FabSwingers.com forum: swigers prog ch4

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not sure if any one seen but there's a program on ch4 tonight at 10 on swingers just in case you need a giggle lol they are normally way off ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wi watch it as always a giggle those programs, wonder how many will be wearing masks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last one of these we watched was terrible, full of ugly 30 stone women, people wearing their mums knickers, people who had threesomes with dolls... Was totally rediculous.

I have seen playboy TVs Swing tv show though that's all about real people swinging for the first time and being filmed and I'm not ashamed to say Ive watched and had a little play at the same time with myself... VERY hot! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is starting now

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Rather looking forward to it - especially now having been there, seen it, done it and done it again, and again

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More stupid masks

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

Annoyed already. Twats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoyed already. Twats!"

seconded

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Can't they just blur faces rather than daft masks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder if anyone on fab is on this programme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wonder where the first party was

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Wonder if anyone on fab is on this programme "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder if anyone on fab is on this programme

Does that mean you are ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll see what you guys say about it, then I might 4oD it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoyed already. Twats!

seconded"

Elite??? What a bunch of pretentious knobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The elite of swinging, must be doing it wrong

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Wonder if anyone on fab is on this programme

Does that mean you are ? "

No I'm not...

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Oh golly... Don't think we would be short listed.. But would we want to be!?

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By *hristeresa12Couple
over a year ago

Totnes

Doubt it, the whole thing looks like a complete spoof so far!!!!

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By *eanandJulieCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Why do all these people look ill ??? There all look like the need feed ffs, someone run out a buy them a sandwich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do all these people look ill ??? There all look like the need feed ffs, someone run out a buy them a sandwich."

Thats what the elite look like!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do all these people look ill ??? There all look like the need feed ffs, someone run out a buy them a sandwich."

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what the fuck has running got to do with parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

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By *eanandJulieCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Think this is a set up , they must all be actors cos we never been to a party like that. Tell em to come round here we will tell em like it is lol

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By *hristeresa12Couple
over a year ago

Totnes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last one of these we watched was terrible, full of ugly 30 stone women, people wearing their mums knickers, people who had threesomes with dolls... Was totally rediculous.

Why is it ridiculous? Does everyone have to meet YOUR requirements for swinging? Are their fetishes in some way less than yours because you're not into that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

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Yes at least they should have some muscles, maibe a 6pack too lol.

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By *hristeresa12Couple
over a year ago

Totnes

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

No not at all, I thought it was an equal opportunities activity that was my point. This is implying you can only swing if you are under 30, rich and skinny which is of course bollocks!!

No offence to skinny people intended!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wi watch it as always a giggle those programs, wonder how many will be wearing masks

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all wearing masks. They are scaring me...esp the ones with long noses haha

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By *hristeresa12Couple
over a year ago

Totnes

"what the fuck has running got to do with parties

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well somebody has to run them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what the fuck has running got to do with parties

well somebody has to run them!!!

lol, looks like a load of crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

I don't think that is the point that was meant but this is a weird take on sex parties wouldn't you agree? I wouldn't have my 18 yo son there though... yikes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

€150 for a bottle of Veurve Cliquot....flaming Nora!!!

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By *eanandJulieCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

He's running cos he just found out how much the drinks are gunna cost him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's running cos he just found out how much the drinks are gunna cost him lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's running cos he just found out how much the drinks are gunna cost him lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

I don't think that is the point that was meant but this is a weird take on sex parties wouldn't you agree? I wouldn't have my 18 yo son there though... yikes!!!"

No I don't think it's weird at all. It's about a certain type of sex party.

If it was about a BBW club night everyone on here would be bitching about how all the people on the show were fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far this looks like your typical stereotyping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

I don't think that is the point that was meant but this is a weird take on sex parties wouldn't you agree? I wouldn't have my 18 yo son there though... yikes!!!"

