FabSwingers.com forum: North south divide

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have noticed more ppl north of birmingham make more comments and first moves on here,

I (c) am a proud norther who speaks up lol (A) is a sotherner who is more chilled and does simple replieslol any1else have this or seehow many northernsandhow many southerners comment look or inbox xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have more northerners reply to mail than southerners. It's quite striking the difference.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

See I am a plastic norther lol......

I live in London, and a cockney by birth but I am up north 2 weekends a month normally.

I would say my mails are equally split the North South devide though I do have more ex swinger friends from up north

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We get quite a few messages from further north but living where we do thats not difficult

We assume that people find us scary and only feel safe from a distance of hundreds of miles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have more northerners reply to mail than southerners. It's quite striking the difference. "

Glad its not just me who thinks it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol.....thought this was a Korean debate having seen the news this morning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We get quite a few messages from further north but living where we do thats not difficult

We assume that people find us scary and only feel safe from a distance of hundreds of miles

Made me chuckle lol u cant be that scarey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"We get quite a few messages from further north but living where we do thats not difficult

We assume that people find us scary and only feel safe from a distance of hundreds of miles

You don't look scary

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We get quite a few messages from further north but living where we do thats not difficult

We assume that people find us scary and only feel safe from a distance of hundreds of miles

Made me chuckle lol u cant be that scarey "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We get quite a few messages from further north but living where we do thats not difficult

We assume that people find us scary and only feel safe from a distance of hundreds of miles

You don't look scary

Lol.....looks can be deceptive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just that people notice it more when it's replies/comments/messages from people miles away? I feel like I get loads of messages from people in London and the south!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it just that people notice it more when it's replies/comments/messages from people miles away? I feel like I get loads of messages from people in London and the south! "

Swap ya lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol"

This is a genuine question not meant to start an argument but why do lots of people call us southern softies? It's been said to us many times and we have no idea why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol

This is a genuine question not meant to start an argument but why do lots of people call us southern softies? It's been said to us many times and we have no idea why."

I reckon it's a weather thing. Northerners are used to the cold. Winter, northerners in t-shirts, southerners in big coats.

(Obviously a total generalisation.)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol

This is a genuine question not meant to start an argument but why do lots of people call us southern softies? It's been said to us many times and we have no idea why.

I reckon it's a weather thing. Northerners are used to the cold. Winter, northerners in t-shirts, southerners in big coats.

(Obviously a total generalisation.)"

Yea my mum is always going on at me to wear a vest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol

This is a genuine question not meant to start an argument but why do lots of people call us southern softies? It's been said to us many times and we have no idea why.

I reckon it's a weather thing. Northerners are used to the cold. Winter, northerners in t-shirts, southerners in big coats.

(Obviously a total generalisation.)"

Haha defo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a southener.spent years up north too i find northeners more fun and friendly.have to say southeners i have been seeing here and contacting me,are too far up their own.i know it cant be all of them.its just an observation from my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol

This is a genuine question not meant to start an argument but why do lots of people call us southern softies? It's been said to us many times and we have no idea why.

I reckon it's a weather thing. Northerners are used to the cold. Winter, northerners in t-shirts, southerners in big coats.

(Obviously a total generalisation.)

Yea my mum is always going on at me to wear a vest.

Just a vest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh us northerners are just bloody lovely thats why!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh us northerners are just bloody lovely thats why!!

Couldnnt agree more and clearly sexier and hornier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am a southener.spent years up north too i find northeners more fun and friendly.have to say southeners i have been seeing here and contacting me,are too far up their own.i know it cant be all of them.its just an observation from my experience."

Great observation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just that people notice it more when it's replies/comments/messages from people miles away? I feel like I get loads of messages from people in London and the south!

Swap ya lol "

Ok! They're no use to me

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Us southerners enjoy ourselves just as much but equally our northern friends are lots of fun too.

It depends on the people & not where they come as that assumption is just plain crazy lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Us southerners enjoy ourselves just as much but equally our northern friends are lots of fun too.

It depends on the people & not where they come as that assumption is just plain crazy lol."

