FabSwingers.com forum: The paradox of being a cuckold

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If like me you have cuckold fantasies that you want to live out with your partner then you are going to need to learn patience and will definitely learn what frustration means but then thats what you want isnt it? This is the paradox. You want frustration but sometimes its not the right type. You want her to be denying you but you still want her to get sexy with you. You want her to make decisions about your sex life but what if it doesn't include your gratification. If anyone wants me to I thought I could share some of my experiences on here and my thoughts and feelings about the events. I will of course change the names and locations but I'm happy to be honest open and answer any questions on the forum.

Me, early 40s rugged looking guy, very masculine but have long had sub and bisexual thoughts and feelings. The odd fumble but generally straight and active. Utterly faithful to my wife since we married. But increasingly obsessed with her fucking and being with other men particularly BBCs and my own submission and forced bi/sissy experiences

She late 30s stunning, clever, very sexual and initially puzzled and concerned over my transformation from alpha male to submissive perve who seems to get hard when she kicks him in the nuts. But definately, intregued and really turned on by thick cocks.

Anyhow if you'd like to know let me know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which way will it go?

We have been swinging for about 10 years although by no means hardened but over the last 5 our play has been mainly cuckolding and meeting BBCs. Recently we have met a group into BDSM and my wife has really got into her submissive side with others and started to Dom me. She has also spent the night alone with a guy we have played with before. He has a huge very thick cock which she loves. He is also very attractive and has a very cool flat in London. Add to this that he really likes her and is now single again and you can see where this might lead. I feel on tenterhooks and nervous as to whether I should stop this dangerous game or support it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is cuckold?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is cuckold?"

Essentially when a woman sleeps with men other than her husband but he is faithful to her. In our case the husband is somewhat humiliated by the wife, dommed by her, balls busted etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a cuckold can be a complete mind fuck and if honest you can understand why some couples struggle with the whole thing.

Personally we have done a lot now and each passing year my hubby becomes more keen for me to seek pleasure elsewhere to the point I could easily deny him completely and he would accept it.

My problem is I don't want to lose respect for hubby and if I let the whole cuckold thing take over then that is a genuine risk.

Fucking young hot guys with hubby watching and videoing seems to be where we are for now although it won't take much for him to cleaning if i demanded it and probably a lot more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sophiestication, I can't begin to describe how sexy your relationship with your husband is. He's a very lucky boy!

I wish more women were into cuckolding the way that you describe. It's such a turn on for me and so many other men out there.

I'm single for now but hopefully I'll be in a cuckold relationship myself some day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kinkybugger69, I totally get where you're coming from, particularly with the black men thing. Seeing my girl getting pleasure from someone so much more sexually desirable than me and knowing I can't compete is an incredible turn on. Seeing a woman get fucked by muscular, well hung black men is just a beautiful thing. I think more and more men are beginning to love being cuckolded. I love how it's all about the woman's pleasure - she's in control and fucks who she wants, but her husband remains loyal to her and looks on while she plays with black men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuckolding isnt just about being humiliated! some enjoy seeing their partners pleasured by other men not in a humiliating way but more of a friendship fun way were all are having fun. There's so much to this word that has been discussed plenty of times

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

You will probably end up in chastity and used by other guys,no this is not fantasy it is fact from a time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, I'm not totally naive. Not all cuckold relationships are going to be as black and white as I described. It is a turn on for me though that some will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cuckolding isnt just about being humiliated! some enjoy seeing their partners pleasured by other men not in a humiliating way but more of a friendship fun way were all are having fun. There's so much to this word that has been discussed plenty of times"

Of course it's not... Cuckolding can cover a whole host of things a wife might do with another person with hubby's permission, humilation never needs to play a part but in our experience the more a couple go down this road the more this plays a part... each to their own of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree with you both here. Cuckoldry can just be a game, role play the same as pimp and whore or swapping partners but for some it connects with the dynamic of the relationship. I think that is the case for us. The fact that my wife plays with others but I don't works with both our feelings and fears about swinging. The femdom aspect of this even more so. Whilst I am a big, gruff, noisy and forthright guy in my working life, cuckoldry in our relationship bring balance to this. The humiliation aspect is harder to trace. I won't go into my entire history here but I have experienced being cuckolded and humiliated before but in a non fantasy way. Unpleasant and embarrassing at the time but these experiences shapes our ongoing sexuality.