Forgot to add- I think they are bloody rude to show off in front of their son. They should respect him and be more discreet, he was clearly embarrassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder if anyone on fab is on this programme "

I would say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do the people on these programs always have to have some kind sad back story to make it seem as if you need to be damaged in some way to enjoy swinging?

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"Why do the people on these programs always have to have some kind sad back story to make it seem as if you need to be damaged in some way to enjoy swinging? "

I know... Shame - would love to see it being depicted as the fun most of us see it as.

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

The point I was trying to make is that swinging is not exclusive to skinny people or fat people or any other kind of people and I'm not a great fan of exclusivity, but just my view. We agree on the fact that having your son there is just plain wrong. Some people just don't have any idea how damaging that could be for someone of that age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all looks very glossy on the surface but to be honest, nobody looks like they're much fun...it's middle class navel gazing dressed up as swinging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that most peeps are waiting for the advert break to post!!!!

Me included of course.

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

Because clearly there must be something wrong with people who swing because it doesn't fit with societies expectations of how we all should be!

Simply good fun in my book!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The point I was trying to make is that swinging is not exclusive to skinny people or fat people or any other kind of people and I'm not a great fan of exclusivity, but just my view. We agree on the fact that having your son there is just plain wrong. Some people just don't have any idea how damaging that could be for someone of that age."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The elite of swinging, must be doing it wrong "

but he wasnt very elite - to lose all those properties and money by the age of 23 was he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll never be able to go to Alton Towers again!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is a swinger partie from fab like that? like an orgy lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Can't they just blur faces rather than daft masks?"

I agree

I think it's the programme makers trying to be discreet in a complementary way, but it creates such a false impression.

It puts me off masquerade parties, to be honest, which previously I was quite interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't you take the girl who to go to gangbangs to see your parents if wanting a relationship? You aren't actually going to discuss it over you roast dinner with them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll never be able to go to Alton Towers again!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank God that's over. The elastic on those masks is murder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is a swinger partie from fab like that? like an orgy lol

Yes. Well perhaps not all Fab parties.

But yes, ignore the masks/ ages/ body types... it's the same as you'd see (and hear!!) in open rooms in a busy club. x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I did find that pretty strange that she had her son there..

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I only saw the second half...was the first half any better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine ties in a bow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only saw the second half...was the first half any better?"

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I'm watching on plus one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why wouldn't you take the girl who to go to gangbangs to see your parents if wanting a relationship? You aren't actually going to discuss it over you roast dinner with them!! "

I love a spit roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add- I think they are bloody rude to show off in front of their son. They should respect him and be more discreet, he was clearly embarrassed. "

I was cringing for him!!

Honestly what are some people like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, nuff said

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Reminded me of the story from the Bible Sodom and Gomorrah

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

Skinny bashing, it's in vogue right now, especially on websites like, well...

Remember folks: bash the skinny, not the fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why wouldn't you take the girl who to go to gangbangs to see your parents if wanting a relationship? You aren't actually going to discuss it over you roast dinner with them!!

I love a spit roast

You wouldn't do that with your parents either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the most genuine and interesting one was the female into the gangbangs.

Most of the others pretty way out and not like the majority in my opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why wouldn't you take the girl who to go to gangbangs to see your parents if wanting a relationship? You aren't actually going to discuss it over you roast dinner with them!!

I love a spit roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought is was well balanced. It showed that for some people it was fun and for others it messed them up.

I recognised three people in the program. One couple and one half of a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way, Way off the mark these programs....the woman in Ibiza was just ripping people off....

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Not a bad take on that side of the scene. And for once the makers didn't make people that partake in the lifestyle out to be sinful dribbling deviants.

Best comment of the show...

"If you are not strong in your relationship you should never set foot in a place like this!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And looked the only real attractive woman in the programme.... I'd take her to meet my mum if she wasn't wearing that damn mask!!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

They interviewed ten people, it's hardly likely that will accurately reflect the entirety of the swinging population.

