FabSwingers.com forum: Profiles with no pictures

By *UNCHBOX OP Man
over a year ago

folkestone

Is it not too much to expect people to have at least one photo on their profile so you can get an idea of what they look like?. No problem with having face pics in private as i wouldnt put them in the public area, but there are so many on here so dont seem to bother even with a general body pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is too much to expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they don't have one just now, then more than likely a pic of someone's elses would appear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toatlly agree we just posted a thread along the the same sort of lines. It takes about 1 min at most.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Yes it is too much to expect."

completely agree... why should every profile look the same.....

if they have no pics, there decision no one elses......

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Whilst I do like to see profiles with at least one photo - I'm not going to decry those that don't. Some people simply don't like to look at their body - and won't let others take photos.

I've got an OK figure, and am comfortable with it, so I don't mind sharing these photos.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

let me claify what i said because I know that people will have a go at what i said...

"there profile, there decision".... if the add doesn't get as much attention, then that is also there consequence from that decision........

also... if there is something that you don't like about a profile.. isn't the easiest thing to do in that situation be just walk on past??

concentrate on those things you can alter.. and stop worrying about those things you can't

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

people will use there profile as they see fit . no pics or hundreds of pics ,there is no right or wrong .if thats what the indervidual wants and its working for them ,then its doing the trick !

if inderviduals dont like others with no pics on their profile then they are not obilgated to contact them . no pics must be working with these profiles ,if not im sure they would be rethinking and revamping their profile. but that then is their choice if they wish to do that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people will use there profile as they see fit . no pics or hundreds of pics ,there is no right or wrong .if thats what the indervidual wants and its working for them ,then its doing the trick !

totally agree there choice its all about freedom of choice. we posted a thread not to long ago about cpls not showing their male half, no pics no contact thats our choice. its not blind date after all didnt see cilla anywhere when we signed up for this.

we like to look at what we are getting not have to guess (might sound quite arsey) but hey ho

and as for ppl not being happy with themselves

cant see it being a fun meet if peeps gonna have hangups.

2 penneth in

keep horny xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spare a thought for us people who live on our own...while its reasonably easy to take a facial photo yourself it becomes much more difficult to take a body one.....imagine running round and trying to get into position before the auto thingy on the camera works.....nightmare!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"spare a thought for us people who live on our own...while its reasonably easy to take a facial photo yourself it becomes much more difficult to take a body one.....imagine running round and trying to get into position before the auto thingy on the camera works.....nightmare!!!

don't talk wet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't talk wet!"

lmao nothin wrong with face pics

at least its something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it is too much to expect."

Sound advice from an expert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let me claify what i said because I know that people will have a go at what i said...

"there profile, there decision".... if the add doesn't get as much attention, then that is also there consequence from that decision........

also... if there is something that you don't like about a profile.. isn't the easiest thing to do in that situation be just walk on past??

concentrate on those things you can alter.. and stop worrying about those things you can't"

Thank you!

Saves me having to type it lol!

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By *oltguyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I recently was offered a brand new excuse for not having pics to show - "I'm technophobic".

So, they can turn on a PC, set up an Internet connection, use a search engine to find "Shaggers' Heaven", access the site, complete a registration, upload credit card details, set up a profile, access the chat rooms, log on to the cams for a perv, use chat, etc. But can't upload pics because "I'm technophoboic!" Fek off!!!

I have a warning right at the beginning of my profile that reads...

"No pics on your profile? Then don't bother to waste your time getting in touch."

Does it discourage them - does it bollox! I'm a firm believer in answering all correspondence, even from those who ignore the aforementioned warning, and I have a stock answer for them - "Sorry but I don't correspond with anyone who can't provide a photo".

Even then that answer often leads to petulant comments, accusations of rudeness, arrogance, "You think you are God's gift", etc. You just can't win sometimes.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I recently was offered a brand new excuse for not having pics to show - "I'm technophobic".

I have a warning right at the beginning of my profile that reads...

"No pics on your profile? Then don't bother to waste your time getting in touch."

Even then that answer often leads to petulant comments, accusations of rudeness, arrogance, "You think you are God's gift", etc. You just can't win sometimes.

Hmmmmm Pics of bareback anal sex with two other guys?

Should it be compulsory to have one's HIV status on the profile, date of tests etc?

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Dont you think this pic thing has been done to death.Surely its down to each individual what they want to do with pics.Something wrong the minute things start to become compulsory.If you dont like people not having pics respect that and leave them alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just send a message and ask for pics we do....... no pics before hand ....means no meet xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ello most pros without pics i tend to ignore as there either not genunine ie sad twat blokes pretending to be fems for a quick thrill they cant get in the real world.. alwys check for verifications that way at least you know the profile is genuine personally i wont meet unless ive seen the lady on cam ie face, clothed as had a meet where lady was a lot older than pics she was showing ...taxi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no doubt that not having pictures will diminish your chances of meeting but having the wrong type of pictures can have the same effect.

