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By *lackky OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent

Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun "

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It's like chewing toffee with the wrapper still on

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By *lackky OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play."

Do you use condom when receiving oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presume the people who insist on them on also make sure both parties are wearing surgical rubber gloves too!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldn't give a blowjob with a condom on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather have a wank myself. But each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you use condom when receiving oral? "

That is up to the person who is giving it - since they are the one at most risk. I have had casual partners who prefer to use dental dams and I've never found it a problem. But then again I don't really like receiving oral sex so it's not generally an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I presume the people who insist on them on also make sure both parties are wearing surgical rubber gloves too! "

Hands are unlikely to carry or transfer STD's. Penises are far more risky, especially if - like me - you have gum disease which often means small cuts and sore bits in your gums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be able to do it. I gag if I give a blow job to a cock that has had a condom on and taken off. Been doing it for 30 years and been lucky so far

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By *lackky OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent


"Rather have a wank myself. But each to there own "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I presume the people who insist on them on also make sure both parties are wearing surgical rubber gloves too!

Hands are unlikely to carry or transfer STD's. Penises are far more risky, especially if - like me - you have gum disease which often means small cuts and sore bits in your gums."

Depends if they have any cuts really on said hands. Make sure you give the persons hands the once over next before they finger ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Depends if they have any cuts really on said hands. Make sure you give the persons hands the once over next before they finger ya "

Again, it's up to them. It's them that is likely to catch something in that situation.

However out of respect for my partners, if I have cuts on my hands then I glove up for any risky play. I don't really see why it's so taboo. Actually latex gloves can feel very sexy.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

Reading with interest as I really enjoy giving them, but now we are exploring this lifestyle I would want the male to wear protection but worry it wouldn't be fun for him!

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By *lackky OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent


"Reading with interest as I really enjoy giving them, but now we are exploring this lifestyle I would want the male to wear protection but worry it wouldn't be fun for him! "

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By *lackky OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent


"I wouldn't give a blowjob with a condom on

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Our fetish life is approached from a R.A.C.K.S point fo view and so is our swinger life.

Blowjob with no condom - fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make my mouth go numb

I would rather give someone a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a fuck is hard enough as it is...but now bj with condom only on....i think ill just cut it off ffs

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

It's down to the woman. I'd bag it up on request for a BJ, although I've not been asked to before.

I fully understand those women who don't like it. I've given cunnilingus after protected sex and the taste of the lubricant from the condom is not pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gem wouldn't ever give a be with a condom, it's pointless as it reduces the sensitivity, to me a blow job should be a sensual sexy thing, not just to get the chap hard l, but maybe that's just me

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By *emonWoman84Woman
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play."

Are you me? I feel exactly the same.

I cannot give a blow job without one. Makes me really conscious of my gag reflex and I can't get into it. Even with my husband.

If a potential partner doesn't like this then they're not for me.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

If I may intrude,the op asked what it was like for ladies sucking,I aint no lady,but for me its a no.no YUK even the mango/chocolate etc taste 'orrible.

I love the taste of cock/cum &hate the taste of rubber.

My feeling is that its extremely low risk type of sex,otherwise half the planet would be infected,as for the suckee,even less risk. When guys insist,i still wont do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't give a blowjob with a condom on

"

This... Id rather not bother x

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By *emonWoman84Woman
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Ok well it feels good to me. Tastes nice, I can really get into it and not worry about puking all over the poor bloke. Empowering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tastes revolting...No no no no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tastes revolting and it's bad enough that they are essential for sex as your meant to feel and taste and all sensation is lost when you use one... It's partly why I do oral only so much...

But blergh to sucking with a condom on.. done it once but if a guy insisted I'd refuse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was told to put one on for a bj I would decline the bj!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God never done that, hope i never have to, wouldnt it be like sucking a marigold for the lady?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play.

Are you me? I feel exactly the same.

I cannot give a blow job without one. Makes me really conscious of my gag reflex and I can't get into it. Even with my husband.

