FabSwingers.com forum: Do ur friends know u swing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do ur friends out side swinging know you swing and how do they feel about it ?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

One does. We don't talk about it now though as I think I just embarrassed her in the end. But I felt for my safety I needed to tell someone. In hindsight I was selfish telling her, I just couldn't think of anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One does. We don't talk about it now though as I think I just embarrassed her in the end. But I felt for my safety I needed to tell someone. In hindsight I was selfish telling her, I just couldn't think of anyone else. "
one off my friends Sussed out lol so some know . Her husband new but said not to tell her she , but she Figured it out lol there all cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple of ours do they cool with it one girl loves the idea but not her fella lol

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Two of my closest friends know, they don't judge me and are ok with it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes a couple of ours do they cool with it one girl loves the idea but not her fella lol "
wonder why ? Maybe he's shy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my best friends told me about Fab, a few close friends know. And my bestie is the guy I meet regular so yes he knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my friends do and also my sister knows that I swing. I have no reason to hide my life away x

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By *ee tokerABCWoman
over a year ago

cumnock at

No friends don't know am into it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend knows. Don't think she likes it though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No friends don't know am into it xx

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none off my family know

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By *anderlustcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kent

No way! Don't think any would understand unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No friends don't know am into it xx

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one female friend outside of Fab and we ended up playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends know. Otherwise they wouldn't be my friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All my friends know. Otherwise they wouldn't be my friends."
thats nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have guessed. Its no deal. If they are real friends they wont care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my friends know I'm on here and that's how I want it to stay. I keep my private life private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some have guessed. Its no deal. If they are real friends they wont care."

That's what i think. I never hid my sex life from my friends. It never crossed my mind to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even my sister knows

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"None of my friends know I'm on here and that's how I want it to stay. I keep my private life private."

Us too. None of our friends know about fab or about any aspect of our sex life, we don't know about theirs either, they don't know how much we earn or what money we have invested or many other if the intimate details of our life.

It isn't about hiding its about choosing what you reveal to people about your personal life and what you're comfortable sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some have guessed. Its no deal. If they are real friends they wont care.

That's what i think. I never hid my sex life from my friends. It never crossed my mind to. "

an i bet ur fiesty enough to not care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was single I would tell them I think it's more difficult as a couple. Pauls best friend knows. We almost told my friend but I didn't want it to effect things they also don't know I'm bi, I've always been open with partners but never friends I would worry that they would think when were doing innocent things that I'm thinking of it as a sexual way. Ie I cuddle my friends etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I was single I would tell them I think it's more difficult as a couple. Pauls best friend knows. We almost told my friend but I didn't want it to effect things they also don't know I'm bi, I've always been open with partners but never friends I would worry that they would think when were doing innocent things that I'm thinking of it as a sexual way. Ie I cuddle my friends etc "
i think it's better that way it was a accedent my friends found out there ok with it but don't think all off them understand about swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends know, some of my work colleagues know (one is also on here but he's gay so no clash of interest

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And my kids know, my sister's kind of suspect but they are not as open minded as me

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

my friends do know that im on swinging sites they also know why im on them as well

even a customer that im on the job at the moment as they came with the comment i heard from a mate about them keys in a bowl subject

i know i got dropped in it by the workers as the question was directed at me so i explained little details that need to be known got asked if they could go with me sorry you need to be a member

then got pulled out by a grinning lady saying ive heard about you and what you do

but its fun twisting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told two of my friends now that we swing. Told one I dress. Told about six that I'm bi. Told my mother im bi a couple of weeks ago.

Everyone's been really cool about what they know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of my friends do back home where I came from. But I don't usually volunteer the information to them unless they deliberately ask a sex question geared to that nature.

Usually I only let slip here when I'm playing "never have I ever" with uni mates,and their responses are alway funny as hell. Totally surprised and incredulous, considering that going by my looks I don't exactly look that laddish, while I just shrug my shoulders and give a cheeky grin. :p

Keys in a bowl eh? Miss some of my crazier times now.

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

One or two do but only because I know that I can confide in them and that they would never let on to anyone else

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

No way, I also want to keep it like that to. This is my dirty little secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup...common knowledge....nobody really cares.....