It has to be personal choice, we ignore any profiles without pictures and as we are meeting couples we ignore profiles that only have a picture of one member of the couple

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"There is no doubt that not having pictures will diminish your chances of meeting but having the wrong type of pictures can have the same effect."

Tell me about it! 87 pics and she hasnt got her ya-ya's out in any of them...

(...like the new ones though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

giggles

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By *oltguyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

No one is having "bareback anal sex" in any of my photos Mushroom. There are pictures of cocks posing beside or up against bums, but no one, repeat, no one is being penetrated without a condom.

You really should be careful about making such assumptions - particularly in a public forum.

You know what they say about those that assume - it makes an ASS out of U not ME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be better if this was taken offside persay? airing your indifferences in the forum's is not the right place....

Trust me I've done it and learned!

Paddy xx

"No one is having "bareback anal sex" in any of my photos Mushroom. There are pictures of cocks posing beside or up against bums, but no one, repeat, no one is being penetrated without a condom.

You really should be careful about making such assumptions - particularly in a public forum.

You know what they say about those that assume - it makes an ASS out of U not ME.

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By *oltguyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I appreciate what you are saying Paddy, but a pretty serious allegation was made publicly in the forum so it needed a public response.

It's just that some people need to look and engage brain before placing finger to keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, going back to the original post, the person in question could have 10 pics on their profile, all set to 'private' so they can add them to messages but you can't see them in their public or private galleries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women like to see cock pics on your public profile?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It would be better if this was taken offside persay? airing your indifferences in the forum's is not the right place....

Trust me I've done it and learned!

Paddy xx

You havent been round the forums for long, have you?

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

As stated previously it all depends on personal preference, and if there is no pic and there getting no meets they shouldn't complain. However even with pics meetings are not promised. I find it is often how you approach others and the style in which you write with that is the biggest winner on this site. As with no pictures or body to entertain the mind can be just as beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not too much to expect people to have at least one photo on their profile so you can get an idea of what they look like?. "

is it not too much to expect people to use the search to see if a thread has already been done before?

is it too much to expect a man to not plaster cock pics all over his profile.

we all have likes and dislikes and an odea of what we want to see (or not)...you can please some of the people some of the time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not only is it too much to expect but airing the same old threads time and again has a positive side.

People who have commented before often change thier opinions on things.

New people join everyday and they have opinions on old subjects

People who don't want to discuss the same things all the time can ignore those threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I particularly like the picture-less profiles which state in CAPITALS how anyone contacting them must send a face picture and all other angles with the first message or else!

"World revolves around me" types make me laugh.

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By *onnyb0yCouple
over a year ago

north wilts

I actually agree it is not too much to expect at least a profile pic.

So why have I not done it?

Don’t know, just not got around to it.

I like to see other people’s pic, so yes I should add to the forums pics.

Perhaps I’m a perv collecting others pics, it is a possibility, but if you don’t want you pictures collected or perved, then don’t diaply them.

May be that is why the missus will not let me put her picture up.

She is paranoid about someone using her pic!

So if I just put my pic up, that would that add to the possibility that I was a man masquerading as a couple.

At the end of the day, if you don’t like our profile, move on.

Having no pic has not stopped winks, messages and friend requests.

After saying all that, maybe I’ll go pump some iron and take a pic (now that is pervy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have all of my pics hidden for personal reasons. i also ask for a face pic before showing my own for aforsaid reasons

i should not have to justify this to anyone

as far as i'm concerned i play the way i want to and it hasnt stopped me meeting some quality men who i do show my pics to once i've established i want them to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also people who go on webcam and you either dont see their face or any bodily part. Whats the point???!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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try a self timer i have some great photos from self timers hun x

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

The ones that bug us are those that say something like, if you have no pictures on show, we won't reply to your message.

Then when you view their own profile yep, no pictures on display! How on earth do these people not see the double standards they are showing?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I get people wanting to be my friend without even speaking to me. I occasionally ask why they want to be my friend on site, and the reply is normally so I can see their private pics. It is so easy to attatch a private pic to a message (if that is what they are wanting me to se) but no I expect it is for them to perv my many pics in private.

I also dont have my face pic in private for obvious reasons. But to have no pic as an avatar seems lazy to me. No pics at all means no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We remove and re-add our photos regularly as we try to be as anonymous as possible due to our jobs. We do like to see a photo ourselves though which is why we try to keep them up for as long as we dare.

However, the whole idea of the system and the way it is designed is that people can send and receive photos privately.

Therefore, we don't see that having a photo should be a prerequisite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yes, bit like those people who say they NEVER meet single men and there is a recent verification from a single guy !

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"We remove and re-add our photos regularly as we try to be as anonymous as possible due to our jobs. We do like to see a photo ourselves though which is why we try to keep them up for as long as we dare.