Crazy i know well lol we just seem to get morenortherens making first moves lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it just that people notice it more when it's replies/comments/messages from people miles away? I feel like I get loads of messages from people in London and the south!

Swap ya lol

Ok! They're no use to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's colder up here in the grim north so we have to find inventive ways of staying warm! x

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

The site is more northern based as us in Essex co15 are classed as the midlands, because of the site error it comes across as people in the midlands are contacting you when they are southern based.

Simple computer script error mish mashes lots of areas, we ourselves have as much fun as our northern friends. We like to go up north a few times a year as we think northerners are lots of fun too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site is more northern based as us in Essex co15 are classed as the midlands, because of the site error it comes across as people in the midlands are contacting you when they are southern based.

Simple computer script error mish mashes lots of areas, we ourselves have as much fun as our northern friends. We like to go up north a few times a year as we think northerners are lots of fun too.

I think all the regions are bullshit on here to be honest, it's not just northern biased! Places like Leeds come up in the 'north east' category

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We get messages from people in Birmingham, Nottingham etc who are 180 miles from us in distance but as we are classed as East Midlands think we are local.

This does make the few who are actually classed as south seem few and far between.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

We area north/south couple. I (bugs) is northerner, Tigs is a southerner. I tend to look at more northern profiles than southern

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

The majority of my replies come from further south... but then there is not much of scotland further north than me

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

"The site is more northern based as us in Essex co15 are classed as the midlands, because of the site error it comes across as people in the midlands are contacting you when they are southern based.

Simple computer script error mish mashes lots of areas, we ourselves have as much fun as our northern friends. We like to go up north a few times a year as we think northerners are lots of fun too.

I think all the regions are bullshit on here to be honest, it's not just northern biased! Places like Leeds come up in the 'north east' category

The north east region is 'massive' on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmm can c a few weekends up north with hubby if thats the case

lol

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

"Hmmm can c a few weekends up north with hubby if thats the case

lol"

Might see you around then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm not sure how that works im from the south originally, grew up in the north and now I'm in the Midlands. I'm admittedly quite shy until I eith know people well or had a few drinks.

Paul is born and bred in the midlabds, he did do uni in yorkshire though and will chat/speak to anyone

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i think it is very much of the case of the "grass is greener" and you tend to notice things happening far away then you do on your own doorstep so to speak....

it think it also depends of how large your area of range for meets are as you always get the "why is there nothing going on in my town?" posts........

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol

This is a genuine question not meant to start an argument but why do lots of people call us southern softies? It's been said to us many times and we have no idea why.

I reckon it's a weather thing. Northerners are used to the cold. Winter, northerners in t-shirts, southerners in big coats.

(Obviously a total generalisation.)"

Some bloody toe rag pinched my overcoat last night in Leeds

I've had it twenty years and it was £500 new. To top it all it was my birthday too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from people across the whole of the uk - all of whom are lovely.

Naturally i meet more northerners though and therefore chat to them/meet them more often.

Though i chat to so many lovely southerners too that a long weekend in London is definitely on the cards! Xx

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

"I get messages from people across the whole of the uk - all of whom are lovely.

Naturally i meet more northerners though and therefore chat to them/meet them more often.

Though i chat to so many lovely southerners too that a long weekend in London is definitely on the cards! Xx"

Howabout a lovely weekend away in the quitecold north east?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a lot warmer friendlier up north manchester should be the capital not London lol . If we are not chatting to you southerners then we would have to chat with the Welsh , can't have that!!!!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

saying that most of my messages come from wales and ireland.....

so planning a trip to the emerald isle... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Born in Blackpool, taken down south aged 10, 30+ years later still class myself as Northerner

Iam a manchester lass moved south at 15 but am no southern softie northerner an proud lol

This is a genuine question not meant to start an argument but why do lots of people call us southern softies? It's been said to us many times and we have no idea why.

I reckon it's a weather thing. Northerners are used to the cold. Winter, northerners in t-shirts, southerners in big coats.

(Obviously a total generalisation.)

