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"Swinging started as wife swapping thats what a lot of couples want. So the wife gets you, what does the husband get? Single women are outnumbered probably 100 to 1 by single men so getting one to meet you is like winning the lottery. This isnt a 1960's hippy commune. If you want a no strings garunteed shag call an escort!" | |||
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"Maybe I haven't given it a chance by not being here long enough but am getting to the point where I'm thinking this is a gay site. Fed up with looking at my account and seeing more men message me/look at me than women. I came here for women but as a single guy, I can see the irony because as a swinging community there's a lot of closed minds. Men who want two women, couples blocking singles, age restrictions. Where is the culture? I thought that swinging was from free expression of love. Instead it seems that everybody is out for themselves, all for a fuck. I haven't had sex in 10 years. It seems more trouble than it's worth. " You need to re-evaluate what this and why you are here. You will have far more chance of regular sex on a conventional dating site than on here. | |||
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"Maybe I haven't given it a chance by not being here long enough but am getting to the point where I'm thinking this is a gay site. Fed up with looking at my account and seeing more men message me/look at me than women. I came here for women but as a single guy, I can see the irony because as a swinging community there's a lot of closed minds. Men who want two women, couples blocking singles, age restrictions. Where is the culture? I thought that swinging was from free expression of love. Instead it seems that everybody is out for themselves, all for a fuck. I haven't had sex in 10 years. It seems more trouble than it's worth. " if thats the attitude you are coming in with... i am guessing not a lot will come out.... you aren't owed just because you are here..... and yes... grumbles after 2 weeks does make me wonder what the expectation is... people don't just drop their knickers because you glanced in their direction! and now you have made a grumble... more men will look at your profile... its self fulfilling really..... swinging isn't a service where people are duty bound to give to whoever wants it..... you get out what you put it... the site gives you the tools to make it work and work for you.... use all, use some, use none!!! that at the end of the day is on you!!! | |||
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"Maybe I haven't given it a chance by not being here long enough but am getting to the point where I'm thinking this is a gay site. Fed up with looking at my account and seeing more men message me/look at me than women. I came here for women but as a single guy, I can see the irony because as a swinging community there's a lot of closed minds. Men who want two women, couples blocking singles, age restrictions. Where is the culture? I thought that swinging was from free expression of love. Instead it seems that everybody is out for themselves, all for a fuck. I haven't had sex in 10 years. It seems more trouble than it's worth. " Free expression of love does not mean shag anything!!? Or should people on here just give it up freely to anyone? Why would people not be out for themselves on here? It's not a charity. | |||
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"So you haven't had a shag for 10 years ? If you can't get one anywhere else, what makes you think you'll get one here ?" Because he is Alpha!!!!! | |||
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"Men complaining about stuff like this just makes me giggle... Welcome to life as a woman, men staring, unwanted make attention, unwanted comments. " nice legs x | |||
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"Maybe I haven't given it a chance by not being here long enough but am getting to the point where I'm thinking this is a gay site. Fed up with looking at my account and seeing more men message me/look at me than women. I came here for women but as a single guy, I can see the irony because as a swinging community there's a lot of closed minds. Men who want two women, couples blocking singles, age restrictions. Where is the culture? I thought that swinging was from free expression of love. Instead it seems that everybody is out for themselves, all for a fuck. I haven't had sex in 10 years. It seems more trouble than it's worth. " So who are you here for if it isn't yourself?! You have had offers of sex from the sounds of it, so who's fault is it you haven't had any, after all of your looking for a free expression of love why should sexuality stop you from getting some action? Or are you allowed preferences whereas everyone else is closed minded? | |||
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"I'm sorry is that the sound of the world's smallest violin? So are you saying that being on a swinger site requires an open mind which will fuck anyone who asks? " No.....this is | |||
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"I'm sorry is that the sound of the world's smallest violin? " You mean this one? A | |||
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"I'm sorry is that the sound of the world's smallest violin? You mean this one? A" I think that is due to be a very heavily used smiley!! | |||
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"Would you have sex with every woman who asked you? " Sadly, no woman has. | |||
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"Would you have sex with every woman who asked you? Sadly, no woman has. " a different attitude might alter that maybe | |||
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"Would you have sex with every woman who asked you? Sadly, no woman has. " Cheer up, Gazza.... Have a more positive outlook | |||
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"I see the OP has not come back online to acknowledge or answer any of the comments made. I don't knoow what reaction he is expecting in declaring he hasn't had sex in ten years...maybe multiple sympathy shags from day one? As that has not happened straight away, then those who have denied him have "closed minds" with preferences and age restrictions....how selfish of them! " Honestly I was expecting to be laughed at. Perhaps this thread was a reaction to the clique feel of the site. Maybe I'm nieve. There is an overwhelming reaction from alot of people who think that "you get out what you put in and I have to work for pussy so why shouldn't you." And people are "entitled" to their beliefs, no I am not one of those men who feels "entitled to pussy". My declaration was not meant to be shocking. In fact it's something that I never talk about. In terms of expectation, I'd be happy if there was one woman in the world who would say yes, which goes against the notion of swinging unless I shared her, which would be mutually discussed. | |||
