FabSwingers.com forum: Sexy things to wear?

By *exyangietgirl OP TV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

As I'm a fully dressing TV, maybe I appreciate more than most how sexy ladies' clothes are and I was wondering what everyone thinks is sexy to wear for flirting, attracting and playing.

If real girls are honest, then they realise how girls' things are designed to look and feel sexy.

I know how sexy it makes me feel changing into lovely lingerie and silky nylons and it certainly seems to turn others on too.

So, come on everyone, what do you like to wear or what do you like to see partners wearing?

Angie XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before we got into swinging,we always used to say that it was a pity more women didn't dress like T.V's.

They seemed to have a better "sexy" dress sense than a lot of women.

They dressed,for the most part,like men want to see women dressed.

Probably because they were men and knew how they liked women to dress,obviously we're talking about the straight or bi T.V's here.

We said at the begining "before we got into swinging".Thats because we see a lot more women now wearing stockings,heels,thigh boots short skirts etc,not because our opinions of T.V's dress sense has changed.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny this should crop up...

We find some, not all think if they wear something they are told or think is sexy then its sexy... not always lol. Its not always the case that what is said to be sexy .. is sexy on all!

Mrs Notts can look God awful in some stuff, stuff others would say is dead horny but not on her.. Its like some women can look fantastic in a bin bag..

Sometimes, the 'right' stuff on any woman makes a massive difference.. some can carry a 'look' well where as others can't maybe.. Each woman needs to find what suits her..

Now we have found women who think because we like nice lingerie.. they sort of pop into tesco's on their way over and pick up a pair of one size fits all stockings.. Now, on some women they would look great.. on others they look like a pair of one size fits all pair of stockings lol... If that makes any sense at all..

Find what suits you we say...

And with that, shut up lol.

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

"Before we got into swinging,we always used to say that it was a pity more women didn't dress like T.V's.

They seemed to have a better "sexy" dress sense than a lot of women.

They dressed,for the most part,like men want to see women dressed.

Probably because they were men and knew how they liked women to dress.

XXXX"

We couldn`t agree more, but have you thought of the reasons why?

We have found that any sort of public display that isn`t a twin set and pearls is met with severe chastising by some women! We speak from our own experience by the way.

It would appear that most men like to see females dress to impress, but I for one feel that the negative attention it brings from other women means most of the time I don`t.

Mr Lovers thinks that its a defence mechanism for some women to "slate" a sexy look in public and on the whole self defeating ( wear something nice - get a negative reaction - next time you dress down more than you would do normally )

He also feels that men are too scared to say anything about a womens appearance in this modern society for fear of it being a case for sexual harassment!!!

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Now we have found women who think because we like nice lingerie.. they sort of pop into tesco's on their way over and pick up a pair of one size fits all stockings.Now, on some women they would look great.. on others they look like a pair of one size fits all pair of stockings lol... If that makes any sense at all..

And with that, shut up lol.

I think thats a problem with any "one size fits all products" - THEY DON`T

How Mr Lovers wished they did...he spends countless hours trying to find nice things in the right size for me!

Stockings are a particular problem as they are becoming rare to find in proper sizes ( hence he buys them in bulk whenever possible )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do find i look absolutely stupid in some "sexy" things.

and find it difficult finding nice stuff that impresses rather than i become the laughing stock!!!

i do like chemises etc , something that skims rather than clings. but highlights the bits you want highlighting

so if any of our "fabulous" ladies know of anywhere i can get stuff ?

lead the way please.

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By *ebbie59TV/TS
over a year ago

Bury

It all depends what Style you want to portray.

I have a varied wardrobe & think I look gorgeous in anything I wear.

Stockings with seams certainly attracts the Guys,but you can still catch the eye even with a pair of Holdups.

If your comfortable wearing Heels then the Higher the better,try a pair of 5inch Heels,I adore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooooo hello debs welcome to fabs lol hope i got it right donna xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before we got into swinging,we always used to say that it was a pity more women didn't dress like T.V's.

They seemed to have a better "sexy" dress sense than a lot of women.

They dressed,for the most part,like men want to see women dressed.

Probably because they were men and knew how they liked women to dress.

XXXX

We couldn`t agree more, but have you thought of the reasons why?

We have found that any sort of public display that isn`t a twin set and pearls is met with severe chastising by some women! We speak from our own experience by the way.

It would appear that most men like to see females dress to impress, but I for one feel that the negative attention it brings from other women means most of the time I don`t.

He also feels that men are too scared to say anything about a womens appearance in this modern society for fear of it being a case for sexual harassment!!!

Absolutely,know exactly what you mean. It sometimes gets that a sexily dressed woman daren't go to the toilet alone when they're out, for fear of jealous women.

Yes most men do like to see women dressed to impress but many are too scared of their womens reactions to say so.

We personaly have been out and Ric has seen a guy get a smack across the face because he apparently eyed me up as I walked past.How can guys go with women like that let alone stay with them?

There are times when I'm getting ready to go out with the girls and Ric will say "Be carefull what you wear" incase some loony woman throws a wobbler.

If they know thats what their guys like,buy some heels and tight dresses and get a life.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latex and 8" heels.

I wear it for me, if the other person likes it, its a bonus.

Men....hmmmm would have to be latex from head to foot lol

But then if you dress for you, and feel sexy then it shows. If you put it on for someone else and dont feel comfortable it will also show.

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over a year ago

I always dress for me and don't give shit what others think..... I love dressing up especially for clubs,heels stockings,corsets ect It means I can express myself exactly how I want....its great and it makes me feel wonderful which is a good thing lol

As for men,mine is not very adventurous so will always be smart casual.....it was bad enough trying to get him to go in fancy dress to the Rocky Horror Picture Show let alond dress for clubs so as long as he feels comfy Im not worried xx

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over a year ago

"I always dress for me and don't give shit what others think..... I love dressing up especially for clubs,heels stockings,corsets ect It means I can express myself exactly how I want....its great and it makes me feel wonderful which is a good thing lol

Mrs Notts enjoys many outfits... Nylons, seamed etc being her fav, corsetry etc...

Mr Notts here... Is now experimenting with speedo's and gaffer tape...

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over a year ago

Mrs Notts enjoys many outfits... Nylons, seamed etc being her fav, corsetry etc...

Mr Notts here... Is now experimenting with speedo's and gaffer tape..."

oh? whos the gaffer tape for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The beach party lol...

Lots of it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well as ive only got a small mouth..you wont need much for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its to keep the speedo's well and truly fixed in place lol... rumours are rife that those nutters have a plan lol... Pahhhhh

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