My point is that for us the more extreme the act of cuckoldry the more it chimes with our sexuality and I wonder how far this will go. Someone mentioned chastity and that is certainly something we have discussed and played with, sissyfication and forced bi experience also. All this will depend on my wife's relationship with her lover. It could mean I just get dropped.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I am always interested in knowing the thoughts of genuine cuckold couples as opposed to those still at the "I'd love to see my wife being fucked by another man" stage

I have been swinging on and off for years and quite literally had no idea of the cuckold element that has played a part of it. Talk about hidden in plain site lol

Anyway, since embracing the lifestyle as a Dom Bull it has been a source of frustration for me too but in different ways.

The more my desire grows for Being a Bull as a lifestyle as opposed to role-play the more challenging it becomes. For want of a better word, finding the right couple to "OWN" is a very tricky process as so much more needs to be taken into account before taking such a big step.

On the plus side. The search is rather fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am always interested in knowing the thoughts of genuine cuckold couples as opposed to those still at the "I'd love to see my wife being fucked by another man" stage

I have been swinging on and off for years and quite literally had no idea of the cuckold element that has played a part of it. Talk about hidden in plain site lol

Anyway, since embracing the lifestyle as a Dom Bull it has been a source of frustration for me too but in different ways.

On the plus side. The search is rather fun

A 'genuine' Cuckold couple do not have to be owned to be exactly that... we are genuine... I fuck other men but NOT my husband who all he ever gets to do is have me sit on his face and tell him about my experiences... We have done this now for maybe 8 years with the last three him maybe only twice being inside me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am always interested in knowing the thoughts of genuine cuckold couples as opposed to those still at the "I'd love to see my wife being fucked by another man" stage

I have been swinging on and off for years and quite literally had no idea of the cuckold element that has played a part of it. Talk about hidden in plain site lol

Anyway, since embracing the lifestyle as a Dom Bull it has been a source of frustration for me too but in different ways.

On the plus side. The search is rather fun

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id love to be the bull but do u need to be vwe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am always interested in knowing the thoughts of genuine cuckold couples as opposed to those still at the "I'd love to see my wife being fucked by another man" stage

I have been swinging on and off for years and quite literally had no idea of the cuckold element that has played a part of it. Talk about hidden in plain site lol

Anyway, since embracing the lifestyle as a Dom Bull it has been a source of frustration for me too but in different ways.

On the plus side. The search is rather fun

do you at least blow him time to time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you at least blow him time to time ?

No def not... the bulls I take yes of course, hubby never and he knows that is the case and actually now never begs for this... he totally understands his place and his pleasure comes from watching me get fucked and wanking off after licking my pussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

do you at least blow him time to time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...but there has to still be some form of contact."

Not always necessary... I have met bulls on my own and brought home the video for hubby to wank over (i have been too sore to do anything more)... no contact took place but hubby needs to be assured there I love him and emotional contact is far more important to him/us than sexual

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

do you at least blow him time to time ?

From the hubby's point of view the denial is a big thrill but very closely linked to sexual contact in some form. That could be cleaning up or it could be as little as wanking when told we can or even a kick in the nuts just as you're cumming but there has to still be some form of contact."
It's great to hear the cucks side of it. I find chatting to both the wife and cuck is essential and helps with ensuring all involved (bull, cuck and wife) get what they are looking for from the relationship. Cheers J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...but there has to still be some form of contact.

and you don't want to have sex with the man you love ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think there needs to be a name label for the wife, as you have bull and cuck.

What's the wife called in this sort of relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there needs to be a name label for the wife, as you have bull and cuck.

What's the wife called in this sort of relationship? "

Hot wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...but there has to still be some form of contact.

and you don't want to have sex with the man you love ? "

That's not really the question for me the wife, the question is more relevant to hubby and his answer would be he is not worthy anymore I expect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...but there has to still be some form of contact.

I would define that as contact. It doesn't have to be physical, sexual mental contact can be far more intense. What interests me is how far can that be taken and still satisfy wife, cuckold and bull? If the bull and the wife really connect sexually for many cucks that would be very powerful but it would potentially mean less 'contact' for him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think there needs to be a name label for the wife, as you have bull and cuck.

What's the wife called in this sort of relationship?

Hot wife

I prefer cuckoldress when that is a part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remind me to comment later on, when I'm sober.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I think there needs to be a name label for the wife, as you have bull and cuck.

What's the wife called in this sort of relationship?

