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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Anyone know of any very classy black tie or masquerade swingers events - eyes wide shut type ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to attend one of these types of parties, so will watch with interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but if you find one please invite us ! Take me upstairs and fuck me ...

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Us too! Definitely on the bucket list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in if you find one

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Oooh! We've been interested in this for quite a while, very elusive so far

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford


"Oooh! We've been interested in this for quite a while, very elusive so far "

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford


"Oooh! We've been interested in this for quite a while, very elusive so far "

If only .....there was one over this Christmas period ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to attend something like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh! We've been interested in this for quite a while, very elusive so far

If only .....there was one over this Christmas period ,"

Mmm....oh yes, this type of event/scenario is defintley one that floats my boat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds amazing!!! I want to go if there is! X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In venice they have them! Karl Pilkington and Warick went to one, looked amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been to one in Bristol and it was fantastic, never seen another advertised anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There were a couple in Scotland. 1st one was fantastic. A night club was hired. Everyone was black tie with masks. Even had a burlesque show.

Unfortunately some small minded person outed the 2nd. But we all managed to have a great night as a very smart social pub crawl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look in the clubs section on here for City Slickers parties. They run regular eyes wide shut style parties. Haven't been ourselves, but the reviews are good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of positive response here, why don't some of you get together and organise one?

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

I'm sure they are out there. In a manor house or similar high end venue. Don't mind paying for the occasion, surely someone must know a website ? Company ? Feel free to pm us if you do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try killing kittens

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ive been to some low end masquerade parties lol

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Remember seeing one website which looked like they arranged international parties - some in the uk, just can't remember where

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Wed be up for this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since when does stickin a tux and a mask on suddenly make a group of people 'high class' ?

Who's up for a fancy dress shagfest ? could be an alternative title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saturday morning grouch.

Sorry folks x

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

It doesn't !! That's why we are looking for the right party for us ! However we like the idea of a masquerade ball in a mansion or castle .... Loads of people organise fancy dress parties x

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Surely someone somewhere must know x

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"It doesn't !! That's why we are looking for the right party for us ! However we like the idea of a masquerade ball in a mansion or castle .... Loads of people organise fancy dress parties x"

been an idea we've kick around for a while but the logistics and costings could be a nightmare. We were shocked at the amount of people who believed entry to a Dutch club was to much for UK market!!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Try killing kittens"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing as high class, or so called exclusive events. KK and others just promote themselves in this way to entice people in - any idiot can go as long as you pay.

They're not high class or exclusive in any way. I've been to most of the so called high-brow events in London and there's nothing classy about them I can assure you.

It's false advertising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a side note Xtasia's NYE event is a masqueraade / black tie event and is always packed, lots really make the effort to dress up ( even i jamie wear a mask lol )

Have to agree with other posts though just because its masks etc does not make it high class, its more about the people that attend and the level of effort put in to dress code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia had a great masquerade ball at NYE. Hardly black tie event tho.....unless used to tie someone up!

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By *wbbabeWoman
over a year ago

clacton

I would love to go to something like this sounds great fun.

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By *wbbabeWoman
over a year ago

clacton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when does stickin a tux and a mask on suddenly make a group of people 'high class' ?

Who's up for a fancy dress shagfest ? could be an alternative title "

My thoughts exactly. High class people don't mix with hoi polloi such as us

I might just scrape into a Middle class event if I keep my mouth shut and they don't have a strict weight code

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By *mall_worldMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I would love to attend a party like this - it's a massive fantasy and turn on.

Some stunners on this thread by the way really enjoyed fabbing your pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of positive response here, why don't some of you get together and organise one? "

I think this is a great idea!! I'd be up for this, anyone that's interested in helping organise message me

To the op... Those sorts of parties are usual invite only so good luck maybe just rough it with us commoners for the time being... Were quite fun really

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Such a nice concept but difficult to measure everyone's expectations and then deliver the evening desired.

