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Bi female - is it bad hubby wants to watch only?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol

We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).

I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol

We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).

I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?

"

Do you need to understand why? Everyone has things they like and don't like and being watched is not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol

We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).

I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?

"

I don't really like being watched by men when I play with women (I never play with women in a mixed club, only ever in a lesbian club) because I don't like the way that many* men tend to objectify lesbian sexuality.

*Not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because not everyone wants to put on a show for a man. I prefer the man to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol

We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).

I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?

"

Because they can meet women alone without any male involvement, so why put on a show for some chap. That's my guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol

We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).

I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?

Do you need to understand why? Everyone has things they like and don't like and being watched is not for everyone. "

Good point. Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer watching James with a lady these days

Char

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By *ukkakefunCouple
over a year ago

cumbria

my hubby absolutely loves watching me play with males or females!!not everyones thing but we love it!!

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Ok...it still says curious on our profile but I'm very close to dropping the curious lol

We're a happily married couple and I've had a few bi experiences and I love it. I want to meet bi females and hubby would like to just watch. He isn't one of these controlling husbands (I've read some profiles where the men sound power mad lol).

I want to do this but he would be more than happy just watching. When we say he'd just sit back and watch, that's literally, exactly what he'd do. But this seems to put some people off and I don't understand why?

"

Stick with it, yeah there's lots of people that don't understand why this would be a turn on. But then there's the hidden gems that get it and its possible to have fun while he watches without it feeling like your putting on a show, just relax and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I just wanted FF play I'd meet a single fem alone. If I meet a couple I want to play with both, at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it looked upon if a woman wants to watch her man with another woman?

Her

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