Hot wife

I prefer cuckoldress when that is a part of it"
I think cuckolddress sounds good. How long have you been a cuck? Did you always have a strong sub side or desire to please? Be great to chat if you fancy it. message me if you do. Cheers J

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think there needs to be a name label for the wife, as you have bull and cuck.

What's the wife called in this sort of relationship?

Hot wife

Even if the wife is average? Luke warm wife? Mildly interesting wife?

Hotwife, Cuck and Bull....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there needs to be a name label for the wife, as you have bull and cuck.

What's the wife called in this sort of relationship?

Hot wife

I prefer cuckoldress when that is a part of it"

Each to their own... I know hubby prefers me as hot wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Totally agree the mind games can be intense and they can get to the cuck in a big way...

There is a fine line here though between connection between the bull and the wife... you have to try and ensure it remains on a sexual level only as anything more risks the love the hubby and wife have for each other.

For us this is all about hot sex, after I have played with a bull he can go home or wherever as long term hubby is all that is important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am always interested in knowing the thoughts of genuine cuckold couples as opposed to those still at the "I'd love to see my wife being fucked by another man" stage

I have been swinging on and off for years and quite literally had no idea of the cuckold element that has played a part of it. Talk about hidden in plain site lol

Anyway, since embracing the lifestyle as a Dom Bull it has been a source of frustration for me too but in different ways.

On the plus side. The search is rather fun

That might just be down to the fact that you've got a little bit of a wrong impression as to what cuckolding is? Its not your fault though seeing there is sooooo many aspects and to get to the deeper levels sometimes you have to take a long and patient journey.

Ginger for instance does love an alpha male type but she couldn't submit to one and good luck on any man who tries. Submitting to someone takes trust that they will have your best interests in mind even if they're the one in control which doesn't come over night. Some couples prefer something more akin to a "lover" then a "bull" which to be honest is an ugly word that might scare off some genuine cuckold couples.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

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Totally agree the mind games can be intense and they can get to the cuck in a big way...

For us this is all about hot sex, after I have played with a bull he can go home or wherever as long term hubby is all that is important to me"
I think this sums up cuckolding so well. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite like wife having a lover...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Quite like wife having a lover...

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I think it takes a really strong couple and a couple who both really understand what they want from a cuckold relationship to go down the route of a lover. It is one thing having a bull for sex but a lover can cross the line but every couple is different and what works for one couple might be completely not what another couple wants. The key to successful cuckolding is communications and the fun is finding out what each of ye want along the way. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite like wife having a lover...

I think it takes a really strong couple and a couple who both really understand what they want from a cuckold relationship to go down the route of a lover. It is one thing having a bull for sex but a lover can cross the line but every couple is different and what works for one couple might be completely not what another couple wants. The key to successful cuckolding is communications and the fun is finding out what each of ye want along the way. J "

Well said that man!

Communication is key... a lover is a nice fantasy BUT it could be the end of a marriage if your not careful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my wife told me she'd been making love with her regular guy, not just fucking I came without touching my cock...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Quite like wife having a lover...

Well said that man!

Communication is key... a lover is a nice fantasy BUT it could be the end of a marriage if your not careful!"
Cheers. Ye seem to have it well worked out. I'm sure it took a while to get to where ye are today. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When my wife told me she'd been making love with her regular guy, not just fucking I came without touching my cock..."

An intense mind fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Cheers. Ye seem to have it well worked out. I'm sure it took a while to get to where ye are today. J "

8 years of practice

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"When my wife told me she'd been making love with her regular guy, not just fucking I came without touching my cock..."
See..every cuckold couple is different and ye must both know exactly what ye want and what suits both your needs. J

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

" Cheers. Ye seem to have it well worked out. I'm sure it took a while to get to where ye are today. J

8 years of practice

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And I bet there were some bumpy parts along the way but still 8 years of great fun no doubt.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If the right situation arose I would definately take a cuckold. I have been close a few times but I want the exact right personality fit between my cuck and me.

Time will tell.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"If the right situation arose I would definately take a cuckold. I have been close a few times but I want the exact right personality fit between my cuck and me.

Time will tell."
Exactly everything needs to right for it work. Best of luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Totally agree the mind games can be intense and they can get to the cuck in a big way...

For us this is all about hot sex, after I have played with a bull he can go home or wherever as long term hubby is all that is important to me I think this sums up cuckolding so well. J "

I think the point they so eloquently make is that cuckolding can't be summed up. It is what it is for each and they're own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When my wife told me she'd been making love with her regular guy, not just fucking I came without touching my cock..."

