FabSwingers.com forum: to many veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok does this put you off?

We had chance to play with someone and they have tons of them.

All good but, are we alone in that there were so many it kinda put us off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few but lots of them are from social meets. It doesn't put me off but I can understand why it would some people

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Depends, some people have loads of veris because they organise club nights, or hold regular house parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get lots of verifcations from meeting others at parties......

Anything else screams run away to me......as only like regular where trust is implict.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No these were meets, few socially. Almost 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me off.

Judgements are made, rightly or wrongly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity"

Exactly....quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also whose got the time or inclination to read every veri to see if its social or sex.

Especially when they are in the hundreds.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

It doesn't put me off at all...(a) the person/couple with 150 veris may have been on site 5 years or more so it averages out less than 1 meet per week...(b) there may be a lot of social veris from parties/clubs...(c) they may have many more meets which they haven't received verifications from...(d) the person/couple displaying only half a dozen veris may have hundreds more not displayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't put me off at all...(a) the person/couple with 150 veris may have been on site 5 years or more so it averages out less than 1 meet per week...(b) there may be a lot of social veris from parties/clubs...(c) they may have many more meets which they haven't received verifications from...(d) the person/couple displaying only half a dozen veris may have hundreds more not displayed"

Why would I want to tell the world about the perfect couple I've met........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends, some people have loads of veris because they organise club nights, or hold regular house parties."

+1 this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I want to tell the world about the perfect couple I've met........"

No one says you have to. Each to their own, some display some don't. We're all different which is what makes FAB fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't put me off in the least. It lets me know that the people/person know what they want and are good at finding it!

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Depends, some people have loads of veris because they organise club nights, or hold regular house parties.

+1 this

It was you I was on about, ya daft fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity"

you are assuming that just because someone has met a lot of people they will just meet anyone......

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not in the least. I go on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends, some people have loads of veris because they organise club nights, or hold regular house parties.

+1 this

It was you I was on about, ya daft fucker

Lmfao oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your into the club scene you may have a lot of veris doesn't mean you played with them all, the flip side of that coin you may of played with lots of people who you haven't received veris off

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Depends, some people have loads of veris because they organise club nights, or hold regular house parties.

+1 this

It was you I was on about, ya daft fucker

Lmfao oops

And some other friends on here that do similar x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ok does this put you off?

We had chance to play with someone and they have tons of them.

All good but, are we alone in that there were so many it kinda put us off.

You do realise this is a swinging site where people meet to fuck yeah?!!

Just checking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we got 6 veris from one club meet but only played with one of them - so no just amount doesnt put us off -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No why should it put us off?

This subject always makes me giggle!!

Damned if you don't meet and damn if you do!

We have a number of verifications, but we've been on the site for 3 years and we go to socials!

Someone may only show 1 veri and have 100 hidden!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity"

For him it could be quantity quality meets...just because you meet a few doesn't mean they're all 5*!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues..."

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity

you are assuming that just because someone has met a lot of people they will just meet anyone......"

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior...."

superior or just fucking posessive

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because people don't display a lot of verifications doesn't mean they haven't got them we know a couple that display 3 or 4 but have over 200

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

superior or just fucking posessive

dont think its either - we have it but worded differently -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

superior or just fucking posessive

dont think its either - we have it but worded differently - "

I'll have a look, but I'm thinking i might be perving the pics rather than reading

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Ok does this put you off?

We had chance to play with someone and they have tons of them.

All good but, are we alone in that there were so many it kinda put us off.

Was it just the number that it you off?

Or the content?

Or who they were from?

And what about all the people they meet on other sites who's veri's you'll never see?

And what about the club nights where they meet people that don't use internet sites so don't leave veri's?

And what about the random hook ups they may have off site?

And what if..............

