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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are thinking of going to a Torture Party event for the first time & wondered if anyone can advise on costumes.

Basically we are concerned about how much flesh on display is allowed. Mrs J is planning on wearing a chain bra which leaves her nipples on display & a similar micro mini which she would prefer to wear without knickers leaving her pussy pretty much visible as well.

Thigh length pvc boots & a huge black feathered venetian mask & dog collar completes the look.

If anyone can comment on whether the nudity element would be acceptable we would be appreciative.

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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago

Wallasey

from the TG events that i have gone to that sounds ok - dress to turn heads was how it was described to me

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Yep sounds fine, in fact you may feel slightly over dressed by some peoples standards. Mrs Sabrina has been known to arrive in thigh boots , rubber g string and black sticky tape over each nipple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to t.g when it came up to Manchester and had to borrow a friend's clothes as I didn't want to buy stuff just for one night....

If I got away with a latex mini dress and heels (i mean, look at me!) Then your planned outfits should be just dandy!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

As long as it can't be classed in anyvway shape or form as "street clothes" you should be fine. Naked or almost is so far as I'm away acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear what you like, there's no dress code other than 'no street clothes'. It's a fetish event, albeit a diluted tourist party these days.

Have look at the website photos for inspiration. Much better than simply asking on here.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

TG? nothing is too much or too little but, bear in mind, it's a posers club these days, nothing more nothing less.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The first TG I went to there was a pre op TS wandering around with a jewelled butt plug in. That was it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds like it might work then. Having had a look at the photos on the TG website Mrs J's outfit is rather bland in comparison.

On the other hand with her huge feathered mask & thigh boots she will stand at over 6'6". A nearly naked woman being that height being led around in a collar & chain should get some attention

At the moment however I have absolutely no idea what I am going to wear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to Torture Garden and they promote creativity. it doesn't necessary mean nudity, though if the outfit shows flesh then it would be ok. Just being topless or short skirt is not exactly anything out of the ordinary, the weirder the better.

Even though it is a fetish event, I would say it was all about image rather than sex.

I dressed in Regency period style when I went. My face was powdered white, my cheeks rosy, tiny rosebud lips and pink bouffant hair. My breasts were exposed in my dress, though the bodice of the dress made them look like huge stuck on melons, I looked like some kind of regency period blow up doll - but it worked and I had lots of comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TG? nothing is too much or too little but, bear in mind, it's a posers club these days, nothing more nothing less."

I would totally agree with this, posing rather than sex is the vibe - it suited me, I loved it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"TG? nothing is too much or too little but, bear in mind, it's a posers club these days, nothing more nothing less.

I would totally agree with this, posing rather than sex is the vibe - it suited me, I loved it "

Perfectly happy with the posing idea. We are aiming to meet up with some friends & can get down to some real action afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wore a latex skirt and heels and a corset

was fine

I.love this place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been to Torture Garden and they promote creativity. it doesn't necessary mean nudity, though if the outfit shows flesh then it would be ok. Just being topless or short skirt is not exactly anything out of the ordinary, the weirder the better.

Even though it is a fetish event, I would say it was all about image rather than sex.

I dressed in Regency period style when I went. My face was powdered white, my cheeks rosy, tiny rosebud lips and pink bouffant hair. My breasts were exposed in my dress, though the bodice of the dress made them look like huge stuck on melons, I looked like some kind of regency period blow up doll - but it worked and I had lots of comments "

That sounds like a really sexy outfit. Our trouble is a woeful lack of imagination & a severely restricted budget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are thinking of going to a Torture Party event for the first time & wondered if anyone can advise on costumes.

Basically we are concerned about how much flesh on display is allowed. Mrs J is planning on wearing a chain bra which leaves her nipples on display & a similar micro mini which she would prefer to wear without knickers leaving her pussy pretty much visible as well.

Thigh length pvc boots & a huge black feathered venetian mask & dog collar completes the look.

If anyone can comment on whether the nudity element would be acceptable we would be appreciative. "

the more naked you are the better, if you can throw some latex in, you're winning. Its an orgy basically... Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are thinking of going to a Torture Party event for the first time & wondered if anyone can advise on costumes.

