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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just read a status on a guys profile who looked at me. Couldn't be arsed looking at the actual profile.

Status read....not like other black guys, I don't just fuck anything. What do people make of this? Is this REALLY a perception of black guys? This would be really racist if posted by a white man!

Is it why some profiles say no blacks or Asians?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he knows a lot of black men who will have sex with whomever is on offer,rather than trying to build up a rapport. Sex is just sex to some people,not just black men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just read a status on a guys profile who looked at me. Couldn't be arsed looking at the actual profile.

Status read....not like other black guys, I don't just fuck anything. What do people make of this? Is this REALLY a perception of black guys? This would be really racist if posted by a white man!

Is it why some profiles say no blacks or Asians?"

I doubt it's why some profiles say that.

It's making a huge generalisation about men based on skin colour I don't think the skin colour of the individual making that generalisation is significant. It's just another example if someone trying to make themselves look good by making others look bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I doubt it's why some profiles say that.

It's making a huge generalisation about men based on skin colour I don't think the skin colour of the individual making that generalisation is significant. It's just another example if someone trying to make themselves look good by making others look bad."

Absolutely bang-on

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny thing to say, nothing wrong with saying you are choosy, but to say that black guys aren't fussy isn't true, the 2 I met were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually OP, I think that a white guy posting '...not like other black guys' on his status is just idiotic and ridiculous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, if a white guy were to post it (and assuming that the same rules applied) surely it would read ';...not like other white guys, wont just fuck anything'

Elitist, derogatory and possibly inflammatory, yes. Racist, no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.

Was wondering if it was a perception for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe he thought that's what people think about black guys, that's why he said it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the question of why some profiles say 'No Insert Age, Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation Here', that's expressing a preference; a choice.

It's still OK to express and act upon personal choice when it comes to sexual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.

Was wondering if it was a perception for some."

I think that some people will fuck anything. I don't believe its related to ethnicity, gender or anything like that. Its a mindset of an individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will simply just fuck anything, it's that simple. They have no standards and just want to add a few notches to the bed post.

Last time I checked it wasn't just black people, it was anybody.

We do tend to cherry pick our meets but then... Who wouldn't? We have been close to meeting people before, until seeing. That actually the person was a total arse. That happens a lot because there's a lot of fakers here. But should we just sleep with them because we can? C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i thought it was guys in general that poke anything onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i thought it was guys in general that poke anything onhere "

guys and gals too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.

Was wondering if it was a perception for some."

You can't be racist towards your own culture/colour didn't you know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doubt he even registered any thought of how this could be taken...sounds like a stupid off the cuff remark, no different than all the guys on here who put 'not like all the other guys'...'im different'..etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.

Was wondering if it was a perception for some.

You can't be racist towards your own culture/colour didn't you know that "

But you can be a self-hater.

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.

Was wondering if it was a perception for some.

I think that some people will fuck anything. I don't believe its related to ethnicity, gender or anything like that. Its a mindset of an individual. "

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

My profile says No Asians.. Because I don't want to meet Asians. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing about fucking "anything" is,one person's "anything" is another person's perfect fuck. For instance,I've previously read comments from people saying they are picky,choosy,don't fuck just anything and looked at who they have fucked,and not found them attractive. I will be an "anything" to some people. As for people who attend gang bangs and orgies,it's their kink,their turn on to have sex with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant, obviously, if a white guy said black guys will fuck anything it would be racist. It isn't something I've found myself.

Was wondering if it was a perception for some.

You can't be racist towards your own culture/colour didn't you know that

But you can be a self-hater."

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

No, not my perception of Black Men at all ... ( Mrs )

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

This Mr or ms anything that this guy won't fuck is still a living breathing human being with feelings

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"On the question of why some profiles say 'No Insert Age, Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation Here', that's expressing a preference; a choice.

It's still OK to express and act upon personal choice when it comes to sexual attraction. "

So would it be OK for someone to have on their profile:

"No Jews because I won't fuck any untermenschen"? It's their preference after all.

Or what about:

"No bi men because the idea of two men together makes me sick to my stomach?"

(that's an actual quote from a post on this site by the way)

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have seen many profiles stating similar. I guess they think they are superior and that this is a selling point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read a status on a guys profile who looked at me. Couldn't be arsed looking at the actual profile.

Status read....not like other black guys, I don't just fuck anything. What do people make of this? Is this REALLY a perception of black guys? This would be really racist if posted by a white man!

Is it why some profiles say no blacks or Asians?"

This is one of the reasons why I would never go with a black man, yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the question of why some profiles say 'No Insert Age, Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation Here', that's expressing a preference; a choice.

It's still OK to express and act upon personal choice when it comes to sexual attraction.

So would it be OK for someone to have on their profile:

"No Jews because I won't fuck any untermenschen"? It's their preference after all.

Or what about:

"No bi men because the idea of two men together makes me sick to my stomach?"

(that's an actual quote from a post on this site by the way)"

The first is anti Semitic. The second is a crass expression of an individual's preference.

It is possible to express a preference without being a twat about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a difference between not wanting something, and being an utter twat about it. I don't go for black men, never have, never will. But I'm not racist. I just don't ci d black men sexually appealing. Just like I do t if d really old men appealing. Or dogs. Or golfing umbrellas.

But there IS a way to say that on a profile and remain polite. If somebody were to take offence to a polite mention then that would be their concern. I mention I don't like muscle bound guys on my profile. Hats my preference. I don't say all guys with muscles have small cocks and are clearly compensating, that they need to all fuck off, because they are ugly as shit and should die. I just say i I don't go for that type.

Sadly... Some people on here can't do that. I get messages from people saying I. Clearly a fat bitch and that I have to settle with my fat small peckered man because Im too ugly to pull somebody like them... Egos, man... Ugh... C x

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"The second is a crass expression of an individual's preference."

It just so happens to be a homophobic "preference". Why is that any more acceptable than an anti-Semitic one, crass or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that some people will fuck anything. I don't believe its related to ethnicity, gender or anything like that. Its a mindset of an individual. "

I'm inclined to agree with you on that one.

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