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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're having our first-ever MFM next week, and are obviously nervous/excited as hell! Do any couples have any tips or advice for either of us? Or would any guys like to share ideas to help drive the guy over the edge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decide between the two of you what you'd like to happen, and any limits you have, and talk to the guy beforehand and let him know. At the same time, ask him about his desires and limits. Then, well, just take it slow and easy. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to give advice cos we are a different, Vera gets so carried away when we meet that any parameters disappear lol we may say right bj only for the other guy but then she wants more, I'm not gonna deny her lol. Best advice is make sure you know the guy well then relax and enjoy it, be 100% you both wanna do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ... Try and get your rhythm right or you'll end up like a push-me-pull-me in the middle ... Still amazing fun! Enjoy xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Remember the guest might be nervous and excited too, so make sure it's all relaxing....agree boundaries and limits...enjoy. I so love MFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first mmf was nerv wrecking but after a while of drinks and chats we all got settled and calm. so went upstairs to his room where we was all led on bed and she started kissin him and it went from there. before i knew it, she was sucking my cock and he was fucking..what sight and what a night

just go with the flow and dont rush,if you dont feel comy dont do anythin x

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By *riendly FiresCouple
over a year ago

Beverley


"We're having our first-ever MFM next week, and are obviously nervous/excited as hell! Do any couples have any tips or advice for either of us? Or would any guys like to share ideas to help drive the guy over the edge? "

Give thought to ambience, sound and lighting. The nights is yours, take it where you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're having our first-ever MFM next week, and are obviously nervous/excited as hell! Do any couples have any tips or advice for either of us? Or would any guys like to share ideas to help drive the guy over the edge?

Give thought to ambience, sound and lighting. The nights is yours, take it where you want to. "

Yes, we like to get the lighting and sound right, too

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

Take things at your own pace and don't feel pressurised. At the same time appreciate that the guy may be nervous too - so don't rush into things. If you're comfortable it would be nice to be as inclusive as possible to put him at ease! Lol. My first MFM was amazing but only because the couple were so so sweet - it hammered home what a privilege it was to join them.

Good luck and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is something not done yet and not on the to do list as such but .... in the heat of passion i feel yes another guy in the mix would be good especially when i get the 'i could go all night over and over' but when im calm i think no way - we played with a couple once and the other fem took a short breather so i was fucked by her hubby and sucked my fella - was very horny - so i guess ive half done it -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice, guys Feel free to keep it coming!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"It's hard to give advice cos we are a different, Vera gets so carried away when we meet that any parameters disappear lol we may say right bj only for the other guy but then she wants more, I'm not gonna deny her lol. Best advice is make sure you know the guy well then relax and enjoy it, be 100% you both wanna do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always sort out rules, boundaries and likes at a social meet. When it comes to the play meeting we are then more relaxed. We always have music playing and usually candles burning. We don't rush meets and like sitting and chatting over coffee afterwards. We like to become friends with those we play with as this makes the sex even better in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing beats a good chat and giggle in my Mmf experience I Like to have a general chit chat and have a few drinks not to many tho.

Then I slowly pay the woman compliments and start flirting when she goes toilet I ask the guy for tips on what she likes and what buttons to press.

If your in your own house it can be a bit nervy for a guy to come into as its your enviroment but once the nerves go it's nothing but fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, less than 2 days to go - any more tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found that mfm sessions are quite stressful for the guys until they know you. You may find that if he is not experienced he will not get hard and everyone will feel uncomfortable. You must do all you can to put him at ease.

Mmfm, mmfmm and similar sessions can be better as the spare man is not so centre stage but some still suffer stage fright because of the other cocks.

Because you are new to this you may want to choose a newby spare man. We would recommend a guy with plenty if couple verifications as the first.

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