FabSwingers.com forum: Indian Kik

By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

I'm trying to increase the awareness of Indians and swinging so I have started a private kik chat group.

It's private for security and discretion reasons.

Send me your kik ids and I will add you to the group.

It's predominantly for Indians. Reason being as there already established black man fan clubs etc, so this is for Indians. Nothing racial intended to please don't start with that....

The group is establishing with many ladies, couples and guys. Its a nice way to engage with fellow Indians to share and talk about thing with like minded people.

Regads

Roga

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like you're segregating yourself a bit with this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like you're segregating yourself a bit with this...

Just what I was thinking. Not all Asians want to meet just Asians, sometimes it's nice to get out of your comfort zones.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

Its not intending to be like that, as said in the original post nothing racial is intended.

Well you could say the same thing about all people who like black only. Arent they segregating themselves as well?

It all comes down personal preferences.

There have been a few requests for indians so i am trying to address it and keep everyone happy and pleased at the same time.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/296301

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/300028

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/126405

Support and positivity is welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not intending to be like that, as said in the original post nothing racial is intended.

Well you could say the same thing about all people who like black only. Arent they segregating themselves as well?

It all comes down personal preferences.

There have been a few requests for indians so i am trying to address it and keep everyone happy and pleased at the same time.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/296301

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/300028

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/126405

Support and positivity is welcome."

Be careful not to attract negativity.

Couples making personal choices is one thing but it is certainly not segregation, just exercising freedom of choice.

Starting a group of only one denomination is something completely different so please do not make comparisons.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

nope not meant to be like that all.

dont want anyone getting the wrong end of the stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nope not meant to be like that all.

dont want anyone getting the wrong end of the stick. "

Maybe you don't, however you quote Black Man's Fan Club but if that was Black Only Club we do not think it would be accepted so easily.

So it seems you would like to see different sections for different races? We certainly wouldn't!

These threads never go well....

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

no not meant to be like.

ok, phrase it as Indians Fan Club in that case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no not meant to be like.

ok, phrase it as Indians Fan Club in that case.

That sounds a bit better.

No offence intended, but maybe you should have given the wording a little more thought?

As always, we are sure your intentions were good, but just the delivery a little slack!

We are curious-how many members do you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

BMFC is there to bring together black guys and women/couples of all races that wish to meet black guys. This is something that is inclusive of all races... A good thing...

An Asians only club/forum is exclusive of any other race... That can only be a bad thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BMFC is there to bring together black guys and women/couples of all races that wish to meet black guys. This is something that is inclusive of all races... A good thing...

An Asians only club/forum is exclusive of any other race... That can only be a bad thing...

We agree totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indian and Pakistani?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How will it increase awareness if it is private and secret?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's segregating at all

In fact I think it's being pro active and respecting the preference of many profiles on here that state 'no Indians'

Let's not pick at the wording of OP, and let's look at the essence of what he is trying to achieve

A place where you know people are happy to mingle with Indians, whatever their race. Is that such a bad thing to try and achieve ?

Thinking there is an element of racism involved is incorrect, the group is simply evolving within the boundaries we have been given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's segregating at all

In fact I think it's being pro active and respecting the preference of many profiles on here that state 'no Indians'

Let's not pick at the wording of OP, and let's look at the essence of what he is trying to achieve

A place where you know people are happy to mingle with Indians, whatever their race. Is that such a bad thing to try and achieve ?

Thinking there is an element of racism involved is incorrect, the group is simply evolving within the boundaries we have been given."

So are you saying the boundaries are encouraging segregation?

We have never seen anything suggesting that.

Or is this a dig at people who show a preference??

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence."

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Can we have one for cowboys too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have posted this in various threads for days. You only needed to post it once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??"

For people who appreciate a certain type of person isn't is it ?

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Can we have one for cowboys too ?"

sure go for it, but word it carefully and don't promote segregation to non cowboys (professionals)

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??

For people who appreciate a certain type of person isn't is it ?

