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By *iPeople OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So who prefers which and why?

I like occasional play with the same folks cause I get better sex that way ...when it works!

And you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never say never, but not really into one offs, like to get to know someone really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a few more than once always fun which is only a plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets are one offs, I have met a few guys regular in the past but I have found the more you meet someone the less effort they put into sex, its almost like they don't feel the need to impress you anymore so

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Both. I have a very good and reliable friend with benefits, but on here I like one offs. Clubs are great for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping for a regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a regular fb find it more fun the more we meet not into one offs but everyone to there own

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I love meeting new people - with the hope that it will become regular...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a regular, so don't know how it feels, but yes I like on offs as you don't need to have new things to chat about, so its just straight down to the sex. Plus there wont be any rejections after as well as its just one time you see them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never had a regular, so don't know how it feels, but yes I like on offs as you don't need to have new things to chat about, so its just straight down to the sex. Plus there wont be any rejections after as well as its just one time you see them lol "
we always find things to chat about before and after lol

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By *wistedtongue0220Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Both can be good... all depends on the people involved and how you 'click'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been seeing someone for 4 and a half years on a very regular basis. The sex is still fantastic and is still getting better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never had a regular, so don't know how it feels, but yes I like on offs as you don't need to have new things to chat about, so its just straight down to the sex. Plus there wont be any rejections after as well as its just one time you see them lol we always find things to chat about before and after lol "
Yes like how was peter andres new tv program or similar things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha more like what we goin to do to eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but prefer sex with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha more like what we goin to do to eachother "
lol yes that would be more fun to chat about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to find the right couple, for either a one off or regular meets. However, our past ffm experience (all very nice) has led us to the belief that a regular meet would be better, as nerves from all parties would be less predominant, hopefully leading onto more adventurous play times

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Prefer meeting with people we have met before as our time is so limited for meets with work we are avoiding any disappointment. One offs usualy happen at club nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. I have a very good and reliable friend with benefits, but on here I like one offs. Clubs are great for that."

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

From HER profile - We have a few guys we see on an on/off basis. A travelling salesman who we meet whenever he's within a 50 mile radius, we've been seeing him for 4 years or so. A couple of BBC's we hotel/club meet with quite often.

From this profile - we have one or two couples we meet a few times a year. Usually at clubs, sometimes hotels, depends whats easiest for us all.

As we're members of other sites, not just this one, we have a couple of regulars there too.

However, we attend a lot of greedy nights and organised orgies where it's mostly 1'offs which we're more than happy with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular couples meeting is good ,

but when either a single women or man becomes involved it gets complicated . X

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

I think we are finding that regular is seeking more what we are after, that said one offs clearly have their own advantages so maybe a bit of both!

Indecisive me not worked it all out yet!

Tig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to find a regular fb

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Both - we tend not to arrange meets but go to clubs and as such end up with one offs. That being said if you go to the same clubs you end up bumping into the same people and as such we often end up with round 2...3...4 etc

I think our ideal would be to have a few regular single males for Kate, mixed in with spontaneous club meets for us as a couple.

All in all though, like most on here with kids things can change last minute so we prefer not to arrange as it reduces the stress and disappointment for all concerned.

D

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We'd prefer regular but it would have to be with people who are aware of the agreement. We've heard of some horror stories and can understand why many have diverted themselves from this. -Mr.

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By *xpatscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"So who prefers which and why?

I like occasional play with the same folks cause I get better sex that way ...when it works!

And you?"

We'd say regular as then some sort of trust can be built up. And the fun can only get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex...that'll do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like stranger sex. There is nothing like the buzz of a new meet.

I find with regular meets the sex gets predictable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been seeing someone for 4 and a half years on a very regular basis. The sex is still fantastic and is still getting better "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regular fwbs and I'm looking for one at the moment but I do like the thrill of one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard work arranging meets at best of times so would prefer regular friends. Although had a couple of one offs. Only been to a club once an that would seems to the best source of one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They both have plus points but with regular meets you know what you all like and are much more comfortable around each other. Although we never say no to a one off though

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I prefer regular meet, it's very rare these days that I have a one off meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strangers, up until now, once or twice maybe. don't like to get involved with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like stranger sex. There is nothing like the buzz of a new meet.

I find with regular meets the sex gets predictable. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular sex buddy for me - one-offs with strangers have generally felt like executive masturbation due to the lack of connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to be seeing one of my regular partners this week. He has something special planned for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been lucky enough to have had great experiences with both, and each have their own place. While I prefer something ongoing, a one - off can definitely be great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to be seeing one of my regular partners this week. He has something special planned for me "

Lucky man - and lucky you

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"So who prefers which and why?

I like occasional play with the same folks cause I get better sex that way ...when it works!

And you?"

Each can have its pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who prefers which and why?

I like occasional play with the same folks cause I get better sex that way ...when it works!

And you?

Each can have its pleasures."

couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both can be good... all depends on the people involved and how you 'click'"

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By *hantomMan
over a year ago

folkestone

wife has 3 regular repeat callers, and each time gets better as more trust is built up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my meets are one offs, I have met a few guys regular in the past but I have found the more you meet someone the less effort they put into sex, its almost like they don't feel the need to impress you anymore so "

This, and the dummies get spat out if we meet others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined to find a regular FB or FWB but seem to only find one offs, definitely have to be open minded and as long as it's safe then in my eyes both can be fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my meets are one offs, I have met a few guys regular in the past but I have found the more you meet someone the less effort they put into sex, its almost like they don't feel the need to impress you anymore so "

agree with this. I like the thrill from playing for the first time as well. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my meets are one offs, I have met a few guys regular in the past but I have found the more you meet someone the less effort they put into sex, its almost like they don't feel the need to impress you anymore so "

bit too much like being married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who prefers which and why?