What if they only showed two. You met them and had a great time? Left them a veri. And when you wondered why they didn't display it they said "oh, we had a problem before with someone not wanting to meet so we've left yours in storage with the other 1,432 we've had this year! You don't mind do you?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

superior or just fucking posessive

dont think its either - we have it but worded differently -

I'll have a look, but I'm thinking i might be perving the pics rather than reading

haha and you did too xxx Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

superior or just fucking posessive

dont think its either - we have it but worded differently -

I'll have a look, but I'm thinking i might be perving the pics rather than reading

haha and you did too xxx Sx"

skimmed through the text, yes , yours is slightly different..and it doesnt sound judgemental really...again its how people phrase things(or how it comes across)...but when I see the quality over quantity on many profiles(I would say especially on the single profiles), it always sounds like the agenda is there to judge who meets who and that they wont meet who met who because who has met who too many times,meaning they are a slag/slut/filthy/disease ridden etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity

Exactly....quality over quantity"

I'm greedy and like both... I enjoy a lot of fantastic sex with strangers and friends alike. I happily display my veries and the summary as I see no shame in enjoying sex in a variety of ways with a variety of people (not that I'm suggesting anyone who prefers to keep their fun private is ashamed in any way, we all use this site differently). Oh and for those who think I met too much, not all my meets have verified me and not all my sex comes from this site!

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

"Ok does this put you off?

We had chance to play with someone and they have tons of them.

All good but, are we alone in that there were so many it kinda put us off.

Not for us... We are all here to have fun and we hate time wasters.. Verie's prove that people are not time wasters.

We would rather meet players than people with issues, hang ups, insecurities, dreamers or no shows...

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ok does this put you off?

We had chance to play with someone and they have tons of them.

All good but, are we alone in that there were so many it kinda put us off.

So.... how do you know that the people you aren't 'put off by' don't have 200 or more veris that they don't display?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends, some people have loads of veris because they organise club nights, or hold regular house parties."

That's me then..... If people actually read them it shows I'm a social kinda guy...tho I do also meet one to one or just couples.

I display a good mix just to show I'm not a total tart lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw one once with around 500 and an preference to bareback in their text, that kind of put me off but at least they were honest.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity"

Yup I freely admit it usually puts me off.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more put off by someone who doesn't display any or hasn't got many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior...."

It amuses me when people meeting strangers for sex on an internet site think they are so fucking precious. But everyone else isn't.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the profile is well written with nice photo's and I'm possible what they're looking for after reading it I don't really bother looking at verifications. I prefer to make my own mind up about people. Verifications are lost when people leave or some just prefer not to show who they've met which is fair enough.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

This is a swinging site, is it not?

Over 10 years, we have had a lot of meets, that doesn't mean that we are any less excited, keen, careful or choosy over who we meet! Quality over quantity is just bollocks when you consider a couple who have done this for a long time!

Veri's are important tools in establishing who is real (lets face it, how many fake profiles are there on here?!), who will turn up, who has their shit sorted and won't freak out and it tells you about the kind of people you are dealing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a swinging site, is it not?

This

If someone is too shallow to see past my vari's then I wouldn't want to meet them anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

It amuses me when people meeting strangers for sex on an internet site think they are so fucking precious. But everyone else isn't..... "

Well your not meeting or chatting so muse away !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

It amuses me when people meeting strangers for sex on an internet site think they are so fucking precious. But everyone else isn't.....

Well your not meeting or chatting so muse away !

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a lot veries but if red properly folk would find out that we are not serial shaggers just very sociable too not all about notches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

It amuses me when people meeting strangers for sex on an internet site think they are so fucking precious. But everyone else isn't.....

Well your not meeting or chatting so muse away !

Really?

Nah i just typed it for the hell of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior....

It amuses me when people meeting strangers for sex on an internet site think they are so fucking precious. But everyone else isn't.....

Well your not meeting or chatting so muse away !

Really?

Nah i just typed it for the hell of it.

What does my profile have to do with anything??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior...."

Whilst I'm no way wishing to fuck my way through FAB (like that's ever going to happen lol!) I tend to agree that the use of the phrase 'quality over quantity' IS being used as a superior 'looks Down the nose' statement.

