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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i've just one question to ask for anyone here: does anyone have any worrys about doing bareback sex with there fb?

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There is already an ongoing thread about this. Probably best to have a look at that as it covers this area quite thoroughly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok ta for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually its a very good topic for discussion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes it is a good subject: if your with a fb and you know that person well enough, wont you trust them not to fuck anyone else till both of you are together and see who is sticking there dick in your female fb.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

As I've just said on the other thread, what someone does with their buddy/partner is completely their business, as long as they practice safe sex with everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

exactly what i'm trying to get across. shame others cant get the message into there head

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

So many people on here are judgemental, and enjoy spouting forth about things they know nothing about

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are fuckbuddy relationships exclusive? Do they conform to the (broadly understood) rules of other types of relationships?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"exactly what i'm trying to get across. shame others cant get the message into there head"

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I worry about with this is if someone is willing to go bare with me cause we have shagged a few times how many other people are they going bare with cause they class themselves as fuck buddies, some people have 2 or 3 fuck buddies are they playing bare with them all and who are their other fuck buddies willing to go bare with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I worry about with this is if someone is willing to go bare with me cause we have shagged a few times how many other people are they going bare with cause they class themselves as fuck buddies, some people have 2 or 3 fuck buddies are they playing bare with them all and who are their other fuck buddies willing to go bare with "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are fuckbuddy relationships exclusive? Do they conform to the (broadly understood) rules of other types of relationships?"

Like i said before if im going to choose to trust anyone it will be my husband who i have been with for over 30 years, and who i have proper feelings for than someone on a swingers site who likes to have sex with lots of other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I worry about with this is if someone is willing to go bare with me cause we have shagged a few times how many other people are they going bare with cause they class themselves as fuck buddies, some people have 2 or 3 fuck buddies are they playing bare with them all and who are their other fuck buddies willing to go bare with "

Precisely this, really - all about trust, and even then you'll never have control over anyone's health apart from your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are fuckbuddy relationships exclusive? Do they conform to the (broadly understood) rules of other types of relationships?"

My understanding of a fuck buddie is that they are just people you meet to fuck and have no say or input into your life, so if that person wants to meet others that's no business of your fuck buddies other wise surely that's a normal relationship if you have to run things by each other first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are fuckbuddy relationships exclusive? Do they conform to the (broadly understood) rules of other types of relationships?

My understanding of a fuck buddie is that they are just people you meet to fuck and have no say or input into your life, so if that person wants to meet others that's no business of your fuck buddies other wise surely that's a normal relationship if you have to run things by each other first "

Exactly, how can you compare a fuck buddy to a husband or wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you go gum clinic together first?

I've been with three different people in three different bloody clinics now to have the peace of mind to go naturally.

You need a good degree of trust in your buddy that their staying safe.....

Of course even if you play safe away from each other it doesent eliminate things that can reside in say the throat for instanc, eg chlamydia. Regular testing though will help with peace of mind and just have some common sense. Bb only really becomes dangerous when you don't give a fuck about yourself and drop all caution and don't take measures to stay safe.

We have the knowhow and the ability to stay pretty safe should we care to use it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people on here are judgemental, and enjoy spouting forth about things they know nothing about "

I think you will find that this is a prerequisite in order to post on forums. They would be very boring otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are fuckbuddy relationships exclusive? Do they conform to the (broadly understood) rules of other types of relationships?

My understanding of a fuck buddie is that they are just people you meet to fuck and have no say or input into your life, so if that person wants to meet others that's no business of your fuck buddies other wise surely that's a normal relationship if you have to run things by each other first "

I treat a fuckbuddy like a friend with benefits.....only in this case, you met through the benefits and the friendship came after....and as with any friend I run stuff by them that may effect them...its not in any way seeking or giving permission for anything, you just keep each other in the loop and have a bit of respect for one another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you go gum clinic together first?

I've been with three different people in three different bloody clinics now to have the peace of mind to go naturally.

You need a good degree of trust in your buddy that their staying safe.....

Of course even if you play safe away from each other it doesent eliminate things that can reside in say the throat for instanc, eg chlamydia. Regular testing though will help with peace of mind and just have some common sense. Bb only really becomes dangerous when you don't give a fuck about yourself and drop all caution and don't take measures to stay safe.

We have the knowhow and the ability to stay pretty safe should we care to use it..."

I just don't have that level of trust in anyone who just wants me for sex, you could go to the clinic and get the all clear but how do you know they haven't picked something up between meets, all because they was clean on that meet does not mean they will be on the next, if someone is willing to go bare with me I just refuse to believe they are not willing to go bare with others, why would someone wear condoms with everyone else but me? That just does not make sense of logic to me, people either wear condoms or they don't and I'm not nieive enough to believe any guy off here who tells me he wont go bare with anyone else just because we have met a few times before

Call me cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people on here are judgemental, and enjoy spouting forth about things they know nothing about "

I find it more odd that people aren't judgemental about certain things than can affect others. And there are always people who think they are right even if they aren't and sometimes they are right but others don't WANT to believe them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you go gum clinic together first?

I've been with three different people in three different bloody clinics now to have the peace of mind to go naturally.

You need a good degree of trust in your buddy that their staying safe.....

Of course even if you play safe away from each other it doesent eliminate things that can reside in say the throat for instanc, eg chlamydia. Regular testing though will help with peace of mind and just have some common sense. Bb only really becomes dangerous when you don't give a fuck about yourself and drop all caution and don't take measures to stay safe.

We have the knowhow and the ability to stay pretty safe should we care to use it...

I just don't have that level of trust in anyone who just wants me for sex, you could go to the clinic and get the all clear but how do you know they haven't picked something up between meets, all because they was clean on that meet does not mean they will be on the next, if someone is willing to go bare with me I just refuse to believe they are not willing to go bare with others, why would someone wear condoms with everyone else but me? That just does not make sense of logic to me, people either wear condoms or they don't and I'm not nieive enough to believe any guy off here who tells me he wont go bare with anyone else just because we have met a few times before

Call me cynical "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you go gum clinic together first?

I've been with three different people in three different bloody clinics now to have the peace of mind to go naturally.

You need a good degree of trust in your buddy that their staying safe.....

Of course even if you play safe away from each other it doesent eliminate things that can reside in say the throat for instanc, eg chlamydia. Regular testing though will help with peace of mind and just have some common sense. Bb only really becomes dangerous when you don't give a fuck about yourself and drop all caution and don't take measures to stay safe.

We have the knowhow and the ability to stay pretty safe should we care to use it...

I just don't have that level of trust in anyone who just wants me for sex, you could go to the clinic and get the all clear but how do you know they haven't picked something up between meets, all because they was clean on that meet does not mean they will be on the next, if someone is willing to go bare with me I just refuse to believe they are not willing to go bare with others, why would someone wear condoms with everyone else but me? That just does not make sense of logic to me, people either wear condoms or they don't and I'm not nieive enough to believe any guy off here who tells me he wont go bare with anyone else just because we have met a few times before

Call me cynical "

That's a fair enough viewpoint, I can't really argue

Of all the people I've met, I've been lucky enough to form a close enough bond with three of them, enough that I trust them, with good reason, to be down the line with me. I know they test as we always go together so I'm prepared to put that little bit of trust in someone else's hands if I feel they're worthy of it, as they do me.......

There are sill holes in any net of precautonary measures, so I don't blame you for keeping yours to a minimum. Especially in not believing us guys....we'd say anything us sneaky little rat bastards

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