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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you play with people who say they practice safe sex but who have played with others who openly state a preference for bareback on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES

Seriously though, surely nobody here is that gullible? You should always assume that everyone has been having bareback sex and you’ll never go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would yes, so long as i protect myself i dont care what others are doing

Most people on here will lie and tell you what you want to hear and even if you say you only play with people who only play safe and who only play with others who play safe, how do you know they are being honest? how do you know that the couple you met last week who 'only ever play safe' didnt have a bare back bang bang the week b4?

you simply dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we would, but we make sure we play safe.

There is no way you can be certain that other people always play safe, regardless of what they say on their profile.

The only safe way is not to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES

Seriously though, surely nobody here is that gullible? You should always assume that everyone has been having bareback sex and you’ll never go far wrong. "

I agree totally, play safe yourself, but there are risks in everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re obviously singing from the same hymn sheet, can understand why some people won’t, but what I don’t understand is when these threads pop up from time to time and people shout out very loud things like, we block them and everyone on their friends lists, surely if it’s that big an issue, blocking them is the worst thing you can do, it equates to putting blinkers on, once you block them you don’t know who they are meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re obviously singing from the same hymn sheet, can understand why some people won’t, but what I don’t understand is when these threads pop up from time to time and people shout out very loud things like, we block them and everyone on their friends lists, surely if it’s that big an issue, blocking them is the worst thing you can do, it equates to putting blinkers on, once you block them you don’t know who they are meeting. "

exactly, keep your friends close but your enemies closer.

We meet people who we know want bareback and do that with other, but it is clear that we do not. At least they are honest enough to tell you. Some are not so honest.

I think you first comment is exactly how to look at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not, it's a personal choice and we know that no sex is safe so get ourselves checked at the gum clinic every month, and have been lucky so far.

But we think that is because we elminate as much risk as we can, and condoms can break, and people who are frequently barebacking are much more high risk in other forms of sex ie oral sex, so even wearing a condom with them is a much higher danger than having oral sex with someone who always plays safe.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Seriously though, surely nobody here is that gullible? You should always assume that everyone has been having bareback sex and you’ll never go far wrong. "

* nods *

People will say what they think others want to hear, so although we ask the question, we still could be getting lied to. Thats the chance anyone takes on sites like these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would not, it's a personal choice and we know that no sex is safe so get ourselves checked at the gum clinic every month, and have been lucky so far.

But we think that is because we elminate as much risk as we can, and condoms can break, and people who are frequently barebacking are much more high risk in other forms of sex ie oral sex, so even wearing a condom with them is a much higher danger than having oral sex with someone who always plays safe."

i do understand and agree with what you are saying

but i think most peoples point is.....how do you know for sure people who you play with always play safe

because they tell you they do?

I will play with people regardless of who they have played with in the past, i take people as i find them and treat everyone with the respect i would like to be treat, if i like someone i will meet them and play, im sure many of them have played bareback in the past, i really have no way of knowing, and in the 10 years ive been doing this i have never cought anything

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By *triderMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

What makes me laugh is all the profiles on here that have "Safe Sex" listed, or say in the profile "Safe Sex only"....and when you look at the pics there are pics of them doing bareback!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we would, but we make sure we play safe.

There is no way you can be certain that other people always play safe, regardless of what they say on their profile.

The only safe way is not to play "

Spoke to a couple on here that after going to.a club in the south west came away with clymidia after just playing orally with another couple.

As you said safe sex is no sex, full stop. Just got to reduce the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes me laugh is all the profiles on here that have "Safe Sex" listed, or say in the profile "Safe Sex only"....and when you look at the pics there are pics of them doing bareback!

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Those pics could be of them playing with their wife or regular partner. You cant really judge on the pictures people put on their profile if they play safely or not. You just have to make sure that if you play with them that you are safe

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By *arker.Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Would you play with people who say they practice safe sex but who have played with others who openly state a preference for bareback on their profile? "

No way it isn't worth the risk for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re obviously singing from the same hymn sheet, can understand why some people won’t, but what I don’t understand is when these threads pop up from time to time and people shout out very loud things like, we block them and everyone on their friends lists, surely if it’s that big an issue, blocking them is the worst thing you can do, it equates to putting blinkers on, once you block them you don’t know who they are meeting. "

don't u mean "swinging from the same hymn sheet"?

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