Some bloody toe rag pinched my overcoat last night in Leeds

I've had it twenty years and it was £500 new. To top it all it was my birthday too

Tight sod treat yourself to a new one ! It will be down south now mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"saying that most of my messages come from wales and ireland.....

so planning a trip to the emerald isle... lol

That's cos no one else can understand you Geordies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get messages from people across the whole of the uk - all of whom are lovely.

Naturally i meet more northerners though and therefore chat to them/meet them more often.

Though i chat to so many lovely southerners too that a long weekend in London is definitely on the cards! Xx"

Essex is is a nice place to visit aswell lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are a lot warmer friendlier up north manchester should be the capital not London lol . If we are not chatting to you southerners then we would have to chat with the Welsh , can't have that!!!!!!

Good fellow manc made me me chuckle pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a lot warmer friendlier up north manchester should be the capital not London lol . If we are not chatting to you southerners then we would have to chat with the Welsh , can't have that!!!!!!

Good fellow manc made me me chuckle pmsl"

Your welcome hun I typed it slow so you lot could understand it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a northerner living in Dorset.

Most of the people on my friends list are midlands or further north.

Majority of my meets have been with people outside of Dorset. Those I have met in Dorset are originally from elsewhere. I have found generally that the closer someone is to Dorset, the less likely they are to be interested in me.

The regional split of fab, which doesn't seem to fit that well would indicate that perhaps northerners are more likely to overlook certain aspects of my profile, where as down south they appear to be relatively stringent about it.

So to summarise, northerners (like me) seem friendlier in a lot but not all cases...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are a lot warmer friendlier up north manchester should be the capital not London lol . If we are not chatting to you southerners then we would have to chat with the Welsh , can't have that!!!!!!

Good fellow manc made me me chuckle pmsl

Your welcome hun I typed it slow so you lot could understand it lol"

Haha iam always being told to slow down when i talkpmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a lot warmer friendlier up north manchester should be the capital not London lol . If we are not chatting to you southerners then we would have to chat with the Welsh , can't have that!!!!!!

Good fellow manc made me me chuckle pmsl

Your welcome hun I typed it slow so you lot could understand it lol

Haha iam always being told to slow down when i talkpmsl"

Pmsl I just thought that was women in general never know when to stop talking lol us men call it nagging pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male from Oldham in Lancs - female from London - we get on great and met via Fab. However, we both agree generally that northern folk do tend to be friendlier people who are warm and welcoming. It may well be to do with the fact that most southern stock (historically speaking) will be of Saxon origin - most northern stock is of Viking origin. It's a generalisation, we know but one that we have definitely observed. Nobody will talk to a stranger in a southern pub. The northerners will more than likely buy you a pint and get to know you - funny old game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Manc and sod off buy your own !!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a social with a couple of ladies from up north and apart from their northern accents and amusing chat, what surprised me was that they started chatting to strangers in the cafe.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here and as well the hornymeter, there are no horney women down south England all my intersts comes from north England. I need to relocate lol, you would think London as its the capital but a big no

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?"

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There are more swingers clubs north of Watford.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?"

Well I think you've insulted the whole of England ] your better then me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are more swingers clubs north of Watford. "

Your not classed as up north till you get past knutsford Thankyou !!!!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

It's the prospect of seeing the sun for the first time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

It's the prospect of seeing the sun for the first time!"

Who needs the sun ? You've got everything else down there you may aswel have that too , but your not having our sexy women !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

Well for me it's purely the red shoes on your 6 dec pic! I want to come over - seduce and distract you - and steal the shoes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget the red shoes they live in a castle have you seen the walled garden didn't no the queen was on fab

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

"Male from Oldham in Lancs - female from London - we get on great and met via Fab. However, we both agree generally that northern folk do tend to be friendlier people who are warm and welcoming. It may well be to do with the fact that most southern stock (historically speaking) will be of Saxon origin - most northern stock is of Viking origin. It's a generalisation, we know but one that we have definitely observed. Nobody will talk to a stranger in a southern pub. The northerners will more than likely buy you a pint and get to know you - funny old game."

Bugs is a manc, I am london born and bred.