"But they aren't like me!" gasps Fab in unison.

Having said that, the couple who were on towards the end seemed nice and normal, wish they had spent more time with them.

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By *etleyBitterMan
over a year ago

wakefield

wasted hr ov my life stayin up watchin that crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Champagne sipping yuppies that are proberly more interested in the cleaning bill, than putting the work into a blow job.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

I don't think that is the point that was meant but this is a weird take on sex parties wouldn't you agree? I wouldn't have my 18 yo son there though... yikes!!!

Forgot to add- I think they are bloody rude to show off in front of their son. They should respect him and be more discreet, he was clearly embarrassed. "
Probably wondering which poor twat had to shag his airhead mother..lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"They interviewed ten people, it's hardly likely that will accurately reflect the entirety of the swinging population.

..plus sex parties aren't EXACTLY the same as swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They interviewed ten people, it's hardly likely that will accurately reflect the entirety of the swinging population.

"But they aren't like me!" gasps Fab in unison.

Having said that, the couple who were on towards the end seemed nice and normal, wish they had spent more time with them."
I quite liked that couple too, they seemed open and comfortable with the whole scene. This wasn't really a programme about swinging as such any way, just about these particular types of parties so we were never going to get a rounded view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cmon theres a prettier younger crowd go to vivente .......did anyone see anything there that you do not get in your local club ?

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By *rseInGearMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Watching this now on +1. It looks like those parties are for hoo har henries so far.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Yes agreed she was charging a lot, though the reason being is was to create exclusivity. The people that attent those party's are more than happy to pay the entrance fee and £200 for a bottle of fizzy wine. Like the guy on the door suggested that party and others like it attract well known people because they feel safe in that environment because they are exclusive.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"They interviewed ten people, it's hardly likely that will accurately reflect the entirety of the swinging population.

"But they aren't like me!" gasps Fab in unison.

Having said that, the couple who were on towards the end seemed nice and normal, wish they had spent more time with them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They interviewed ten people, it's hardly likely that will accurately reflect the entirety of the swinging population.

..plus sex parties aren't EXACTLY the same as swinging."

I agree. And I thought the 2 young women summed this up when saying that they would never want to be in a relationship with someone that goes to a sex party, and that they couldn't imagine seeing someone they really liked having sex with someone else.

Those 2 comments, to me, highlighted that this was a programme about people who have sex at parties, but who don't subscribe to the swinging philosophy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They interviewed ten people, it's hardly likely that will accurately reflect the entirety of the swinging population.

"But they aren't like me!" gasps Fab in unison.

Having said that, the couple who were on towards the end seemed nice and normal, wish they had spent more time with them."

Was this the couple who said previously her relationship was like being in a birdcage, but that the relationship they have now is like being in a birdcage where the door is left open?

If so, I liked that couple too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a big house so going to have a party it's £500 to get in so see you all there ! Lol

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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east

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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east

"Annoyed already. Twats!

seconded

Elite??? What a bunch of pretentious knobs"

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"We have a big house so going to have a party it's £500 to get in so see you all there ! Lol

Look I'll pay a grand just make sure no riff raff gets in. Damn that's me barred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if that programme was a staged wind up !

It made it sound like a passtime for the good looking people . Id never get asked to a party .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer our parties. Fun and engaging people have fun there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought is was well balanced. It showed that for some people it was fun and for others it messed them up.

I recognised three people in the program. One couple and one half of a couple."

The chaps who runs one of the parties is on here. Him and his partner are great people and he does well for himself.

Don't see these parties as any different from any of the other parties on here that cater for a niche market?

Nothing but positivity towards them and I think well done for them to having a go at taking away some of the ill perceived seediness away from the scene.

At least there was no toffee munching dingbats this time.

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

Nobody said it was about swinging ??????

It's about sex party's

The party's are for a certain sort of people.

