men wanking....not liking chat subjects....

I can't think of any possible way for you NOT to suffer

If that part of your fab experience is so bad.....er....why do you do it?

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"What is the point of web chat? just a lot of guys wanking and the odd not particularly attractive fem or couple sitting on their sofa looking grubby

Or am I missing something?

I've yet to see or read anything that would interest me

Where as the rest of the site works well for arranging meets apart from the idiots pretending not to be men...and the endless swinger club updates..."

It's about time they had a wankers chatroom

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What is the point of web chat? just a lot of guys wanking and the odd not particularly attractive fem or couple sitting on their sofa looking grubby

Or am I missing something?

I've yet to see or read anything that would interest me

Where as the rest of the site works well for arranging meets apart from the idiots pretending not to be men...and

the endless swinger club updates...

It's about time they had a wankers

chatroom"

They have - the bisexual chatroom

although laughably, most men in there wanking for other men to look at allege to be straight on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple of peeps at the chat rooms. The first,within a minute,I was asked by men to watch them wank. The second I went to say hello to a forum user I chat to via message. During that time I had a few messages from men asking me to watch again. I had a little peruse of the other cams and saw a couple of women,fully clothed having a chat,a lot of men with their cocks in hand,no couples-just the man on camera and a couple of clothed men who were chatting. It would only be useful to me to chat with someone I have befriended on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the point of web chat? just a lot of guys wanking and the odd not particularly attractive fem or couple sitting on their sofa looking grubby

Or am I missing something?

I've yet to see or read anything that would interest me

Where as the rest of the site works well for arranging meets apart from the idiots pretending not to be men...and the endless swinger club updates...

It's about time they had a wankers chatroom"

That would be useful,keep them all in one place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a couple of peeps at the chat rooms. The first,within a minute,I was asked by men to watch them wank. The second I went to say hello to a forum user I chat to via message. During that time I had a few messages from men asking me to watch again. I had a little peruse of the other cams and saw a couple of women,fully clothed having a chat,a lot of men with their cocks in hand,no couples-just the man on camera and a couple of clothed men who were chatting. It would only be useful to me to chat with someone I have befriended on here "

lol,,was a laugh eh,its what I use it for,oh ok I admit I like to tease the boys a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,was a laugh eh,its what I use it for,oh ok I admit I like to tease the boys a little

lol it was a laugh. Nothing wrong with teasing

I'll admit to lingering on a couple of cams a little too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its not for you dont go in the chatrooms...

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By *ityboy2001 OP Man
over a year ago

All NW

"It must be hell on earth for you, OP....logging on....reading club updates......looking at men wanking....not liking chat subjects....

I can't think of any possible way for you NOT to suffer

If that part of your fab experience is so bad.....er....why do you do it? "

OP here I love Fab have met plenty of very sexy people and enjoyed some amazing sex- that's why I wanted to understand what all those people in the cam chats were doing - looks extremely tedious to me unless of course wanking men is your thing... That said I noticed the odd one or two Fs and MFs were being watched even when they are just sitting on the sofa beer can and fag in hand watching TV ... WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to upset half the site with one easy post... funny stuff

Actually 95% of the site the wanking men the 5 % I'm quite happy meeting in the flesh...

OK I based my comments on the fems showing off that i saw that day which might have been rude but fairly true IMO

But WTF is going on ???? Seems even more trivial than the endless Hows you msgs...

Sorry that the women on here aren't up to your standards. Maybe you should ask them to put a bag over their heads.

lol,,its true some women and guys go on cam lookin like they just got out of bed ,obviously there are plenty that look nice,but wow some folk have no pride in their appearance."

As with any part of the site. We use it for a variety of reasons. Not everybody has to or wants to be conturing in their nose, before heading out or sitting on cam.

I'm going to guess, this chap didn't get fawned on as expected, so 'its not for him' but don't assume all have no pride or standards, because they're in a chat room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading through this thread it seems that men get ripped to shreds for wanking on cam, but strangely, there doesn't seem to be the same response to women doing he same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire your honesty, its true some people on here are easily pleased, takes all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they say there is "someone out there for everyone"

your loss is someone else gain

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Reading through this thread it seems that men get ripped to shreds for wanking on cam, but strangely, there doesn't seem to be the same response to women doing he same thing?

My point was that a great many of the men wanking on cam say they are straight but there they are, in the bisexual chatroom, wanking......who do they think their audience will be? Other men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading through this thread it seems that men get ripped to shreds for wanking on cam, but strangely, there doesn't seem to be the same response to women doing he same thing?

My point was that a great many of the men wanking on cam say they are straight but there they are, in the bisexual chatroom, wanking......who do they think their audience will be? Other men!

Haha good point(s)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an element of sympathy for the OP but I would have perhaps phrased it a little differently!

He is correct in that the rooms are dominated by guys either chocking the chicken on cam or asking fems to watch them. I can only speak for the Scottish room that I tend to use but the "get your tits out love" brigade are usually given a warning on their first comment then banned on the second. Not fool proof but it does cut down on a lot of the crap.

As a single male I go into the chat room to try and get a bit more well known. When guys are 1000 to 1 on here and you're not either black, bi, a fireman or packing a 12 inch willy - it's tricky to stand out lol. Or even get your mail opened. Chatting to folk in the room kind of shows them you are normal (was a normal as you can be on Fab) and that you don't need to start throttling the bishop everytime an attractive girl goes on cam.

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By *ityboy2001 OP Man
over a year ago

All NW

OK so no one has really answered my question so I take it the webcams are just for wanking or watch the odd very rare woman or couple performing.

Typically the shows are better evenings and weekends, daytimes are ... well better not say....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK so no one has really answered my question so I take it the webcams are just for wanking or watch the odd very rare woman or couple performing.

Typically the shows are better evenings and weekends, daytimes are ... well better not say...."

They're for whatever site members want to use them for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly enjoyed reading this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK so no one has really answered my question so I take it the webcams are just for wanking or watch the odd very rare woman or couple performing.

Typically the shows are better evenings and weekends, daytimes are ... well better not say...."

Can I ask you a question?

What do you want the webcams to be?

Many people go in chat to talk to their friends, others go in to wank, some couples like to have sex on can, there is no right or wrong way for following a procedure for chat rooms other than chat rules to be followed.

Ive been on cam in my casual every day attire as well as in my dressed up attire, for me it's always my fa e can, to chat to others with view to meeting them, nothing more, nothing less.

If I don't like a cam, I don't moan or berate in forums, I just turn the cam off

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By *ityboy2001 OP Man
over a year ago

All NW

Look I appreciate the very few women and couples in web chat probably get off from 100s of men simultaneously sending daft one liners or wanking into their cams... but this certainly bares no relation to real swinging Ive experienced in clubs and meets, so stop pretending this quite frankly weird behaviour is shall I say normal. Probably the wrong word but come on people here must understand what I'm on about. Even the women I meet say they are surprised by behaviour of both the fem and male participants of the cam rooms...

That said those people who actually chat to arrange meets my comments don't apply

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Occasionally it can be pretty hot and I think you can get to know people, not that I have really tried as yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A brilliantly pointless thread ( I'm only writing this so it'll go to the top of the forum in the hope that the ridiculousness carries on!!!

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

If you don't like them no one is forcing you to use them!

I don't use the site very often these days, but did used to use the chat rooms a lot. I chatted to friends, had a laugh and arranged meets with people from there. For me it worked very well, some would say too well! I met my partner in the chat rooms and we're getting married in may

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