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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do guys think rubbing a woman's clit really hard is a turn on, it's really not good

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Works for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to know why guys curl their fingers up, a nail into my clit hurts!! Two fingers flat & firmly pressed down is best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it really painful lol

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Ah yes have to agree with that one x

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I guess we're all different, make the world a better place xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there isn't a rule that works for all? Soft, gentle, amount of pressure, sensitivity?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to know why guys curl their fingers up, a nail into my clit hurts!! Two fingers flat & firmly pressed down is best"
. Don't get me started on nails lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

worst i've had is when the guy ignores your clit and just shoves his fingers in and out fast and hard. only had it twice and both times their hand has been pushed away.

at least they give a shit about foreplay though, so that's good.

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Given the chance to do that on here would be a fine thing haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely there isn't a rule that works for all? Soft, gentle, amount of pressure, sensitivity?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times a woman is so sensitive that it's better to start by stimulating around her clit working sensually until passion builds. It's more about connection in the mind than just push here for an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love working out what kind of clitoral play a woman prefers . It's like cracking a safe ! Gently does it and listen for the right noises ! I think I could spend hours doing it if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys think rubbing a woman's clit really hard is a turn on, it's really not good "

You're assuming they can find it. Lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just communicate you don't like it before they do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a clitoris?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a clitoris?!"

It's a right off the hard shoulder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a clitoris?!"
it's a species of Racoon i think

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"just communicate you don't like it before they do it"

Yep! And if someone is doing something you don't like stop them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that the little dude in the hood?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do guys think rubbing a woman's clit really hard is a turn on, it's really not good

You're assuming they can find it. Lol "
well there is that lol some do need a map

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

surely every girls different

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I want to know why guys curl their fingers up, a nail into my clit hurts!! Two fingers flat & firmly pressed down is best"

Ooohhh I know! Some guys go at it like they are scraping off a scratch card! Not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that the little dude in the hood? "

Hahaha.... that's the 'lil fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just communicate you don't like it before they do it

Yep! And if someone is doing something you don't like stop them. "

simple really isn't it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"just communicate you don't like it before they do it

Yep! And if someone is doing something you don't like stop them.

simple really isn't it? "

To me yes but I often read threads like this and wonder if we've really moved on from the "lay back and think of England days" .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely every girls different "

Bit dumb to complain someone's doing it wrong but not tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many different techniques, and levels of sensitivity for different ladies, I'd say

Like some women, can barely stand their nipples being touched, but some practically will encourage you to chew them!

Then if course, sensitivity levels can change dramatically during play, so paying attention to they lady's responses, and making adjustments is key.

Can't imagine a finger nail in the clit, ever being very welcome though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just communicate you don't like it before they do it

Yep! And if someone is doing something you don't like stop them.

simple really isn't it?

To me yes but I often read threads like this and wonder if we've really moved on from the "lay back and think of England days" .

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or Wales

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"surely every girls different

Bit dumb to complain someone's doing it wrong but not tell them. "
. Oh I do tell them lol but some guys think they know what you like best lol even after you tell them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely every girls different

Bit dumb to complain someone's doing it wrong but not tell them. . Oh I do tell them lol but some guys think they know what you like best lol even after you tell them, "

Move away. Or leave.

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

I tend to spend the first minute or so using different pressure's etc, then go with the one that got the best reaction (him)

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"just communicate you don't like it before they do it

Yep! And if someone is doing something you don't like stop them.

simple really isn't it?

To me yes but I often read threads like this and wonder if we've really moved on from the "lay back and think of England days" .

or Wales "

or Scotland

Sometimes, I quite enjoy it rough over my clit, and other times feather light touches work better. And the same with my nipples, sometimes gentle other times I don't mind being bitten by a lover I trust - and thankfully my current lover is exceptionally skilled and reads me like a book for what is right!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"surely every girls different

Bit dumb to complain someone's doing it wrong but not tell them. . Oh I do tell them lol but some guys think they know what you like best lol even after you tell them, "

Thats when you get s testicle in a vice like grip and insist that despite him saying it hurts you know better and he really does like it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"just communicate you don't like it before they do it

Yep! And if someone is doing something you don't like stop them.

simple really isn't it?

To me yes but I often read threads like this and wonder if we've really moved on from the "lay back and think of England days" .

or Wales "

Of course! just an old saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's part of the fun, Finding out likes and dislikes it would be extremely boring if we were all the same

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Q, what's the difference between a golf ball and a clitoris?

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A. Men will keep looking for a golf ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clit is a strange little creature...no two the same....as I woman I tread or should that be lick/nibble/suck???? very carefully around a clit....xxxx

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Gentleman gentleman gentlemen. Just ask and feel, look, listen. Read the feck in sign ya nuptials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some things are copeable with when aroused that you would send a knee into the groin for if done from the off

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"Is that the little dude in the hood? "

Lol u so know where it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Q, what's the difference between a golf ball and a clitoris?

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A. Men will keep looking for a golf ball "

well costs a lot if you get a hole in one -

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Why not just tell him how and what you like after all we are not mind readers are we?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not just tell him how and what you like after all we are not mind readers are we? "
I did but he thought he knew best as to what I should like

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