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All in the Chase.? what you think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Difference between male and female orgasms, men come and then lust drops suddenly,A woman its slow the excitement was built up throughout the sex and keen for a follow-up and available.For him I gotta shag her , but once its done its done. So if a beauiful girl comes up to you and say lets have sex at mine , would a man find her less attactive then a girl who is not as pretty, but who you ve had to work hard for ???? Do you think men are put off ladys if to keen?? So is it better to play hard to get ,, lol not just open your legs say come get it boys ,, lol kisses jo xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think guys would be put off, if a lady is a little forward, lol. Although the thrill of the chase can be a massive turn on

Most guys, being simple animals, like an easy life and would prefer not to have to fight for it.

Leaves more energy for the next encounter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think guys would be put off, if a lady is a little forward, lol. Although the thrill of the chase can be a massive turn on

Most guys, being simple animals, like an easy life and would prefer not to have to fight for it.

Leaves more energy for the next encounter "
you do make me smile here with your posts ,, your so open and say it how it is love that. xx Us woman are not simple maybe animals X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think guys would be put off, if a lady is a little forward, lol. Although the thrill of the chase can be a massive turn on

Most guys, being simple animals, like an easy life and would prefer not to have to fight for it.

Leaves more energy for the next encounter you do make me smile here with your posts ,, your so open and say it how it is love that. xx Us woman are not simple maybe animals X "

Thank you Jo XX

You're not kidding about women not being simple animals..... they are the most complicated beings on the planet. They are like Chameleons.... ever changing. They even keep moving the fookin "G spot" just to confuse us blokes.... I often say to Kate "well it was there yesterday!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think guys would be put off, if a lady is a little forward, lol. Although the thrill of the chase can be a massive turn on

Most guys, being simple animals, like an easy life and would prefer not to have to fight for it.

Leaves more energy for the next encounter you do make me smile here with your posts ,, your so open and say it how it is love that. xx Us woman are not simple maybe animals X

Thank you Jo XX

You're not kidding about women not being simple animals..... they are the most complicated beings on the planet. They are like Chameleons.... ever changing. They even keep moving the fookin "G spot" just to confuse us blokes.... I often say to Kate "well it was there yesterday!!" "
if kate was bi i would offer to find her G spot ,, lol us woman know where is hiding ,, lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

bearing in mind I think I have the flirting awareness of a anoemba.... and for me to read signs they would have to be written in flashing neon lights, If any woman was that interested in me then I would be really flattered

I women should be encouraged to be more forward... easier for us shy guys then (no laughing at the back!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bearing in mind I think I have the flirting awareness of a anoemba.... and for me to read signs they would have to be written in flashing neon lights, If any woman was that interested in me then I would be really flattered

I women should be encouraged to be more forward... easier for us shy guys then (no laughing at the back!!!)"

To late im snortin like a donkey! How did your driving go. Nice cock - Was that too forward ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a beautiful woman wants to come and tell me to shag her being the caring soul I am I'd find it hard to let her down!! lol

I really like it when a lady is sexually confident enough to say what she wants. Particularly if that involves me helping her get her rocks off.

Always be a giver as my old man told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bearing in mind I think I have the flirting awareness of a anoemba.... and for me to read signs they would have to be written in flashing neon lights, If any woman was that interested in me then I would be really flattered

I women should be encouraged to be more forward... easier for us shy guys then (no laughing at the back!!!)"

Fabio what you have just put is very interesting, I think I might be more forward in the future, cos normally I would not ask a guy I fancied to play but after what youve said had given me a differant insite to males lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"bearing in mind I think I have the flirting awareness of a anoemba.... and for me to read signs they would have to be written in flashing neon lights, If any woman was that interested in me then I would be really flattered

I women should be encouraged to be more forward... easier for us shy guys then (no laughing at the back!!!)

Fabio what you have just put is very interesting, I think I might be more forward in the future, cos normally I would not ask a guy I fancied to play but after what youve said had given me a differant insite to males lol "
see you pulled ... lol _abio ,,,,,,, see if you dont tell us we dont know .... nice to know how men work ,, lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a beautiful woman wants to come and tell me to shag her being the caring soul I am I'd find it hard to let her down!! lol

I really like it when a lady is sexually confident enough to say what she wants. Particularly if that involves me helping her get her rocks off.