Agree

If you like Asians join the group

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"OP you have posted this in various threads for days. You only needed to post it once "

Call it advertisement and marketing. If posted once it will be ignored and dismissed quite quickly, lol.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Indian and Pakistani?

Either, come and join in. Originally it was one country so it doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??

For people who appreciate a certain type of person isn't is it ?

This isn't showing appreciation, this is excluding all others but Asian people.

Sorry guys, but it is completely wrong to do so in our opinion.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??"

Everyone please calm down and stop making mountains out of mole hills.

No offence is intended to anyone of any race.

If you like Indians and want to get to know more, then participate, simples.

There are people contributing to the group who are not Indian. There is no segregation.

Like everything in life, its what you make of it...

You talk about race and segregation that's what you make it. Others make it a nice group to interact with and engage with others...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??

For people who appreciate a certain type of person isn't is it ?

Agree

If you like Asians join the group"

But didn't you say in your original post it is for Indian people??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was the OP who said it was mainly for Indian people, no one else.

By the way, you didn't answer our question. How many members do you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??

For people who appreciate a certain type of person isn't is it ?

Agree

If you like Asians join the group

But didn't you say in your original post it is for Indian people??"

And I'm sure you've read this thread numerous times to pick at every detail but seemed to have missed the many times OP stated it wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I'm trying to increase the awareness of Indians and swinging so I have started a private kik chat group.

It's private for security and discretion reasons.

Send me your kik ids and I will add you to the group.

It's predominantly for Indians. Reason being as there already established black man fan clubs etc, so this is for Indians. Nothing racial intended to please don't start with that....

The group is establishing with many ladies, couples and guys. Its a nice way to engage with fellow Indians to share and talk about thing with like minded people.

Regads

Roga "

Didn't need to pick too much really did we??

The OP CLEARLY says who the group is intended for.

Or did you not read what we did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing preferences do not cause offence it is merely making a personal choice, however requesting or suggesting segregation could easily cause a LOT of offence.

Completely agree which is why it's a good job this isn't requesting or suggesting segregation

Starting a group for a particular type of people is suggesting segregation isn't it??

For people who appreciate a certain type of person isn't is it ?

Agree

If you like Asians join the group

But didn't you say in your original post it is for Indian people??

And I'm sure you've read this thread numerous times to pick at every detail but seemed to have missed the many times OP stated it wasn't "

He stated twice it was for Indians

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"OP you have posted this in various threads for days. You only needed to post it once

Call it advertisement and marketing. If posted once it will be ignored and dismissed quite quickly, lol."

Just one thread is fine.

I removed the others because you kept posting the kik contact details and that isnt allowed in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like this was the reason we stopped using fab. There are plenty of bbw, bbc, vwe etc groups out there who are for those looking or are of them 'categories' so as your all throwing the word segregation around I would surely be right in thinking that that is also segregation?

People see no problems with that so why are you all making a mountain out of a mole hill over an Indian group?

Get of your high horses. If Indian groups isn't something of an interest to you then you have no need to comment.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Threads like this was the reason we stopped using fab. There are plenty of bbw, bbc, vwe etc groups out there who are for those looking or are of them 'categories' so as your all throwing the word segregation around I would surely be right in thinking that that is also segregation?

People see no problems with that so why are you all making a mountain out of a mole hill over an Indian group?

Get of your high horses. If Indian groups isn't something of an interest to you then you have no need to comment."

Thanks for the positivity and support. Thats exactly my point.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"OP you have posted this in various threads for days. You only needed to post it once

Call it advertisement and marketing. If posted once it will be ignored and dismissed quite quickly, lol.

Just one thread is fine.

I removed the others because you kept posting the kik contact details and that isnt allowed in the forums."

Thanks jezable much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people want to have a Kik group to socialise with a group that they quite fancy then that's fine by me. Don't see it any different to a group for Cuckolds or any other quirk be it racial or scene.

We would never join such a group though because we are equal opportunities swingers.

