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What is your idea of a two couple meet?

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By *indandfire OP   Couple
over a year ago

ashbourne

If you were to meet as part of a group of four people what would you expect to happen?

We would love group sex all touching and licking and exciting each other( not male on male) then see where the excitement leads.... A swap ...dp. .. or just soft buy lengthy and involving all.

Whathappens in fact?.... Other man jumps in and with a little boring foreplay expects penetration. very vanilla and doesn't excite as to us it is the excitement and involvement of our partner that heightens the mood.

what are your experiences?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Hmm, the old expectation vs reality problem.

The only way to get round this is to make it clear what you would like beforehand.

Good luck in future.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

or, having just read your profile and verifications is this your way of letting someone know they've disappointed you? I really hope not.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"Hmm, the old expectation vs reality problem.

The only way to get round this is to make it clear what you would like beforehand.

Good luck in future. "

Completely agree... Make sure expectations are clear... Honesty always pays.. We always say dislike mechanical swap but love interactive fun.... Good luck

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By *emonWoman84Woman
over a year ago

Hartlepool

we never managed to meet a couple where everyone found everyone attractive, so we gave up and made solo accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never expect anything nor plan scenarios, we go with the flow with others, we have never been disappointed yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer all to play together and sex with own partner but it normally ends up a swap

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By *indandfire OP   Couple
over a year ago

ashbourne

Definitely not a way to say unhappy with anyone.... especially not any of the lovely couplers in our verifications. We go with the flow and try to make sure everyone gets out of the experience what they would like. It's just that a while ago my partner had lots of wild orgy room experiences and i would love the same but they seem to follow more predictable basic swap experience.

had lovely experience with two girls at a partybut it just ddoesn't seem to work the same way with couples somehow. It is a pleasant experience and certainly was with every couple we have on our profile... but the fantasy still eludes us.

We are very adventurous but haven't been able to really go wild .... yet. We don't want to create a shopping list because all things would not be right with all people it's a case of how to turn go with the flow....to WOW !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its different for us as I (Stu) dont join in Im the camera man while Emily plays so although we meet as a group of 4 its 3 way play and that leads to lots of fun and different experiences. I would like to get a couple and another guy here at least once and film Emily in a four way but most couples meet us because there isnt a second guy playing so I think that scenario is unlikely.

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By *indandfire OP   Couple
over a year ago

ashbourne

We like a couple to both play.... just to have a girl who wants to involve my partner would be good lol

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

we have always been very lucky with the couples we have met ,,,,,,, although the other couples may say they were not as happy with the out come

in saying that we are not looking for other couples at the moment because we regulary meet another couple and we get on so well we don't need to complicate things

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We don't tend to have a fixed agenda. Where we have seen people with that it has never seemed to work or be natural to us.

We tend to like to just chill out, with the four of us trying to figure out what would be the most fun. Usually that'll involve the girls interacting and opposite partners interacting with loads of kissing and touching. Load of oral, that's a pretty much given because we both love that. Sometimes if anyone's neevous it can be slow and gentle and other times it's hard and fast fucking. Just depends on the enviroment, the people and the moment.

If we had what you describe in someone expecting to fuck straight away we would have realised that, that's not what we look for and we made a mistake picking that couple so we would have walked away.

As yet... We'be made some errors in the people we have picked to play with on occasion but never that one

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By *indandfire OP   Couple
over a year ago

ashbourne

exactly .... We end the experience when we realise the desire or stick to soft swing and don't get more involved.

difficult to ask how couples perceive a good meet... It just doesn't seem to head into the really exciting abandoned fun we really want.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"exactly .... We end the experience when we realise the desire or stick to soft swing and don't get more involved.

difficult to ask how couples perceive a good meet... It just doesn't seem to head into the really exciting abandoned fun we really want. "

Oddly (or perhaps not) we have had experiences closer to what we (and you) are looking for just by encountering another couple in a couples' room.

I find this thread interesting as my wife can get plenty of threesome fun if she wants it (so far an FFM has eluded me but no suprise there). We have had good meets with couples where the ladies have played with both men as well as each other and that's the best to me.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"exactly .... We end the experience when we realise the desire or stick to soft swing and don't get more involved.

difficult to ask how couples perceive a good meet... It just doesn't seem to head into the really exciting abandoned fun we really want.

Oddly (or perhaps not) we have had experiences closer to what we (and you) are looking for just by encountering another couple in a couples' room.

I find this thread interesting as my wife can get plenty of threesome fun if she wants it (so far an FFM has eluded me but no suprise there). We have had good meets with couples where the ladies have played with both men as well as each other and that's the best to me. "

I think to find a couple where you are all totally relaxed and open about your desires is a rare thing. To find two people in sync is hard enough. Four people is even harder to find it that good. We've done it once or twice since we have been playing.

We love playing in clubs now. However in retrospect I don't think we will find the meet as we're talking about here in a club. Maybe meet the couple and play in private at a later date.

For both of us we can have loads of fun in a club but never quite relax 100% because you always have to have a guard up as it's the nature of where you are.

It's definitely not easy to find that perfect meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like a couple to both play.... just to have a girl who wants to involve my partner would be good lol"

Emily does play with both halves of a couple so she does involve both halves. There are other couples like us out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're still to meet a couple and found this an interesting thread as it's something we'd like to get into. Maybe socially at first and see what happens. We are finding most couples want bi fem play and we're both straight so proving difficult. Good reading this thought. Eye opener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only met couples in clubs as guess a little nervous after all you have four people who have to click and a lot of times its the guy who tries to lead what's going to happen instead of letting what's already started happening progress naturally

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon


"exactly .... We end the experience when we realise the desire or stick to soft swing and don't get more involved.

difficult to ask how couples perceive a good meet... It just doesn't seem to head into the really exciting abandoned fun we really want.

Oddly (or perhaps not) we have had experiences closer to what we (and you) are looking for just by encountering another couple in a couples' room.

I find this thread interesting as my wife can get plenty of threesome fun if she wants it (so far an FFM has eluded me but no suprise there). We have had good meets with couples where the ladies have played with both men as well as each other and that's the best to me.

I think to find a couple where you are all totally relaxed and open about your desires is a rare thing. To find two people in sync is hard enough. Four people is even harder to find it that good. We've done it once or twice since we have been playing.

We love playing in clubs now. However in retrospect I don't think we will find the meet as we're talking about here in a club. Maybe meet the couple and play in private at a later date.

For both of us we can have loads of fun in a club but never quite relax 100% because you always have to have a guard up as it's the nature of where you are.

It's definitely not easy to find that perfect meet!"

we are so lucky to of met this couple who are a perfect match for us , and we met by chance as well , sat in the prem inn having a drink waiting for xtasia to get going , we regard ourselves as very lucky as you see so many un happy folk on here

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Funny how the best meets end up happening

Xx

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