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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you didn't get together with your current partner through the swinging scene,how did you talk them into becoming round to this way of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and Carrie met on line on pof and she had swung for a couple of years with her ex husband. when we realised we where made for each other and had a heart to heart talk and told each other everything about our past she told me about it. And when I listened to her it give me a hard on thinking about it so I agreed to go with her and I haven't looked back xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So should just tell them right from the start rather than leaving it a secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We told each other everything after a few weeks together when we knew we wanted a serious relationship and we have no secrets from each other I would just mention that you have a interest in swinging then leave it a little while to let her think it over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still trying....maybe I should give up!...x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that still trying to tell your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We told each other everything after a few weeks together when we knew we wanted a serious relationship and we have no secrets from each other I would just mention that you have a interest in swinging then leave it a little while to let her think it over "

Excellent advice

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance remark, then curiosity and excitement did the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,we use to swing together but then he lost all intrest. He hasn't wanted to for a while now..I tend to mention & try to talk

About it but he just doesn't want to know...yet in the beginning I explained what I wanted from a relationship as he wanted the same & now he doesn't..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No,we use to swing together but then he lost all intrest. He hasn't wanted to for a while now..I tend to mention & try to talk

About it but he just doesn't want to know...yet in the beginning I explained what I wanted from a relationship as he wanted the same & now he doesn't..x"

So what next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also met my now husband on POF, had a bad relationship in the past with a guy that to be fair used me, but convinced me to do a FF meet with pics on the grounds it would just be me and her. Turned out it was her and her fella watching who just kept on at joining in and didnt know his bounds.

Anyway, the concept of threesomes and what not came up what with is both being very sexually hungry all the time, and I told him. It annoyed him, but not through jealousy, more that it was such a bad experience with somebody who didn't deserve it who really hurt me. So I suggested we find another girl, that I wanted to do it again on my grounds, but didn't know how.

Then we found FAB, clubs, it all kicked off from there and We have never looked back.

But our swinging relationship works because we have the freedom to say what we want to each other, but I have a final say of sorts what with me being the girl. Gav is very protective over me getting hurt, and let's me run the profile, set up meets, do the chatting, pretty much everything, so that I feel comfortable.

So from something quite bad, came something actually really quite nice C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No,we use to swing together but then he lost all intrest. He hasn't wanted to for a while now..I tend to mention & try to talk

About it but he just doesn't want to know...yet in the beginning I explained what I wanted from a relationship as he wanted the same & now he doesn't..x

So what next?"

I have no idea,I guess I should respect his wishers..but I'm hoping he will change his mind..x

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We simply had a rather open relationship with a rule of "go out meet somebody,do what you like. It's only cheating if you take there number and meet again"

Then one day we heard of swinging, so went to a club and found we loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No,we use to swing together but then he lost all intrest. He hasn't wanted to for a while now..I tend to mention & try to talk

About it but he just doesn't want to know...yet in the beginning I explained what I wanted from a relationship as he wanted the same & now he doesn't..x

So what next?

I have no idea,I guess I should respect his wishers..but I'm hoping he will change his mind..x"

Good luck. x

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

I asked her if she fancied going to a swingers club , and she said yeah , it was as simple as that really

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I asked her if she fancied going to a swingers club , and she said yeah , it was as simple as that really "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us, it vwas her that had been in the scene with an ex partner but back then they attended parties and all sorts,dont think the love was there tbh.

Anyway, after a good while of being serious and us getting close,we was talking 1 night in bed about what wed like to do fantasy wise and she asked me if id like to see her with another female..my eyes lit up went from there really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started off just enjoying the exhibitionisium & voyeurisuim of nudist beaches with others

until the offer of some discrete hands on fun come along which we couldn't resist !

Never looked back !

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Watching a DVD of action in a playroom at La Chambre together, and decided to give it a try; the club was close enough. It was even better than we'd expected!

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