This is a very powerful experience.

I also get off on the verbal and physical abuse from my cuckoldress and her lover when we are all together

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

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Totally agree the mind games can be intense and they can get to the cuck in a big way...

For us this is all about hot sex, after I have played with a bull he can go home or wherever as long term hubby is all that is important to me I think this sums up cuckolding so well. J

I think the point they so eloquently make is that cuckolding can't be summed up. It is what it is for each and they're own"
True. What I meant was this sums up my ideal cuckold couple. J

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"When my wife told me she'd been making love with her regular guy, not just fucking I came without touching my cock...

This is a very powerful experience.

I also get off on the verbal and physical abuse from my cuckoldress and her lover when we are all together"
Sounds great. The dom/sub/humiliation side of cuckolding is very powerful and one that really appeal to my dom side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only take humiliation from my wife.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I can only take humiliation from my wife."
Really? Have you tried it from your bull / lover? Just not something you or your wife like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when it's been tried it just makes me angry. especially from a "bull" who I don't feel is my better physically or intellectually.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"when it's been tried it just makes me angry. especially from a "bull" who I don't feel is my better physically or intellectually."
I see. And does your wife ever tempt or tease you by getting your bull to be dominant towards you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. she knows a punch in the face often offends.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"No. she knows a punch in the face often offends."
Haha.. it sure does and sounds like she knows the limits very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest though we're not really looking for that kind of guy. a lover not a fighter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I also get off on the verbal and physical abuse from my cuckoldress and her lover when we are all together Sounds great. The dom/sub/humiliation side of cuckolding is very powerful and one that really appeal to my dom side. "

I have been made to wank off in the bath as my wife directs her boyfriends piss on me. Mind blowing especially when they leave me there to go for round two. Knowing that an act like that has turned your wife on can be very intense

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Totally agree the mind games can be intense and they can get to the cuck in a big way...

For us this is all about hot sex, after I have played with a bull he can go home or wherever as long term hubby is all that is important to me I think this sums up cuckolding so well. J

I think the point they so eloquently make is that cuckolding can't be summed up. It is what it is for each and they're own"

Of course... My point is any couple where the wife takes a lover have to be sure that is where they want to go... Again communication has to be clear, understood by everyone and everyone knowing the implications... If it then works for a couple great but for others it has ended marriages... Just read on cuckoldplace where the rare poster has explained the ethos be careful what you wish for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Totally agree the mind games can be intense and they can get to the cuck in a big way...

For us this is all about hot sex, after I have played with a bull he can go home or wherever as long term hubby is all that is important to me I think this sums up cuckolding so well. J

I think the point they so eloquently make is that cuckolding can't be summed up. It is what it is for each and they're own

Totally agree, non of this works without honesty, openness and a willingness to discuss 'what if?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the what if conversations that turn us on the most!

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

"I am always interested in knowing the thoughts of genuine cuckold couples as opposed to those still at the "I'd love to see my wife being fucked by another man" stage

I have been swinging on and off for years and quite literally had no idea of the cuckold element that has played a part of it. Talk about hidden in plain site lol

Anyway, since embracing the lifestyle as a Dom Bull it has been a source of frustration for me too but in different ways.

On the plus side. The search is rather fun

That sounds delicious. Yes there are variations that is what makes cuckolding so interesting and that's exactly why I used the term "for want of a better word". I see cuckolding as a fetish lifestyle and similar to a sub dom relationship a good Dom understand that he only has the power freely given too him by the sub. In my case were I ever to OWN a couple by my take on things I would be the only Dom Bull they are seeing and they would be the only couple that I would be seeing for that period of time. However long that might be for.

I wouldn't even try to own a cuckoldress on a different journey from mine. When I meet a cuckoldress with your mindset I just team up with her when humiliating her hubby. One of the many thing I enjoy doing on this journey of mine

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

"I am always interested in knowing the thoughts of genuine cuckold couples as opposed to those still at the "I'd love to see my wife being fucked by another man" stage

I have been swinging on and off for years and quite literally had no idea of the cuckold element that has played a part of it. Talk about hidden in plain site lol

Anyway, since embracing the lifestyle as a Dom Bull it has been a source of frustration for me too but in different ways.