If a potential partner doesn't like this then they're not for me. "

This doesn't make any sense. Why would a non-condom cock affect your gag reflex more than one in a condom? TBH, that's psychological, not physiological.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like chewing toffee with the wrapper still on "
an the feeling when in condom no real feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but id rather not bother .

Some ladies work magic with there tongues and its not just my cock but my balls too and they wint fit in a condom .

I cover for fuking though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A condom for a blowjob seems a little excessive, but I always wear one for penetration.

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By *lackky OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent


"If I was told to put one on for a bj I would decline the bj!! "

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By *lackky OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent


"A condom for a blowjob seems a little excessive, but I always wear one for penetration. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TBH, that's psychological, not physiological."

Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it. I get turned off by seeing bareback in porn. I know it's in my head... but I don't really care...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TBH, that's psychological, not physiological.

Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it. I get turned off by seeing bareback in porn. I know it's in my head... but I don't really care..."

Shows we are all different and your choices shouldn't be dismissed as they are your choices. Personally a condom on a porn movie equals instant turn off for me as I like cream pie porn x yet I play safe for penetration...

I'm latex intolerant anyway.. yes I have latex free but they are expensive And taste bad xx And I love the taste of cock so for me it's not something I'd want to miss...

But its your choice and as I have had some guys refuse a bj without a condom... There will be people that will be what your looking for too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally a condom on a porn movie equals instant turn off for me as I like cream pie porn x yet I play safe for penetration..."

I think that the problem is that I have a couple of friends who are porn actors. And I really care about their health, as well as all porn actors health. Their health shouldn't be compromised for our wanking.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not for me ... cant stand the smell of rubber makes me feel sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly why do some women do that us men giving a blowjob with a condom on? Come on babes lol that won't be happening with me. I would rather wank myself. But each to their own craziness I suppose

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By *wned EmCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton


"I presume the people who insist on them on also make sure both parties are wearing surgical rubber gloves too!

Hands are unlikely to carry or transfer STD's. Penises are far more risky, especially if - like me - you have gum disease which often means small cuts and sore bits in your gums."

I stopped giving unprotected blow jobs for this very reason. I've only ever had one guy decline when he realised a condom was required. Gum disease is not uncommon and if you have blood when you brush infection has a direct route into your blood stream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally a condom on a porn movie equals instant turn off for me as I like cream pie porn x yet I play safe for penetration...

I think that the problem is that I have a couple of friends who are porn actors. And I really care about their health, as well as all porn actors health. Their health shouldn't be compromised for our wanking."

I mostly watch home made stuff if I'm honest and there are plenty of people that choose to play that way and I'm sure even porn stars have a choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm sure even porn stars have a choice . "

Many of them are pressured into bareback sex with the threat of work being taken away from them. If you think that all the porn stars who do bareback are doing it through choice and not because they need to keep the work coming in, you're sorely mistaken.

Which was why the HIV+ actor a few years ago in (I think) LA was such a scare. People were being basically forced into it and exploited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally a condom on a porn movie equals instant turn off for me as I like cream pie porn x yet I play safe for penetration...

I think that the problem is that I have a couple of friends who are porn actors. And I really care about their health, as well as all porn actors health. Their health shouldn't be compromised for our wanking.

I mostly watch home made stuff if I'm honest and there are plenty of people that choose to play that way and I'm sure even porn stars have a choice . "

sorry but a blow job with a condom on sorry no thanks

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By *ovetolickpussy69Man
over a year ago

south east

Had one before with condom on, feels strange and to be honest not very pleasurable. But if that's how the woman wants it you have to respect them I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm sure even porn stars have a choice .

Many of them are pressured into bareback sex with the threat of work being taken away from them. If you think that all the porn stars who do bareback are doing it through choice and not because they need to keep the work coming in, you're sorely mistaken.

Which was why the HIV+ actor a few years ago in (I think) LA was such a scare. People were being basically forced into it and exploited."

