FabSwingers.com forum: Name and shame

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not going to as I know you're not allowed, but I really think you should be able to because there are some truly awful people on this website. Rude, ignorant, hateful, awful people. Mostly single women I might add.

Who'd have thought it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not going to as I know you're not allowed, but I really think you should be able to because there are some truly awful people on this website. Rude, ignorant, hateful, awful people. Mostly single women I might add.

Who'd have thought it. "

That it's women? Lol doesn't surprise me at all

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men can be just as bad.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

LibertineX sent me abusive messages after we arranged to meet and he didn't turn up..

See how easy it is to lie? If people are being nasty by PM report and block them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For every single lady you can name I can name 50 single men lol having said that there are some lovely people on here just ignore the people you don't like

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Who'd have thought it. "

That 'Libertine' is a rude, arrogant and spiteful person. See why it wouldn't work, I don't even know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you could report those you know are fake. For example there's a guy local to us who has a profile..and a single ladies profile..supposedly friends, but things they write/way they write are almost identical..so obviously just him....not verified either of them..gerrr annoys the pants off me xxx

Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LibertineX sent me abusive messages after we arranged to meet and he didn't turn up..

See how easy it is to lie? If people are being nasty by PM report and block them x"

Ahh always 2 sides to a story hey hunni... so he's rattled because you blocked him. Deserves it then. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I'm aware of all the ways of reporting, blocking etc. And most people are lovely, and I don't mind being ignored or rejected. I'm just waxing lyrical about people who are just horrible to you for no reason. It's just odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do slightly agree with the naming and shaming. But you will get people doing it for the wrong reasons !

The possible reason for you getting this problem from females might be because your not a women and having too put up with a large number of dickheads. Who use this site as a shagging site and not a swinging site as it is. There is a difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"LibertineX sent me abusive messages after we arranged to meet and he didn't turn up..

See how easy it is to lie? If people are being nasty by PM report and block them x

Ahh always 2 sides to a story hey hunni... so he's rattled because you blocked him. Deserves it then. Xx"

Single sexy blonde. Re read her message, you've got the wrong end of the stick. I've never spoken to that person.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"LibertineX sent me abusive messages after we arranged to meet and he didn't turn up..

See how easy it is to lie? If people are being nasty by PM report and block them x

Ahh always 2 sides to a story hey hunni... so he's rattled because you blocked him. Deserves it then. Xx"

No. I was giving an example how name and shame can't ever work as there is no proof. Anyone could say anything about anyone. I've never spoken to the OP but if I decided I wanted to be a bitch I could name and shame him and no one would know I was lying:

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Oh I'm aware of all the ways of reporting, blocking etc. And most people are lovely, and I don't mind being ignored or rejected. I'm just waxing lyrical about people who are just horrible to you for no reason. It's just odd. "

I agree. Why people go out of their way to be nasty to others for no real reason is strange. Nowt as queer as folk x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah thanks. And your message has made me look like a right idiot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do slightly agree with the naming and shaming. But you will get people doing it for the wrong reasons !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection is part of swinging if you can't take it probably best to try something else !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rejection is part of swinging if you can't take it probably best to try something else !"

You need to read the whole thread. No offence. I can very happily take rejection, which is not at all what this thread is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rejection is part of swinging if you can't take it probably best to try something else !

You need to read the whole thread. No offence. I can very happily take rejection, which is not at all what this thread is about. "

It was nt aimed at you it was a comment based on my experience most abuse and nastiness i get is because I say no ! Some people are just too fragile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is proving that people take things too personal !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rejection is part of swinging if you can't take it probably best to try something else !

You need to read the whole thread. No offence. I can very happily take rejection, which is not at all what this thread is about.

It was nt aimed at you it was a comment based on my experience most abuse and nastiness i get is because I say no ! Some people are just too fragile "

Like I said though, this isn't a thread about rejection. Different thing entirely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is proving that people take things too personal ! "

Really? Isn't that a slightly narrow minded response? And isn't direct, private abuse considered personal?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"This is proving that people take things too personal ! "

I don't take things personally but it does baffle me when someone sends a message out of the blue being nasty when you've never had any contact before. It's just strange that anyone would think to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LibertineX sent me abusive messages after we arranged to meet and he didn't turn up..