On the plus side. The search is rather fun

Just like the term BBC, Bull can mean different things to different people. I always find it is best never to assume anything about the couples I meet because they are all so different. Some like the Bull be be more like a lover other only want to encounter a brutish thuggish Bull that won't even kiss, other like something in between. Its all about communication to iron out misunderstanding that can lead to a dull or unpleasant encounter.

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By *ub_boiMan
over a year ago

manchester

You truly are the perfect cuckoldress. I kneel at your feet, you beautiful Goddess

[No def not... the bulls I take yes of course, hubby never and he knows that is the case and actually now never begs for this... he totally understands his place and his pleasure comes from watching me get fucked and wanking off after licking my pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You truly are the perfect cuckoldress. I kneel at your feet, you beautiful Goddess

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like to see me(Linda) fucked by aBBC bull! I cum so hard and it is much better for both of us with some humiliation!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"We both like to see me(Linda) fucked by aBBC bull! I cum so hard and it is much better for both of us with some humiliation!"
For me the perfect cuckold couple like some degree of humiliation / submission. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like an ego trip for the "bull"?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Sounds like an ego trip for the "bull"?"
or maybe it just appeals to the bulls dom side?

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Sophie you seem to have the perfect cuckold relationship

We had a few encounters before in past and a full time lover but we have been away frim scene a while and looking to get back into it and hopefully be in same posistion we were years ago x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the paradox? I have played with several cuckold couples (cuck to varying degrees). It is their choice their enjoyment....and I have been happy to adapt and to cater for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where is the paradox? I have played with several cuckold couples (cuck to varying degrees). It is their choice their enjoyment....and I have been happy to adapt and to cater for them!"

Of course there is a paradox, the feeling of jealously and angst a Cuck feels when watching his wife being pleasured by another is not to be underestimated...

Some cucks can easily deal with these feelings, some struggle for a while and feel bad after the event that they didn't stop it but eventually the feeling of wanting to be cucked again comes back while some others find the knot in the stomach feeling part of the whole experience

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

I struggle with those feelings but usualy after a few days to a week they go away

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Where is the paradox? I have played with several cuckold couples (cuck to varying degrees). It is their choice their enjoyment....and I have been happy to adapt and to cater for them!

Of course there is a paradox, the feeling of jealously and angst a Cuck feels when watching his wife being pleasured by another is not to be underestimated...

You appear to have a very similar relationship to us. x

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By *azz_JazzCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

The beauty is the couple understanding what each wants and gets from the dynamic! For me being denied only means I want her more, I then become more attentive to her but she takes another! Then the re connect is the intensifying, the sitting on his face, Sophistication mentions is just intensifying things further she and her husband clearly understand each other perfectly but by the same token its done to bring them closer! It has made beautiful reading this thread - a very happy and prosperous new year to you all!

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over a year ago

Definatley! My lad just loves to see me get fucked! I dont abuse him in any way, he just loves to watch and i get so turned on the fact he loves it that it make me get into it more and dont hold back! Afterwards the sex between us is just amazing! The best its ever been! X

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over a year ago

"The beauty is the couple understanding what each wants and gets from the dynamic! For me being denied only means I want her more, I then become more attentive to her but she takes another! Then the re connect is the intensifying, the sitting on his face, Sophistication mentions is just intensifying things further she and her husband clearly understand each other perfectly but by the same token its done to bring them closer! It has made beautiful reading this thread - a very happy and prosperous new year to you all! "

I have to say hubby's love for me seems to grow each passing day since we entered into the hot wife lifestyle.

It has taken many years to get to understand each other's needs and desires and even today communication is vital.

Last night is a great example, we go to CJ's for Hogmanay and hubby arranged a young guy as my date for the night!

This young guy is hot as fcuk and hubby knows he could never compete with him body wise etc but I love my hubby not the guy.

He is only the object of my desire for one night and 8 hours later after he has fucked me three going on four times with hubby watching we have to talk to each other during the day to today so hubby can fully understand my thoughts and analyse and be clear for me it was only ever about hot sex nothing more.

I have to reassure hubby so he fully buys into the idea I need this young guy back again!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Definatley! My lad just loves to see me get fucked! I dont abuse him in any way, he just loves to watch and i thiget so turned on the fact he loves it that it make me get into it more and dont hold back! Afterwards the sex between us is just amazing! The best its ever been! X"

I think this is more our thing. Denial for a night. Not for a year. To us it's a game not a lifestyle. So other times we prefer to swing together.

