FabSwingers.com forum: Hated

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone else ever been told their reputation is in tatters? Your the talk of fab? No one likes you? I'm not on any of the usual social networks due to the trouble they can cause so this was the first "chat" site ive been on.

We're all not going to get on but to make these sweeping statements just seem to be said just hurt me as much as

possible.

Im beginning to think maybe I am that bad and should leave. I'm so confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on here has been horrible to you? Most are ok surely. Just ignore the nasty ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why what have you suposed to have done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww sorry to hear this but please ignore these spiteful people. They're just lossers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone on here has been horrible to you? Most are ok surely. Just ignore the nasty ones"

Thanks but it seems it's quite a few who chat about me then send nasty messages. Most I've never even met

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Not sure what they have said or what you are supposed to have done... but does it really matter what some random stranger who does not matter to you really thinks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is abusive to you then just report the ugly fat feckers to admin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence to o p but one just blick and without knowing content i think at some stage we all had shitty messages just need to toughen up a bit.

Thats not cricicising just think you taking things to heart too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're getting upset or hurt by what some online people are saying then it's time to log off for a bit.

Without knowing who has said what or how exactly they are able to ruin your reputation it's hard to give advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure what they have said or what you are supposed to have done... but does it really matter what some random stranger who does not matter to you really thinks?

I wish it didn't matter but I can't say who one was but they hold a lot of influence and I feel I can't carry in swinging as they told me " my swinging reputation is in tatters" I fell out with a couple of women but surely that happens on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them. It's just sour grapes.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There are currently 24,000 people online I really wouldn't worry about a few people.

I doubt most even know you're here (no offence)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy, just report them to the mods lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are currently 24,000 people online I really wouldn't worry about a few people.

I doubt most even know you're here (no offence)"

Yes but local swinging communities are small and seem once your disliked that's it. Times up?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

How do they hold a lot of influence?

The only one that influences my actions on here is me, and I wouldn't get hung up about your reputation being spoken about either - I live in a small village and am a constant source of gossip...

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Not sure what they have said or what you are supposed to have done... but does it really matter what some random stranger who does not matter to you really thinks?

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"There are currently 24,000 people online I really wouldn't worry about a few people.

I doubt most even know you're here (no offence)

Yes but local swinging communities are small and seem once your disliked that's it. Times up? "

Then maybe it is time to move on then. As threads like this only draw unwanted & generally cynical attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are currently 24,000 people online I really wouldn't worry about a few people.

I doubt most even know you're here (no offence)

Yes but local swinging communities are small and seem once your disliked that's it. Times up?

Then maybe it is time to move on then. As threads like this only draw unwanted & generally cynical attention."

I know. I was just wondering if it's happened to anyone else as it feels like s lonely place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on here has been horrible to you? Most are ok surely. Just ignore the nasty ones

Thanks but it seems it's quite a few who chat about me then send nasty messages. Most I've never even met "
Thing they really really hate is to see your happy and having fun . So don't let them get to you and get you down .. As they love that . Get strong and show them your here to stay and loving it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are currently 24,000 people online I really wouldn't worry about a few people.

I doubt most even know you're here (no offence)

Yes but local swinging communities are small and seem once your disliked that's it. Times up?

Then maybe it is time to move on then. As threads like this only draw unwanted & generally cynical attention.

I know. I was just wondering if it's happened to anyone else as it feels like s lonely place

happens to me all the time, wonder why ?!!

hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey OP your making it sound like there's some sort of fab mafia gangs on here, how can a few messages damage your reputation?

Just report the messages and block those that are sending them! You really shouldn't worry about what others are saying about you, they are just strangers on an internet site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you chatting to people they like .? you on there turf in some way ..

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"There are currently 24,000 people online I really wouldn't worry about a few people.

I doubt most even know you're here (no offence)

Yes but local swinging communities are small and seem once your disliked that's it. Times up?

Then maybe it is time to move on then. As threads like this only draw unwanted & generally cynical attention.

I know. I was just wondering if it's happened to anyone else as it feels like s lonely place

Other people can only spoil your enjoyment if you let them.

Some folks enjoy winding others up and when they see someone starting a thread about it then they will probably be delighted to see that they have succeeded.

If people are being abusive or shit-stirring then the thing to do is to report the messages and Admin will deal with it.

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