I like occasional play with the same folks cause I get better sex that way ...when it works!

And you?"

Overall motive behind playing comes in really handy. However you will play with some and would always keep wanting more of such meets from them while with others you never want. I think sexual chemistry and well being is key for any type of meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regulars. If its a one off, and I enjoy it, I try to make it a regular thing.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I have a nice little circle of Fab friends now and that works for me as a single male.

I'm always happy to meet new people but it is not easy with all the timewasters, fakes and the genuine busy lives people lead!

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Both!

I'd say equally, but I do like first meets - the anticipation heightens the feeling. That said knowing someone can help you pleasure each other better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been seeing someone for 4 and a half years on a very regular basis. The sex is still fantastic and is still getting better "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found regular liked her so much we play as a couple lol

I think it's harder to keep the fun fresh but that in itself provides more fun !

So now we are looking for regular couples to hopefully start a new way of having fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iprefer reg just sadly I haven't found it yet

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By *upcake68Woman
over a year ago

Ely

What is classed as regular?

If you are meeting 2/3 times per week then yes, the thrill does wear off & like some have said, it just becomes everyday sex & can be lack-lustre to say the least.

I have a reg FWB, who i have been meeting for a year now, once a month. Each time is amazing as it's like the thrill of the first time but without the awkwardness etc of a first meet. Building that rapport & trust etc is very important to me, definitely prefer regular than one off's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is classed as regular?

If you are meeting 2/3 times per week then yes, the thrill does wear off & like some have said, it just becomes everyday sex & can be lack-lustre to say the least.

I have a reg FWB, who i have been meeting for a year now, once a month. Each time is amazing as it's like the thrill of the first time but without the awkwardness etc of a first meet. Building that rapport & trust etc is very important to me, definitely prefer regular than one off's! "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Regular, don't want more notches on the bedpost anyway, and the sex gets better and better with regular meeting.

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By *um and get it.Couple
over a year ago

Spalding

Stranger preferred here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A FB or two for regular fun and the occasional new meet too

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Much prefer regulars. More comfortable with one offs with ladies and couples than I am with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like a regular FWB that knows what makes you tick.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stranger preferred here."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a regular FWB, no luck though !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some regular, irregular FWB (and CWB: Couples With Benefits That an acronym people use?). By the time we meet up once every 9-12 months it's like we're strangers again and are gagging for it!

I do like one-off stranger meets too of course. Most exciting. But then I am a bloke so I tend to like 99% of sexual scenarios that come my way...

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By *upcake68Woman
over a year ago

Ely


"Nothing like a regular FWB that knows what makes you tick......... "

Totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular! I like to find friends I have a little bit of a connection with. One off's with random's seldom do anything for me!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Both can be good... all depends on the people involved and how you 'click'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of a regular fuck buddy for us, but at the same time, they become too friendly and 'into' our relationship... before ya know it, were in a triangle! Lol. But if we were the meet the same person more than once, then a few months space between each meet would be ideal. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes its hrd to find a regular whos free when you are, so wen your all horny an looking for a +1 or +2 then stranger sex it is

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like a little of both but having someone who I can get to know and vice versa in order to have some mind blowing times would be the ideal. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a little of both but having someone who I can get to know and vice versa in order to have some mind blowing times would be the ideal. X"

yeah weve said that

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We love having a regular sex buddy

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

Regular but not too frequent is what I am seeking. Regular because that way you get to know each other's foibles, what turns each person on and the trust builds. As that happens the sex gets better and better. Not too frequent (say 3-6 weeks)because that keeps it fresh and exciting - helps the anticipation build and anticipation is half the fun!

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

CANTERBURY

I like a mix. I often go to clubs with a regular friend and we play as a couple with others or just with each other. When we stay in, we enjoy the moment and know what we both like.

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By *laineabdneilCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

The different smell, touch and taste of stranger sex is a huge turn on

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

we have met a couple who we meet on a very regular basis ,,,, not always for sex but if it happens then fantastic , sometimes we are to busy chatting and larking around and find out that we have left it to late for a bit of naughty fun ,,,,, but if that happens then so be it , always the next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think both have their benefits, but generally for us, it's so much more fun with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a regular

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Bit of both.....would you have the same meal every day of the week.

I say in my early days I had semi regulars, both at clubs and socials

But now I would say semi regular but with new people as well

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

I perfer fb which is regular thing was loads but it like on weekend we know and feel comfortable with each other we go out together aa friends.when we havent seen each other better but we alway do something different so regular for me as someone you get to trust

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By *iPeople OP   Man
over a year ago

London

amazing range of views!

a regular buddy with whom i can experiment with is my fave

rare though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular, don't want more notches on the bedpost anyway, and the sex gets better and better with regular meeting.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I would prefer regular sex..more often than once a quarter anyway

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"I would prefer regular sex..more often than once a quarter anyway "

once a quarter! you're spoilt

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