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By *azz_JazzCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Amazing stuff Sophistication! Thank you for sharing!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Iv was in a cuck relationship for years and its different for everybody,i was never denied sex but only cause she wanted to fuck me,like everything about a cuck relationship,it was her choice.

For me the humiliation came from watching her lusting after certain hot studs,when she got hot for a guy she was constantly on fone to him and she would be so horny coming up to meeting him,i knew when we were fuckin she was thinking of him

there are no real rules to cuckolding,once you hand over control to your woman and give her complete freedom while being completely faithful to her you are a cuckold,the rest,like cleaning up and humiliation and chastity,isn't essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...there are no real rules to cuckolding,once you hand over control to your woman and give her complete freedom while being completely faithful to her you are a cuckold,the rest,like cleaning up and humiliation and chastity,isn't essential."

Totally, as rules are only there to be broken by her the wife... a good idea though to have a safe word or something that highlights when things have the potential to get out of hand

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Some really great cuckold cpls and stories here. Thank you all for sharing. J

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Totally, as rules are only there to be broken by her the wife... a good idea though to have a safe word or something that highlights when things have the potential to get out of hand"

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Totally, as rules are only there to be broken by her the wife... a good idea though to have a safe word or something that highlights when things have the potential to get out of hand

the first time she fell for a guy i felt weird about it,i told her and asked can we move onto next guy,and she went nuts,told me i wanted to be a cuckold so be 1 and suck it up. And i did.there is no paradox,you're either a cuckold or you're not "
Do ye still see each other or has she another cuck? Would like to get back in to a cuckold relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, as rules are only there to be broken by her the wife... a good idea though to have a safe word or something that highlights when things have the potential to get out of hand

A cuckold relationship is similar in way to a dom/sub even without the extras added on like humiliation, feminisation, forced bi etc. Both care about each other and won't do something to hurt the other. A cuckold relationship the deal is the same even if and more importantly so you choose to make it a lifestyle choice.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Totally, as rules are only there to be broken by her the wife... a good idea though to have a safe word or something that highlights when things have the potential to get out of hand

Well in that case I'm not.

Our marriage and our friendship come before any sexual kink.

If I felt she was being unreasonable or visa versa then I'd stop all sex before risking or relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs N knows and accepts I am a cuck boy. I have told her numerous times but she finds it very difficult to accept he position as an adored hot wife. Although we do what I would describe as cucky type things she finds it difficult to fulfil the role. For example I usually have to ask if we can do certain things like for me to leave the room so that she can have private time alone with the guy. Also I would like to be told when it's time to come back in the room and attend to cleaning duties

The cucked guys that have experienced this are lucky men if they feel like I do. It looks as if I must be content with where we have got to or perhaps we just need a guy that like me is able to direct her towards the the things a cuckoldress needs to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And i did.there is no paradox,you're either a cuckold or you're not "

Of course there is, surely each time your wife meets you have a mental fight with yourself about not allowing it to happen?

Yes your right you are either a cuck or your not but for most cucks that we speak to our you read their fact stories on cuckoldplace dot com you will see/hear comments like I wish she wouldn't do it etc

The paradox is they also want and need her to do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...If I felt she was being unreasonable or visa versa then I'd stop all sex before risking or relationship"

There is a clear example of someone battling the mental challenge of being a cuck... says he would stop it if he felt it was a risk to his relationship BUT in the heat of passion between his hot wife and the guy she wanted to fcuk her he would probably bow to her needs!

After it he would potentially end-up arguing with his wife about why they allowed the act to take place.

We probably did this for about 3 years back and forth until hubby fully accepted his role and sex between us reached the point he was only licking my ass or me face sitting him

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over a year ago

One man you've chosen to be with for life the other is there to heighten your sexual pleasure. Which one's needs matter the most? Push the boundaries yes but if your life partner is not completely happy with how events are going then surely that's time to listen because even though he's your cuck he deserves respect?

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We been in similar situations if it starts getting too much we take a break

There was 1 full time boyfriend jess had that lasted 7 months they ended up doing everything together as cpls do dates nights out weekends away that was best time of our lifestyle and obviously feelings grew between them but in the end it got to much he wanted other things and they split up helping her through that tough time was wierd

We took a break for a while then but soon came back

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over a year ago

I am very envious of you people that enjoy cucking your hubby regularly. I do remember one guy we met 4 times. He was a turkish lad.