The ones I watch love what they do. Sex is meant to end with a creamy ending... So watching anything but is a pointless exercise for me .. which is why as I said I tend to do oral only a lot of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one as well on and no I don't get as hard and its always oral without for me = blow job with feelings

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

each person should play as safe as they feel is right for them. Nobody should be made to feel that asking for protected oral sex is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each person should play as safe as they feel is right for them. Nobody should be made to feel that asking for protected oral sex is wrong."

^^ This.

You'd think by the tone of some of the replies above that having fully protected sex was one of the most idiot things to do.

Appreciate that not everybody wants to wear or use condoms, but people shouldn't be made stupid or wrong for deciding that's how they play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each person should play as safe as they feel is right for them. Nobody should be made to feel that asking for protected oral sex is wrong."

Totally agree with this but and should go both ways ... But it rarely does

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"each person should play as safe as they feel is right for them. Nobody should be made to feel that asking for protected oral sex is wrong.

Totally agree with this but and should go both ways ... But it rarely does "

No it doesn't but not all of us jump on the band wagon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play."

What protection do you use with females?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each person should play as safe as they feel is right for them. Nobody should be made to feel that asking for protected oral sex is wrong.

Totally agree with this but and should go both ways ... But it rarely does

No it doesn't but not all of us jump on the band wagon. "

Nope some Dont but some always will... as I said earlier... It is everyone's personal choice what they do or Dont do... And there is always someone out there for what you want

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play.

What protection do you use with females?"

good question!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree, it seems ok to lick the woman out with no protection and no one questions about STD then, just sucking the cock is you get STD's it seems lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play.

What protection do you use with females?

good question!!!!!!!!

"

I think it's the same poster who says later on that she doesn't like receiving oral.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes I agree, it seems ok to lick the woman out with no protection and no one questions about STD then, just sucking the cock is you get STD's it seems lol."

People do question it, I bring it up on the safe sex threads. It all boils down to what I said earlier, people play as safe as they feel comfortable with it isn't down to any of us to say they are wrong for doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play.

What protection do you use with females?

good question!!!!!!!!

I think it's the same poster who says later on that she doesn't like receiving oral."

Im not on about receiving im mean giving....question still not answered...what protection do you use to give oral to ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I agree, it seems ok to lick the woman out with no protection and no one questions about STD then, just sucking the cock is you get STD's it seems lol."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun

It's the only way I'd do it. No condom, no play.

What protection do you use with females?

good question!!!!!!!!

I think it's the same poster who says later on that she doesn't like receiving oral.

Im not on about receiving im mean giving....question still not answered...what protection do you use to give oral to ladies?"

Are you asking me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Im not on about receiving im mean giving....question still not answered...what protection do you use to give oral to ladies?"

I never give oral to women I don't know well, I don't enjoy casual play with women. In the past I've used dental damns or split condoms if I wasn't sure if they were safe or not.

Still got the job done, orgasm and screaming achieved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I agree, it seems ok to lick the woman out with no protection and no one questions about STD then, just sucking the cock is you get STD's it seems lol.

People do question it, I bring it up on the safe sex threads. It all boils down to what I said earlier, people play as safe as they feel comfortable with it isn't down to any of us to say they are wrong for doing it. "

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By *icple123Couple
over a year ago

st albans


"It's like chewing toffee with the wrapper still on "

Er... If you're chewing it, you're doing it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Im not on about receiving im mean giving....question still not answered...what protection do you use to give oral to ladies?

I never give oral to women I don't know well, I don't enjoy casual play with women. In the past I've used dental damns or split condoms if I wasn't sure if they were safe or not.

Still got the job done, orgasm and screaming achieved."

Just be carefull with them body fluids...could catch all sorts when the lady cums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Im not on about receiving im mean giving....question still not answered...what protection do you use to give oral to ladies?

I never give oral to women I don't know well, I don't enjoy casual play with women. In the past I've used dental damns or split condoms if I wasn't sure if they were safe or not.

Still got the job done, orgasm and screaming achieved.

Just be carefull with them body fluids...could catch all sorts when the lady cums "

Why do you have so much of a problem with someone not wanting to share body fluids with a stranger?