Up north people are definitely more open and chatty as a general rule. Not to say southerners aren't but it's less common I think. Me I'll talk to anyone. up north that means People think am normal....in that there london people would just pretend they didn't hear you!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

Well for me it's purely the red shoes on your 6 dec pic! I want to come over - seduce and distract you - and steal the shoes!

I agree, they are nice shoes. Okay they're after sun, shoes and sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forget the red shoes they live in a castle have you seen the walled garden didn't no the queen was on fab

I'm not greedy - i'll settle for the shoes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about us in the east lol

But like a previous poster said we are classed as the Midlands, Birmingham is 170 miles away from us, London 120 so how does that work ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

It's the prospect of seeing the sun for the first time!

Who needs the sun ? You've got everything else down there you may aswel have that too , but your not having our sexy women !!"

Lots of people say that to us too. Is it tongue in cheek or do you mean it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Forget the red shoes they live in a castle have you seen the walled garden didn't no the queen was on fab

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

Well for me it's purely the red shoes on your 6 dec pic! I want to come over - seduce and distract you - and steal the shoes!

Lol I can't walk in the darn things but I do love them.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"There are more swingers clubs north of Watford. "

Thats because more councils down south are very conservative in their outlook with swinging and clubs etc, we go up to swinging club's in Blackpool and they have drink licences where cant get a drinks licence down south for a swinging club.

This does effect clubs as there is not enough profit margin to open clubs if you dont sell alcohol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

Well for me it's purely the red shoes on your 6 dec pic! I want to come over - seduce and distract you - and steal the shoes!

Lol I can't walk in the darn things but I do love them.

When they look that great who needs to walk??

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"What about us in the east lol

But like a previous poster said we are classed as the Midlands, Birmingham is 170 miles away from us, London 120 so how does that work ?

This is why everyone seems to be up North lol, fix the locations on the site and you will see a massive difference plus more people will meet rather than just talk about it.

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

My opinion?

Takes all kinds,but

Northerners are more friendly and open.

In a club up North, stuff can be happening the moment you step in the place,and they are well attended.

I am looking forward to a trip North soon.

Partners or Cupids?

or Both??

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say there appears to be more activity near the swinging club areas....Manchester, and brum

it strange as I would say I do no more northen swingers mainly because I tend to look for them as that is where I go clubbing.

When I was clubbing in London before the f club closed down, and when I was a regular at abfabs I did think there was more down south,

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By *etanreadyCouple
over a year ago

dover

All our messages are from the north of us, couple from Dover lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All our messages are from the north of us, couple from Dover lol"

Classic

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Born & lived in the north for 29 years, now live in the south and I think I still have some northern qualities.

BTW it is due to being more friendly up in the north

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think north is winning fiesty bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think north is winning fiesty bunch

Move up here just think of the fun you will have ....... You will need your pass port to get over the border xxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"People from up North are more adept at written communication. This is because nobody can understand their accents so have to write things out more

Southerners are less likely to be able to read

Is it racist if you insult everyone?

I don't really know why people from the north contact us having read this

Well for me it's purely the red shoes on your 6 dec pic! I want to come over - seduce and distract you - and steal the shoes!

Lol I can't walk in the darn things but I do love them.

When they look that great who needs to walk??

xx"

you're very kind...I do spend more time than I should looking at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think north is winning fiesty bunch

Move up here just think of the fun you will have ....... You will need your pass port to get over the border xxxx"
i was born up there lol

Moved here years ago

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Think north is winning fiesty bunch

Move up here just think of the fun you will have ....... You will need your pass port to get over the border xxxx i was born up there lol

Moved here years ago "

You sound like you miss up north bad, do you meet many people up there still?, we live down south but visit the north at least a few times a year as we do find the northern people like Southerners lots of fun.

What clubs do you visit up north as its always good to have pointers from people who know it well.

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over a year ago

"Think north is winning fiesty bunch

Move up here just think of the fun you will have ....... You will need your pass port to get over the border xxxx i was born up there lol

Moved here years ago

What clubs do you visit up north as its always good to have pointers from people who know it well."