Very very good looking and he's only ever really been the guy she has ever actually jumped at meeting. That in a way was one of the last times I was truly cucked in my opinion. We met him in a Bar in Cannock and chatted for a while. The chemistry was electric and I felt I was just there. They needed me to get them back to our place. As we walked back to the car I asked them if they'd like to ride in the back and I would chauffeur them home.

As we started off my foot was literally shaking on the pedal. I was so scared of what I had unleashed. She was tearing so hard to get his jeans off that she broke the zip. Out of corner of eye I could see her head bobbing hungrily up and down on his cock. I bet we were no more than 2 mins into the journey.

As we drove I took a few pictures. It was all done by guesswork. The overall impression you get from them though is pure animal lust. It's all a bit of a blur really. Her dress was soon hitched up and her stocking legs and boots were visible in my mirror. I asked them if they wanted me to carry on driving while they fucked in the back. "Just drive" she said. This was in between the noises of canoodling and slapping etc.

People often ask me why I didn't find somewhere to stop. Simple answer is I was impelled to do as I was told. My mind was in such a whirrr that I couldn't think of where to go.

They were pressing on the back of my seat. They obviously didn't give a fuck about me. I was just the driver. The slapping noises got louder and louder and the gasps got louder and more bellowing. At last he gave out a loud shout and then the glorious release of his orgasm as he emptied his load.

What do we do now I thought. It all seemed a little bit awkward but I asked if they would like to go back to the house. I suppose we were 5 mins away and I could hear rustling in the back as clothes were put back on, bra straps adjusted etc. We walked into the lounge and I asked her if she'd mind if I had a look at her pussy.

It was all red and used and I felt impelled to go down on her.

In truth I think she'd nearly had enough. He had absolutely pounded her but I needed some reclaim sex and besides the other guy was still with us so I felt a threesome had been sort of earnt. I will perhaps tell you about that some other time.

The reason I've told this story is I think it sort of encapsulates the feelings a cuckold has. Hope it happens again sometime but somehow doubt it will for various reasons

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over a year ago

"I am very envious of you people that enjoy cucking your hubby regularly. I do remember one guy we met 4 times. He was a turkish lad.

People often ask me why I didn't find somewhere to stop. Simple answer is I was impelled to do as I was told. My mind was in such a whirrr that I couldn't think of where to go.

It was all red and used and I felt impelled to go down on her.

The reason I've told this story is I think it sort of encapsulates the feelings a cuckold has. Hope it happens again sometime but somehow doubt it will for various reasons

Nicely written and done it a number of times including two nights ago with hubby driving about at 5am for 20mins before finding a secluded spot... he just sat in the front seat and wanked himself off maybe 3 times...When myself and the young hottie I was shagging took a few seconds of a break all I could hear was hubby wanking away to which I called him exactly that and he loved it (his wanking only intensified)

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh sophie, You are every cuckolded males' dream. Can you drop me a line to chat a little about this. I find it so fascinating to feel like I do. I have quite a few anecdotes I would like to share with you.

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over a year ago

The other day Mrs N had been at work. I got chatting to this other guy who felt similar to me and we skyped and I let him listen to the sounds of Mrs N fucking another man. It just feels so good to share my good fortune.

Anyway to cut to point of my anecdote, later on that evening Mrs N and I were fucking. She went down on me and was greedily sucking and licking my balls. I had the desperate urge to tell her about what I'd been up to earlier. About how I had wanked and how I had managed to save myself for her later. This I hoped would atone for my indiscretion and infidelity. As my orgasmed built I shouted out that I am a filthy, dirty wanker and proud of it. Did she mind me being such old wanker. She of course said she was happy with it but I secretly hoped she would call me a wanker herself. This is why sophie is so good to her hubby in her story. I am 100% sure it is what he wants her to do.

I had such an intense orgasm as I shouted out more obscenities about me being such a useless cuck wanker.

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By *un KnightsCouple
over a year ago

South West

I think this is more our thing. Denial for a night. Not for a year. To us it's a game not a lifestyle. So other times we prefer to swing together."

Agree with both of the above and definitely covers us as a couple. Both love the denial and teasing and afterwards the sex between us is great. Maybe Hotwife more than cuck but then it's all about different degrees and levels for each couple. Whilst we have total respect for the "bull" and have to click with him and make sure he enjoys himself it's is, when all is said and done, about us as a couple getting what we want, lots of great sex and pleasure for us both.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think this is more our thing. Denial for a night. Not for a year. To us it's a game not a lifestyle. So other times we prefer to swing together.

