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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just about every message we get from guys says althought my profile says straight im bi really!!!

we never have and never will meet them, if they are bi then put it on your profile, the only thought we have is that they will say what ever we want to hear to get a meet, sorry needed to rant

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Happens to us as well.. but we do meet them.. we understand the reasoning.. we don't necessarily agree with it though.

Although the lack of bi-ness has actually been a female thing not a male one.. ie they seem to be going through the motions

(although this happened rarely and not on any of our verifications!! just to make sure we are not bad naming people)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just about every message we get from guys says althought my profile says straight im bi really!!!

we never have and never will meet them, if they are bi then put it on your profile, the only thought we have is that they will say what ever we want to hear to get a meet, sorry needed to rant"

Which is the main reason we won't meet single guys.........we just can't bring ourselves to trust them.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i dont understand, if your bi then shout about it if not then shout about that to, if you are bi and say you arent then you are lieing, and if your straight and say your bi your lieing also, and both are bad surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont understand, if your bi then shout about it if not then shout about that to, if you are bi and say you arent then you are lieing, and if your straight and say your bi your lieing also, and both are bad surely"

Most single guys want the cat and the skin aswell though.

Unfortunately too many espouse to the "Any holes a goal" school of thought.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont understand, if your bi then shout about it if not then shout about that to, if you are bi and say you arent then you are lieing, and if your straight and say your bi your lieing also, and both are bad surely"

Have had similar messages from guys and couples saying they are bi,bi curious when it clearly say's straight on their profile some even have wont meet with bi guys ? xxx Lois xxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"just about every message we get from guys says althought my profile says straight im bi really!!!"

Oooooooooooooooo we receive lots of those kind of messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just about every message we get from guys says althought my profile says straight im bi really!!!

we never have and never will meet them, if they are bi then put it on your profile, the only thought we have is that they will say what ever we want to hear to get a meet, sorry needed to rant"

i think your sexual preferences should be on your profile, true swingers rely on honesty from other swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile clearly states it!

Paddy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an interesting exercise check out a T.V or gay guys profile and see how many of the friends and verifications are from "Straight" single guys.

Although I don't suppose your findings will surprise you!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told by at least 4 bi guys that they don't put it on their profiles as it tends to put single women off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi, bi playful I like to class myself, as in will play with like minded other bi folk, but if someone was straight I am not going to jump them lol.

Think a few couples who say no bi males have a fear, or rather the male does, that the bi guy will try something with him. And probably worried he may enjoy it!

Actually had a couple admit that to me once as their concern about bi males. lol

And not saying all have that mindset before you all lynch me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am bi, bi playful I like to class myself, as in will play with like minded other bi folk, but if someone was straight I am not going to jump them lol.

Think a few couples who say no bi males have a fear, or rather the male does, that the bi guy will try something with him. And probably worried he may enjoy it!

Actually had a couple admit that to me once as their concern about bi males. lol

And not saying all have that mindset before you all lynch me!"

No doubt there are some guys with that concern,personaly that doesn't bother me.

The reason we don't meet bi males is because just the thought of two guys together does nothing for either of us.

To us it's the same as people not being into scat,watersports,pain etc.

However,we have respect for bi guys who are honest,thus allowing people to exercise their personal preference.

You never get women lying about their sexuality just to get more sex.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am bi, bi playful I like to class myself, as in will play with like minded other bi folk, but if someone was straight I am not going to jump them lol.

Think a few couples who say no bi males have a fear, or rather the male does, that the bi guy will try something with him. And probably worried he may enjoy it!

Actually had a couple admit that to me once as their concern about bi males. lol

And not saying all have that mindset before you all lynch me!

No doubt there are some guys with that concern,personaly that doesn't bother me.

The reason we don't meet bi males is because just the thought of two guys together does nothing for either of us.

To us it's the same as people not being into scat,watersports,pain etc.

However,we have respect for bi guys who are honest,thus allowing people to exercise their personal preference.

You never get women lying about their sexuality just to get more sex.

XXXX

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Ah yes but then if someone is straight I have no interest in forcing my views on them. Just because I am bi wouldn't mean I jump any old cock lol.

Each to their own I say!

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"just about every message we get from guys says althought my profile says straight im bi really!!!

we never have and never will meet them, if they are bi then put it on your profile, the only thought we have is that they will say what ever we want to hear to get a meet, sorry needed to rant"

Its amazing how many messages I get from 'straight' blokes! lol

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

The thing that amuses me with the “I’m bi really put straight on my profile because stating bi puts straight people off” Do they really not realise that putting ‘straight’ on their profile puts off bisexuals!!!