Always be a giver as my old man told me "

proving men are equally complicated! it's attractive to be sexually confident, but have a one night stand and you're labelled a tramp (in 'polite' society), you like the thril lof the chase, but if we don't put out we're a dick tease.

I always thought of men as chasing the most beautiful woman in the world (as he perceives her), then, not believing his luck when finally getting her, he decides; well, if i can pull a looker like this, what else can i get? and off he trots to find someone better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought of men as chasing the most beautiful woman in the world (as he perceives her), then, not believing his luck when finally getting her, he decides; well, if i can pull a looker like this, what else can i get? and off he trots to find someone better"

I will put my hand up here and admit to being guilty of this

I'm not confident enough to do the chasing, but I have been "pulled" by ladies who I would have thought were out of my league, if that makes sense.

Now I'm thinking, I wonder if I could pull XXXXXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Difference between male and female orgasms, men come and then lust drops suddenly,A woman its slow the excitement was built up throughout the sex and keen for a follow-up and available.For him I gotta shag her , but once its done its done. So if a beauiful girl comes up to you and say lets have sex at mine , would a man find her less attactive then a girl who is not as pretty, but who you ve had to work hard for ???? Do you think men are put off ladys if to keen?? So is it better to play hard to get ,, lol not just open your legs say come get it boys ,, lol kisses jo xxxx"
jo, the truth stands. from my side, as a guy, when i find a woman attractive, i tell her immediately. life's too short to prevaricate. and reciprocally, if a woman finds me attractive, why wouldn't she tell me so. most do. the sexiest relationships i've ever had, have always been the result of immediate honesty. long, drawn out, complex evaluations of each other are boringly wasteful of time. xxx, michael (currently "partnerless" .. i wonder why)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the chase but there is a fine line between playing hard to get and being too standoffish. . Im happy to work for the goodies but only as long as there is some encouraging banter. . I am quite shy sometimes and it can make all the difference if a woman lets you know your efforts are wanted and appreciated. . . Otherwise it either gets boring for me or i wonder if it is a wind up/ or not wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a beautiful woman wants to come and tell me to shag her being the caring soul I am I'd find it hard to let her down!! lol

I really like it when a lady is sexually confident enough to say what she wants. Particularly if that involves me helping her get her rocks off.

Always be a giver as my old man told me

proving men are equally complicated! it's attractive to be sexually confident, but have a one night stand and you're labelled a tramp (in 'polite' society), you like the thril lof the chase, but if we don't put out we're a dick tease.

I always thought of men as chasing the most beautiful woman in the world (as he perceives her), then, not believing his luck when finally getting her, he decides; well, if i can pull a looker like this, what else can i get? and off he trots to find someone better"

sound advice from an expert

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When i was young and fancied a guy i loved the chase once i shagged them that was it, it was definetly the chase that turned me on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i was young and fancied a guy i loved the chase once i shagged them that was it, it was definetly the chase that turned me on"
see its not just the men that do it ,, lol woman too ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a medical fact that when men orgasm endorphines are released into the brain that make them want to relax/sleep.

It is a thing Mother Nature (bitch) put into our DNA, there was probably a good reason for it back in the days of clubbing women on the head and dragging them back to the cave.

It is easy to counter act the endorphines by simply resisting them for 5 minutes as thier effect does not last long but if you lay back and close your eyes your a dead un to thier will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

re the chase, unfortunately I think that is one of the reasons there are so many timewasters on sites, they love the chase, browsing the pics, chatting, getting flirty but once the trap falls they lose interest and never get round to actually meeting.

See the 1000 strong friends lists on some profiles, how many people have thought a meet was iminent only to find the contact ends suddenly and without apparent reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think you maybe right jed for some its just the chase and thats why alot get let down ,,,, never see it like that but you could be so right ... and friends lists i have lots i know i will not meet most alot of them just hate to hurt them and make them feel left out but maybe i should say on profile and take some off...

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