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"I agree Honeypot. Too many risks for me personally. Place could be wired up with cams recording your fun. His mates could just call in as they were passing by (yeah right). You may be locked in etc. Clubs are the safest places to play in your circumstance I would imagine x" Gosh i never think about cams or people popping in!! Although i feel safe as im with mat, in terms of cams thats got to be a worry!! That said we prefere to meet at theirs as i dont like the idea of them knowing where we live xxx | |||
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"As I said my friend was the only one I could let into my secret life but she is not around anymore and I don't have anyone else I could trust, I have also never been to a club before as I have never fancied the idea and the meet is for 8.30 tonight" it's still not too late to arrange to meet somewhere public before hand. also, is there no-one on the site you have met that you can confide in..just to give the ok after...or even approach one of his verifications? | |||
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"as a single guy who does accomadate and has met loads of single ladies at my house yes there are risks but i would like to bet that more ladies have been acosted in a taxi than from guys on here, hopefully you have chatted to him on the phone did he sound sincer did you feel at ease with him then go with your gut feelings, and have a good time " no-one doubts it, but i wouldn't want anyone of either sex to meet the one person that does have ulterior motives or wants to take advantage. | |||
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"Until now I have always met guys in my meeting place, which was a friends flat, unfortunately I no longer have that option open to me and have just arranged to meet a guy at his, I'm a bit nervous about this and wondered if any one has any advice to give, especially with the safety aspect, my friend was the only one who knew about this life I lead and I had her at the end of the phone if needed but now I don't" I personally would never go out to a guys house to meet for the first time, once your in there if you decide you dont like him or feel uncomfy it can be very hard to make your excuses and leave, now its easy for people to say you shouldnt need to make excuses just say you dont like them and go, but when your a single female on someone elses turf for the first time its not that easy as you never know how they going to react! My advice is meet him in a pub or someone public and open so if you dont like him its easy to go with lots of people sround you so your not alone and if you do get on you can always go back to his after when you feel more at ease x | |||
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"Until now I have always met guys in my meeting place, which was a friends flat, unfortunately I no longer have that option open to me and have just arranged to meet a guy at his, I'm a bit nervous about this and wondered if any one has any advice to give, especially with the safety aspect, my friend was the only one who knew about this life I lead and I had her at the end of the phone if needed but now I don't I personally would never go out to a guys house to meet for the first time, once your in there if you decide you dont like him or feel uncomfy it can be very hard to make your excuses and leave, now its easy for people to say you shouldnt need to make excuses just say you dont like them and go, but when your a single female on someone elses turf for the first time its not that easy as you never know how they going to react! My advice is meet him in a pub or someone public and open so if you dont like him its easy to go with lots of people sround you so your not alone and if you do get on you can always go back to his after when you feel more at ease x" Excellent advice! | |||
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"I am glad I am not single, I would probably never meet anyone ! " Rugby a 'wuss' ? I don't believe it | |||
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"I am glad I am not single, I would probably never meet anyone ! Rugby a 'wuss' ? I don't believe it " I know!!! What a shocker!!! | |||
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"It is difficult as a single female but this is what I do. Always meet in a public place first. Alway tell a friend where I'm going and what time i'm due back. Ring/text her to let her know I'm ok and if I go to a guys place then I will ring her after Ive left to let her know I'm safe. I suppose its not foolproof and there are risks involved but i've been ok so far!" This is all sensible advice.. maybe I'd add that (assuming you have a friend/contact arranged) you should get them to call you, rather than you them.. any genuine fella is not going to mind at all that you take a call during your meet to make sure everything's OK.. Better safe than sorry - Hope it goes well! | |||
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"Thanks to everyone who gave me advice on this subject I posted, I took note of everything that was said, arranged a friend to call while I was on my meet, arranged to meet in a public place etc........and then the ARSEHOLE stood me up lol" Aawwwwww thats crap | |||
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"Thanks to everyone who gave me advice on this subject I posted, I took note of everything that was said, arranged a friend to call while I was on my meet, arranged to meet in a public place etc........and then the ARSEHOLE stood me up lol" What a prick! Maybe it's for the best anyway. Onwards and upwards! x | |||
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"I would strongly suggest meeting in a public place - ideally, you will already have seen this person on webcam and chatted to them. I once allowed a girl I met on another site to come to my hotel room even though I had only seen her profile (without a pic) and exchanged texts. I was terrified that when i opened the door there'd be a gang of men waiting to pounce on me and beat me up. As it turned out, she was absolutely gorgeous and we had a fantastic evening. We're still in touch but she lives a long long way away " never tried that. any chance of her email address | |||
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