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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them. "

I suppose it is like people putting safe sex on their preferences but having bareback pictures. Some guys are bi convenient when it suits them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

more like they want to maximise the amount of possible meets... if your bi or bi curious put it on your profile !!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive said that for ages, quite bluntly so on our profile. Its not bi guys the majority dont like its liars!

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Just remind them....

When I get messages from straight guys wanting me to help them explore their 'bi side' I say sorry but you don't appear to have one...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sneaky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their profile. It's up them how they use it.

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By *1paljungMan
over a year ago

Richmond


" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them. "

Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and do not meet bi or gay single men. It works for me, and I've enticed some couples with it. I think I'm more pansexual than bi sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do people think being a lesbian is perfectly acceptable but being bi or gay is a big taboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont thats just it. Loads of threads on here talk about wanting and preferring bi guys. Lots couldnt care less. Only a few will not meet bi guys so what makes the bi guys A) think they have the right to lie to meet them. And B) want to meet that small group that clearly does not want to meet them? Build a bridge, get over it and stick to the large percentage who WANT to meet bi guys or dont give two shits that your bi. Being a liar puts far more people off

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them.

Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and

do not meet bi or gay single men. It

works for me, and I've enticed some

couples with it. I think I'm more

pansexual than bi sexual."

It's on your profile though

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By *1paljungMan
over a year ago

Richmond


" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them.

Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and

do not meet bi or gay single men. It

works for me, and I've enticed some

couples with it. I think I'm more

pansexual than bi sexual.

It's on your profile though "

Thanks mate, much appreciated the tick box selection on here is funny so I wrote hetro-flexible

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


" Why do men think it is ok to put straight on their profile when they are bi or bi curious... Then say oh by the way I am bi but don't like to advertise it ... well if they can't be honest about that why would you want to meet them.

Up to me what I put on my profile and in what way. I have my sexuality as straight as I only meet bi couples and

do not meet bi or gay single men. It

works for me, and I've enticed some

couples with it. I think I'm more

pansexual than bi sexual.

It's on your profile though

Thanks mate, much appreciated

the tick box selection on here

is funny so I wrote hetro-flexible :-

)"

The point being you tell people in your profile. Some men who describe themselves as straight don't mention anything about any spectrum of bi-ness and it's misleading. Desperation for sex overriding any sense of respect for the couple they are trying to have sex with.

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've had bi experiences through mmf's I've had, but I wouldn't say I'm bi sexual - I don't fancy men, wouldn't message them and would not meet a man alone. But in certain sexual situations certain acts have happened, I've gone with the flow and enjoyed it. That's human behaviour for you - never simple!

Maybe some people just don't want to be pigeonholed into something they don't think suits them, or be beholdent to a certain label.

It's a tricky one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I *love* bisexual men.

I find it really unattractive though when they say straight on their profile. Liars aren't attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I *love* bisexual men.

I find it really unattractive though when they say straight on their profile. Liars aren't attractive."

well said

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

The last line on my profile says I don't reply to straight men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we always say honesty is best !!!!

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By *iGuy4U10Man
over a year ago

plymouth devon

If your bi say your bi as they like me obviously want a bi couple and being honest is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish Fab would expand the search criteria so it's possible to look for bi men only. Especially in a couple. "Where one is bi" finds lots of bi females.

When my wife and I search we would like just the guy to be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's their profile. It's up them how they use it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting people in clubs, does anyone question the guy on his sexuality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same when you see someone describe themselves as "professional", then when you question them as to which regulatory body they are a member of they say none. Hang em! Hang em high!

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By *erebothbiCouple
over a year ago

howden

There is a lot of couples who will not meet bi guys , which is their choice and thats fine with me but they will meet bi guys with "straight" on their profile. Ignorance is bliss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same when you see someone describe themselves as "professional", then when you question them as to which regulatory body they are a member of they say none. Hang em! Hang em high! "

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Lots of guys who claim to be strait send me message's saying things like "I'm going to fuck hard and suck my Cock " even when I've never even spoke to them.

I'm bicurious with limited bi experience but I have been honest on here about it.

I feel sonetimes that puts some couples off but feel it's better to be honest from the word go.

Saying that, I've still not managed a real bi threesome yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We view it as being dishonest. If they can't be honest about their sexuality, what else are they willing to be dishonest about.

So we would never invite them to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When meeting people in clubs, does anyone question the guy on his sexuality?"

Right up until the point he is knelt in front of me

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


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If they can't be honest about their sexuality, what else are they willing to be dishonest about.

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The colour of the car they drive

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