Northern clubs r on our list only been to 1 this way as its brill not had opportunities to up north to play but gunna make sure we do now lol

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

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over a year ago

"Think north is winning fiesty bunch

Move up here just think of the fun you will have ....... You will need your pass port to get over the border xxxx i was born up there lol

Moved here years ago

What clubs do you visit up north as its always good to have pointers from people who know it well.

Northern clubs r on our list only been to 1 this way as its brill not had opportunities to up north to play but gunna make sure we do now lol

How do you know its better up north if you have never done any swinging there, we thought you were a conisir by starting the thread the way you did lol.

Try up north and then make a judgement,

in your defence the northerners are just as naughty as us southerners but we can say this with experience and not assumption."

Northers seem braver ??

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's all in your heads, people are just people.

The north south divide is more of a socio-economic thing than an actual thing in reality.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol

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over a year ago

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol"

Northern army tonight? ??????

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol"

Nah, just know you'd losé!

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over a year ago

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol

Nah, just know you'd losé!"

Iam a northerer and stand by my roots southerners are softies ??

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol

Nah, just know you'd losé!

Iam a northerer and stand by my roots southerners are softies ??"

At school we were told that all the English were!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol

Nah, just know you'd losé!"

No point in meeting northerners then since we clearly don't make the grade.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol

Nah, just know you'd losé!

Iam a northerer and stand by my roots southerners are softies ??

At school we were told that all the English were!"

When anyone on here can say they have honestly done the things we have in swinging and movies we want to meet them lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Have to agree with this lol

Nah, just know you'd losé!

Iam a northerer and stand by my roots southerners are softies ??"

Ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

????????

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"????????"

You said you stand by your roots that southerners are softies.....you aren't going to change your mind do I said."ok"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That wouldbe my southern softie husband trying to work it out lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion?

Takes all kinds,but

Northerners are more friendly and open.

In a club up North, stuff can be happening the moment you step in the place,and they are well attended.

I am looking forward to a trip North soon.

Partners or Cupids?

or Both??"

Neither both quite frankly are skanky! Amour is the best club to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh us northerners are just bloody lovely thats why!!

Couldnnt agree more and clearly sexier and hornier

I will whole heartedly agree on that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iam planning on seeings on offer up north, any1 suggest good clubs ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a southerner who now lives up north and northerners are generally nicer xx

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Or just not up to a challenge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iam planning on seeings on offer up north, any1 suggest good clubs ect"

Chams in Birm

Amour in Manchester

Townhouse in Birkenhead

I know there is a good one in blackpool but the name elludes me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Or just not up to a challenge?

Whatever you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahem...may I intervene as a Celt from the South West. We'm friendly down here, quite gentle, but awful fierce underneath when provoked.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

I would but you're not my type....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, I'm very North!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We like playing with anyone in the UK, if we had to pick the randiest people in general it would easily be the Welsh as a race who are the more consistent for naughty sex than most.

We have met our share of naughties from all over the UK & Europe and enjoyed all our meets, people thinking there is a difference between north and south are showing how inexperienced their swinging activities really are lol.

Try before you preach that is our motto and most of the swingers on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh, I'm very North!"

Your pole is about as far North as you can get...

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Northerners are more passionate, fullstop. Any soft southerner want to prove me wrong?

Nope we don't do challenges, we're secure enough not to have to

Or just not up to a challenge?

You have to have a meet before you say such things as this does help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh, I'm very North!

Your pole is about as far North as you can get...

You can have my north pole, if you agree to let me go down south on you

xxx

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over a year ago

"Ooh, I'm very North!

Your pole is about as far North as you can get...

You can have my north pole, if you agree to let me go down south on you

xxx"

Well there's an offer that's hard to refuse.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh, I'm very North!

Your pole is about as far North as you can get...

It is, and it's damn chilly up here. *Daydreams of warm southern climes!

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over a year ago

"Ooh, I'm very North!

Your pole is about as far North as you can get...

You can have my north pole, if you agree to let me go down south on you

xxx

Well there's an offer that's hard to refuse.....

