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why is it some couples and female's won't accept many validation from single guys

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Some couples and female's won't accept many validation from single guys for the fear of being branded as classless.

I can't understand .I presumed too many single male validation will hinder chance of meeting other couples or female. Is it a matter of class consciousness or fear of being label as cheap.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

classless

are they part of the Downton swinging set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they likely wont accept validation because then they get hounded by single guys . some men watch veris like vulchers waiting to pounce and tell you their cocks bigger/ they look better/ they are nearer etc etc ad infinitum .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"classless

are they part of the Downton swinging set"

Downton swing????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And by contrast other couples look for single men only.

Maggie Smith is understood to be horrified

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Are you saying that they will meet you but don't want you to verify them? Or that they won't meet you which means no verification as there is nothing to verify?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've responded to messages from single men saying we're not looking to meet them, only for them to quote our verifications from single guys like it's going to change our mind...I don't feel like having to explain ourselves so we tend to keep them hidden because it saves hassle...For the record, we have met them at parties and clubs, but don't look for them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe it is a hang back to childhood conditioning. "Women who have sex with multiple men are sluts". Seemingly couple swapping is more of a friendship thing.

It us totally untrue about multiple men but that _iew still remains hence some couples like to suggest they meet for the "social side" and if sex happens so be it.

For me i throughly enjoy sex and have many great chats with naked groups whilst we recover from the first round of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never chased down a verification because simply can't be bothered not because we are worried as it's easy to say yes or no to all comers.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Some couples and female's won't accept many validation from single guys for the fear of being branded as classless.

I can't understand .I presumed too many single male validation will hinder chance of meeting other couples or female. Is it a matter of class consciousness or fear of being label as cheap. "

Is a verification more important than a meet OP?

Surely if meets take place all is good. Do people really need to chronicle every sexual encounter?

And I'm curious as to your research sources. Is this a personal observation or one of those 'hundreds of other people have told me so it must be true' scenarios?

A

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

As ever with a lot of the posts on various topics on the forums, the answer is a perfectly reasonable 'people do what they feel comfortable with and shouldn't be called into question by anyone'.

There are always a multitude of reasons why some people do some things and others feel they should do entirely the opposite...personal choice, family, circumstance, previous experience, what does or doesn't turn you on, not wanting hassle...all these things and more mean there is never a true 'right answer' to anything.

The only thing is to be comfortable with what you do and enjoy it.

I do enjoy reading the forums though and appreciate people's contributions.

Happy christmas all.

Tont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a strange concept having a class system in swinging is it for real?

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Are you saying that they will meet you but don't want you to verify them? Or that they won't meet you which means no verification as there is nothing to verify? "

What I am try to deduce is that. Some couples and females are happy to meet up with you.but won't verify you also won't accept verification from you either. Sound bizarre to me. May be this is due to judgemental attitude from other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy to be verified by any person we have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As ever with a lot of the posts on various topics on the forums, the answer is a perfectly reasonable 'people do what they feel comfortable with and shouldn't be called into question ........

x"

No one is questioning their right to do it as they accept their right to do as they wish.

To quote Fab cliché No.1 is not however an answer to the question any more than asking a murderer why they killed a child and accepting "because I wanted to" as an answer. People have reasons that are backed up by their right to do it. Some are interested to know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you saying that they will meet you but don't want you to verify them? Or that they won't meet you which means no verification as there is nothing to verify?

What I am try to deduce is that. Some couples and females are happy to meet up with you.but won't verify you also won't accept verification from you either. Sound bizarre to me. May be this is due to judgemental attitude from other people"

best bet, stop moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples and female's won't accept many validation from single guys for the fear of being branded as classless.. "

So what you are saying is you have lots of meets, but they won't give you a verification? If you are getting lots of meets why do you need verification anyway? System is working much better for you than many other single guys. Try to enjoy the sex not the re_iews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time i refused to give a veri or receive one was when i had a HORRIBLE time on a date.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Are you saying that they will meet you but don't want you to verify them? Or that they won't meet you which means no verification as there is nothing to verify?

What I am try to deduce is that. Some couples and females are happy to meet up with you.but won't verify you also won't accept verification from you either. Sound bizarre to me. May be this is due to judgemental attitude from other people"

"You" as in the Royal "you". Or "you" as in "me"?

If you speaking from personal experience then are you assuming it's due to the class system you've created? Or is it because they didn't think the meet warranted a verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they likely wont accept validation because then they get hounded by single guys . some men watch veris like vulchers waiting to pounce and tell you their cocks bigger/ they look better/ they are nearer etc etc ad infinitum ."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show a few of my verifications I choose the ones i show by what's in the verification not by who's sent it, I wouldn't meet anyone I'd be embarrassed for other people to know I've met and i wouldn't give a toss if someone didn't meet me based on a verification, I just show a few to prove I am female as most on here think all women are men really but i don't like graphic verifications so i never show those type or ones with my name on

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