People that like a bit more of the finer things in life, go to work, look after there body etc. I would have no problem in paying 150 euro for bottle of champagne. That's cheap for Ibiza.

These party's seemed our kind of place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody said it was about swinging ??????

It's about sex party's

The party's are for a certain sort of people.

People that like a bit more of the finer things in life, go to work, look after there body etc. I would have no problem in paying 150 euro for bottle of champagne. That's cheap for Ibiza.

These party's seemed our kind of place. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather go to a party with people with the right attitude and with great sexual skills...that's my kind of elite...I'd rather be with people who will blow my mind.intelligence is important to us as well as respect and integrity ... Selection purely on age and physique...is a turn OFF !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We thought it was pretty rubbish x they not everyday sex parties

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Seems a bit strange that there seems to be an assumption in this thread that people who are good looking and young enough to attend these particular parties don't also have a good attitude, personalities, 'skills', or that they aren't interesting or engaging.

They are just like anyone else...they're just younger and better looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger and better looking than who

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By *ixxxWoman
over a year ago

London

"Nobody said it was about swinging ??????

It's about sex party's

The party's are for a certain sort of people.

People that like a bit more of the finer things in life, go to work, look after there body etc. I would have no problem in paying 150 euro for bottle of champagne. That's cheap for Ibiza.

These party's seemed our kind of place. "

not to get into a argument, I have not been in sometime but Killing Kittens parties are great!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems a bit strange that there seems to be an assumption in this thread that people who are good looking and young enough to attend these particular parties don't also have a good attitude, personalities, 'skills', or that they aren't interesting or engaging.

They are just like anyone else...they're just younger and better looking!

I didn't base my opinion about them being interesting or engaging on their age or appearance but on how they came across while being interviewed...they just didn't seem like much fun, to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand people's need to criticise others as to how they want to play? I detect bitterness.

We are all elitist to some degree in how we play! As someone posted above they prefer intelligence over physical attraction which in itself could be called elitist. There is nothing wrong in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought it was a bit of a snore really. Have never been to a party but watching something like this is off putting. I don't think the people involved had much charm or charisma, the parties looked weird, not fun. As ever with these sort of programmes, the participants end up being portrayed in an odd light

I would also hope that the average party would be much more relaxed and welcoming than those portrayed last night. Please tell me they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure artistic licence was used. Just like people were screaming when Channel 5 show fat hating documentarys. It's good business to sensationalise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The programme was about sex parties not Swinging / swingers as such.

The masks were used we think to protect identities as they are kind of synonymous with eyes wide shut / masked balls kind of scenarios ??

Personally thought it wasnt a bad programme, however once again in another thread the bitterness and jealousy shows through from some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love reading a lot of the negative feed back in some of these threads,

To me, you just make it look like you are unhappy with yourself in some way or another, when you try to put down others body type or sexual preferences

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

The programme showed to the great British Population that Shock Horror! People go to parties where they pay loads of money and have sex with total strangers!

It also portrayed that unless you are one of the beautiful, slim, hunky, and hideously wealthy then you have no right to be enjoying this kind of thing.

In no way did it portray what can be construed as the wider element of Swinging where people have lumps bumps and in general are more down to earth individuals who are not so far up their own arses that they are virtually invisible

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"The programme was about sex parties not Swinging / swingers as such.

The masks were used we think to protect identities as they are kind of synonymous with eyes wide shut / masked balls kind of scenarios ??

Personally thought it wasnt a bad programme, however once again in another thread the bitterness and jealousy shows through from some.

I expect the masks were just there for e the cameras as doing a daisy chain or sitting on someones face would have little benefit with a piece of card over it.

I would expect there are disclosure forms too.

Sex parties or swingers - some of them seemed accustomed to swapping partners others were in it for the titillation. Either way, it's nice to see them get out and try something. Wonder if any of them were worth a fuck

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Younger and better looking than who"

Younger than people too old for those parties due to the organisers' specified age range, and better looking than people who the organisers would deem not good looking enough to be allowed to attend, due to their preferences.