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"I see the OP has not come back online to acknowledge or answer any of the comments made. I don't knoow what reaction he is expecting in declaring he hasn't had sex in ten years...maybe multiple sympathy shags from day one? As that has not happened straight away, then those who have denied him have "closed minds" with preferences and age restrictions....how selfish of them! Honestly I was expecting to be laughed at. Perhaps this thread was a reaction to the clique feel of the site. Maybe I'm nieve. There is an overwhelming reaction from alot of people who think that "you get out what you put in and I have to work for pussy so why shouldn't you." And people are "entitled" to their beliefs, no I am not one of those men who feels "entitled to pussy". My declaration was not meant to be shocking. In fact it's something that I never talk about. In terms of expectation, I'd be happy if there was one woman in the world who would say yes, which goes against the notion of swinging unless I shared her, which would be mutually discussed. " Emily says yes if you can be here before midnight tonight feel any better?? | |||
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"grow some balls" if he hasn't had sex in 10yrs he will have them in a wheelbarrow | |||
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"Maybe I haven't given it a chance by not being here long enough but am getting to the point where I'm thinking this is a gay site. Fed up with looking at my account and seeing more men message me/look at me than women. I came here for women but as a single guy, I can see the irony because as a swinging community there's a lot of closed minds. Men who want two women, couples blocking singles, age restrictions. Where is the culture? I thought that swinging was from free expression of love. Instead it seems that everybody is out for themselves, all for a fuck. I haven't had sex in 10 years. It seems more trouble than it's worth. " we are a couple and members of 10 swingers clubs. but would have to say if this site or any swingers site was the only way I could get pussy I would cut my fucking dick of .as its a waste of time it really is and we are saying that as a couple that have been swinging for over 10 years | |||
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"Second woe is me post from the OP and he's only been here 2weeks. I'm putting my money on UNLOS by the end of the week." | |||
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"Second woe is me post from the OP and he's only been here 2weeks. I'm putting my money on UNLOS by the end of the week." This. These kind of posts are getting a real drag. Why are they often from guys who call themselves "studs" or "alphas"? Maybe that very fact shows their "entitlement" attitude. Then they have the cheek to call themselves swingers.....usually can't accommodate either so provably more correctly called cheats...goes with the whole attitude really. | |||
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"If I may suggest you put up Photos that appeal to women . Nothing exciting or entising in the profile. Maybe write a little about yourself. " What photos appeal to women? What exciting things should I write about? I have no idea. | |||
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"If I may suggest you put up Photos that appeal to women . Nothing exciting or entising in the profile. Maybe write a little about yourself. What photos appeal to women? What exciting things should I write about? I have no idea. " Do you want people to write your profile for you? Seriously if you can't write about yourself then how do you expect others to tell you what to put. | |||
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" Instead it seems that everybody is out for themselves, all for a fuck. " why wouldn't they be... I am only interested in my enjoyment within this world, now if I meet people I am want pleasure to be achieved by both but I don't own the other person's enjoyment. It's upto them | |||
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"If I may suggest you put up Photos that appeal to women . Nothing exciting or entising in the profile. Maybe write a little about yourself. What photos appeal to women? What exciting things should I write about? I have no idea. " There's no magic wand people can wave, there's loads of threads offering advice e on profiles it's generic advice read them then use that information and put your personality into the text. | |||
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"If I may suggest you put up Photos that appeal to women . Nothing exciting or entising in the profile. Maybe write a little about yourself. What photos appeal to women? What exciting things should I write about? I have no idea. " Do a forum search to read previous threads on how to improve profiles would be a start. As above have said, you've only been on here for 2 weeks...your posts on this thread are longer than what you've put on your profile (little effort into your profile suggests liffle effort during a meet); you state you're 'straight', but you have men on your friends list (suggests to some that you're not straight); can't accommodate (suggests to some that you're not single) - all of these are 'red flags' to some who will past you by. Furthermore, whining about it in the forum won't get you any sympathy. You need to 'sell' yourself by making your profile more appealing - a 'shop front' as it were. It's not for us to tell you what you should have on your profile, but to write a little more about yourself (not too personal), explain why can't you accommodate, what you could bring to a meet (without being too explicit) and what are your likes would be a start. In regards to pics, look on other profiles to get ideas. 2 same cock pics isn't much.. P | |||
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"Maybe I haven't given it a chance by not being here long enough but am getting to the point where I'm thinking this is a gay site. Fed up with looking at my account and seeing more men message me/look at me than women. I came here for women but as a single guy, I can see the irony because as a swinging community there's a lot of closed minds. Men who want two women, couples blocking singles, age restrictions. Where is the culture? I thought that swinging was from free expression of love. Instead it seems that everybody is out for themselves, all for a fuck. I haven't had sex in 10 years. It seems more trouble than it's worth. " what a silly immature op. of course everyone is out for themselves on here. We certainly aren't on here for others enjoyment and just have to fuck anything that moves to keep others happy. We are on here for our enjoyment and if others enjoy our company then it's a bonus. | |||
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