As long as your hot

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Hi

I'm trying to increase the awareness of Indians and swinging so I have started a private kik chat group.

It's private for security and discretion reasons.

Send me your kik ids and I will add you to the group.

It's predominantly for Indians. Reason being as there already established black man fan clubs etc, so this is for Indians. Nothing racial intended to please don't start with that....

The group is establishing with many ladies, couples and guys. Its a nice way to engage with fellow Indians to share and talk about thing with like minded people.

Regads

Roga "

OP change the word Indians for whites or Chinese and see how it would possibly be viewed..

if its not segregation its certainly going to look like one group potentially putting a barrier up..

respect that possibly not your intent..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People see no problems with that so why are you all making a mountain out of a mole hill over an Indian group?

Get of your high horses. If Indian groups isn't something of an interest to you then you have no need to comment."

Have we got this wrong?

Is this not a public forum where everyone can express their opinions?

Strange how someone can stop using Fab but still use it, isn't it?

However we all know that race is not a subject that should be used in dividing people. Well, most of us do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People see no problems with that so why are you all making a mountain out of a mole hill over an Indian group?

Get of your high horses. If Indian groups isn't something of an interest to you then you have no need to comment."

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Hi

I'm trying to increase the awareness of Indians and swinging so I have started a private kik chat group.

It's private for security and discretion reasons.

Send me your kik ids and I will add you to the group.

It's predominantly for Indians. Reason being as there already established black man fan clubs etc, so this is for Indians. Nothing racial intended to please don't start with that....

The group is establishing with many ladies, couples and guys. Its a nice way to engage with fellow Indians to share and talk about thing with like minded people.

Regads

Roga

Didn't need to pick too much really did we??

The OP CLEARLY says who the group is intended for.

Or did you not read what we did?"

Ok please reword for me hun, you seem to be good with words. I will use that next time i post. It would make it clearer for all in that case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my last message cause I suddenly realised I couldn't be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

Sorry to disappoint, Your zeros are incorrect. A little more faith please

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

Sorry to disappoint, Your zeros are incorrect. A little more faith please "

join in and find out yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People see no problems with that so why are you all making a mountain out of a mole hill over an Indian group?

Get of your high horses. If Indian groups isn't something of an interest to you then you have no need to comment.

Have we got this wrong?

Is this not a public forum where everyone can express their opinions?

Strange how someone can stop using Fab but still use it, isn't it?

However we all know that race is not a subject that should be used in dividing people. Well, most of us do."

What exactly are you implying?

And yes we did stop using fab for a couple of months thank you very much.

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah fuck! That's me out again then. I'm not even Indian. For crying out loud! All the time this happens to me.

Are there any preferences or filters that match me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

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wow yummy thought

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By *revisimoMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Would be interested in hearing more on this but only if you have a mix of people in the group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

Sorry to disappoint, Your zeros are incorrect. A little more faith please "

Well you lot have no faith there are women in there and couples so if you don't know stop presuming! I'm apart of the group as well!!

And for being racist there is a bbc group and women on here have no Asians as do so many couples! It's preference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I sign up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

Sorry to disappoint, Your zeros are incorrect. A little more faith please

Well you lot have no faith there are women in there and couples so if you don't know stop presuming! I'm apart of the group as well!!

And for being racist there is a bbc group and women on here have no Asians as do so many couples! It's preference!

Let's just be honest here. A preference refers to choices people make and which they are fully entitled to, just as we choose not to meet single men.

Having a group for only BBC, Asians etc, that is excluding people, not showing preferences is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I can see the point of this - but feel free to jump down my throat if you wish guys!

On women's/couples profiles there are MANY that specify whites only or blacks only - though i've yet to see one that says 'asians only' - but many, many that specify no asians!

If white and black guys have to jump through hoops to get meets - then Asian guys have to jump through hoops which have been set on fire to get theirs!

I can imagine that asians on fab can feel pretty isolated and unwanted - so why shouldn't they have a group which provides friendship and mutual support - whilst at the same time being part of the main body of fab?