Science!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

uuuuph - can't be arsed correcting any of my post. Morning all

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

London/Suffolk

Ch4 at its best.

Start with a bit of titillation. Throw in a bit of back story like the poor little rich boy runner and rough diamond northern lass etc.

Then as it goes on reveal most have their hang-ups ie I like my gang bangs but I'm not sure I could ever be the girl you'd take home to your mum....sub txt - I'l never find Mr Nice. All that results in the message that however good the sex is dear viewer and however beautiful the bodies - you have a far more fulfilled life.

A final thought, what I found most interesting was the virtually all woman production team - except for the cameraman/interviewer. Did that make it easier to sell to the participants for Ch4?

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

Skills over looks everytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol this thread stinks of jealousy,,lol

ya gotta laugh

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I love reading a lot of the negative feed back in some of these threads,

To me, you just make it look like you are unhappy with yourself in some way or another, when you try to put down others body type or sexual preferences "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

Skinny bashing, it's in vogue right now, especially on websites like, well...

Remember folks: bash the skinny, not the fat!"

A recurring theme at the moment x

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"Reminded me of the story from the Bible Sodom and Gomorrah

You mean it was unbelievable and most likely made up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

I don't think that is the point that was meant but this is a weird take on sex parties wouldn't you agree? I wouldn't have my 18 yo son there though... yikes!!!

No I don't think it's weird at all. It's about a certain type of sex party.

If it was about a BBW club night everyone on here would be bitching about how all the people on the show were fat.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"lol this thread stinks of jealousy,,lol

ya gotta laugh"

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Not sure if the people being interviewed were real or not, but I'm convinced that the "sex scenes" towards the end of the show were fakes or done by actors !

Why do I say that ??

All the women being shagged on the beds had their high heels still on !!!

That is such a no-no at any swinging club we go to, due to the damage that the beds suffer from the high heels !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why was it all aimed at the rich? lol and not normal working class people. Program seemed so fake, full of fakers. Watched the first half,turned tv off went to sleep

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

hi guy, any chance you could tell me the program name so i can find it on the web..many thanks connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging with the fenkles was far better

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"why was it all aimed at the rich? lol and not normal working class people. Program seemed so fake, full of fakers. Watched the first half,turned tv off went to sleep

I've actually just re-watched the programme, only half watching it last night and I have to ask..

Why do you say this? I didn't see anyone "rich". I saw one self made guy who was fortunate to start with an inheritance and a bunch of other normal people. Ok, the Ibiza woman was rough as hell but, hey.

Why should they have interviewed "working class"?

How do you equate "well off" or "middle class" as fake?

I put it to you, that you have some spectacular chips on your shoulder.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

Skinny bashing, it's in vogue right now, especially on websites like, well...

Remember folks: bash the skinny, not the fat!

A recurring theme at the moment x"

It is and this thread highlights the social outlook of so many forumites in that they cannot stand the slim, or the moderately middle class.

I guess if many of these posters went to a sex party it'd be in a truck stop with a McD's as buffet.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why was it all aimed at the rich? lol and not normal working class people. Program seemed so fake, full of fakers. Watched the first half,turned tv off went to sleep

I've actually just re-watched the programme, only half watching it last night and I have to ask..

Why should they have interviewed "working class"?

How do you equate "well off" or "middle class" as fake?

I put it to you, that you have some spectacular chips on your shoulder."

i havnt lol just seemed fake. and yeah as for that false woman in ibiza,says it all.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

hi guy, any chance you could tell me the program name so i can find it on the web..many thanks connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do the people on these programs always have to have some kind sad back story to make it seem as if you need to be damaged in some way to enjoy swinging? "

you are so right I remember the dogging one a couple of years back . the people was well fucked up in the head but that can always be the editing .