As for straight people who refuse to meet bisexuals I don’t get that either! BI-sexual means just that, a bisexual or gay will typically have no interest whatsoever in sexual interaction with a straight person of the same sex. But at least those who state they are bi are being honest whereas single guys who state they are straight often are not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too true! It's the point I was making! Probably not very well lol. I consider myself bi as I will play with likeminded bisexuals but I am not interested in pressuring a straight guy into letting me have his cock.

I am definitely more interested in a female but if there is a bi guy there who's playing and everyone is comfortable it's so much more fun for us all to play! Highly erotic when a bi couple will share you, nobody feels left out lol.

And more should be honest, I've met a few couples where the guy has turned out to be bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have explained it on the forums several times, that i dont put bi on my profile and the reason I do it, even though I can playwith the same sex from time to time

but I have written the fact I am hetro-flexible on my profile so when i do message a bi couple I will explain that if they look at my profile they can see that I am not just trying to hide it, and explain its so I am not bombarded bi men and gay men but can still chat to the odd random ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone knows that if a couple with a bi-male meet a straight male, he will immediately be pounced upon, tied down and utterly raped by the bimale, whilst the female sits on, videoing it.

After all, that's all we bimales do.

Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone knows that if a couple with a bi-male meet a straight male, he will immediately be pounced upon, tied down and utterly raped by the bimale, whilst the female sits on, videoing it.

After all, that's all we bimales do.

Right?

"

Well if we see a profile that states clearly they are only looking for bisexual males/females we would pass it by, even though bisexuals can play straight too as we keep hearing, but we see it as their preference and would never assume anything or cast assumptions as to why.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"Everyone knows that if a couple with a bi-male meet a straight male, he will immediately be pounced upon, tied down and utterly raped by the bimale, whilst the female sits on, videoing it.

After all, that's all we bimales do.

Right?

"

I thought i had to also marry him, take him to the admiral on Compton street and then make him where the most fabulous well fitted clothes

Totally agree with the sentiment..

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Everyone knows that if a couple with a bi-male meet a straight male, he will immediately be pounced upon, tied down and utterly raped by the bimale, whilst the female sits on, videoing it.

After all, that's all we bimales do.

Right?

"

Shhhhh!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone knows that if a couple with a bi-male meet a straight male, he will immediately be pounced upon, tied down and utterly raped by the bimale, whilst the female sits on, videoing it.

After all, that's all we bimales do.

Right?

Well if that's the case i best change myself back to be straight!

What a horny scenario to be in! Tied down and staring into her eyes as she smiles with camera in hand, just as her fella slips his cock into my mouth! lol

Would they only act like that with a straight guy? How unfair lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone knows that if a couple with a bi-male meet a straight male, he will immediately be pounced upon, tied down and utterly raped by the bimale, whilst the female sits on, videoing it.

After all, that's all we bimales do.

Right?

Well if we see a profile that states clearly they are only looking for bisexual males/females we would pass it by, even though bisexuals can play straight too as we keep hearing, but we see it as their preference and would never assume anything or cast assumptions as to why."

Luckily not *everyone* missed the point of the comment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had quite a few off couples where the male claims to be straight but 'would love to suck your cock after its been in my mrs' is quite a common thing to read in these messages

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Its very much a case of many men (and women to some extent) saying what they think will get them the most responses.

The perceived stigma of bi for men is odd, given that its almost normal for the younger generation of women to be partially bi at least.

Trouble is a lot of the bi male image revolves around dodgy meets in public toilets (if you read the papers), and I think there are lots where it is the exact opposite, i.e. its just another naughty kink like rimming, and in threesomes it tends to follow naturally in my opinion.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok now confused , how do i quote someone then add my txt , do i see the quote box and delete the txt sorry i 'm blonde , err wel a bit grey really

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"ok now confused , how do i quote someone then add my txt , do i see the quote box and delete the txt sorry i 'm blonde , err wel a bit grey really"

Just click on the quote button under the post you want to quote on and then add your text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok now confused , how do i quote someone then add my txt , do i see the quote box and delete the txt sorry i 'm blonde , err wel a bit grey really

Just click on the quote button under the post you want to quote on and then add your text"

like this

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"ok now confused , how do i quote someone then add my txt , do i see the quote box and delete the txt sorry i 'm blonde , err wel a bit grey really

Just click on the quote button under the post you want to quote on and then add your text

like this"

You got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok now confused , how do i quote someone then add my txt , do i see the quote box and delete the txt sorry i 'm blonde , err wel a bit grey really

Just click on the quote button under the post you want to quote on and then add your text"

thanks honeypot , most welcome info but forgot what i was going to quote on now , lol

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