FabSwingers.com forum: As a woman do you find men fingering a woman ass on first meet repulsive?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

A swinging friend of mine.went to orgy party recently met up with a mature woman. When Both start to explore each other erogenous zone. Then all of a sudden my friend slip his finger up this woman ass.my friend was surprise with her reaction. She push my friend off her body followed by barrage of insult.

My friend was so embarrassed by the whole episode. Reason for her outrage is that my friend will cross infect her pussy with the same finger. That can cause her (virginal discharge) which is not pleasant in woman's body.

( both supposed to ask each other comfort level before playing?) Or

As she gone too far. Or was my friend naive and stupid? Do you think my friend need to ask before slipping his finger on her ass

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Of course he ought to have asked!

Not everyone likes anal play of any type.

Thats like saying, well it was ok to penetrate her pussy, so slipping it up her arse was bound to be ok!

And I agree with the lady, loads of men are not careful about cross contamination and it can be unpleasant to deal with the after effects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swinging friend of mine.went to orgy party recently met up with a mature woman. When Both start to explore each other erogenous zone. Then all of a sudden my friend slip his finger up this woman ass.my friend was surprise with her reaction. She push my friend off her body followed by barrage of insult.

( both supposed to ask each other comfort level before playing?) Or

As she gone too far. Or was my friend naive and stupid? Do you think my friend need to ask before slipping his finger on her ass"
A pretty strong reaction. I love being fingered in my ass as it is all part of the foreplay and never hesitate to do that to who I am with, man or woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be pissed off if a guy fingered my ass full stop but I state no anal on our profile and only do meets via here. If it was in a club Ive no idea what the etiquette is for laying down rules.

Emily

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Yes he should have asked.

Not every one likes anal play so it is always a good idea to ask. Saying that I have never been asked in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

( both supposed to ask each other comfort level before playing?) Or

As she gone too far. Or was my friend naive and stupid? Do you think my friend need to ask before slipping his finger on her ass"

It's the exploring part of your post that your mate has got wrong.. Poking his finger in and up isn't exploring lol

I have never asked any female during play, oh by the way, can I finger your bum lol

Gentle exploration should soon tell anybody what is allowed, jabbing about and hoping ain't the best technique unless he was a teenager lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He can transfer ecoli to her that way. Something like that should be discussed beforehand or asked. Would he have been happy to have her finger his arse without warning,would you be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im playing with pussy and kissing a woman i will spread the juice from pussy and soak the ass with it but i wont put finger inside until she asks or i will whisper in her ear can i slip finger inside if its a no then thats the end i will just concentrate on the areas she enjoys

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Tongue first surely,

It's only common courtesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would of been worse if it was the Sky Remote

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