That's the thing different folks different strokes dress code easy but classy is just like beauty all in the eye of the beholder . Great thread thought tyxx 

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Why don't we organise our own party

Hire a venue

Charge to cover costs

And can I get gorgeous tgirls as security and barmaids

Any one else got suggestions for making this night better even though it will never happen as I can't organise shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posh clobber and paper bags

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Posh clobber and paper bags "

Boy George as dj

Plus free champagne and lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't we organise our own party

Hire a venue

Charge to cover costs

And can I get gorgeous tgirls as security and barmaids

Any one else got suggestions for making this night better even though it will never happen as I can't organise shit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shortage of Events just like this, over on the Dark Side.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No shortage of Events just like this, over on the Dark Side....."

Hmmmmm, would I want to attend such an event that would accept me as a guest? Never!

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"There's no such thing as high class, or so called exclusive events. KK and others just promote themselves in this way to entice people in - any idiot can go as long as you pay.

They're not high class or exclusive in any way. I've been to most of the so called high-brow events in London and there's nothing classy about them I can assure you.

It's false advertising."

Have to totally agree with above just a way of charging a lot but not delivering, having tried a couple of such events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No shortage of Events just like this, over on the Dark Side.....

Hmmmmm, would I want to attend such an event that would accept me as a guest? Never! "

Lols....!! Why not... What could possibly go wrong....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They had masks on sale in TK Maxx in Denton earlier.

Didn't buy them cos we weren't sure if TK Maxx was high class enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They had masks on sale in TK Maxx in Denton earlier.

Didn't buy them cos we weren't sure if TK Maxx was high class enough "

High class on the cheap is our kind of high class

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

It's on my bucket list too - not found a perfect one yet

Maybe I should look into organising my own.....

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"They had masks on sale in TK Maxx in Denton earlier.

Didn't buy them cos we weren't sure if TK Maxx was high class enough

High class on the cheap is our kind of high class "

Sound of to the pound shop then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They had masks on sale in TK Maxx in Denton earlier.

Didn't buy them cos we weren't sure if TK Maxx was high class enough

High class on the cheap is our kind of high class

Sound of to the pound shop then "

Well, it only has to last the one night

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the idea of this always imagine it to be like the masquerade ball scene in Van Helsing where everyone is dressed up in velvet & satin and picture it in a gothic castle or church with burlesque performers.

On the bucket list but not sure if it'll ever happen.

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a little lace mask for Nye 50p from eBay..

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By *moke itMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have a little lace mask for Nye 50p from eBay.."

Sorry no cheap scates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the idea of this always imagine it to be like the masquerade ball scene in Van Helsing where everyone is dressed up in velvet & satin and picture it in a gothic castle or church with burlesque performers.

On the bucket list but not sure if it'll ever happen.

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a little lace mask for Nye 50p from eBay..

Sorry no cheap scates "

More to spend on lingerie and shoes

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

It's not about the money - it's about the people / atmosphere / etc .... Clearly this is more difficult than anticipated. Perhaps such events are more private on a word of mouth basis ??

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

Okay question! How much would you be prepared to pay for an exclusive masquerade ball for a couple and or a single? Hi end event, in country house with own pool etc. One off, summer time sort for thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a fine line between 'class' and 'crass'.

If you find an event that tends more toward the former - count me in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think of a club cost for entry, I suspect you'd, at least, need to double / treble it for sorting out such a one off event. I'd be willing to pay any amount that reflects good value, and I wouldn't want anyone really making major profit from such an event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We held a fab social at a club last year and the theme was masquerade, all the ladies wore gorgeous gown and the men were in tux or suits, and we all wore masks! Everyone looked gorgeous and had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about the money - it's about the people / atmosphere / etc .... Clearly this is more difficult than anticipated. Perhaps such events are more private on a word of mouth basis ?? "

After spending quite some time looking in the past, we think the truth is that there really aren't that many events of this type in this country. Or at least, not ones that come close to the EWS scenes we're all familiar with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you looked at La Masion? New club in Lincs. I think it's going for this type of feel/look.