If I were asian i'd certainly be interested! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

Sorry to disappoint, Your zeros are incorrect. A little more faith please

Well you lot have no faith there are women in there and couples so if you don't know stop presuming! I'm apart of the group as well!!

And for being racist there is a bbc group and women on here have no Asians as do so many couples! It's preference!

Let's see if the same people care to comment now the facts are there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I can see the point of this - but feel free to jump down my throat if you wish guys!

On women's/couples profiles there are MANY that specify whites only or blacks only - though i've yet to see one that says 'asians only' - but many, many that specify no asians!

If white and black guys have to jump through hoops to get meets - then Asian guys have to jump through hoops which have been set on fire to get theirs!

If I were asian i'd certainly be interested! Xx"

Thank you and your absolutely correct

To paraphrase with a little light hearted fun -

Please sir can we play football with you, you look like you're having so much fun - sorry mate no Indians

Ok, would you mind if we bought our own football and had a game somewhere else ?? - how bloody dare you even suggest such a thing, no shut up and keep watching our game that includes no Indians !!!!

Lol just a bit of fun, I'm sure somebody will take it in the manner it wasn't intended but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I can see the point of this - but feel free to jump down my throat if you wish guys!

On women's/couples profiles there are MANY that specify whites only or blacks only - though i've yet to see one that says 'asians only' - but many, many that specify no asians!

If white and black guys have to jump through hoops to get meets - then Asian guys have to jump through hoops which have been set on fire to get theirs!

If I were asian i'd certainly be interested! Xx

Thank you and your absolutely correct

To paraphrase with a little light hearted fun -

Please sir can we play football with you, you look like you're having so much fun - sorry mate no Indians

Ok, would you mind if we bought our own football and had a game somewhere else ?? - how bloody dare you even suggest such a thing, no shut up and keep watching our game that includes no Indians !!!!

Lol just a bit of fun, I'm sure somebody will take it in the manner it wasn't intended but hey ho"

what a load of crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I can see the point of this - but feel free to jump down my throat if you wish guys!

On women's/couples profiles there are MANY that specify whites only or blacks only - though i've yet to see one that says 'asians only' - but many, many that specify no asians!

If white and black guys have to jump through hoops to get meets - then Asian guys have to jump through hoops which have been set on fire to get theirs!

If I were asian i'd certainly be interested! Xx

Thank you and your absolutely correct

To paraphrase with a little light hearted fun -

Please sir can we play football with you, you look like you're having so much fun - sorry mate no Indians

Ok, would you mind if we bought our own football and had a game somewhere else ?? - how bloody dare you even suggest such a thing, no shut up and keep watching our game that includes no Indians !!!!

Lol just a bit of fun, I'm sure somebody will take it in the manner it wasn't intended but hey ho

what a load of crap "

Look guys it's a bit of fun so stop making a big issue! Choice or preference so what light hearted fun where all human white black Indian is it that big of a deal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I can see the point of this - but feel free to jump down my throat if you wish guys!

On women's/couples profiles there are MANY that specify whites only or blacks only - though i've yet to see one that says 'asians only' - but many, many that specify no asians!

If white and black guys have to jump through hoops to get meets - then Asian guys have to jump through hoops which have been set on fire to get theirs!

If I were asian i'd certainly be interested! Xx

Thank you and your absolutely correct

To paraphrase with a little light hearted fun -

Please sir can we play football with you, you look like you're having so much fun - sorry mate no Indians

Ok, would you mind if we bought our own football and had a game somewhere else ?? - how bloody dare you even suggest such a thing, no shut up and keep watching our game that includes no Indians !!!!

Lol just a bit of fun, I'm sure somebody will take it in the manner it wasn't intended but hey ho"

We like your comparison, by thinking someone is excluded from a game of football he then starts his own and promptly says he will exclude others?

Does either being excluded, or excluding others seem right to you??