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Yup...common knowledge....nobody really cares....."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few of my friends know. .. 2 ex'es. .. my dad...thanks to my husband. . We were separated at the time... but have told both I no longer play. . .. 2 of my cousin's. . I think that's it. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes friends, some family and God knows how many others after being outed many years ago.

Plus side to that though was my partner pulled me as a result lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes friends, some family and God knows how many others after being outed many years ago.

Plus side to that though was my partner pulled me as a result lol"

Outed? Makes you sound like a witch or something......

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do ur friends out side swinging know you swing and how do they feel about it ? "

No: I like to keep my private life private.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"All my friends know. Otherwise they wouldn't be my friends."

I've known all my friends for years. They don't know how much I earn, they don't know the value of my house, they don't know how many times a day I move my bowels...and I don't know those private things about them either.

Just like on here some people are discrete with regards playmates, outside of Fab some of us are also discrete with loved ones.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"None of my friends know I'm on here and that's how I want it to stay. I keep my private life private."

Think we're in a minority.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"None of my friends know I'm on here and that's how I want it to stay. I keep my private life private.

It isn't about hiding its about choosing what you reveal to people about your personal life and what you're comfortable sharing."

Exactly!

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

I have swing friends ... Personal friends ...and family .... Keep them all seperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, some don't.

I don't make a secret of particularly but then again it's not something I announce regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And, of course, some of my friends are swingers...

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Do ur friends out side swinging know you swing and how do they feel about it ? "
. I have lots of interests outside fab and like to keep my private life private . Discretion is extremely important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one I have pondered over for some time, nearly told a few mates a few d*unken times but never crossed the line.

I'm a pretty reserved guy outside of fab so I think most would be shocked and I don't fancy the endless questions! Although I would hazard a guess that a few are on here already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends know I swing. I don't care who knows. All my mates and colleagues know I'm an independent woman who does as she wants. Ain't no issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, a good deal of mine know I swing, I've introduced some of them to it.

Many are actually quite intrigued once you explain it's not a bunch of car keys in a bowl and that it's very similar to a night out in the pub, with a few potential added benefits.....

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By *uckbunnyWoman
over a year ago

mmmm guess u like to know

My best mate knows she is fine with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep....most of them anyway. A fair chunk of family. Work and my previous work...up to board level.

I don't go ramming it down people's throats, but if people ask or half guess then I'm open about it. Why wouldn't I be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, my dirty little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fucking way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My two besties know and they think it's great...I always let one of them know if I go for a meet and where as they are my sos if needed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No fucking way."
oh fuck no way what goese on here and the bedroom stays that way ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends know im really open about sexual things, so I think they have pretty much just figured it out for themselves and took it as normal for me haha x

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Just a select few friends know and all by accident lol but cool with it x would hate family to know x

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Most of my friends and a few work colleagues know...several of my friends want to join me at a club when I have my 50th in a coupla years...the security service also know as I've just redone my clearance forms and put it down in the interests of full disclosure - they need to know if there's anything that could make you vulnerable to bribery but I've said if anyone tried that they'd get short shrift from me

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think some of our friends suspect but we never talk about it would prefer they didn't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half told her sisters and most friends they are all ok with it.

Myself I've told only friends I suspect family have figured something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do and some have no issues with it though there are others who frown in it but that's their choice. We wouldn't make them play but can see both sides of the issues people have.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

One does, we invited her to come to Chams with us when she was without a man. She was shocked and said to R "you don't have other men with G watching, surely." We said that watching the other one was one of the joys of swinging. She didn't come to Chams!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've never told anyone, I don't feel the need to advertise my private life, however a women I work with did see me browsing fab on my phone once at work, she said to me...Not being nosey but I met my partner off there...i just looked at her and said...actually you are being nosey...she said sorry and walked off, never been mentioned since

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Quite a few of my friends know, a couple would like to try it given the opportunity

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Do ur friends out side swinging know you swing and how do they feel about it ? "

My best friend and my mum knows.

