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Why is it such a turn on ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why do you think?

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Bad back ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotional and sexual maturity ?(not for one minute suggesting that those who don't engage in such activities have neither). Feeling comfortable and secure in your relationship and confident enough to fulfil fantasies without them posing a threat to your relationship. Exploration with the person you love and trust the most. Also because you are a bit kinky and naughty and like to see your partner have fun ?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

even if he ordered a top shelf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You grew up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the dating one, who never let men touch my happeny for weeks, now look

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a turn on precisely because you thought that when were younger. It is because that is being violated that you feel so aroused.

There is also the biological explanation that if a male sees his chosen female having sex with another male, he will become aroused because it increases his chance of fertilising the female by having sex with her later thus giving him more chance to pass on his genes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my man loves to watch me get fucked by another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you love her and so proud of her that you love it when others appreciate her too and seeing her enjoy herself gives you so much pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laziness? Bit like when you get a new car you wash it weekly 12 months later its down to the car wash for some other fucker to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you love her and so proud of her that you love it when others appreciate her too and seeing her enjoy herself gives you so much pleasure"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby was just the same when we were younger, now he can't wait to see me with other guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laziness? Bit like when you get a new car you wash it weekly 12 months later its down to the car wash for some other fucker to do it."

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?"

Cos you used to be a cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laziness? Bit like when you get a new car you wash it weekly 12 months later its down to the car wash for some other fucker to do it."

That's one way of putting it lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?"

Because you're a confident and sexually open minded couple. If it wasn't for couples like you two, my non sex life would have now been 4 years not 2 so thumbs up from me to people like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you love her and so proud of her that you love it when others appreciate her too and seeing her enjoy herself gives you so much pleasure"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe part of it is...

She knows you love her being a dirty girl, and you know she's doing it as much for you as for herself. Of course she has to really enjoy it, to want that cock deep inside her, and to take it hard and deep, and for you to see how greedy she is. It's a very special bond.

Well, it works for us

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's a turn on precisely because you thought that when were younger. It is because that is being violated that you feel so aroused.

There is also the biological explanation that if a male sees his chosen female having sex with another male, he will become aroused because it increases his chance of fertilising the female by having sex with her later thus giving him more chance to pass on his genes."

I'm sorry I don't get this. Surely it's the first male who has the optimum chance of fertilising the female ??? The second is merely going over trampled ground so to speak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laziness? Bit like when you get a new car you wash it weekly 12 months later its down to the car wash for some other fucker to do it."

Not quite why we find it a turn on but hilarious comment nevertheless

I think being secure in a sexual sense is essential for you to enjoy it. We have plenty of non swinging friends who are strong minded and secure in everyday life but aghast on us sleeping with others.

Swinging effectively contradicts with all mainstream values that you are brought up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it's just security in yourself and relationship?

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Maybe you're not in love with her anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you're not in love with her anymore."

Eek..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the same , now I love seeing her taken by someone else . Saves me using all my energy up . Can I fuck your wife ? Ouch that hurt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn't offering a free bar and gangbang, by the way

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


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Cos you used to be a cock ?"

That from a person who is playing away??? Sir, you have a nerve!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason as when I was young I would've hated to be called a slut..now I love it! ..In the right context of course

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?"

Me and Tigs have just been having the conversation. Not sure why, not sure if its just a change in attitude or what but this thread struck home when we were talking about what we wanted from swinging LOL

Bugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you're not in love with her anymore."

Unnecessary comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Emotional and sexual maturity ?(not for one minute suggesting that those who don't engage in such activities have neither). Feeling comfortable and secure in your relationship and confident enough to fulfil fantasies without them posing a threat to your relationship. Exploration with the person you love and trust the most. Also because you are a bit kinky and naughty and like to see your partner have fun ? "

Couldn't of worded it better myself well put

Him

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"Why when I was in my early twenties did I want to punch any man who even eyed up my wife and now I'd want to by him a drink and watch him fuck her?"

Bored of shagging her. Not in lust with her any more ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laziness? Bit like when you get a new car you wash it weekly 12 months later its down to the car wash for some other fucker to do it."
lololol

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


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Cos you used to be a cock ?

That from a person who is playing away??? Sir, you have a nerve! "

Not really the issue though is it. The subject is in the op,give it a read,if you get stuck,I'll gladly explain it to you in easy to understand language.

Maybe look out the window,there'll be someone out there who gives a shiny shite what you think,or perhaps not.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Because the trust that can do that is far easier when maturer.. Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than being asked to please another mans wife for him

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You are more self confident, she is more self confident. You are both secure in your relationship and you've both worked out that you can fuck for fun and actually make your relationship even stronger. Because you love seeing your partner have loads of fun and because it makes you feel fantastic when you know you have offered your partner the world and everytime they come straight back to you. Then and only then can you truly know that it is you they want more than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm sweet, you naughty slut xx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"

Cos you used to be a cock ?

That from a person who is playing away??? Sir, you have a nerve!

Not really the issue though is it. The subject is in the op,give it a read,if you get stuck,I'll gladly explain it to you in easy to understand language.

Maybe look out the window,there'll be someone out there who gives a shiny shite what you think,or perhaps not."

Oh dear! The typical response from someone with no argument! Personal attacks.. You had the nerve to call someone else a cock for either wanting to punch some guys many years ago or because he doesn't want to now? (Not sure which way that is) But you won't even let your wife/partner join the fun. Or perhaps she doesn't even know...

In my book, that makes you the one in the wrong here..

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