Basically we are concerned about how much flesh on display is allowed. Mrs J is planning on wearing a chain bra which leaves her nipples on display & a similar micro mini which she would prefer to wear without knickers leaving her pussy pretty much visible as well.

Thigh length pvc boots & a huge black feathered venetian mask & dog collar completes the look.

If anyone can comment on whether the nudity element would be acceptable we would be appreciative.

the more naked you are the better, if you can throw some latex in, you're winning. Its an orgy basically... Enjoy! "

Mrs J naked always seems very popular. On the other hand me naked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going to the Valentines ball

Second time

You can't be too outrageous ...

Anything from full on naked to 100% covered and all in between

I was purchasing my outfit last night as it happens

Enjoy it's bloody awesome...btw it's not a swingers event nor is it a fet event tbh...pretty lightweight really....just an exhibitionists disco but fab all the same

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to one in Brixton a few years back..

Some guys were wandering around in what looked like shoes, school trousers and no shirts..

Many made wonderful expressive, showcasing "look at me darling" efforts..

TBH found it a bit naf night music wise .. but we did find the exhibitionist side shows rather entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been to Torture Garden and they promote creativity. it doesn't necessary mean nudity, though if the outfit shows flesh then it would be ok. Just being topless or short skirt is not exactly anything out of the ordinary, the weirder the better.

Even though it is a fetish event, I would say it was all about image rather than sex.

I dressed in Regency period style when I went. My face was powdered white, my cheeks rosy, tiny rosebud lips and pink bouffant hair. My breasts were exposed in my dress, though the bodice of the dress made them look like huge stuck on melons, I looked like some kind of regency period blow up doll - but it worked and I had lots of comments

That sounds like a really sexy outfit. Our trouble is a woeful lack of imagination & a severely restricted budget. "

You've said that Mrs J is very tall, so wearing very high heels and her height will make her stand out. You will have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For those who have never been, let me qualify some of the 'there's no sex' comments - it depends!

The smaller events through the summer are posers discos,but hey they are still a good night out! The bigger events, depends on the venue and the size of the couple's room - we were at the Not New Year party and were each tapped on the shoulder by the couples on either side of us to play.

It's less obvious in the open areas, but people find the like minded; just remember that the majority don't identify as swingers - though that doesn't necessarily mean they never play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys. Appreciated.

I think we will go with the planned outfit for Mrs J since the nudity part does not seem to be an issue.

I was thinking of wearing my tux with a venetian mask but will give it some thought. Certainly with a 6' plus virtually naked blond beside me I feel nobody will particularly notice what I am wearing anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also went to a big London event for the Valentine Ball and I did not see any penetrative sex within the main areas, I attended the Coronet and has various themed areas. There were also small rooms for light BDSM activities but many people were sitting around in these rooms or having a try of the equipment amongst friends rather than serious BDSM play.

There was a couples room and there was a lot of kissing with oral sex being the most extreme going on. I have seen far more at any swinging club than here.

That being said it isn't a swinging club and whilst it is advertised as a fetish club it seemed rather tame compared to stories I've heard of other fetish clubs. I went for the sheer theatrical experience, the different acts etc and I loved it. Its not all about sex all the time and it certainly appeals to a younger alternative crowd. I think we were probably the oldest in there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also went to a big London event for the Valentine Ball and I did not see any penetrative sex within the main areas, I attended the Coronet and has various themed areas. There were also small rooms for light BDSM activities but many people were sitting around in these rooms or having a try of the equipment amongst friends rather than serious BDSM play.

There was a couples room and there was a lot of kissing with oral sex being the most extreme going on. I have seen far more at any swinging club than here.

That being said it isn't a swinging club and whilst it is advertised as a fetish club it seemed rather tame compared to stories I've heard of other fetish clubs. I went for the sheer theatrical experience, the different acts etc and I loved it. Its not all about sex all the time and it certainly appeals to a younger alternative crowd. I think we were probably the oldest in there "

Having done a little bit of research on TG events we are not really expecting a totally depraved orgy with lots of indiscriminate public fucking going on. It would be nice.

I think you are right in suggesting we simply aim to enjoy the theatricality of the evening. We will dress up, enjoy some exhibitionist fun but for anything more we will be aiming to meet up there with someone from fab.

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