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity

Exactly....quality over quantity

If someone's veries bother you in any way then you're obviously not compatible, which is not an issue, but don't slate someone or make assumptions about them because you play a different way. Just look elsewhere for someone who's looking for fun the same way you are"
very well said Goldilocks , I couldn't agree more. This site is for having fun with like minded Fabsters if they are not "" your cuppa "" move on

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

"Yes if I man has too many veries must admit it puts me off.....I prefer quality over quantity

Exactly....quality over quantity

( sincere apologies predictive text Goldicocks x )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 2 on our profile, but they are from clubs. At clubs we are frankly, a pair of complete sluts. So just goes to show never judge a swinger by the veri's.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't understand why you would be put off by the number? The content maybe but not the number.

As always it's down to each individual person how they make their selections. But personally doesn't bother me at all.

I base my decisions on the person, both physical and mental attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, I suspect that those that don't like to meet people with a large number of verification's are really using this as another 'excuse' - or 'reason' not to meet, rather than simply being honest and saying 'sorry I just don't fancy you'

I do actually get the impression that there are some users on fab that seem to be looking for reasons not to meet people as opposed to actually looking for meets. I don't mean that as a whinge, but I'm sure some of you may agree that some profiles come across rather negative, especially those with a whole list of requirements, haves/have not's, do's and don'ts.

Of course, everyone is entitled to use this site as require and everyone has a right to be selective. I merely state this as an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no

and I'm not really keen on people who think because one has too many that it means the person has some 'quality' issues...

I think the quote "quality over quantity" is fast becoming a pet hate of mine. it's always said by those wishing to look superior...."

We agree , and that quote is far more likely to get us vexed than the amount of veri's .

To think that on a swinging site there are people who look down on those doing exactly that is laughable and extremely judgemental .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok does this put you off?

We had chance to play with someone and they have tons of them.

All good but, are we alone in that there were so many it kinda put us off.

then check out some or the verifications of the verifiers, the list goes on and on and yes can be very scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It don't put me of, but do I gues they were awesome in bed? lol.

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes I find it terribly off putting especially when its always the same names you see popping up. Always turns it into a big no for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok does this put you off?

We had chance to play with someone and they have tons of them.

All good but, are we alone in that there were so many it kinda put us off.

You do realise this is a swinging site where people meet to fuck yeah?!!

I know but I've been turned down by a couple because of the number of verifications, and variety of meets I've had. It's not even in the twenties

Just checking...

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

I find it a bit strange that people are so keen to publish verifications ( same also applies to sites such as ebay or recommendations for tradesmen ) . I have only ever used ebay twice and was extremely annoyed when the vendor asked for feedback . I would not go into any shops locally such as Tescos and leave feedback . Why do it on the internet ? To receive a verification you have to ask for one . If an evening goes well , the last thing on my mind would be to ask for a verification .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It don't put me of, but do I gues they were awesome in bed? lol."

Or someone had a cock to die for? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It don't put me of, but do I gues they were awesome in bed? lol.

Or someone had a cock to die for? Lol"
Yes that's a good line too lol.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Some may have just 5 on show... Don't mean to say there isn't another 100 they don't show? . And as many have said , lots can be social ones... Are some very sociable people out there too

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

What puts us off is people who judge others for the number of veris they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a bit strange that people are so keen to publish verifications ( same also applies to sites such as ebay or recommendations for tradesmen ) . I have only ever used ebay twice and was extremely annoyed when the vendor asked for feedback . I would not go into any shops locally such as Tescos and leave feedback . Why do it on the internet ? To receive a verification you have to ask for one . If an evening goes well , the last thing on my mind would be to ask for a verification ."

I have never asked for a verification and neither has my husband on his single profile

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What puts us off is people who judge others for the number of veris they have

If having an opinion and personal preference is judging then I guess everyone is guilty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats me buggered then I got 216 I should give up clubs and partys and not be so blooming socialable

as it happens I was only left a couple play verifications in nov and dec absolutely outrageous im gonna say no veri then no sex in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally am not swayed by veris,I take them with a pinch of salt! I prefer to chat to the person and make my own mind up not what someone elses opinion is of them..as they say don't judge a book by it's cover

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By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

We have a lot but get a lot from the socials we help run x

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