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Happily pay the cost of a decent hotel plus a meal out - given the opportunity

Noticed la Maison and watching with interest x

Didn't expect this to be quite so hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure VA have a masquerade ball for NYE this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone know of any very classy black tie or masquerade swingers events - eyes wide shut type ?? "

There are events in the UK and Europe that provide these type of parties.

They are usually invite only or you have to know the right people to get to know about them.

You wont find them via free swing websites thats for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once stayed in a lovely boutique hotel in Dublin it had a shop next door that sold real Italian masquerade masks they were absolutely beautiful.

Not cheap! But stunning.

Dx

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Yes they are, the masks look so amazing .... Think we're going to need to get a personal invite somehow

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Anyone any ideas ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone any ideas ? "

Stand for parliament ?

Get a top job in broadcasting ?

Win lots of money and become a socialite ?

Move to London ?

Or Sandbanks ?

Get yourself seen in Hello or Cheshire Life ?

Organise one yourself with a few select friends ?

Every couple brings another couple not known to the others.

Start off small and work at making it bigger over time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone any ideas ? "

Host your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay question! How much would you be prepared to pay for an exclusive masquerade ball for a couple and or a single? Hi end event, in country house with own pool etc. One off, summer time sort for thing "

I would think you've got to be looking at around 100 quid a couple without hotel costs to get something really good going,

Then it's all a matter of what people want, do people want a party that is just themed, or do they want the whole 9 yards ball room and orchestra type party

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Okay question! How much would you be prepared to pay for an exclusive masquerade ball for a couple and or a single? Hi end event, in country house with own pool etc. One off, summer time sort for thing

I would think you've got to be looking at around 100 quid a couple without hotel costs to get something really good going,

Then it's all a matter of what people want, do people want a party that is just themed, or do they want the whole 9 yards ball room and orchestra type party"

It's something we have both always wanted to attend so if anybody has any plans or ideas to put something together, we would gladly help out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the other major issue is payment, nobody is going To have the money to shell out for the outlay of the event, and then how do you recoupe the money, because nobody is going to want to send a stranger of a swingers site 100 quid

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"And the other major issue is payment, nobody is going To have the money to shell out for the outlay of the event, and then how do you recoupe the money, because nobody is going to want to send a stranger of a swingers site 100 quid "

If a secure payment and holding site was used like a few of the festivals and parties we have been to people would feel a lot more comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the other major issue is payment, nobody is going To have the money to shell out for the outlay of the event, and then how do you recoupe the money, because nobody is going to want to send a stranger of a swingers site 100 quid

If a secure payment and holding site was used like a few of the festivals and parties we have been to people would feel a lot more comfortable. "

What like PayPal?

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"And the other major issue is payment, nobody is going To have the money to shell out for the outlay of the event, and then how do you recoupe the money, because nobody is going to want to send a stranger of a swingers site 100 quid

If a secure payment and holding site was used like a few of the festivals and parties we have been to people would feel a lot more comfortable.

What like PayPal?"

That could work. We've also used and paid for festival tickets through EventBrite, this is how Swingfields sold their tickets this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I looked in to it would there be interest, also would people prefer a buffet or sit down meal? I just think sitting down for a meal with masks would be a bit weird

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"So if I looked in to it would there be interest, also would people prefer a buffet or sit down meal? I just think sitting down for a meal with masks would be a bit weird"

That's a big YES from us (depending on preliminary location and date). Nice idea if it takes off .

Judging by the posts so far there's definitely interest A finger buffet would work well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking maybe 28th of march, give people time to get over Christmas, and location would have to be up in Yorkshire somewhere, so we can get there to arrange it and speak to the manager of the venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm intersted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a couple from North who arranges special "parties" all based on "Eyes Wide Shut" in a large estate house.

However sadly it's invite only and then they "check" you out. Been once, missed out 2nd time and since then no more invites... but was very classy and nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a couple from North who arranges special "parties" all based on "Eyes Wide Shut" in a large estate house.

