FabSwingers.com forum: What got people into this?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious to know how people took the leap into this lifestyle? Singles, what made you choose this? Couples, how on earth did one partner approach the subject with the other?

I've just come out of a long term relationship so just decided I want to explore something new!! I've always had my doubts about monogamy being natural so I suppose I'm testing the water!

It's early days and the Lincolnshire scene doesn't exactly seem to be buzzing, but it's fun and games so far

By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I got into it as a single male following my divorce. I wanted honest gratuitous sex without the hassle of a relationship.

Group sex had always been a fantasy that I wanted to make a reality.

I told my current partner about my past fairly early on in our relationship. She wasn't horrified and we discussed it more and more, I showed her the sites I was on, and we took it from there.

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

group sex

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Night out with my hubby and after a few drinks I was feeling frisky, asked him what his biggest fantasy was, not expecting the reply I got

he wanted to see me with another guy. I always thought he was the jealous type but I was very wrong. Maybe the drink that gave him the courage to tell me lol but we've always been very open about sex