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By *eeds34 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Having read a few of the forums over the month's it seems there has been a fair few people upset with non replies etc.

Question....Do you think people get too full of themselves on here and view themselves as a priceless commodity?

when if you walked past them in the street you may not give them a second glance its only on here where they have power as they may do something you like or are looking for?

as you can tell been a little bored this aft!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't think people get too full of themselves

If they're interested I expect a reply would be sent off straightaway

unfortunately you can't fancy everyone that sends a message and if you did there would'nt be enough time in the world to meet up with them all

You're right though you could walk past the majority in the street and no look twice,but something has sparked an interest or else you would'nt message them...........is it the fact that most have their undies on show

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Having read a few of the forums over the month's it seems there has been a fair few people upset with non replies etc.

Question....Do you think people get too full of themselves on here and view themselves as a priceless commodity?

when if you walked past them in the street you may not give them a second glance its only on here where they have power as they may do something you like or are looking for?

as you can tell been a little bored this aft! "

Yes some people do start to believe the hype they are fed in order to get their kit off.... as the saying goes, "in the land of the blind, the one eyed man is king".

However, if some fuck-pig mong shouted "hello sexy" to me in the street (whilst I am wearing my "don't shout at me if you are a fuck-pig mong" t-shirt).... I'd ignore him there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were can I get one of them t-shirts

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"Having read a few of the forums over the month's it seems there has been a fair few people upset with non replies etc.

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There has been bloody loads of threads recently, like buses they all come together. Thats one thing I have noticed on the boards you get an influx of related threads....boring or what.

People need to think up thier own ideas on new threads to make it a bit more interesting.

On Topic (for once) I dont give a shite what people think if I delete thier mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having read a few of the forums over the month's it seems there has been a fair few people upset with non replies etc.

Question....Do you think people get too full of themselves on here and view themselves as a priceless commodity?

when if you walked past them in the street you may not give them a second glance its only on here where they have power as they may do something you like or are looking for?

as you can tell been a little bored this aft! "

I've read your post this way. You are not saying the people who DON'T get replies are up themselves;you are saying the ones that DON'T send replies get too full of themselves. If im wrong let me know.

I don't know if ' too full of themselves' is the right phrase.

What I do think is that some people do fall for the security of sitting at home and believing that they are very desirable because they get attention that would otherwise pass them by.

I find that particularly true of some people that start posts about how they are being sought out, stalked, pestered what ever. It's more likely that they do this to let everyone else know 'how attractive and desirable they are'

I don't think they do it intentionally they just get sucked into it all. On the other hand - for every single person who goes through that stage there have been thousands of others sending messages which feed their beliefs.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


" I find that particularly true of some people that start posts about how they are being sought out, stalked, pestered what ever. It's more likely that they do this to let everyone else know 'how attractive and desirable they are'

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Ive never been stalked

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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I don't know if ' too full of themselves' is the right phrase.

...

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Gullible/deluded?

Or whatever word sums up....So deeply dependant on cyberspace they have lost touch with reality?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


" I find that particularly true of some people that start posts about how they are being sought out, stalked, pestered what ever. It's more likely that they do this to let everyone else know 'how attractive and desirable they are'

Ive never been stalked "

Thats what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

I do think people exercise the right to personal choice.

I do think some people expect answers to mail that actually deserve a reply.

I think some people complain about not getting answers without realising that getting loads of "Thanks but no thanks" messages might be as equally depressing.

I think some people have to high an expectation about how internet sites work in the ways of making friends and contacts.

We answer all mails, the only thought we have about not getting an answer is -that would be a no then.

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By *eeds34 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

quite a active post lol

no never been stalked personally and never felt i'm too good for anyone.

Just a observation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having read a few of the forums over the month's it seems there has been a fair few people upset with non replies etc.

Question....Do you think people get too full of themselves on here and view themselves as a priceless commodity?

when if you walked past them in the street you may not give them a second glance its only on here where they have power as they may do something you like or are looking for?

as you can tell been a little bored this aft! "

As we've said on similar threads,the easy way around it is to simply say something along the lines of:

"Hi (names),really like your profile and it seems we have a lot in common.

Please take a look at mine and if you like what you see too please get in touch.

If not sorry for troubling you,take care and have fun".

If they get back to you great,if not you've given them a way out of sending a rejection and you receiving one. Sorted,everybody's happy.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having read a few of the forums over the month's it seems there has been a fair few people upset with non replies etc.

Question....Do you think people get too full of themselves on here and view themselves as a priceless commodity?

when if you walked past them in the street you may not give them a second glance its only on here where they have power as they may do something you like or are looking for?

as you can tell been a little bored this aft!

I've read your post this way. You are not saying the people who DON'T get replies are up themselves;you are saying the ones that DON'T send replies get too full of themselves. If im wrong let me know.

I don't know if ' too full of themselves' is the right phrase.

What I do think is that some people do fall for the security of sitting at home and believing that they are very desirable because they get attention that would otherwise pass them by.

I find that particularly true of some people that start posts about how they are being sought out, stalked, pestered what ever. It's more likely that they do this to let everyone else know 'how attractive and desirable they are'

I don't think they do it intentionally they just get sucked into it all. On the other hand - for every single person who goes through that stage there have been thousands of others sending messages which feed their beliefs.

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Thats an excellent response to the original post and I believe captures it very well. People do simply get sucked into believing they are more desireable or physically attractive because of the 'imbalance' (if that's the right word) that this type of site creates. Some people who would possibly not often be approached in your average night club or bar may find that they get bombarded on this type of site. I think in fairness it would go to the head of most normal folk.

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