However sadly it's invite only and then they "check" you out. Been once, missed out 2nd time and since then no more invites... but was very classy and nice "

You see this smacks of elitism to me, I would rather it would just be like a social but in a nice hotel and with the theme 6 glam it up a bit, rather than it been out of reach for people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of agree, as long as people can conduct themselves appropriately no problem. It's more down to the venue. Opulent venue, yes please! industrial unit....not so much...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a couple from North who arranges special "parties" all based on "Eyes Wide Shut" in a large estate house.

However sadly it's invite only and then they "check" you out. Been once, missed out 2nd time and since then no more invites... but was very classy and nice

You see this smacks of elitism to me, I would rather it would just be like a social but in a nice hotel and with the theme 6 glam it up a bit, rather than it been out of reach for people"
if it's elitist Iv no chance in my materlan dinner suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I looked in to it would there be interest, also would people prefer a buffet or sit down meal? I just think sitting down for a meal with masks would be a bit weird"
champagne and canapes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of agree, as long as people can conduct themselves appropriately no problem. It's more down to the venue. Opulent venue, yes please! industrial unit....not so much..."

See, to me, that is the challenge.

Effectively, the venue risks being tarred with the wrong brush if it is found supporting such events.

Ideally places like a wedding venue which offers limited sleeping accommodation but has a decent function space would be ideal.

BUT how is this managed ?

It only takes 1 catering assistant with a gob on them to ruin the venues reputation in the eyes of many.

Hence why, I suspect, many are held in private venues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of agree, as long as people can conduct themselves appropriately no problem. It's more down to the venue. Opulent venue, yes please! industrial unit....not so much...

See, to me, that is the challenge.

Effectively, the venue risks being tarred with the wrong brush if it is found supporting such events.

Ideally places like a wedding venue which offers limited sleeping accommodation but has a decent function space would be ideal.

BUT how is this managed ?

It only takes 1 catering assistant with a gob on them to ruin the venues reputation in the eyes of many.

Hence why, I suspect, many are held in private venues."

But the normal staff don't need to know, only the manager really needs to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of agree, as long as people can conduct themselves appropriately no problem. It's more down to the venue. Opulent venue, yes please! industrial unit....not so much...

See, to me, that is the challenge.

Effectively, the venue risks being tarred with the wrong brush if it is found supporting such events.

Ideally places like a wedding venue which offers limited sleeping accommodation but has a decent function space would be ideal.

BUT how is this managed ?

It only takes 1 catering assistant with a gob on them to ruin the venues reputation in the eyes of many.

Hence why, I suspect, many are held in private venues.

But the normal staff don't need to know, only the manager really needs to know"

It is his or her arse on the line, their workplace or businesses reputation on the line.

If I had to make a call on it and it was my livelihood that could suffer at the expense of supporting someone elses lifestyle, I am afraid I would act on the side of caution.

That said, I hope you find somewhere supportive, as there does seem to be a lot of support for such a venture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of agree, as long as people can conduct themselves appropriately no problem. It's more down to the venue. Opulent venue, yes please! industrial unit....not so much...

See, to me, that is the challenge.

Effectively, the venue risks being tarred with the wrong brush if it is found supporting such events.

Ideally places like a wedding venue which offers limited sleeping accommodation but has a decent function space would be ideal.

BUT how is this managed ?

It only takes 1 catering assistant with a gob on them to ruin the venues reputation in the eyes of many.

Hence why, I suspect, many are held in private venues.

But the normal staff don't need to know, only the manager really needs to know"

It only take 1 person to open their mouth and that's it!

A Scottish social was going go be held in such a place, word got out and it was in the papers, and the event had to be cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to attend an event like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We looked at a venue for one of our events which could be suited to this type of event and could be done very discretely, its a bloody amazing venue, accessible only by boat

google spitbank fort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be up for that keep me in the loop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay question! How much would you be prepared to pay for an exclusive masquerade ball for a couple and or a single? Hi end event, in country house with own pool etc. One off, summer time sort for thing

I would think you've got to be looking at around 100 quid a couple without hotel costs to get something really good going,

Then it's all a matter of what people want, do people want a party that is just themed, or do they want the whole 9 yards ball room and orchestra type party"

The latter please!! If anyone arranges this i'm definitely interested! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to a couple....very horny.