It's not like I'm going to have sex with you - so why do you care so much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Im not on about receiving im mean giving....question still not answered...what protection do you use to give oral to ladies?

I never give oral to women I don't know well, I don't enjoy casual play with women. In the past I've used dental damns or split condoms if I wasn't sure if they were safe or not.

Still got the job done, orgasm and screaming achieved.

Just be carefull with them body fluids...could catch all sorts when the lady cums

Why do you have so much of a problem with someone not wanting to share body fluids with a stranger?

It's not like I'm going to have sex with you - so why do you care so much?"

Ive not once said i have a problem with it

I just asked a question which you answered

Think ive touched a nerve thou

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By *emonWoman84Woman
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"This doesn't make any sense. Why would a non-condom cock affect your gag reflex more than one in a condom? TBH, that's psychological, not physiological."

Yes it is psychological. Does that make it less valid?

Without a condom, I worry about semen being in my mouth, or hitting the back of my throat. I worry that it will make me gag and vomit. Even the thought of it being a remote possibility makes me want to be sick.

Worrying about this makes me avoid giving blowjobs. I cannot focus on giving my partner a good time when I'm so worried about being sick on them. Even if they let me know when they're about to cum. I can't enjoy it at all.

With a condom, yeah it's a bit plasticky but no semen is going in my mouth, I'm not going to gag on it or vomit everywhere. I can focus on what I'm doing and enjoy myself. I can allow my partner to cum inside my mouth(in the condom) and not have to finish them by hand.

I'm not asking everyone to do this. I'm not even suggesting it to anyone! And yet I'm somehow abhorrent for doing it!

Thanks for judging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Think ive touched a nerve thou "

Yeah you know what - it does touch a nerve when people make fun out of those that like to play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have things we do or Dont do... And some may seem illogical or odd to others.... Yet for the person it's very real reason..

Some thinngs can be over come... For me kissing was a huge no no.... Not just with meets.. I mean with anyone..... And my reasons are very real for me.... Yet I have partly over come this with a patient friend and lover....

Psychological reasons can be the hardest to overcome..And no matter what someone does... Or doesn't do.. it is their choice and they should be respected for it. safe or not safe.... Kiss or not... It's there choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Think ive touched a nerve thou

Yeah you know what - it does touch a nerve when people make fun out of those that like to play safe."

Read back all my comments. Can you share where i make fun of playing safe please? I play safe myself you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what state the person is who is giving the blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun "

Long as the lady knows how to suck it. Often wank while wearing one

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yes I agree, it seems ok to lick the woman out with no protection and no one questions about STD then, just sucking the cock is you get STD's it seems lol.

People do question it, I bring it up on the safe sex threads. It all boils down to what I said earlier, people play as safe as they feel comfortable with it isn't down to any of us to say they are wrong for doing it. "

Wise words as ever.

Off topic but we never cease to be amazed how many who practice the safest of sex quite happily share toys in a group situation. Although risk is far reduced with toys it still surprises us. Anyone else not not really given this much thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Think ive touched a nerve thou

Yeah you know what - it does touch a nerve when people make fun out of those that like to play safe.

Read back all my comments. Can you share where i make fun of playing safe please? I play safe myself you know"

Your messages read as if you think people are idiots for using more protection than you deem necessary. Especially when you repeatedly tried to catch me out as to my answers regarding oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Off topic but we never cease to be amazed how many who practice the safest of sex quite happily share toys in a group situation. Although risk is far reduced with toys it still surprises us. Anyone else not not really given this much thought?

"

Toys get condoms too in my house if they're not going to get washed and disinfected between users. Some toys I buy one per partner (usually insertables that are odd shaped).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I agree, it seems ok to lick the woman out with no protection and no one questions about STD then, just sucking the cock is you get STD's it seems lol.

People do question it, I bring it up on the safe sex threads. It all boils down to what I said earlier, people play as safe as they feel comfortable with it isn't down to any of us to say they are wrong for doing it.

Wise words as ever.

