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By *ovepiece OP   Man
over a year ago

Borth

I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!

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By *on1Man
over a year ago

spain

So like me me you talk shite ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. When I first joined, I'd savour it before clicking 'inbox', thinking who it could be off! Such a buzz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get very few inbox messages. That's what we get for having face pics of my ugly mug!

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get very few inbox messages. That's what we get for having face pics of my ugly mug!

G "

Don't be hard on yourself G, you look great as a sexy Dracula..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get very few inbox messages. That's what we get for having face pics of my ugly mug!

G "

Certainly no ugly mugs. Maybe I'll inbox you to boost morale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were not too bothered if we receive mail or not.

When we do its usually from single guys who've not read profile and send us a Mail, which usually results in us either deleting straight away or if feeling generous send a no thanks reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message once too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get excited if I get a message lol

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By *ontay77Man
over a year ago

Windsor

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get tons n tons of messages,lol too many sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get tons n tons of messages,lol too many sometimes "

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never been into double figures in our inbox and probably average about 1-2 Messages a day.

However when we had a single female profile with no information or pictures on it. (We were using the profile to toe dip at the time) She got hundreds of messages praising her on her sexy profile go figure?!??

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By *ovepiece OP   Man
over a year ago

Borth


"I had a message once too! "

Savour it.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile "

Same here on the whole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well as a ropey old slut tv, i still get lots of messages.especially whenever i post a new pic up,so i do that often ..99.9% of them tho, are just from guys that will never meet and just want to talk dirty.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile "

I sent you one and I'd read your profile to.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........ "

If definitely would.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I get messages from friends on here and even occasionally get unsolicited ones.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

It is only 1 or 2 a day for us too but one day last week I changed my status and the next morning I had 68 messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have never been into double figures in our inbox and probably average about 1-2 Messages a day.

However when we had a single female profile with no information or pictures on it. (We were using the profile to toe dip at the time) She got hundreds of messages praising her on her sexy profile go figure?!??"

I work in Roman numerals so consider 2 (II) as double figures; I have achieved this once or twice in my IV years on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get many messages either, most are from friends we already have, although we do have one or two filters on I suppose, but I wouldn't say Cpls get plastered with messages, certainly not like single females do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile "

Fibber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........ "

Whatever gives you that idea?!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I thought I was doing pretty badly because I only get 1 or messages a day. Now I'm feeling quite good about it. Thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mine seem to be knock backs to be honest lol

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

(1 or 2)*

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol"

Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I go on cam my message box bursts its so full,wiggle,wiggle

seriously some of the best messages I get is from folk on the forum sharing a joke and that includes guys that DONT fancy me but are comfortable messaging me,oh and the ladies havin a giggle at some of the silliness we all post.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol

Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message. "

Prob not....I try to fill your box if I can. No room for other messages

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Get the occassional message usually from men tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol

Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message. "

Haha probs was just tell them yeah and wave a huge dilly at them sure they'll run then lol

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol

Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message. "

Nagh, that was probably me. he he

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol

Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message.

Nagh, that was probably me. he he"

Thought I recognised that shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a buzz wish it would happen more often lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nice getting the odd once a month message...then say thanks to find I am out of their age range...WTAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile

Fibber "

Of and from crazy friends too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile

Fibber

Of and from crazy friends too "

I resemble that remark! Smacked bottie for you young lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile

Fibber

Of and from crazy friends too

I resemble that remark! Smacked bottie for you young lady. "

Bring it on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile

Fibber

Of and from crazy friends too

I resemble that remark! Smacked bottie for you young lady.

Bring it on..... "

Oh I like it when.your in hussie mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does getting a new message look like? I have never seen such a thing!

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I used to think it would be nice to be a woman and get "hundreds of messages"

Then a girl i met showed me the amount of FILTH AND ABUSE she gets.......scary really......

So now i'm happy with my very scarce nice messages. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does getting a new message look like? I have never seen such a thing! "

And you can shush aswell! Bloody pimpernell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does getting a new message look like? I have never seen such a thing!

And you can shush aswell! Bloody pimpernell "

Guess my message was sent second class post ey?

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Message, what's one of them?

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading

If I'm lucky I get a one liner, either 'got a face pic' or 'meet now!' Yet a man is expected to craft some literary master piece in order to secure a meet lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets make his day and fill his inbox for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting between 5 and 10 per day at the min....clearly they haven't read my profile or they wouldn't bother! I tried hiding it for a while but the forumites got very angry with this. I considered blocking everyone but I do enjoy people messaging me regarding comments in the forum, so I guess I'll have to endure the unsolicited messages!! Lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!"

You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seem to get ant messages

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!

You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to"

It wasn't mine then? LOL

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Never seem to get ant messages "

Well, as long as you don't think I'm a gay guy who's after you, I'll send you one if it will make you feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!

You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to"

Exactly this. It is fun in the beginning but the novelty soon wears off. After stating in the forum once I received about 300 messages per day, I was chastised for still not being able to find somebody suitable, but as you say, they are mostly useless....endless cock shots, copied and pasted and "hi" messages for people who had clearly not read my profile!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!