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"We looked at a venue for one of our events which could be suited to this type of event and could be done very discretely, its a bloody amazing venue, accessible only by boat

google spitbank fort "

That looks brilliant .... Anyone know of anywhere closer to the NW??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of agree, as long as people can conduct themselves appropriately no problem. It's more down to the venue. Opulent venue, yes please! industrial unit....not so much...

See, to me, that is the challenge.

Effectively, the venue risks being tarred with the wrong brush if it is found supporting such events.

Ideally places like a wedding venue which offers limited sleeping accommodation but has a decent function space would be ideal.

BUT how is this managed ?

It only takes 1 catering assistant with a gob on them to ruin the venues reputation in the eyes of many.

Hence why, I suspect, many are held in private venues.

But the normal staff don't need to know, only the manager really needs to know

It only take 1 person to open their mouth and that's it!

A Scottish social was going go be held in such a place, word got out and it was in the papers, and the event had to be cancelled "

There was an event down South in a very nice hotel - word got out and event was cancelled and people lost the money they paid in to go.

Wont work in a hotel as if word gets out the management will "run for the hills"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the issue with anywhere, any place that we would look to use are going to be the same if word gets out, because zetapd looking for posh places, not the local working mens club

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over a year ago

How about renting a country house for the weekend ?

I have seen a 14 bedroom country house for rent for 2 nights in March (a Fri & Sat night) for £1,800

That's just over £100 a couple for the accom.

North area - within an hour of Manchester /Leeds / Sheffield

Private, undisturbed and no questions asked

If people don't want to stay 2 nights, let the organisers stay for the first to get everything sorted and then arrive masked up on the Saturday eve

If you wanted more than 28 people, there are many hotels . b&b's nearby

We aren't interested btw - just tryin to offer suggestions for those that are !

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over a year ago

Once the couples are decided on, maybe get take applications from 4/6 tasty single men to 'wait' on the guests too ?

The ladies get to short list and choose

No touching of the guests allowed : at least until later in the evening

I know that's awfully chauvanistic of me towards single guys, but am sure there must be applicants out there, somewhere, willing to wear a tux and a mask whilst serving canapes and champers

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"How about renting a country house for the weekend ?

I have seen a 14 bedroom country house for rent for 2 nights in March (a Fri & Sat night) for £1,800

That's just over £100 a couple for the accom.

North area - within an hour of Manchester /Leeds / Sheffield

Private, undisturbed and no questions asked

If people don't want to stay 2 nights, let the organisers stay for the first to get everything sorted and then arrive masked up on the Saturday eve

If you wanted more than 28 people, there are many hotels . b&b's nearby

We aren't interested btw - just tryin to offer suggestions for those that are ! "

That sounds like a great idea

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By *andj2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Is there anyone out there who's organised anything like this before ?? Feel free to pm us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about renting a country house for the weekend ?

I have seen a 14 bedroom country house for rent for 2 nights in March (a Fri & Sat night) for £1,800

That's just over £100 a couple for the accom.

North area - within an hour of Manchester /Leeds / Sheffield

Private, undisturbed and no questions asked

If people don't want to stay 2 nights, let the organisers stay for the first to get everything sorted and then arrive masked up on the Saturday eve

If you wanted more than 28 people, there are many hotels . b&b's nearby

We aren't interested btw - just tryin to offer suggestions for those that are !

That sounds like a great idea "

I would happily pay £100 for this and any extras who attend who don't stay on site could pay say £30 per couple and that would pay for said canapés and champagne, would happily help organise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about renting a country house for the weekend ?

I have seen a 14 bedroom country house for rent for 2 nights in March (a Fri & Sat night) for £1,800

That's just over £100 a couple for the accom.

