FabSwingers.com forum: First meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've got my first meet tonight and I'm extremely nervous. Has anyone goy any advice to reduce my nerves? All feedback is welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't overthink it, just relax and go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't worry mt8 they wont turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax. Have no expections.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"don't worry mt8 they wont turn up"

Thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you really are a virgin....then no wonder you are nervous. Let's hope both if those things are gone by tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax and enjoy. Whilst it's totally normal to be nervous don't feel pressured into doing anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you really are a virgin....then no wonder you are nervous. Let's hope both if those things are gone by tomorrow!"

One can only hope. But I have no expectations of anything like that happening. Hopefully just going to see how it plays out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her welcome and relax, avoid too much booze and just have fun, good luck

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Good luck

Just enjoy the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a glass of wine, would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will if all goes well then you're gonna have to change your good luck fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What time is your meet ?

Hope it wasn't 7pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will if all goes well then you're gonna have to change your good luck fella. "

If all goes well. A change of username xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What time is your meet ?

Hope it wasn't 7pm

Luckily not. It's a little later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck, relax and just enjoy the evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck, relax and just enjoy the evening

I'd like to thank you all for your advice. I truly appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no really we cant meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will if all goes well then you're gonna have to change your good luck fella.

If all goes well. A change of username xx"

That's the badger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now get off here and go and make yourself look and smell your best for your date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got my first meet tonight and I'm extremely nervous. Has anyone goy any advice to reduce my nerves? All feedback is welcome."

b urself and not to quiet no covo i find awkward x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to relax and enjoy. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it be wrong to add him to my hotlist so I can see if he gets a green tick

Ms nosey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would it be wrong to add him to my hotlist so I can see if he gets a green tick

Ms nosey "

Feel free to, hopefully I get the magic tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself don't have any expectations and enjoy the experience. Good luck and have great time. By the way you'll need a new name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be yourself don't have any expectations and enjoy the experience. Good luck and have great time. By the way you'll need a new name. "

Got any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get off here and go on your date man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be yourself don't have any expectations and enjoy the experience. Good luck and have great time. By the way you'll need a new name.

Got any ideas?"

Gotashagsteve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get off here and go on your date man!

Unfortunately, I have another hour and a half to wait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be yourself don't have any expectations and enjoy the experience. Good luck and have great time. By the way you'll need a new name.

Got any ideas?

Gotashagsteve"

I like it. I may have to use it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Off I go, wish me luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you really meet anyone as you sent us a wink during this time and your still on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"did you really meet anyone as you sent us a wink during this time and your still on?

On my way there now.

I shall refraine from interacting with anyone else tonight then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably too late now but just go with no expectations and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God bless him, and all who sail in him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't keep us in suspenders, did she turn up?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Don't keep us in suspenders, did she turn up?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's not back online yet so fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't keep us in suspenders, did she turn up?"

It was a couple, and they did turn up. We had a drink, but as the female half and myself were too nervous all we did was have a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't keep us in suspenders, did she turn up?

It was a couple, and they did turn up. We had a drink, but as the female half and myself were too nervous all we did was have a drink."

You took the first step mate, and it will get easier. Are you going to meet them again?

Don't let this worry you at all, nerves are natural and you actually arranged a meet which is better than many people manage lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't keep us in suspenders, did she turn up?

It was a couple, and they did turn up. We had a drink, but as the female half and myself were too nervous all we did was have a drink."

Sounds like a good social. I hope they ask to meet you again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't keep us in suspenders, did she turn up?

It was a couple, and they did turn up. We had a drink, but as the female half and myself were too nervous all we did was have a drink.

You took the first step mate, and it will get easier. Are you going to meet them again?

Don't let this worry you at all, nerves are natural and you actually arranged a meet which is better than many people manage lol! "

Thanks

We're hoping to arrange something for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago