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Art of a good handjob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you do yours that is the beauty of a nice handjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use hand jobs as a pleasurable activity.

Its punishment plain and simple.

But edging is lots of fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer the woman stand behind me starting slowly then harder till I cum whilst other hand massaging my balls same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol there isnt a lot or women who are good at hand jobs its a dying art.... i blame tomato ketchup bottles....

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

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When the lady spits on my cock, bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to watch the guy do it himself first, then copy what he does. Every guy is different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds good mistress deon and swinger girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hand job is good for spontaneous times! Whilst the guy is driving for instance just make sure he pulls over before the money shot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to use oil sometimes and nice and slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a health and safety executive I must stress its vital to wear safety goggles when handling tools to prevent getting poked in the eye..

The best handjob Is a harsh handjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a health and safety executive I must stress its vital to wear safety goggles when handling tools to prevent getting poked in the eye..

The best handjob Is a harsh handjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best to use baby oil makes the cock very slippery and keeps the bellend nice and wet mmm

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

When she uses the whole 9" and keeps me on the edge of cumming for ages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always find it is much easier with uncut guys.

Randy is cut so oil is well used in our boudoir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to combine hands and mouth....works well for hubby and that's good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of oil,two hands and take my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to all the oil and taking your time technique...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer cheese & crackers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice and slow with plenty of baby oil and a finger in my bum mmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any more coments

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By *iberMan
over a year ago

London


"I try to watch the guy do it himself first, then copy what he does. Every guy is different."

Same for ladies. You're all different so I like watching (purely for research purposes, you understand).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice and oily handjob is like heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of baby oil and someone with Parkinsons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it when a lady plays with herself abd gets her hand we and rubes it on my cock

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"I try to watch the guy do it himself first, then copy what he does. Every guy is different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol there isnt a lot or women who are good at hand jobs its a dying art.... i blame tomato ketchup bottles.... "

Yeah i don't really know how to give one. Do use my own juices as lube, sometimes spit on it as well if i was down there using my head but otherwise i think i am crap at giving them because no idea what to do, despite watching guys give themselves one...

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"When the lady spits on my cock, bliss "

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

While you're tugging away, massage his perinium (that's the bit between his scrotum and his anus) with your finger tip and press quite hard especially as he's cumming. It feels amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had a handful of good HJ's... No pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol there isnt a lot or women who are good at hand jobs its a dying art.... i blame tomato ketchup bottles....

Yeah i don't really know how to give one. Do use my own juices as lube, sometimes spit on it as well if i was down there using my head but otherwise i think i am crap at giving them because no idea what to do, despite watching guys give themselves one..."
I'm sure ur fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol there isnt a lot or women who are good at hand jobs its a dying art.... i blame tomato ketchup bottles....

Yeah i don't really know how to give one. Do use my own juices as lube, sometimes spit on it as well if i was down there using my head but otherwise i think i am crap at giving them because no idea what to do, despite watching guys give themselves one...I'm sure ur fine x"

Don't think i've ever made a guy cum with a handjob. Even if i watch a guy wank himself off it turns me on so much i tune out, i tune out a lot during sex actually.

Don't know if it matter or not that i can't give them?? (i do feel awkward giving them as well). Done plenty of bjs to completion, or had guys tell me to stop doing what i'm doing else they'll cum too soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol there isnt a lot or women who are good at hand jobs its a dying art.... i blame tomato ketchup bottles....

Yeah i don't really know how to give one. Do use my own juices as lube, sometimes spit on it as well if i was down there using my head but otherwise i think i am crap at giving them because no idea what to do, despite watching guys give themselves one...I'm sure ur fine x

Don't think i've ever made a guy cum with a handjob. Even if i watch a guy wank himself off it turns me on so much i tune out, i tune out a lot during sex actually.

Don't know if it matter or not that i can't give them?? (i do feel awkward giving them as well). Done plenty of bjs to completion, or had guys tell me to stop doing what i'm doing else they'll cum too soon. "
lucky them Hun x

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

I prefer to give a combination of HJ & BJ - finger up his bum or rubbing perineum/massaging balls plus lots and lots of spit, seems to do the job quite well (no complaints so far)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to give a combination of HJ & BJ - finger up his bum or rubbing perineum/massaging balls plus lots and lots of spit, seems to do the job quite well (no complaints so far) "

That sounds like a dream...

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I prefer to give a combination of HJ & BJ - finger up his bum or rubbing perineum/massaging balls plus lots and lots of spit, seems to do the job quite well (no complaints so far) "

Oh god, sounds like a dream BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret of a good handjob in my experience is one where she enjoys doing it, love my cock being adored, works both ways though, I love using my fingers (and tongue and cock lol) on a lady and watching the response, when her eyes roll and she sighs 'oh yes' I know I'm doing it right, so fecking sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol there isnt a lot or women who are good at hand jobs its a dying art.... i blame tomato ketchup bottles....

Yeah i don't really know how to give one. Do use my own juices as lube, sometimes spit on it as well if i was down there using my head but otherwise i think i am crap at giving them because no idea what to do, despite watching guys give themselves one...I'm sure ur fine x

Don't think i've ever made a guy cum with a handjob. Even if i watch a guy wank himself off it turns me on so much i tune out, i tune out a lot during sex actually.

Don't know if it matter or not that i can't give them?? (i do feel awkward giving them as well). Done plenty of bjs to completion, or had guys tell me to stop doing what i'm doing else they'll cum too soon. lucky them Hun x"

I'll take your word for it then. Find handjobs boring anyway. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol there isnt a lot or women who are good at hand jobs its a dying art.... i blame tomato ketchup bottles....