North area - within an hour of Manchester /Leeds / Sheffield

Private, undisturbed and no questions asked

If people don't want to stay 2 nights, let the organisers stay for the first to get everything sorted and then arrive masked up on the Saturday eve

If you wanted more than 28 people, there are many hotels . b&b's nearby

We aren't interested btw - just tryin to offer suggestions for those that are !

That sounds like a great idea "

I love the sound of it too! Xx

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over a year ago


"Once the couples are decided on, maybe get take applications from 4/6 tasty single men to 'wait' on the guests too ?

The ladies get to short list and choose

No touching of the guests allowed : at least until later in the evening

I know that's awfully chauvanistic of me towards single guys, but am sure there must be applicants out there, somewhere, willing to wear a tux and a mask whilst serving canapes and champers "

I'd interview these - i'm very selfless! xx

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over a year ago


"Anyone know of any very classy black tie or masquerade swingers events - eyes wide shut type ?? "

We are attending the Masquerade Party at Vanilla Alternative on New Year's Eve, and it's a black tie do too.

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over a year ago


"How about renting a country house for the weekend ?

I have seen a 14 bedroom country house for rent for 2 nights in March (a Fri & Sat night) for £1,800

That's just over £100 a couple for the accom.

North area - within an hour of Manchester /Leeds / Sheffield

Private, undisturbed and no questions asked

If people don't want to stay 2 nights, let the organisers stay for the first to get everything sorted and then arrive masked up on the Saturday eve

If you wanted more than 28 people, there are many hotels . b&b's nearby

We aren't interested btw - just tryin to offer suggestions for those that are !

That sounds like a great idea

I love the sound of it too! Xx"

Would be great but and here the "but" it's all done to one party to carry the risk. What happens if say 10 cpls do not turn up who carries the loss ?

Also insurance ?

Sorry, to be the "fly in soup", but just thinking as my hubby arrange something (Not vanilla "eyes Wide Shut" but like Skin Two) like this in Switzerland (before anyone asks, he speaks fluently several languages and lived there) and the "arrangers" just covered costs nothing else and still had to cover small costs (water/heating etc) out of their pockets.

Naughty

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over a year ago


"How about renting a country house for the weekend ?

I have seen a 14 bedroom country house for rent for 2 nights in March (a Fri & Sat night) for £1,800

That's just over £100 a couple for the accom.

North area - within an hour of Manchester /Leeds / Sheffield

Private, undisturbed and no questions asked

If people don't want to stay 2 nights, let the organisers stay for the first to get everything sorted and then arrive masked up on the Saturday eve

If you wanted more than 28 people, there are many hotels . b&b's nearby

We aren't interested btw - just tryin to offer suggestions for those that are !

That sounds like a great idea

I love the sound of it too! Xx

Would be great but and here the "but" it's all done to one party to carry the risk. What happens if say 10 cpls do not turn up who carries the loss ?

Also insurance ?

Sorry, to be the "fly in soup", but just thinking as my hubby arrange something (Not vanilla "eyes Wide Shut" but like Skin Two) like this in Switzerland (before anyone asks, he speaks fluently several languages and lived there) and the "arrangers" just covered costs nothing else and still had to cover small costs (water/heating etc) out of their pockets.

Naughty"

Think its ointment actually??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about renting a country house for the weekend ?

I have seen a 14 bedroom country house for rent for 2 nights in March (a Fri & Sat night) for £1,800

That's just over £100 a couple for the accom.

North area - within an hour of Manchester /Leeds / Sheffield

Private, undisturbed and no questions asked

If people don't want to stay 2 nights, let the organisers stay for the first to get everything sorted and then arrive masked up on the Saturday eve

If you wanted more than 28 people, there are many hotels . b&b's nearby

We aren't interested btw - just tryin to offer suggestions for those that are !

That sounds like a great idea

I would happily pay £100 for this and any extras who attend who don't stay on site could pay say £30 per couple and that would pay for said canapés and champagne, would happily help organise "

I'd help how I could too if anything is needed

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