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By *eedscouple99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Though we should clarify this is our first meet as a couple and her first ever taste of swinging. He was a cuckold in his previous relationship and watched hundreds of guys with his ex.

Anyway, our first meet is tomorrow (yay!) Now he is the experienced one so is not nervous at all.

However, she is very very nervous (but excited!) as is the guy we are meeting. How can we make the situation a bit less...tense

We are going for drinks first and have chatted for a whilst and have cammed etc. But nerves are still very present!

Any tips?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

A couple of drinks (and I mean a couple, don't overdo it!) first, and a bit of banter should ease the nerves. Then just take it easy, there's no rush, go with the flow, you'll all enjoy it!

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By *eedscouple99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

D*unk sex is never as satisfying, so agreed on that note!

We have already come to the agreement that there is no pressure on anyone. If the guy we meet gets cold feet he can just have drinks with us or he can watch us fuck

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Like I said; go easy on the drinks, just enough 'Dutch courage' to calm the nerves, and see what happens.

It's a shame we're not closer

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Like I said; go easy on the drinks, just enough 'Dutch courage' to calm the nerves, and see what happens.

It's a shame we're not closer "

Ahh! But I'm too old lol

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By *eedscouple99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks for the advice. As you said, enough for a bit of courage and let the nerves settle. The poor guy we are meeting is totally petrified!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Thanks for the advice. As you said, enough for a bit of courage and let the nerves settle. The poor guy we are meeting is totally petrified!

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I'm sure he'll get into the 'swing' of it lol

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Though we should clarify this is our first meet as a couple and her first ever taste of swinging. He was a cuckold in his previous relationship and watched hundreds of guys with his ex.

Anyway, our first meet is tomorrow (yay!) Now he is the experienced one so is not nervous at all.

However, she is very very nervous (but excited!) as is the guy we are meeting. How can we make the situation a bit less...tense

We are going for drinks first and have chatted for a whilst and have cammed etc. But nerves are still very present!

Any tips?"

Personally I would not meet with any expectations. The more she feels pressured to go through with this, her first time,then there is no chance she'll feel relaxed. Play it by ear. .

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