See how easy it is to lie? If people are being nasty by PM report and block them x

Ahh always 2 sides to a story hey hunni... so he's rattled because you blocked him. Deserves it then. Xx

Sorry xx

Single sexy blonde. Re read her message, you've got the wrong end of the stick. I've never spoken to that person. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct me ( Mrs D ) if l'm wrong, but l wasn't aware that you could couldn't name & shame as frequently l have seen status's with ' stay away from XYZ ' etc on them.... one confuddled Mrs D here !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rejection is part of swinging if you can't take it probably best to try something else !

You need to read the whole thread. No offence. I can very happily take rejection, which is not at all what this thread is about.

It was nt aimed at you it was a comment based on my experience most abuse and nastiness i get is because I say no ! Some people are just too fragile

Like I said though, this isn't a thread about rejection. Different thing entirely. "

It's a forum therefore open to all opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Correct me ( Mrs D ) if l'm wrong, but l wasn't aware that you could couldn't name & shame as frequently l have seen status's with ' stay away from XYZ ' etc on them.... one confuddled Mrs D here !!

You can't do it on forums. Not sure about the profile rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rejection is part of swinging if you can't take it probably best to try something else !

You need to read the whole thread. No offence. I can very happily take rejection, which is not at all what this thread is about.

It was nt aimed at you it was a comment based on my experience most abuse and nastiness i get is because I say no ! Some people are just too fragile

Like I said though, this isn't a thread about rejection. Different thing entirely.

It's a forum therefore open to all opinions

Yes that's true. But the thread isn't about rejection. It's about rudeness.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"I wish you could report those you know are fake. For example there's a guy local to us who has a profile..and a single ladies profile..supposedly friends, but things they write/way they write are almost identical..so obviously just him....not verified either of them..gerrr annoys the pants off me xxx

Kitty"

You can report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn my early morning blurry eyes for not reading my last comment prior to hitting post !! Need to lose the ' could' !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello,

Is the right room for an argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is proving that people take things too personal !

Really? Isn't that a slightly narrow minded response? And isn't direct, private abuse considered personal? "

I am referring to people not reading and understanding messages properly. And then getting the wrong idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Correct me ( Mrs D ) if l'm wrong, but l wasn't aware that you could couldn't name & shame as frequently l have seen status's with ' stay away from XYZ ' etc on them.... one confuddled Mrs D here !!

You can't do it on forums. Not sure about the profile rules. "
. Cheers , good to know

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

There are a lot of rude women on here...

When i chat to people and you've been chatting a while.....and maybe you think they're not for me.....i don't just block them or ignore them....

I explain nicely and we part nicely...

That why i chat with women for a while first .....and the nasty ones....come out of their rude box and i'm sure they meet who they deserve......(still nice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rejection is part of swinging if you can't take it probably best to try something else !

You need to read the whole thread. No offence. I can very happily take rejection, which is not at all what this thread is about.

It was nt aimed at you it was a comment based on my experience most abuse and nastiness i get is because I say no ! Some people are just too fragile

Like I said though, this isn't a thread about rejection. Different thing entirely.

It's a forum therefore open to all opinions

Yes that's true. But the thread isn't about rejection. It's about rudeness. "

My point is I only encounter rudeness when I say no thanks I think it's a valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello,

Is the right room for an argument. "
. Not with moi!! MrsD

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you think someone has broken site rules report them, if someone has been rude to you, block and ignore.

Having name and shame isnt something Admin are going to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Correct me ( Mrs D ) if l'm wrong, but l wasn't aware that you could couldn't name & shame as frequently l have seen status's with ' stay away from XYZ ' etc on them.... one confuddled Mrs D here !!

Status's aren't supposed to be used for that, its against the site rules. Sadly some folk do, often because there's some sort of private 'spat' going on between them.

At the end of the day, haters gonna hate - I think the people who mess others about or who are just giving the scene a bad name are soon mentioned in the rumour mill that circulates in private messages and word of mouth

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