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do winks actually mean anything ??? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

??????????????????? if so what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"??????????????????? if so what "

Nope x I ignore the ones I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it and send them as a sign of interest.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I take it and send them as a sign of interest. "

Us too. Just means to us 'Hey nice profile' we'd be interested if you are maybe

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By *wo of us 1971Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

We like winks and always have a look at profiles that wink us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never looked at mine. For a while hadn't even spotted them and then thought it would be interesting to keep count of them which you can't do if you look. So far am 80 away from 1000. I'm hoping for a prize when I get there

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Used correctly , I take them to be an indication if interest and will usually reply back with further details ( assuming that I satisfy the selection criteria ) . Sometimes I receive winks from couples who do not wish to meet single men , so do not reply .

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We use it as a way of gaging interest and always look at the profiles of those that wink us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us a wink is like a smile across a room and a great way to see if there is any mutual interest

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We check them and send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is silly when a user winks with nothing on his/her profile like images and the information is sparse... surely a wink is expressing an interest in you and please check me out?

If I check out a user who has winked and there are no images and little info I just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a form of commuication. w describe what means to us on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame a lot of people disregard winks as its a great way of showing interest and they can check your profile and then hopefully wink back and then messaging can begin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From me it means i thought u was fit but coulfnt be chuffed messaging

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

Is "Winks" a new club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do look at who's winked, but it's mostly from people who haven't read my profile. However, if they have read it and I think we match up, then I'll wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's clear on the site help and FAQs pages. They are what they say. Just that some people decide to ignore them...as is their choice!

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Winking in clubs works for me..!

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By *un for 2Couple
over a year ago

The West

We think winks are great as it proves in a lot off cases that people have looked at you profile and are interested in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we like winks, and treat them as someone showing interest in us, we wink at profiles we like too, and hope to get a wink beck, if we do, we will mess and say hi, if we don't, then we will probably still message and say hi, (if they are cute!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From me it means i thought u was fit but coulfnt be chuffed messaging "

Same as us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like them, if a couple winks and we're interested after looking at their profile we'll either wink back or message them.

We disregard winks from single men though as they are usually from guys who don't match what we ask for in our profile, and more than enough message as it is so we really don't need to look at them.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Most women get too many to care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it and send them as a sign of interest.

Us too. Just means to us 'Hey nice profile' we'd be interested if you are maybe"
I think the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rarely look, I get loads

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By *hropshire irishMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

I don't really bother with them.

At first I'd message back with a face pic if I was interested but nothing ever happened from that. Usually didn't even get a reply. So I decided to go down the minimal effort route of just winking back and again nothing has ever happened from doing so and in most cases don't even get a response to the wink back.

I do laugh though when I receive winks from couples that mouth off saying if anyone winks at them they'll be blocked

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"??????????????????? if so what "

it means you actually managed to find the wink button.... nothing more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women get too many to care"

really?

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"To us a wink is like a smile across a room and a great way to see if there is any mutual interest "

Thats how I intend a wink to be taken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them to show im interested in there profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd turn them off if I could and save thinking you going to look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it and send them as a sign of interest. "

I ask for interested people to wink if they're interested. Not everybody can articulate what they want in an opening message so for me it's a useful 'ice breaker'. Fab is generally a sexually liberates site but even now some people struggle to make the first move.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i just ignore and delete them ..total waste of time

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"To us a wink is like a smile across a room and a great way to see if there is any mutual interest

Thats how I intend a wink to be taken!"

trouble is theyre usually from faceless fantasists with no profile and that live 100s of miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks, shows interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it and send them as a sign of interest. "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To us a wink is like a smile across a room and a great way to see if there is any mutual interest "

Exactly the way I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For blokes no as we rarely get any

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By *razymadlunaticsCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Dunno... nothing really seems to work for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For blokes no as we rarely get any "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had quite a few off couples and females so always reply with a thanks for the wink and take it from there

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"??????????????????? if so what "

don't mean anything to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if someone winked at you in a bar...? You'd take it as a sign of interest obviously, so I'd expect its same rules here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they have threads on here bit of fun or it could be look at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lovely lady winked at me when I first joined, we're now fuck buddies so I guess they do !

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Most women get too many to care"

How would you know that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we read and send them , as others have said it shows a sign of interest in you, we respond to those we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we fab pics out of appreciation for a nice photo and wink if we like a couple . Winks are good way of expressing an interest....or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We send them as a sign of interest & like to receive them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with everything, there's no definitive rule book or manual that everyone HAS to abide by.

I just received a wink, went to look at the couple profile...and I had been blocked ...haha brilliant ... I think I'll manage not to lose any sleep over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also use them to show interest and expect its the same when we get them.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Express interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just ignore and delete them ..total waste of time "

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