Off topic but we never cease to be amazed how many who practice the safest of sex quite happily share toys in a group situation. Although risk is far reduced with toys it still surprises us. Anyone else not not really given this much thought?

"

It's something we always mention and the way people dont think twice about a guy or lady Playing with one cock or pussy and then moving on to another xx especially with a few women and a guy playing with them... One never yet seen a guy wash his hands in between.....I have condoms in my toy bag for my toys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have I now got visions of my next meet coming in the bedroom in full surgical gear and wanking me through a hole in a man sized incubator.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I think I just did a little sick in my mouth, (hopefully I dont have ebola).

Never seen such a fear of bodily parts, It's a good job I wear shoes and wash my hands at every instance - who knows what might eat my arse off!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Why have I now got visions of my next meet coming in the bedroom in full surgical gear and wanking me through a hole in a man sized incubator. "

Haha. And add a mandatory 10' perimeter with heat sensor alarms, just in case you might come!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a blow job with one on . Urgh and I like how sensual a BJ can be, that would be like kissing someone through cling film!

I would rather continue taking the risk and getting tested every 3 months

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I couldn't give a blow job with one on . Urgh and I like how sensual a BJ can be, that would be like kissing someone through cling film!

I would rather continue taking the risk and getting tested every 3 months "

I think if people are going for the ultra safe route - there would be full rubber suits at every meet.

Diseases/infections are everywhere and thinking they are only transmitted by genital or sexual contact is ludicrous really. Herpes for one can be spread like the meisels virus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each person should play as safe as they feel is right for them. Nobody should be made to feel that asking for protected oral sex is wrong.

^^ This.

You'd think by the tone of some of the replies above that having fully protected sex was one of the most idiot things to do.

Appreciate that not everybody wants to wear or use condoms, but people shouldn't be made stupid or wrong for deciding that's how they play."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yuk! I wouldn't even consider having a condom in my mouth. Just wouldn't do it for anyone!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread. Many posters will engage in unprotected oral but most use protection for vaginal sex.

To those that do: why are you happy (and don't worry about STDs) not using protection for oral then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. Many posters will engage in unprotected oral but most use protection for vaginal sex.

To those that do: why are you happy (and don't worry about STDs) not using protection for oral then? "

Because the risk is much less for oral. Yes there is a small risk but it is just that. If I worried to much I'd be monogamous or celibate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. Many posters will engage in unprotected oral but most use protection for vaginal sex.

To those that do: why are you happy (and don't worry about STDs) not using protection for oral then?

Because the risk is much less for oral. Yes there is a small risk but it is just that. If I worried to much I'd be monogamous or celibate "

If a woman swallows is there still less risk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be able to do it. I gag if I give a blow job to a cock that has had a condom on and taken off. Been doing it for 30 years and been lucky so far "
non stop ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. Many posters will engage in unprotected oral but most use protection for vaginal sex.

To those that do: why are you happy (and don't worry about STDs) not using protection for oral then?

Because the risk is much less for oral. Yes there is a small risk but it is just that. If I worried to much I'd be monogamous or celibate

If a woman swallows is there still less risk? "

Yes.. I''ve had a lot of guys orally... Used to always swallow... Now mostly do facials but still take it in my mouth at times but only really swallow Lees..

There is a risk in everything... But I'm happy to take the risk orally without as there is a minimal risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and let's leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. Many posters will engage in unprotected oral but most use protection for vaginal sex.

To those that do: why are you happy (and don't worry about STDs) not using protection for oral then?

Because the risk is much less for oral. Yes there is a small risk but it is just that. If I worried to much I'd be monogamous or celibate

If a woman swallows is there still less risk?

Yes.. I''ve had a lot of guys orally... Used to always swallow... Now mostly do facials but still take it in my mouth at times but only really swallow Lees..

There is a risk in everything... But I'm happy to take the risk orally without as there is a minimal risk "

Not judging. I did recently post that my preference was for bareback sex (NB preference! Not only!!) so am curious to know why oral is considered less risky than bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not judging. I did recently post that my preference was for bareback sex (NB preference! Not only!!) so am curious to know why oral is considered less risky than bareback?"

