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By *ipsTeaser OP   Couple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

So being the typical woman I am I am now worrying about every little bit of my body i dislike or am self conscious of.

Iam really excited but suddenly being totally daft.

How do you cope with pre meet nerves and body worries?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

remember, people do not see your body from the same perspective you do - it never looks good looking down at it, and we always focus on the negative.

Try to relax and enjoy it, and just think, they find you sexy enough to want to meet.

If there are bits you really dislike and feel nervous of being touched, cover them up. You don't have to get completely naked, wear a baby doll, corset, suspender belt whatever hides your weak spots.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I have body worries and looking in a mirror it sometimes appears to be magnified. Soon as I start to dress and pull up my stockings my alter ego come out.. It is amazing how lingerie makes me feel. Pre meet nerves are good. Just relax and breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget - most men will be nervous too! I speak from experience!!

Humour is always a good icebreaker and sexy underwear appeals to all men (well, nearly all!) So, don't be shy, smile and go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So being the typical woman I am I am now worrying about every little bit of my body i dislike or am self conscious of.

Iam really excited but suddenly being totally daft.

How do you cope with pre meet nerves and body worries?"

Regarding nerves and butterflies, as shy guy I think they're all part of the experience, i think for me I'd be worrying about not being nervous because i probably wouldn't have thought about an opening line or icebreaker to use to relax both parties. It won't take long after conversation starts and you relax and the butterflies will turn into something else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody had them. Dressing to impress even men being comfortable in your self, finding the right people to play with and every else just falls into place

Trust me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm fairly relaxed as worst case they leave, talking loudly so neighbours hear 'her bums too small, big' 'too much make-up' 'what a slut' etc. They've possibly thought the same at some point.

I relax, have a cuppa, yoga if a little unrested.

Usually find there's never enough time to get ready for my liking, even if I've had weeks of notice. Slap ain't gonna trowel itself on by itself and there's always an opportunity for a spot to get bigger needing concealer.

Slw deep breathing is your best friend wen nervous and to do or think something silly if thoughts cross your mind.

I don't oversell myself so they even like Godzilla from the pics or not. It's their choice and/or loss. There's always stuff to do instead.

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