My oldest daughter knows I'm a bit of a naturist too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I've never told anyone, I don't feel the need to advertise my private life, however a women I work with did see me browsing fab on my phone once at work, she said to me...Not being nosey but I met my partner off there...i just looked at her and said...actually you are being nosey...she said sorry and walked off, never been mentioned since

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u should have said to her I meet ur partner on there aswell !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents know of it and some friends too, but I don't swing as I am single. I just fuck

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

some do theyre not bothered about my sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my friend knows my swinging lifestyle and will neva know unless the become swingers too on their own

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Life is interesting! I ran into a swing buddy (we've played more than 10x) in town and she breezed past like all my 6ft2 frame did not exist. This happened 3 consecutive times and then the penny dropped. This is an under cover operation. No friends here are real. As long as it is dark and there is some fucking involved, happy days!!

Actual friends do not have to know. We are here to shag and only so shall it be.

You will not name somebody from here as a job reference, will you?

Don't get it twisted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is interesting! I ran into a swing buddy (we've played more than 10x) in town and she breezed past like all my 6ft2 frame did not exist. This happened 3 consecutive times and then the penny dropped. This is an under cover operation. No friends here are real. As long as it is dark and there is some fucking involved, happy days!!

Actual friends do not have to know. We are here to shag and only so shall it be.

You will not name somebody from here as a job reference, will you?

Don't get it twisted.

Harsh but very, very true

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do ur friends out side swinging know you swing and how do they feel about it ? "

Only my closest ones do and let's just say they love our girlie get together to hear all about it

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By *ollyDayDreamerWoman
over a year ago

Gorleston

My besties know & we have a good laugh about it at times. Ive also told my Mum as she's like my bestie and she's cool with it. They are more worried for my safety than what I get up to to be honest. Other people in my vicinity know but I couldn't give a toss what they think & don't look for their acceptance. Its my life & I don't judge theirs, DDD x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have friends that know, a lot of his friends know, and most are also on here, as single males and Cpls, plus a few of my friends are aware and ask lots of questions, and ofcourse we have made friends through the site that are clearly aware, some still members and some now left.

If the subject came up with our more vanilla friends I'd have no problems telling them, I hope that they wouldn't judge us on our choices just as we wouldn't never judge them on theirs!

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

My one friend know dare tell other she would disown me my family knew they went crazey but they dont talk about it now

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Actual friends do not have to know. We are here to shag and only so shall it be.

You will not name somebody from here as a job reference, will you?

Don't get it twisted.

Harsh but very, very true

S x"

Makes me wonder when i see things like "here to make friends" bolocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohh hell no, I dont even know I swing

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"ohh hell no, I dont even know I swing

Do you though?

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Yes most of ours do. They are fine with it and it's led to some interesting impromptu endings to an evening out that wouldn't have happened otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ohh hell no, I dont even know I swing

Do you though?"

I try but apparently I'm uglier than the elephant man, and have the personality of Hitler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my male friends know, some give me some banter over it but I'm sure it's because they haven't had chance to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few friends know I swing and four of my adult. Kids none are critical of me as they know why I do and none have lost respect for me to them I'm the mum they have always had.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

No cos i feel the scene is so misunderstood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree with that as most people think its sick perves and not normal people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No cos i feel the scene is so misunderstood "
yep think there stuck on keys in a bowl thing

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

all our friends know we swing.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We don`t think anyone family or friends acquaintances know we would cross that hurdle if we need to

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"All my friends know. Otherwise they wouldn't be my friends."

My family just think I like a variety of men as I don't want a relationship, they just accept it's how I am, the label "swinging" has never been brought up, not sure if they would equate it with what I do though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All my friends know. Otherwise they wouldn't be my friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no one know here like to keep it discreet

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By *1paljungMan
over a year ago

Richmond

I was at a poker night with nine mates, some I've known since my teens, this site came up in conversation, and then a phone was passed around, then Abfabs was discussed and finally I had two asking me to join them at Abfabs... Haha I don't think they blinked an eye, well one or two, slowed for a second, then the conversation picked up again like I'd been scanned or xrayed

Super feeling to realise no one gives a toss xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's at least 1 of gingers friends that knows not that we swing but that she's available and a few of my friends might know due to an ex of mine but never said anything about it and that's kinda the way want it to stay as not everyone is as openminded as we are here on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual friends do not have to know. We are here to shag and only so shall it be.