You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to

It wasn't mine then? LOL"

I replied; maybe the reply was useless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People actually do send messages on here ? Wow

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!

You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to

It wasn't mine then? LOL

I replied; maybe the reply was useless "

You probably didn't put 'UC, I'd love to meet you' in the subject line. ha ha

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!

You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to

It wasn't mine then? LOL

I replied; maybe the reply was useless

You probably didn't put 'UC, I'd love to meet you' in the subject line. ha ha"

good put down; x

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I savor it then turns out to be a bloke asking if I want a bj lmao had a few the past couple of days kindly declined the bjs ta very much lol

Wonder if it's the same guy who sent me exactly the same message.

Nagh, that was probably me. he he

Thought I recognised that shirt."

I always recognise those legs. (and the witches hat. LOL)

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!

You want hundreds of useless messages??? Because that is what I get. Then once a day, there is one worth replying to

It wasn't mine then? LOL

I replied; maybe the reply was useless

You probably didn't put 'UC, I'd love to meet you' in the subject line. ha ha

good put down; x"

I'd rather be doing the 'pick up' with you, if I'm honest. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up to 5 this morning I was dead chuffed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.

Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people!

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

To the OP: Such is life!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.

Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people! "

Do I have to bi & female to get on the 'visit list' LOL

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.

Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people! "

I am near Libs if you get down this way

(Skulks off realising he seems a bit desperate )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually only get 1 or 2 a day. I think this is mainly because I am bi-sexual and looking for girl on girl fun only. If I were to put on my profile that I was looking for men and couples too it might be different........ "

Yep, very different!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.

Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people!

Do I have to bi & female to get on the 'visit list' LOL"

Unfortunately, yes! But honestly, I love meeting new people, even if it's just to chat and say hello to. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?"
Nope. Look all woman to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?"

They must have missed the pic of the 32Ds

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

am about to renew my membership ... message inbound

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I don't get that many messages, but then I think in the time I've been on here, I've chatted to everybody local already! lol.

Hence 2015 is road trip year!!! Hoping to meet some fantastic fun people!

Do I have to bi & female to get on the 'visit list' LOL

Unfortunately, yes! But honestly, I love meeting new people, even if it's just to chat and say hello to. x"

Well, if you view my profile, you'll see that works for me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sneaky tactic I think!

I've just realised I've replied to more messages that have been insults than any other message. From now on I'll just delete and block.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?"

He should've gone to specsavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love logging on and seeing we have messages , we always try and reply cause if someones taken the effort to message us then we do the same . Even if its " hi how are you tonight " for the tength time lol.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?"

I've commented on your hot, sexy arse on other threads already, You sure you're not just fishing for another one? he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message once too! "

As rare as a summer's day!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?

I've commented on your hot, sexy arse on other threads already, You sure you're not just fishing for another one? he he"

Surely not

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Sometimes, particuarly in the week, we can get 10 to 12 messages a day. Other times like weekends, we get nothing.

It's been especially quiet this holiday too. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally only get lovely messages. Ok they are generally replies from friends but lovely all the same. Although I did end up with a guy spending a lot of time trying to convince me I should let him suck me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes, particuarly in the week, we can get 10 to 12 messages a day. Other times like weekends, we get nothing.

It's been especially quiet this holiday too. Lol x"

If I was a little nearer to Leicester I would've messaged you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only receive messages from men who haven't read my profile

Fibber

Of and from crazy friends too

I resemble that remark! Smacked bottie for you young lady.

Bring it on.....

Oh I like it when.your in hussie mode "

How did you guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart always skips a wee beat when I log on and see I have a message. It's the expectation that gets me every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a new message?!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Well I just had a message saying I was a bloke in drag! Unsure how they would come to that conclusion from my public pictures, if anyone wants to enlighten me?

I've commented on your hot, sexy arse on other threads already, You sure you're not just fishing for another one? he he

Surely not "

ummm. Yours is pretty good to. he he

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

No messages today,.... Days stIll young though.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.

4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)

2 from potentials...

10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations

and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all

and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan...

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.

4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)

2 from potentials...

10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations

and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all

and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan... "

No problem with Liverpool fans, just the living in Scotland that's the only problem.

Oh yer, and the fact you're not meeting anyone new

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I live in hope for that one message that matches my preferences, shows respect, has a half way decent profile and some pics that are not of their cock, just the one that makes me think 'Oh Yes!'

I might happen in 2015.....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.

4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)

2 from potentials...

10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations

and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all

and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan...

No problem with Liverpool fans, just the living in Scotland that's the only problem.

Oh yer, and the fact you're not meeting anyone new "

My profile doesn't say I am not meeting anyone new... just says I am not rushing into any meets... slight difference

Oh add in the lovely one I just had saying I am fake and my pictures cannot possibly be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get excited when i have one message. love it when have mutiple...it is however often declines sent twice!! people are trigger happy!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Logged on to 24 messages this morning - honestly its not all its cracked up to be.

4 from lovely friends and ongoing chatter (lovely)

2 from potentials...