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By *ervertsCouple
over a year ago

halesowen

Sex Party Secrets - you can watch it on 4OD

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

hi all.. many thanks for the link.. good job we live in the real world..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have both just watched it. and after 10 years of swinging would like to say to c4 what a load of fucking shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if many of these posters went to a sex party it'd be in a truck stop with a McD's as buffet."

....stay classy people of fab

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"I thought is was well balanced. It showed that for some people it was fun and for others it messed them up.

I recognised three people in the program. One couple and one half of a couple.

The chaps who runs one of the parties is on here. Him and his partner are great people and he does well for himself.

Don't see these parties as any different from any of the other parties on here that cater for a niche market?

Nothing but positivity towards them and I think well done for them to having a go at taking away some of the ill perceived seediness away from the scene.

At least there was no toffee munching dingbats this time. "

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

Skinny bashing, it's in vogue right now, especially on websites like, well...

Remember folks: bash the skinny, not the fat!

A recurring theme at the moment x

It is and this thread highlights the social outlook of so many forumites in that they cannot stand the slim, or the moderately middle class.

I guess if many of these posters went to a sex party it'd be in a truck stop with a McD's as buffet."

Almost did a little pee reading that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

Skinny bashing, it's in vogue right now, especially on websites like, well...

Remember folks: bash the skinny, not the fat!

A recurring theme at the moment x

It is and this thread highlights the social outlook of so many forumites in that they cannot stand the slim, or the moderately middle class.

I guess if many of these posters went to a sex party it'd be in a truck stop with a McD's as buffet."

This post made me burst out laughing in the middle of work...

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By *ebsandkevCouple
over a year ago

Crowborough

The hole programme made us laugh if these people think thay will have a better night out swinging in a posh pad and paying a lot of money than most of us swingers going to our fav clubs or the house party down the road then thay are so wrong, you just wont to meet sexy fun couples and you can do that anywhere and as for the famous people that swing been bumping into them for years as sure most of you have

keep it real and happy swinging

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Enjoyed it but didn't think it represented swinging as a whole but it did represent a part of it albeit far from what the majority experience here.

There's profiles on this site with those types of people and it should be expected too, after all "us" swingers are a cross section of society, sexual appetite/preference doesn't choose your class, wealth, income, expenditure, types of people from certain backgrounds etc., or anything like that. Swinging as far as we have seen/experienced has so many different elements/kinks, different types of people, it's as varied as society itself and it was nice to see this presented as it was. Just another insight from a different viewpoint for us.

That is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't meant to be representing the swinging scene though.....

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"It wasn't meant to be representing the swinging scene though....."

You're correct it wasn't but it definitely had swingers participating in swinging activities hence the "representing a part of it" I mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, they're all SO skinny!!!

So only fat ugly people can swing?

Skinny bashing, it's in vogue right now, especially on websites like, well...

Remember folks: bash the skinny, not the fat!

A recurring theme at the moment x

It is and this thread highlights the social outlook of so many forumites in that they cannot stand the slim, or the moderately middle class.

I guess if many of these posters went to a sex party it'd be in a truck stop with a McD's as buffet.

Almost did a little pee reading that

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Love lol xxx

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

" Not sure if the people being interviewed were real or not, but I'm convinced that the "sex scenes" towards the end of the show were fakes or done by actors !

Why do I say that ??

All the women being shagged on the beds had their high heels still on !!!

That is such a no-no at any swinging club we go to, due to the damage that the beds suffer from the high heels !!"

They weren't in swinging clubs though, they were all private parties I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to go to Jon Blue apartment parties (the fish biology guy with the blue hair - under the name of Little Liaison Parties). He is a really nice guy!

They were great fun, very intimate with a number of good looking couples, but sadly they got more popular and more expensive as the size of location and party increased and got more extravagant with costumes etc, and in our eyes no longer a "Little Liaison".

Glad to see he is doing well, and is fully embracing "his" lifestyle...

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