It's not 'considered' to be less risky, the medical professionals believe it to be less risky.

Female oral is less risky male oral which is less risky than penis-in-vagina which is less risky than anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not judging. I did recently post that my preference was for bareback sex (NB preference! Not only!!) so am curious to know why oral is considered less risky than bareback?"

Also - no matter what my Nan told me - you can't get pregnant from oral. Bareback is very high on the pregnancy risk states.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not judging. I did recently post that my preference was for bareback sex (NB preference! Not only!!) so am curious to know why oral is considered less risky than bareback?

Also - no matter what my Nan told me - you can't get pregnant from oral. Bareback is very high on the pregnancy risk states."

Condoms are not the only forms of contraception either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not judging. I did recently post that my preference was for bareback sex (NB preference! Not only!!) so am curious to know why oral is considered less risky than bareback?

It's not 'considered' to be less risky, the medical professionals believe it to be less risky.

Female oral is less risky male oral which is less risky than penis-in-vagina which is less risky than anal. "

Considered by posters on fab, I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not judging. I did recently post that my preference was for bareback sex (NB preference! Not only!!) so am curious to know why oral is considered less risky than bareback?

It's not 'considered' to be less risky, the medical professionals believe it to be less risky.

Female oral is less risky male oral which is less risky than penis-in-vagina which is less risky than anal.

Considered by posters on fab, I meant"

what I'm well confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put simply: mention bareback. Shock, horror, don't do that, only do safe sex.

Fair enough.

But people who say they only ever use condoms WILL engage in oral sex WITHOUT a condom.

So, they are not being 'safe', are they?

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Yessss.swinging is full of risk anyway. I know prevention is better. What about men going down on women? Is it time the pharmaceutical industry start production of mouth condoms?

Imagine if men insist they won't go-down on women because there's no mouth protection.?

That's why swinging is like a Russian roulette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yessss.swinging is full of risk anyway. I know prevention is better. What about men going down on women? Is it time the pharmaceutical industry start production of mouth condoms?

Imagine if men insist they won't go-down on women because there's no mouth protection.?

That's why swinging is like a Russian roulette.

"

You mean like dental dams? They already exist. And swinging is nowhere near as risky as Russian roulette! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put simply: mention bareback. Shock, horror, don't do that, only do safe sex.

Fair enough.

But people who say they only ever use condoms WILL engage in oral sex WITHOUT a condom.

So, they are not being 'safe', are they?"

No sex is safe. But they are taking a level of risk that they are prepared to take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yessss.swinging is full of risk anyway. I know prevention is better. What about men going down on women? Is it time the pharmaceutical industry start production of mouth condoms?

Imagine if men insist they won't go-down on women because there's no mouth protection.?

That's why swinging is like a Russian roulette.

You mean like dental dams? They already exist. And swinging is nowhere near as risky as Russian roulette! !!"

Indeed: watch the Deer Hunter!!

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"Men what do you feel when receiving blow job while wearing condom?and Ladies what do you feel when giving blow job to someone wearing condom?as for me it is no feeling at all,no fun "

I cant imagine why anyone would want to suck on a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not judging. I did recently post that my preference was for bareback sex (NB preference! Not only!!) so am curious to know why oral is considered less risky than bareback?

Also - no matter what my Nan told me - you can't get pregnant from oral. Bareback is very high on the pregnancy risk states.

Condoms are not the only forms of contraception either!"

No indeed. But pills fail, coils fail and surgical sterilisation fail. When it's so easy to use two methods of contreception then it seems logical.

After all, using a condom is far, far, far less traumatic for the woman's body than having an abortion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman insisted on me wearin a condom to receive oral. I'd decline the oral. Had a girl try do it to me before an cudnt feel a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest, what can you catch through oral?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Oral + condom? Never done it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest, what can you catch through oral? "

Herpes the obvious one, gonorrhoea and syphilis.

Less frequently, chlamydia, HIV, hep A, B and C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just gonna throw this one out there....