10 that are either FAF, or meet me now - apparently loads of full balls needing emptied for the new year celebrations

and 7 who quite clearly have not read my profile at all

and 1 telling me he could never fuck a liverpool fan...

No problem with Liverpool fans, just the living in Scotland that's the only problem.

Oh yer, and the fact you're not meeting anyone new

My profile doesn't say I am not meeting anyone new... just says I am not rushing into any meets... slight difference

"

So there's still a chance.


"

Oh add in the lovely one I just had saying I am fake and my pictures cannot possibly be me "

Maybe, like me, he finds it almost impossible to believe that such a stunning arse has not been photoshoped. I guess it's just one of the hazards of being gorgeous. xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

couldn't agree more, that amazing feeling when you do get a reply to a message you've sent

Only to find its a thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get tons n tons of messages,lol too many sometimes

Ha ha"

im not joking

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"

Maybe, like me, he finds it almost impossible to believe that such a stunning arse has not been photoshoped. I guess it's just one of the hazards of being gorgeous. xx "

Definitely not photoshopped... no idea how to do anything like that, and don't see the point - how horrible would it be to turn up to a meet and for someone to be disappointed for that?

Not sure about gorgeous - that one always makes me laugh - I could have a face like a melted wellie boot for all my pictures show...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message?!?! I thought they were only real in myths and legends

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Like op it is fun to get a message usually one every few months. Makes me too excited really. Must remember to act like an adult.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Just had a message from a unicorn.

This is not a fairytale is it ?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

imagine..

every day...

multiple one liners from shit profiles.

multiple emails from men you really wouldn't want to meet

multiple emails from guys who didn't read the profile AT ALL

one, maybe one, nice email, 60% chance it's from someone you wouldnt meet

so by the time you find a decent email that si from someone you would meet... you are sick of the whole thing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol

So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"

Maybe, like me, he finds it almost impossible to believe that such a stunning arse has not been photoshoped. I guess it's just one of the hazards of being gorgeous. xx

Definitely not photoshopped... no idea how to do anything like that, and don't see the point - how horrible would it be to turn up to a meet and for someone to be disappointed for that?

Not sure about gorgeous - that one always makes me laugh - I could have a face like a melted wellie boot for all my pictures show... "

The pic in the Liverpool shirt shows enough to know that you ain't no minger. And the overall impression from the arse and figure shots puts you, IMHO, well into the gorgeous category. he he

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Message, what's one of them? "

I would havr sent you one but we are out of your age rsnge. Didn't stop me fabbing your pics though.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol

So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds "

If men could see what we deal with, they might start writing decent emails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol

So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds

If men could see what we deal with, they might start writing decent emails."

I tried that once... still got deleted though

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By *illywonka76Man
over a year ago

gloucester

I still have the same feeling. One comes in and I think at last possible route to success but oh know it's from TV/TS

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I still have the same feeling. One comes in and I think at last possible route to success but oh know it's from TV/TS "

you gotta block them mate. they dont like being told that because they think they are female, the cock they have says otherwise.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do honestly think some men on here wouldn't believe half the shite we receive lol

So whilst some of you wish you'd receive more messages than you do, when 99% is complete dross/crude, I think you would soon change your minds

If men could see what we deal with, they might start writing decent emails."

And we would have less threads about messages not being replied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much rather see face pics of a happy couple than endless cock shots!

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By *illywonka76Man
over a year ago

gloucester

I appreciate you women must get a lot of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just contemplating my childish delight at seeing a solitary message appear in my Fab inbox and then thought how different the reaction might be for a single woman or couple who are inundated! Just that really. Thought I'd share my musing!"

Inundated? no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance would be fine thing unless we advertise a meet then we get find lots of good folk who forget how to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get tons n tons of messages,lol too many sometimes

Ha ha"

I'm not surprised as your very nice. X

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By *allyandJonCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We like to encourage messages and more people taking up the swinging club scene and meets it beats most other activities!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

On a regular (not for a advertised meet) day we get 1-2 messages, sometimes more but not often. When we advertise a meet (normally about 2 weeks before the planned day) we get the same for about the first week, rising to 4-5 in the run up and sometimes 20 or more on the day itself. Guys are definitely have a more "go and get it" attitude than couples which is why we use this profile more and more now. We never fail to find one or more guys that actually turn up to play when we search for a meet. Single guys we love them

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

After a cam session we can get 30+ messages and about 50 friends requests. So sorry, we can't reply to all. We do read them though.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"On a regular (not for a advertised meet) day we get 1-2 messages, sometimes more but not often. When we advertise a meet (normally about 2 weeks before the planned day) we get the same for about the first week, rising to 4-5 in the run up and sometimes 20 or more on the day itself. Guys are definitely have a more "go and get it" attitude than couples which is why we use this profile more and more now. We never fail to find one or more guys that actually turn up to play when we search for a meet. Single guys we love them "

And very good fun you are to. Hope to catch you again when I'm next at one of the Office Parties. ;-)

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By *ovepiece OP   Man
over a year ago

Borth


"Lets make his day and fill his inbox for him "

Thanks dude! I had 4 messages after this...big smile.

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