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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had an ex that used to like to be fucked up the arse with a strap on, loved anal beads, butt plugs and vibes too! Does this make him bi curious or is it all added fun for straight guys ?

Her !! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some guys will be like 'no way' but as a straight male I don't mind a bit of anal play. The way I see it, you shouldn't ask someone to do something if you wouldn't reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you take it to the next level and have a cock ?

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you take it to the next level and have a cock ?

Her x "

No, and I've never considered it. I'm just not attracted to men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had an ex that used to like to be fucked up the arse with a strap on, loved anal beads, butt plugs and vibes too! Does this make him bi curious or is it all added fun for straight guys ?

Her !! Xx "

If a woman's banging a guy with a strap on how does that make him bi to any degree ? now if a guy was doing it to him then maybe yeah, taking a cock obviously is a bit bi to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner loves a bit of anal fun but only from me ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I wasn't being judgemental I just was asking for your views as I recently had this discussion with some friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I wasn't being judgemental I just was asking for your views as I recently had this discussion with some friends!"

What was their conclusion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I wasn't being judgemental I just was asking for your views as I recently had this discussion with some friends!"

I'm sure you're not judging, I think it's a fair question. There will a lot of men too embarrassed to admit they enjoy anal play. But they'll be the insecure types.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I had an ex that used to like to be fucked up the arse with a strap on, loved anal beads, butt plugs and vibes too! Does this make him bi curious or is it all added fun for straight guys ?

Her !! Xx "

Added fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry I wasn't being judgemental I just was asking for your views as I recently had this discussion with some friends!

What was their conclusion?"

They said he was obviously bi curious ! My interpretation was it was added fun between two consenting adults !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I wasn't being judgemental I just was asking for your views as I recently had this discussion with some friends!

What was their conclusion?

They said he was obviously bi curious ! My interpretation was it was added fun between two consenting adults ! "

Did you say it was your hubby you're asking about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry I wasn't being judgemental I just was asking for your views as I recently had this discussion with some friends!

What was their conclusion?

They said he was obviously bi curious ! My interpretation was it was added fun between two consenting adults !

Did you say it was your hubby you're asking about?"

It was an ex long term partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They said he was obviously bi curious ! My interpretation was it was added fun between two consenting adults ! "

I agree with you. You having a strap-on doesn't make you a guy, he just liked anal play.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

If a lesbian uses a strap on with another girl does it make her straight!

Exactly it doesnt as they r both women and thats who they fancy

Does a man sucking anothers mans cock make them straight as a woman can suck a mans cock!

Of course it doesnt. Its not a sexual act that makes u gay. Its who u find sexually attractive. Which sex u fancy that determines sexual orientation

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"Would you take it to the next level and have a cock ?

Her x "

I'm happy for toys to be used in me by a women. But no to a mans cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, physically, it should be pleasurable for a guy if it's massaging the prostate, right?

I'm not into that kind of thing myself, but if it's just between a partner & as said above, then no - doesn't make him Bi.

But yes, if receiving from a guy - perhaps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've just got to look at the amount of threads that come up about strap-on play daily to see that it doesn't seem to have a bearing on sexuality.

Some guys may want to take it to the next level, some don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you take it to the next level and have a cock ?

Her x

No, and I've never considered it. I'm just not attracted to men."
Which I think is the crux of the label. Sexual Attraction generally defines your status. Though some might then try and argue that they don't need attractions to have sex with someone...

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's about what sex you're attracted to not what hole you like being used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's about what sex you're attracted to not what hole you like being used."

Put very directly yes! Its all about who you're doing it with not what you're doing.

Two men kissing is an indicator of gay or bi but kissing is an act carried out by any person irrespective of sexual orientation. People get too hung up on the anal thing

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