FabSwingers.com forum: stupid males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When on when will they learn...

I try not to block but be polite if the person messaging is not what Im looking for.

Being told I must reply either way to their message, or.. It's a sex site so looks don't matter... Esp when there are no faces on _iew. just annoys me.

Guys you just look desperate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't they just,not to mention creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Sometimes it's easier not to reply at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get the _iewpoint that faces don't matter as it's a sex? Surely you have to fancy someone?

We have to find an initial attraction and personality spark to get going.

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"I just don't get the _iewpoint that faces don't matter as it's a sex? Surely you have to fancy someone?

We have to find an initial attraction and personality spark to get going. "

I quite agree, I'm selective about who I message, and I don't expect a reply, nor do I often get one. I wonder how many guys on here that get upset when they don't get one would reply to every mail they received if they got the same volume of mail that some female and couples friends of mine get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on when will they learn...

I try not to block but be polite if the person messaging is not what Im looking for.

Being told I must reply either way to their message, or.. It's a sex site so looks don't matter... Esp when there are no faces on _iew. just annoys me.

Guys you just look desperate!

So we guys if we don't send a face pic when women instruct us, then we are stupid? great

pretty much yea,,who wants to meet a faceless person,,think bout it,,duh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get the _iewpoint that faces don't matter as it's a sex? Surely you have to fancy someone?

We have to find an initial attraction and personality spark to get going.

I was trying hard not to reply to sutch offensive thread calling us all men stupid and desperate but then here you come agreeing with a happy face to prove her right. Am outa here man.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's funny how looks don't matter when they start it all off by saying how sexy I look in my pics and how I'm just their type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to be clear our post is not bashing single males as we have yet to have a bad experience with singles on here.

We just don't get the _iewpoint about faces and attraction don't matter. For us attraction is subjective and not just solely how people look in a traditional sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how looks don't matter when they start it all off by saying how sexy I look in my pics and how I'm just their type

lol,,then ya say no thankyou n so many get nasty,,poor little boys cant handle rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the dumb ass bi females that get on my tits the most with their constant messaging. "Can I bring some friends round?" "Can we put on a show for you?"

FFS girls; leave me the f#ck alone! If I want you I'll find you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that their are many idiots on here, however it does go both way. Profiles stating that they want war and peace in any messages, demanding pictures when they dont have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the dumb ass bi females that get on my tits the most with their constant messaging. "Can I bring some friends round?" "Can we put on a show for you?"

FFS girls; leave me the f#ck alone! If I want you I'll find you!!

We get that a lot. We just put up with it and suffer for our art.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you mean stupid people who lack manners... I feel like when you were in school and the whole class was kept back cos Jimmy Parsons farted but wouldn't own up so we were all punished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to be clear our post is not bashing single males as we have yet to have a bad experience with singles on here.

We just don't get the _iewpoint about faces and attraction don't matter. For us attraction is subjective and not just solely how people look in a traditional sense. "
Could not agree more. Sometimes the most physically attractive people can be the most repulsive.

Attitude, personality and outlook are major influences for us. Looks are quite low on the list.

More important to be nice that pretty. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get the _iewpoint that faces don't matter as it's a sex? Surely you have to fancy someone?

We have to find an initial attraction and personality spark to get going.

I was trying hard not to reply to sutch offensive thread calling us all men stupid and desperate but then here you come agreeing with a happy face to prove her right. Am outa here man. "

Bye then dude.....because if that's your attitude you are better out of here. Guys who message randomly, without face pics and who think this is just a sex site fully deserve their lack of success. They DO deserve to be called stupid too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I as a single male always remain respectufull...this is a swinging site not everyone is going to be attracted to you physically or psychologically and for some people it would be near damn impossible to reply to every message...my only quarm is when someone messages me and I reply (always respectfully,after reading profile text) then not receiving a reply a simple, sorry your not what where/I'm looking for would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah could have phrased that better o.p?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on when will they learn...

I try not to block but be polite if the person messaging is not what Im looking for.

Being told I must reply either way to their message, or.. It's a sex site so looks don't matter... Esp when there are no faces on _iew. just annoys me.

Guys you just look desperate! "

Judging from your post alone you don't seam to be the polite one. Sorry but that's how it seams to me. Not that you're the type I would contact but if I did, I won't be sending a face pic straight away. Just as women care about their privacy and identity, men also do. Having an unbalanced ratio of men verses women to your advantage that allows you to feel special and attractive in some fake way doesn't mean that you are in any position to consider yourself superior intellectually and generalise about men being stupid and desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah could have phrased that better o.p?

I think she phrased it perfectly,the op did not mean ALL guys.

there are indeed some extremely nice polite not to mention yummy lookin guys on fab

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I just don't get the _iewpoint that faces don't matter as it's a sex? Surely you have to fancy someone?

We have to find an initial attraction and personality spark to get going. "

They are basically saying they would fuck anything with a pulse, which to me says no standards, no self respect and probably selfish, e.g. Just in it for their own satisfaction. There are some women with this _iew point too, scary.

I would just give them a wide berth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah could have phrased that better o.p?

I think she phrased it perfectly,the op did not mean ALL guys.

there are indeed some extremely nice polite not to mention yummy lookin guys on fab

No?

Silly me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Another single male bashing thread

its not like some women demand face pics without having any pictures on themselves.

Some women are just up their own arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another single male bashing thread

its not like some women demand face pics without having any pictures on themselves.

Some women are just up their own arses

yes some are eh

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I understood not long after joining the site that people take different approaches and if that approach isn't for you... block and move on.

the constant bashing on these forums achieves fuck all...

and the need to grandstand indignation

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"When on when will they learn...

I try not to block but be polite if the person messaging is not what Im looking for.

Being told I must reply either way to their message, or.. It's a sex site so looks don't matter... Esp when there are no faces on _iew. just annoys me.

Guys you just look desperate! "

Lol. Try not to block to be polite but call them stupid in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understood not long after joining the site that people take different approaches and if that approach isn't for you... block and move on.

the constant bashing on these forums achieves fuck all...

and the need to grandstand indignation

Grandstand indignation, that's a great way of describing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I don't think at any point the op said ALL GUYS WHERE STUPID,,So why is everyone getting their knickers in a twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are indeed some extremely nice polite not to mention yummy lookin guys on fab

And way too many desperate bi females

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I ignore messages such as the OP gets, and have a 'no face pic, no reply' rule I stick by. If I get a face pic that doesn't excite me then I let them know 'thanks but no' and move on. I don't engage them in chat for several messages afterwards which gives them false hope.

If I were the OP and getting upset with the messages received, I would block all single men and search for them myself. I know its nice to log on to an inbox full of messages from men who want us, but when its a chore its time to do something. Take some responsibility and do the searching yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on when will they learn...

I try not to block but be polite if the person messaging is not what Im looking for.

Being told I must reply either way to their message, or.. It's a sex site so looks don't matter... Esp when there are no faces on _iew. just annoys me.

Guys you just look desperate!

Lol. Try not to block to be polite but call them stupid in public

Ha!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Maybe its not actually the males that are 'stupid' but the people who dont use the block button or set filters or use any of the other tools that the site provides, but then enjoy having a good old moan in the forums about it.

If people use the tools they will probably enjoy the site more

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