Yes on occasion the Mrs prefers to watch me. So it is more of a game.

I can't remember who said it. But someone mentioned that talking about what ifs was a turn on.

Surely one of those what ifs would be ever growing fondness for a new man and may be the risking of break up .

I do wonder how that works for fully committed cucks. In one way it is the ultimate. She has followed her desires to another 'better' man. But also at that point you are no longer a cuck as she has left entirely.

Would that be cuckolding irony?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I think this is more our thing. Denial for a night. Not for a year. To us it's a game not a lifestyle. So other times we prefer to swing together.

Yes on occasion the Mrs prefers to watch me. So it is more of a game.

I can't remember who said it. But someone mentioned that talking about what ifs was a turn on.

Surely one of those what ifs would be ever growing fondness for a new man and may be the risking of break up .

Would that be cuckolding irony?

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I think it would!

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over a year ago

" ...She has followed her desires to another 'better' man. But also at that point you are no longer a cuck as she has left entirely...

Would that be cuckolding irony?

The big danger to being a cuck, you both have to understand and love each other deeply for it to work

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Would love chat sonetime sophie x you guys sound similar to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love chat sonetime sophie x you guys sound similar to us "

feel free to message at anytime x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" ...She has followed her desires to another 'better' man. But also at that point you are no longer a cuck as she has left entirely...

Would that be cuckolding irony?

The big danger to being a cuck, you both have to understand and love each other deeply for it to work "

Which was my point in the first place ??

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over a year ago

" ...She has followed her desires to another 'better' man. But also at that point you are no longer a cuck as she has left entirely...

Would that be cuckolding irony?

The big danger to being a cuck, you both have to understand and love each other deeply for it to work

Which was my point in the first place ??"

Yep you never have had a disagreement from me with the fact there is a clear paradox and many mental conflicts for 99% of cucks.

Some on this thread clearly don't understand the genre as they have suggested there is no paradox when there are probably a number that can be explained in different circumstances

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By *arry On ShaggingCouple
over a year ago

Betley

I love cuckolding bump it's amazing had my first BBC experience and was mind blowing. There are pics on our profile of a few cuckolding encounters

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England

A wonderful thread; & speaking from the point of view of the lover (I too find the term "bull" pejorative); It gives a great insight into the whole spectrum of cuckoldry.

The etymology of the word "cuckold" itself raises an interesting discussion point - I understand it stems from the cuckoo laying its egg in another bird's nest, whilst the host bird brings the chick up as it's own. Is this cuckoldry taken to it's logical conclusion, or just pure fantasy on behalf of the cuck?

I've personally come across this on a couple of occasions in here. Indeed, I actually spoke to both the male & female of one couple; So I can vouch that they were genuine. However, despite the lady being very desirable & the passing thought of bestowing my genes; I concluded that this was a step too far, not for me & I'd be more than happy to keep my progeny restricted to my two beautiful grown up daughters!

I should also add, that the thought of a possible paternity suit & being pursued by the CSA in my dotage was a deciding factor too!

I'd be very interested to hear all your views on the cuckoldress / hot wife being impregnated by her lover & the cuck helping to raise the resulting offspring as his own child.

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over a year ago

"...I'd be very interested to hear all your views on the cuckoldress / hot wife being impregnated by her lover & the cuck helping to raise the resulting offspring as his own child. "

Def not for us, this is purely about hot, hard sex with other men while hubby wanks himself off watching either at the time or later when I take the video home to him.

Anything more is humiliation or similar but no way would I entertain having another man's baby regardless how good looking etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The poor child!!!!!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I love cuckolding bump it's amazing had my first BBC experience and was mind blowing. There are pics on our profile of a few cuckolding encounters

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are the cuckold pics in you private photos? Would love to see some. J

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"The poor child!!!!!"

Indeed!

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"...I'd be very interested to hear all your views on the cuckoldress / hot wife being impregnated by her lover & the cuck helping to raise the resulting offspring as his own child.

Def not for us, this is purely about hot, hard sex with other men while hubby wanks himself off watching either at the time or later when I take the video home to him.

Anything more is humiliation or similar but no way would I entertain having another man's baby regardless how good looking etc!"

It still mystifies me to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold always will carry 'risk' as I found out to my cost almost 20 years ago. That risk always be managed in my eyes.....a cuckold baby is most certainly a step too far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting thread, thanks to all the contributors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks all, a great thread.

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