If you are saying exclusion is right, then why moan about it?

Neither way gives a choice does it?

However people stating their preferences is all about choice.

There are plenty of profiles out there that do not exclude anyone so why not choose to contact them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow what is wrong with you lot its ok to have a bbc club but not a indian club lol everyone is different and like different things that is NOT racist ...jeeze the race card is play also many times on this forum... we meet whom we wanna meet and who we wanna meet only.. we could be called ageist for not meeting under 35s or not wanting to meet fake Barbie and ken type ..could go on all day so let the chap do as he please hes not harming anyone...oh and by the way no beards please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a load of crap

Look guys it's a bit of fun so stop making a big issue! Choice or preference so what light hearted fun where all human white black Indian is it that big of a deal! "

We agree totally.

Everyone should choose what they want, but putting posts on a Forum like this one, openly saying start groups that exclude others for any sort of reason but choice, well isn't that showing prejudice by excluding others because of race?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Indian and Pakistani?

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a load of crap

Look guys it's a bit of fun so stop making a big issue! Choice or preference so what light hearted fun where all human white black Indian is it that big of a deal!

We agree totally.

I said it before and I'll say it again the OP changed the interpretation of his original message subsequently but you keep avoiding those instances.

Maybe if the OP had put that common disclaimer 'it's not racist, just our preference so respect it' everything would've been ok ??

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"I guarantee a membership will be

5 males

0 cpls

0 fems

Sorry to disappoint, Your zeros are incorrect. A little more faith please

join in and find out yourself

Ganda / kuta /

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope that wasn't a money back guarantee as I'd be having my money back

They've proven it's not a Cockfest

Good on you guys and gals - I'd ignore the negativity

And lol at the hypocrisy of alienating/ segregation/ personal preference by the same people who clearly state 'W.E. D.O. N.O.T. M.E.E.T. S.I.N.G.L.E. G.U.Y.S!!' On their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope that wasn't a money back guarantee as I'd be having my money back

They've proven it's not a Cockfest

Good on you guys and gals - I'd ignore the negativity

And lol at the hypocrisy of alienating/ segregation/ personal preference by the same people who clearly state 'W.E. D.O. N.O.T. M.E.E.T. S.I.N.G.L.E. G.U.Y.S!!' On their profiles

Yes chap we do, personal choices and preferences, and we strongly support them.

What's up, you think people shouldn't have them? Or are you yet another guy who doesn't understand the difference between personal choices and public exclusions?

Our profile is our personal space on here where we make our choices. We don't bring our personal choices onto this public Forum and suggest creating exclusion groups do we??

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By *revisimoMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Can't mail the chap for the kik due to his settings. I'm Indian and would like to join the group, can any one help?

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Indian and Pakistani?

Good point "

Either, doesn't matter as it all used to one country originally

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Can't mail the chap for the kik due to his settings. I'm Indian and would like to join the group, can any one help? "

Anyone can mail me, I don't think there is block on it. Will check.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"I hope that wasn't a money back guarantee as I'd be having my money back

They've proven it's not a Cockfest

Good on you guys and gals - I'd ignore the negativity

Thanks for your positivity and support

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By *revisimoMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Yes, you've blocked males!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I see no harm in the OPs group. Too many people on here like to blow things out of proportion.

OP, I wish you luck with your group x

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"I see no harm in the OPs group. Too many people on here like to blow things out of proportion.

OP, I wish you luck with your group x"

Thanks for your support.

Only trying to help out others with the similar desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, can i kik you?

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By *revisimoMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Still waiting to hear something in this group....

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Still waiting to hear something in this group.... "

The group is growing well, lots of females and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any chance a white male could join? Ive really got a thing for asian girls and would love to meet some likeminded asian females!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the group inclusive of the third gender or those inclined towards it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh I can see the point of this - but feel free to jump down my throat if you wish guys!

On women's/couples profiles there are MANY that specify whites only or blacks only - though i've yet to see one that says 'asians only' - but many, many that specify no asians!