You will not name somebody from here as a job reference, will you?

Don't get it twisted.

Harsh but very, very true

S x

Makes me wonder when i see things like "here to make friends" bolocks!"

Rubbish......the line between my vanilla friends and friends off here is very blurred....fab friends have met vanilla friends and its not an issue....

Some of my best friends I met on here...folk I don't even play with any more because stuff has moved on remain good friends so I think it depends...I don't pigeonhole my friends seperately and it shows in my life and I couldn't be more gratefull for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of our family and friends know. It's cool with most of them although we don't talk about it often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual friends do not have to know. We are here to shag and only so shall it be.

You will not name somebody from here as a job reference, will you?

Don't get it twisted.

Not as a reference because I've never worked for anyone off here before but my good friend nita2 offf here did my c.v and has helped me with various other bits and pieces like that....why? Because she's my friend.....its what mates do.....

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Actual friends do not have to know. We are here to shag and only so shall it be.

You will not name somebody from here as a job reference, will you?

Don't get it twisted.

Good for you!

You can go ahead and invite them to your wedding. Full marks scored. Rubbish indeed!!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Best times are had swinging with friends as far as we are concerned. No need to waste time arranging meets just go out for an evening with friends and if mood takes we all have fun at the end. Much better than we feel. And yes they are friends we have and we have a laugh and don't always end up playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no

I keep my sex life private from friends. But friends what I got from here is different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like having a double life, keeps things interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been tempted to tell certain friends and so has my partner, we are not ashamed of our lifestyle. I have quite a few friends that don't know I am Bi, wasn't comfortable with my sexuality until recently. I worry some of the lads would be worried I might fancy them and they might think my partner is easy. I would hate for that to happen.

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By *oxoxoWoman
over a year ago

london

"None of my friends know I'm on here and that's how I want it to stay. I keep my private life private.

It isn't about hiding its about choosing what you reveal to people about your personal life and what you're comfortable sharing.

Exactly!

second that emotion...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been tempted to tell certain friends and so has my partner, we are not ashamed of our lifestyle. I have quite a few friends that don't know I am Bi, wasn't comfortable with my sexuality until recently. I worry some of the lads would be worried I might fancy them and they might think my partner is easy. I would hate for that to happen."
i understand in such a open society lost off people are still biased !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes two if my good mates old used to be on here and there is a woman who knows me on here aswell lol she said my name then blocked me instantly I was a bit gutted as I wouldn't talk her buisness but I guess she thought it might be to close to home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone worried or turned on that if they know about you swinging that they may try and find you on here or any other swinging site?

I told a girl at work and she wanted to check out my profile!

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Two of my closest friends know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of my friends know for safety purposes.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No, and we like it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent been on a swing for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of my close friends know but only because I was in a relationship for a while with someone I met on here before. Trying to keep up with the lie over how we met just got tiring so it was easier to tell the truth. Like a few have said already, if they are worth having as friends it shouldnt matter.

Also when I was on similar sites with my exwife she told a few of her friends.

But then we also had the unfortunate episode of someone she works with finding our profile and showing it to the whole of her office.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I keep this private from family and friends

saves getting an inquisition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been asked by a few close friends and have replied honestly.

They know we are naturists and that's not a secret and they were cool about the idea of us being swingers but you could sense that their opinions of us changed, whether good or bad we are not too sure,or bothered, it's our marriage and life and we intend to enjoy ourselves.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Two of them who swing yes which is fine.

Have to say I don't like it when they mention to colleagues or their other mates I don't know that I swing tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one as yet, but the way I look at it it's only a matter of time before I either spot someone or they spot me - but as I'm descreet about it so what -

I think some even suspect that I already do something like this but so what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my girlfriends know but generally, we are very discreet about it. Prefer meeting people that feel the same too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr told his best friend but only because I'm mad for his cock.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No. I'm a very private ans discreet person. It's my sex life, not theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual friends do not have to know. We are here to shag and only so shall it be.

