FabSwingers.com forum: Something Wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure I'm doing something wrong on here. I know this is going to come across big headed or arrogant but it's not meant to in anyway. it's just when I've hoped to meet certain females and it doesn't happen or message someone and get no reply, I have a look at there veri's to see the type of guys they meet and I'm shocked. I understand it's not all about looks but it is a sex site. I'm no Brad Pitt, David Beckham or Tyson Beckford (delete as appropriate) but If I'm honest I did think I'd be doing better on here. Help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? What types of people do they meet? Do you know how they come across in terms of personality?

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

You do know this is a swingers site , not just for a quick shag .....

Joanne x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you shocked ? If they're the total opposite of you then maybe you're not their type ? Message these guys and ask as they're obviously doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you'd be better off trying an escorting site, that way you can pick & choose whom you'd prefer to meet .... just a thought ! Mrs D

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By *andyandy572Man
over a year ago

derbyshire ish

Try just going with the flow women on here know what they want and get what they want.if your not there type move on find one that is and build up a rapport chat to them it's not all about how much sex you can get its personality and getting to know them as well and you may have more luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same thing,I have girls come on to me or flirt and I can see them next week walk into the club with a old dude who doesn't look her type.

Its all part of the game so my advice is He who dares Wins.

And for what its worth, I have had someone I liked play hard to get,turn up with a older little dude then a few weeks later seen me getting it on with a hotty young enough yo be her daughter and I just laughed to myself

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Why are you shocked? People like what they like and they could've been attracted to anything about that person.

The ripped/muscley look does nothing for me, personally. According to some in my past, that alone means I'm "punching below my weight".

- What utter bollocks.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why you are shocked or suggest that you are doing something wrong? Would you expect to walk up to just any lass in the street say hi and immediately get it on?

It is a swingers site. However that doesn't mean everyone is banging everyone just because they can. Some may be

but not me personally. I prefer to get to know people....

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

This post feels a bit.....ooo what's the word? I'm sure it will come to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you aren't just all that OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women are not into fitness guys, they prefer the average joe's body

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'm sure the 3 women you have met will be pleased to know you believe you could do better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"I'm sure I'm doing something wrong on here. I know this is going to come across big headed or arrogant but it's not meant to in anyway. it's just when I've hoped to meet certain females and it doesn't happen or message someone and get no reply, I have a look at there veri's to see the type of guys they meet and I'm shocked. I understand it's not all about looks but it is a sex site. I'm no Brad Pitt, David Beckham or Tyson Beckford (delete as appropriate) but If I'm honest I did think I'd be doing better on here. Help!"

there lies your problem, this isnt a sex site, its a swingers site, the names a bit of a give away.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"This post feels a bit.....ooo what's the word? I'm sure it will come to me

it's not a word it's a phrase ...... a sense of entitlement, ahh that's what i was looking for....a sense of entitlement

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