If white and black guys have to jump through hoops to get meets - then Asian guys have to jump through hoops which have been set on fire to get theirs!

If I were asian i'd certainly be interested! Xx"

In that case there are different sized hoops.

Black guys don't have the same difficulty as white guys, in fact I would say that black guys have it easier in comparison.

Groups of black males were not established due to any serious difficulty meeting with others, it was formed for those that enjoy group fun, greedy girls, gangbangs etc

I agree Asian males do experience more difficulty than others, there must be a reason for this.

I doubt very much Asian/black females have the same issue/complaint.

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Tbh I can see the point of this - but feel free to jump down my throat if you wish guys!

On women's/couples profiles there are MANY that specify whites only or blacks only - though i've yet to see one that says 'asians only' - but many, many that specify no asians!

If white and black guys have to jump through hoops to get meets - then Asian guys have to jump through hoops which have been set on fire to get theirs!

If I were asian i'd certainly be interested! Xx

In that case there are different sized hoops.

Black guys don't have the same difficulty as white guys, in fact I would say that black guys have it easier in comparison.

Groups of black males were not established due to any serious difficulty meeting with others, it was formed for those that enjoy group fun, greedy girls, gangbangs etc

I agree Asian males do experience more difficulty than others, there must be a reason for this.

I doubt very much Asian/black females have the same issue/complaint.

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for"

The foundations are being established, and there will be an event happening in the near future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for

The foundations are being established, and there will be an event happening in the near future."

We will all wait patiently and see then, won't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roga can't message you to add to group.

Take it you only take messages from females and couples and blocked the guys ??

Typical bloke!!

After the sex I guess ??!

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"Roga can't message you to add to group.

Take it you only take messages from females and couples and blocked the guys ??

Typical bloke!!

After the sex I guess ??!"

Can say the same, you didn't exactly contribute or bring anything to the group initially, when given the opportunity.

The group is completly mixed, males, females, single, couple.

However with most things on here it soon becomes a cock fest and people start hassling the ladies and couples.

Hence what appears to you as blocking guys. If a guy drops out they will be replaced. All about keeping things well balanced and in perspective.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for

The foundations are being established, and there will be an event happening in the near future.

We will all wait patiently and see then, won't we?"

Indeed, all good things come those who wait.

Shall put you on the guest in that case? VIP

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

People see no problems with that so why are you all making a mountain out of a mole hill over an Indian group?

Get of your high horses. If Indian groups isn't something of an interest to you then you have no need to comment."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for

The foundations are being established, and there will be an event happening in the near future.

We will all wait patiently and see then, won't we?

Indeed, all good things come those who wait.

Shall put you on the guest in that case? VIP"

Like we said, not doubting anyone in particular but we will patiently wait to see what develops.

A group where the spread of male/female is as it should be, and people are not excluded for silly reasons, we would happily consider.

So much has been said on these forums that end up as nothing so we look forward to reading about your progress.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for

The foundations are being established, and there will be an event happening in the near future.

We will all wait patiently and see then, won't we?

Indeed, all good things come those who wait.

Shall put you on the guest in that case? VIP

Like we said, not doubting anyone in particular but we will patiently wait to see what develops.

A group where the spread of male/female is as it should be, and people are not excluded for silly reasons, we would happily consider.

So much has been said on these forums that end up as nothing so we look forward to reading about your progress."

Indeed, ends up as nothing, as its mountains out of mole hills...

There is a mixed spread of males, females, couples and races. Nothing is segregated at all. Single gents are being limited as with all these things on here it would turn into a cock fest. Which would make the ladies and couples leave due to the hassling. Everything's equally balanced to keep everyone happy, (not an easy)

Please come and join in see the group and members and then make judgement.

Positivity and support is welcome.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

People see no problems with that so why are you all making a mountain out of a mole hill over an Indian group?

Get of your high horses. If Indian groups isn't something of an interest to you then you have no need to comment.