However, the whole idea of the system and the way it is designed is that people can send and receive photos privately.

Therefore, we don't see that having a photo should be a prerequisite."

I can understand this but unless you can be identified by yourself in a lacy underwears set then surely that being on your profile visible to others say as your avatar or normal pictures then thats not going to cause a problem in your job is it?

Clearly if you have a face pic for open view then yes someone at your work could see it.

I do see those who have no pictures and nout on their profile as a touch lazy tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually agree it is not too much to expect at least a profile pic.

So why have I not done it?

Don’t know, just not got around to it.

I like to see other people’s pic, so yes I should add to the forums pics.

Perhaps I’m a perv collecting others pics, it is a possibility, but if you don’t want you pictures collected or perved, then don’t diaply them.

May be that is why the missus will not let me put her picture up.

She is paranoid about someone using her pic!

So if I just put my pic up, that would that add to the possibility that I was a man masquerading as a couple.

At the end of the day, if you don’t like our profile, move on.

Having no pic has not stopped winks, messages and friend requests.

After saying all that, maybe I’ll go pump some iron and take a pic (now that is pervy)

Your right, you still get winks and friend requests and one verification in 8 months, but your choice and you must be happy with it, for however saying your probably just a pic collector and a perv is quite a turn off so we blocked you as we do with all pic and friend collectors because thats our choice

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Is it not too much to expect people to have at least one photo on their profile so you can get an idea of what they look like?. No problem with having face pics in private as i wouldnt put them in the public area, but there are so many on here so dont seem to bother even with a general body pic."

It's there choice and pay the price of their choice.

Not having a go at you specifically, but I genuinely do find it equally pointless when men (usually) have photos which show more of the person they are fucking or being sucked by than the photo does of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thought but what is to stop people taking pictures from other sites. I have had more than one man mail me with the same cock pic which has obviously been taken from a porno site. Its a no win scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have now added an avatar after reading this and all the thoughts on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually agree it is not too much to expect at least a profile pic.

So why have I not done it?

Don’t know, just not got around to it.

I like to see other people’s pic, so yes I should add to the forums pics.

Perhaps I’m a perv collecting others pics, it is a possibility, but if you don’t want you pictures collected or perved, then don’t diaply them.

May be that is why the missus will not let me put her picture up.

She is paranoid about someone using her pic!

So if I just put my pic up, that would that add to the possibility that I was a man masquerading as a couple.

At the end of the day, if you don’t like our profile, move on.

Having no pic has not stopped winks, messages and friend requests.

After saying all that, maybe I’ll go pump some iron and take a pic (now that is pervy)

Meow, I have just blocked you because I dont like people who block others for things they have written in here, my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have now added an avatar after reading this and all the thoughts on it!

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'ave a TA from us all...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Queen that is true. You cant stop people from nicking your pics(can you?)and you cant stop people from putting a pic on that isnt their cock.

Personally if they are putting a pic that isnt their cock then that doesnt bother me but if they put a pic of their face that isnt them then that is a major problem for me tho.

It does show they have made an effort to put a pic on,so if they can do that they can put a truthful pic on.

I saw a profile recent as been chatting with the person and the pics are clearly of the person but was about 2 years ago.The person did admit that but it was clear when I saw them on cam the pics werent recent. Now considering what to do.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

How often should pics be updated? I still look broadly the same as my pics, but the full body shots are probably about a year old.

Or more accurately...how saggy/fat am I allowed to get before a new photo is a fair requirement? One stone? 3?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they should be updated when they are not a true reflection of who you are, we dont have a problem with this one as we have so many pics in our public gallery and add more every week or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meow, I have just blocked you because I dont like people who block others for things they have written in here, my choice

Thats cool everyone should use the block facility more, though I didn't block him for what he said but for what he does, self confessed picture collector/viewers are of no interest to us and we simply stop them from using us as part of thier collection. We block people who state in here that they play bareback because not all who say it keep in on thier profile or have it on there in the first place and we dont want to make the mistake (for us) of meeting them.

As you said, personal choice but unlike we do it without sarcastic and insulting remarks, but your sarcasm says more about you than it does about us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meow, I have just blocked you because I dont like people who block others for things they have written in here, my choice

As you said, personal choice but unlike we do it without sarcastic and insulting remarks, but your sarcasm says more about you than it does about us

Indeed it does, Iam far to sarcastic for my own good, however I dont recall being insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meow, I have just blocked you because I dont like people who block others for things they have written in here, my choice

As you said, personal choice but unlike we do it without sarcastic and insulting remarks, but your sarcasm says more about you than it does about us

Indeed it does, Iam far to sarcastic for my own good, however I dont recall being insulting."

Looks like you have a short memory then as saying "I dont like people who block others for things they have written in here" would be classed as most as moderately insulting but could under some circumstances get away with being called petulant if said by someone who hasn't fully matured.

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