FabSwingers.com forum: rules

By *ingersolo OP Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

When a couple swing and have set rules how do you handle it when one of you breaks them?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what was broken, how it was broken, who it was broken with etc...

If you have a relationship and sex life built on mutual trust, understanding and responsibility both parties have a duty to maintain it.

That said, dependant on the circumstances surrounding the rule breaking, the way to go about handling it could vary from sitting down, talking about it and accepting it was a one off heat of the moment thing, through to 'never darken my doorstep again ya bastard'

As always though, reasoned communication between the two parties is a pretty good starting point

By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We once had a couple meet us the male broke one of thier rules with us. The women got all stroppy and they argued. Slightly embarrasing and we ended up asking them to leave

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a couple swing and have set rules how do you handle it when one of you breaks them? "

We have guidelines rather than rules, we tend to stick to them pretty tightly, but if the circumstances call for it then they get temporarily ignored we then discuss if we want to permanently change them or not away from the cause of the change... mid shag is not the time for a discussion.

By *ingersolo OP Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

Thanks guys. I'm still new to swinging and finding my feet. X