Thanks for the thumbs up and support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please come and join in see the group and members and then make judgement.

Positivity and support is welcome.

But only if you're a couple or a single female??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for

The foundations are being established, and there will be an event happening in the near future.

We will all wait patiently and see then, won't we?

Indeed, all good things come those who wait.

Shall put you on the guest in that case? VIP

Like we said, not doubting anyone in particular but we will patiently wait to see what develops.

A group where the spread of male/female is as it should be, and people are not excluded for silly reasons, we would happily consider.

So much has been said on these forums that end up as nothing so we look forward to reading about your progress.

Indeed, ends up as nothing, as its mountains out of mole hills...

Please come and join in see the group and members and then make judgement.

Positivity and support is welcome.

If you had spoke like this you would have had our full support (for what it is worth)!

However your initial words of a group exclusively for Asian people was just wrong in our humble opinion. There is enough labelling already in this world!

We know you tried to explain, but as we all know, whatever is said cannot be unsaid.

We look forward to seeing how it goes.

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

Please come and join in see the group and members and then make judgement.

Positivity and support is welcome.

But only if you're a couple or a single female??

No come and join us hun.

Pm me you kik contacts details, will add you to the group

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

If this type of group had any legs you would find this offered in clubs, after all clubs are not slow at providing an event that others want and will pay for

The foundations are being established, and there will be an event happening in the near future.

We will all wait patiently and see then, won't we?

Indeed, all good things come those who wait.

Shall put you on the guest in that case? VIP

Like we said, not doubting anyone in particular but we will patiently wait to see what develops.

A group where the spread of male/female is as it should be, and people are not excluded for silly reasons, we would happily consider.

So much has been said on these forums that end up as nothing so we look forward to reading about your progress.

Indeed, ends up as nothing, as its mountains out of mole hills...

Please come and join in see the group and members and then make judgement.

Positivity and support is welcome.

If you had spoke like this you would have had our full support (for what it is worth)!

However your initial words of a group exclusively for Asian people was just wrong in our humble opinion. There is enough labelling already in this world!

We know you tried to explain, but as we all know, whatever is said cannot be unsaid.

We look forward to seeing how it goes."

Thanks will keep you updated.

Ok, well what was said is in the past, hope you can join us and look to the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please come and join in see the group and members and then make judgement.

Positivity and support is welcome.

But only if you're a couple or a single female??

No come and join us hun.

Pm me you kik contacts details, will add you to the group"

Hun? It's a derogatory term in Scotland for a Rangers fan.

Re-read my post, my point was you said "please come and join in" to which I responded, only if you're a couple or a single female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lol if anyone is interested give me a mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not racially exclusive, I've been chatting in there for the last few days & everyone (yes, women and couples too) is very friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For gods sake... All the op is doing is starting a kik group for Asian/indian people!!! You join or you don't it as simple as that. If it was a group for the Irish,welsh or Scottish would people be making such a fuss.. Somehow I doubt it. If people take offence to this group then that Is there issue,why are we making amountain out of a mole hill.. I have said my piece so will now exit room right

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By *ogamuffin OP Man
over a year ago

slough

"For gods sake... All the op is doing is starting a kik group for Asian/indian people!!! You join or you don't it as simple as that. If it was a group for the Irish,welsh or Scottish would people be making such a fuss.. Somehow I doubt it. If people take offence to this group then that Is there issue,why are we making amountain out of a mole hill.. I have said my piece so will now exit room right"

Thanks for your positivity and support

As you can read in the above post its genuine group.

Pm me your kik id if you wish to join the group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw this thread stuck on 99 replies - I have OCD tendencies, I simply just had to bump it to 100

Nice rounded, stable number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for your positivity and support

As you can read in the above post its genuine group.

Pm me your kik id if you wish to join the group."

This should drive you crazy then 101 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think l will round up the cowboys and see if they want to join in too yeeeeeehaaaa! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asian girls are hot....that is all haha ??

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and I think we can leave it there now

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