That sounds like a yes, that really does. What about it forumites, that is a yes in anyone's book, please say it is.

Feel like a fruit picker after a positive visit from the man from Del Monte.... it's a wonderful feeling x

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over a year ago

"Ooh, I'm very North!

Your pole is about as far North as you can get...

You can have my north pole, if you agree to let me go down south on you

xxx

Well there's an offer that's hard to refuse.....

That sounds like a yes, that really does. What about it forumites, that is a yes in anyone's book, please say it is.

Feel like a fruit picker after a positive visit from the man from Del Monte.... it's a wonderful feeling x"

Got it wrong, it's obviously a no then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like playing with anyone in the UK, if we had to pick the randiest people in general it would easily be the Welsh as a race who are the more consistent for naughty sex than most.

Try before you preach that is our motto and most of the swingers on here..."

Northerners seem more likely to meet than southerners...

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"We like playing with anyone in the UK, if we had to pick the randiest people in general it would easily be the Welsh as a race who are the more consistent for naughty sex than most.

Try before you preach that is our motto and most of the swingers on here...

Northerners seem more likely to meet than southerners...

How many times have you traveled south? A lot of northern people we meet rarely go outside their own zone so its hard for them to know if they dont travel south.

Most of the people saying north is best have had hardly any meets at all let alone travel south lol.

We have no trouble with north or south meets and can't honestly say one is better than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us northerners can't afford to go south it's to expensive and over rated down there

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over a year ago

"We like playing with anyone in the UK, if we had to pick the randiest people in general it would easily be the Welsh as a race who are the more consistent for naughty sex than most.

Try before you preach that is our motto and most of the swingers on here...

Northerners seem more likely to meet than southerners...

How many times have you traveled south? A lot of northern people we meet rarely go outside their own zone so its hard for them to know if they dont travel south.

Most of the people saying north is best have had hardly any meets at all let alone travel south lol.

We have no trouble with north or south meets and can't honestly say one is better than the other. "

I live in Dorset. I have had more offers from northerners than I have had from within Dorset.

Of my meets, one couple from Dorset itself. Another in dorset originally from gloucestershire and a lady from Bristol area. In wiltshire met a lady from Manchester, another from Newcastle. I could go on. It isn't a southerner bash. Just people from Dorset just ain't attracted to me but people from further afield are!

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Always reply and more than happy to go all the way.

Meeting in the middle is also good, but you can't beat going down south.

We have traveled several times to Chester and Grantham for meets.

Our motto is if you want us we will travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh, I'm very North!

Your pole is about as far North as you can get...

You can have my north pole, if you agree to let me go down south on you

xxx

Well there's an offer that's hard to refuse.....

That sounds like a yes, that really does. What about it forumites, that is a yes in anyone's book, please say it is.

Feel like a fruit picker after a positive visit from the man from Del Monte.... it's a wonderful feeling x

Got it wrong, it's obviously a no then....

Lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I might visit up north one day

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I might visit up north one day

I believe it's a bit like.crossing the border from Brighton into Hove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May i just put my two penneth in...

When im working down south i find people more insular and dont feel comfortable talking to strangers either on a bus , in a que or in a Pub .

When im northern based everyones up for a chat .

And i chat to anyone anywhere

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"May i just put my two penneth in...

When im working down south i find people more insular and dont feel comfortable talking to strangers either on a bus , in a que or in a Pub .

When im northern based everyones up for a chat .

And i chat to anyone anywhere

John is a cockney & i come from Essex and we get on well with anyone, two of the friendliest places we went to was Glasgow & Liverpool where the people & pubs were brilliant.

Blackpool is still our favourite when we want fun with our northern naughties lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get quite a few messages from further north but living where we do thats not difficult

We assume that people find us scary and only feel safe from a distance of hundreds of miles

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I would agree with you on the geography there lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

From my experience, I suspect northerners are a tad more forthright with what they want.

However it would be good to be proved wrong.

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

How about a North vs South shagathon????

Count the % orgasms???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"How about a North vs South shagathon????

Count the % orgasms???

Only if we can film it lol

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