You will not name somebody from here as a job reference, will you?

Don't get it twisted.

Good for you!

You can go ahead and invite them to your wedding. Full marks scored. Rubbish indeed!!

Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, my fun life is an escape from the run of the mill old routine that plenty have.

No need for the paths to cross even though it has almost done so a few times but resisted the temptation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no way hozay!

Keep the sex life private to personal life.

Just dont know how people would take it, and I dont wanna find out

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

yes my best friend knows, but we dont talk about it but she will always know when im going on a meet and where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always kept our sex life private & definitely swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, would be a bad thing if they found out, secrets are more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One friend knows I'm on here, she didn't seem very shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes friends know but that's how we live our life not there's so have no problem we will answer questions if they ask us but. We never tell them out of the blue. Its our lives not there's as long as we are happy that's what matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya a couple of friends do and one relative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of close friends. No one else needs to know. I don't feel the need to parade it about like a trophy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of my close friends know but only because I was in a relationship for a while with someone I met on here before. Trying to keep up with the lie over how we met just got tiring so it was easier to tell the truth. Like a few have said already, if they are worth having as friends it shouldnt matter.

Also when I was on similar sites with my exwife she told a few of her friends.

But then we also had the unfortunate episode of someone she works with finding our profile and showing it to the whole of her office."

Now I would have found that embarrassing, but I would have had to ask the question. "So what were you doing on the site?"

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"None of my friends know I'm on here and that's how I want it to stay. I keep my private life private.

It isn't about hiding its about choosing what you reveal to people about your personal life and what you're comfortable sharing.

Exactly!

second that emotion...

Think I'll add a

here!

I've come close but found (as mentioned earlier) that such a lifestyle is misunderstood and I feel I'd be explaining my reasons for being here which you'd only understand if you was a fabs member. Also, Fabs is not a massive part of my life so telling non-members would give the impression that it is.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me I have 3 sets of friends

Football/college no they don't know and I like to keep it that way

Uni some do but doesn't get mentioned that often, as they are all cool

Swingers/ex swingers yes they all know just they don't know the details of how active though some do when I have a natter

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By *LCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

A few friends know. One couple because we ended up in a soft swap after a d*unken night out. One of my best mates knows too. I suspect most that know us well have probably guessed. One of my work colleagues suspects and I'm pretty sure him and his wife have swung in the past. Having worked with him for 14 years there are little comments that we've both picked up on. I'm pretty open and wouldn't lie to a true friend if asked. But I don't volunteer information either.

Mr KL

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By *ebedeedoodahMan
over a year ago

Greenford

Non of my friends know. Not sure how to add that to a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they did they would probably want to Join in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few friends that are on here, couples and singles also a few of my clients however they haven't a clue that I'm on here lol it's quite amusing Especially when you catch them on cam in the chat room

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

No need to tell friends you swing. This suppose to be your private affairs. Trust me if you do. Your reputation will be dented and self esteem ruined. You no longer command value in your friends face. Is better to keep it secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea mine do they always ask me about the lucky mature women I fcuk

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By *orseydaveMan
over a year ago

Norwich NR5

I had a couple walk in the pub and ask a member of staff if i was around... "No, He's at Bookers" was her reply, "May I give him a message"

"Oh" the woman said, "just say it's Alan & Claire his swinging friends"

Took along time to live that down, and no I never contacted them again !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a couple walk in the pub and ask a member of staff if i was around... "No, He's at Bookers" was her reply, "May I give him a message"

"Oh" the woman said, "just say it's Alan & Claire his swinging friends"

Took along time to live that down, and no I never contacted them again !"
bookers cash and carry ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I had a couple walk in the pub and ask a member of staff if i was around... "No, He's at Bookers" was her reply, "May I give him a message"

"Oh" the woman said, "just say it's Alan & Claire his swinging friends"

Took along time to live that down, and no I never contacted them again !"

What is wrong with some people!? How indiscreet of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why they should know friends ..As its our life and do as we feel .. friends come and go a lot of the time.

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