If the lady told me she wud sick my cock if i wore a condom, the first thing that would go through my mind is that she respects her own health and my health to.

Ok we all know its not as good, but i for one wouldnt refuse to carry on just because she wants me ti wear a condom for oral, i would just say " well is there any chance you could put some rubber gloves and finger my bum at the same time "

Its safe, its fun, lets get it on

I have only ever had a cpl of bj s wearing a condom and god knows how many without. But always play safe for full sex unless its with a long term partner in a 1 on 1 relationship.

I do understand and agree though that everyone is different and as adults we do our own thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops , suck, not sick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing the risk is slim as most clinics seem to be scrapping oral swabs.... I like to get mine done but not all clinics are now offering this...

Not being funny but I have sucked more than my fair share of Cocks.... And Lee had licked a lot of pussy... We both use condoms for sex but not oral... And as I do gg sessions where it's predominantly oral to completion I think I'd be at the higher end of the scale.

When Lee and I started meeting often and paired up, I was worried I was putting him at unnecessary risk.. so I asked lots of the professionals.... And was basically told the risk is slim with oral and that very few statistics are actually available for it x and those that there are suggest oral without as a low risk activity

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By *inge 1985Man
over a year ago

London

It depends on the brand and style of the condom, never had one in my mouth but I guess they all taste different but from a males point of view you can get quite sensitive condoms where you feel all if not most sensation through it, think it is up to the person performing oral what would make them feel more comfortable but the person receiving to provide what condom feels best for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I think a bj without condoms is fine as long as you get tested orally as well as vaginally at your 3 monthly gum clinic visit. Oh - and if you're honest and tell them you're a swinger- you usually get extra free condoms! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I think a bj without condoms is fine as long as you get tested orally as well as vaginally at your 3 monthly gum clinic visit. Oh - and if you're honest and tell them you're a swinger- you usually get extra free condoms! xx"

See I don't think people get tested enough. We technically Go every 2-3 weeks as We stagger ours... And mostly Go every 4-6 weeks each.... Ie Lee goes and I go 2-3 weeks afteer x

And seriously most are now not offering the oral swabs .. I had to insist last time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how these threads never get as angry as the bareback ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like chewing toffee with the wrapper still on "

no point, rather not bother, just like I'm not going down on a woman who has her fanny covered in cling film

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nah not for me...love blow jobs but the thought of it with a condom puts me right off.

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By *oapysubmarineMan
over a year ago

rotherham

Never experienced it

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"It's like chewing toffee with the wrapper still on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a blunt needle... No point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No condom!!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It's like chewing toffee with the wrapper still on

no point, rather not bother, just like I'm not going down on a woman who has her fanny covered in cling film"

Sounds like pre-packed foofi, still it keeps it fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like quorn mince. No point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like quorn mince. No point. "

oi oi as a vegaterian I take offence to that comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on a few occasions when playing in large groups asked the gguy to put a condom on before I suck him, a lot have decided and moved onto another women who will suck him bare from that I conclude it's not a food feeling for the guy and most would rather go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha you know it's true!

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

The only way my x would do me with a strawberry flavoured condom

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Just looks shit and feels shit as not visually aroused tbh I just by pass getting sucked if a condom is required and would rather goto fucking . Though in reality I never meet people that would want covered oral In first place and in a club I would just say not interested in them but thanks for asking .

though few times a woman asked to suck me with a condom they wanted me to lick them out without a dam . Did make me chuckle

For me it’s just about finding compatible play mates rather than wasting time on things you are not really into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can see the point , both going to end up disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yuk definitely without it covered tastes way better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yuk definitely without it covered tastes way better "

100 %

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By *appy nakedMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Never had a blow job with a condom on, it goes on after

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Better not to have it or give it

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By *lutwife7784Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

No definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't bother lol

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

It’s like eating a sweet with the wrapper on haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no condom!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

It's like sucking a sweet with the wrapper on it

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By *pacecowboy99Man
over a year ago

Near You

Completely pointless and waste of time

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