Yeah i don't really know how to give one. Do use my own juices as lube, sometimes spit on it as well if i was down there using my head but otherwise i think i am crap at giving them because no idea what to do, despite watching guys give themselves one...I'm sure ur fine x

Don't think i've ever made a guy cum with a handjob. Even if i watch a guy wank himself off it turns me on so much i tune out, i tune out a lot during sex actually.

Don't know if it matter or not that i can't give them?? (i do feel awkward giving them as well). Done plenty of bjs to completion, or had guys tell me to stop doing what i'm doing else they'll cum too soon. lucky them Hun x

I'll take your word for it then. Find handjobs boring anyway. :D"

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By *exynurse111Couple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

A nice oil or lube for his thick hard cock and a nice tight grip.. I Massage back and forth playing with the head and cupping the balls.. Oh and I slip a finger lower towards his ass and circle it before pushing inside.. Makes him cum oh so hard

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By *ovepieceMan
over a year ago

Borth

A slow oily handjob accompanied by her sexy voice in my ear telling stories of sexual exploits or fantasies. Her delaying my orgasm by holding back or stopping if I get too close to the brink. Tied up and giving total control over my climax to her. Being literally and metaphorically 'in her hands'. Simultaneous torment and bliss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of baby oil and someone with Parkinsons. "

SO funny and how inappt!

You remind me of paul O'Grady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice oil or lube for his thick hard cock and a nice tight grip.. I Massage back and forth playing with the head and cupping the balls.. Oh and I slip a finger lower towards his ass and circle it before pushing inside.. Makes him cum oh so hard "
cupping then licking his balls sends my buddy over the edge mm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like to use oil sometimes and nice and slow "

Yup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best to use baby oil makes the cock very slippery and keeps the bellend nice and wet mmm "

Second that! There's always the P spot too if you want the ceiling replastered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vary the rythmn, grip and stop completely occasionally to rub in the precum to the helmet. Stroke the helmet very slowly from wrist to finger tip occasionally. When the time is near slow right down and tease as much as you can to leave me begging for release then expect an explosive finish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL! Do not spit on my cock! Spitting is a disgusting habit.

Hand job, for me, certainly should not be harsh either. Do not pull on it like you're trying to start an outboard motor.

Firm but gentle grip, you're not milking a cow. Vary both speed and the length of your hand movement.

The use of oil is okay, but just remember, my bellend is sensitive. That doesn't mean I cum easily, but rather, I do feel pain or friction burns. So if you're going to lube me up, make sure that you keep me lubricated.

I'm not circumsized, and personally I prefer my foreskin to be moved back and forth over the tip of my cock as you wank me. But don't pull it too far down the shaft or too hard, because it's still attached and that will hurt me.

I don't mind if you pull the foreskin back and gently massage the tip, as long as it's well lubed up and you're gentle and receptive to my reactions.

LOL! And, as has already been mentioned, everybody's different. So just because someone you knew said you gave the best hand job ever, doesn't mean that I'll feel the same way. Learn how I like it done, because I'll sure as hell be asking you how you like things.

Oh, and star off gently - if I want it harder or faster, I'll tell you. And I'll do the same back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on guy then spit, oil or liquid silk lube is used, start by slowly teasing the tip with my thumb in gentle circle, its hard to explain but i dont do a straight up and down wank my wrist twists ever so slightly and my thumb continues to work up and over the head, build it up to a really good hard wank then slow them down again and tease it, always vary it until you know they are on the point of exploding

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By *exykinkyfuncplCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

my girl gives a expert handjob with babyoil and a oily finger up my arse mmmmmmmmmmmmmm love it two times a week first thing in the morning is great and nothing wrong with her spiting on it if we got no babyoil lol nice and slow to start with while she massage your balls and slips a well lube finger in makes me cum a lot faster and harder shes knows i love that first thing in morning befor getting up keep the babyoil at side of bed cup of tea and a babyoil wank great start to the day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use hand jobs as a pleasurable activity.

Its punishment plain and simple.

But edging is lots of fun for me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Klixen is one of the best I've seen but yet to experience a jaw drippy handjob!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Klixen is one of the best I've seen but yet to experience a jaw drippy handjob!!"

Dropping ... Not drippy Drippy is a horrid word lol

Who can make drippy sound sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a sub. I always ask my dom to show me. Everyone's different. Handjobs or blowjobs. I find it intimate and arousing for a man to train me how to please him. How he likes to be touched or sucked

It's a two way thing though sometimes egos get in the way and people get offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my girl gives a expert handjob with babyoil and a oily finger up my arse mmmmmmmmmmmmmm love it two times a week first thing in the morning is great and nothing wrong with her spiting on it if we got no babyoil lol nice and slow to start with while she massage your balls and slips a well lube finger in makes me cum a lot faster and harder shes knows i love that first thing in morning befor getting up keep the babyoil at side of bed cup of tea and a babyoil wank great start to the day x"
sounds perfect x mmm

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

Love giving handjobs, as well as head ; I think it's the being in control and getting to witness the pleasure it's giving.i like eye contact while I do. I feel feel to simply enjoy their pleasure rather than be distracted by mine. Lol

I vary my hand position and twist my wrist slightly. I like to cup and play with balls and make sure am paying attention to all available sensitive areas,though I rarely incorporate anal play; I don't feel i need to.

I don't spit; but then I think spitting is a disgusting habit! With bugs I usually incorporate a little head into the hand job to keep it 'lubed'; for others it would Just enough lube to keep things fluid.

Tig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love any activity that involves being up close to a penis, blow jobs and hand jobs especially. To give a good wank you need strong forearms, I have wrist rollers, an excellent pair of steel grippers and I also hold a 7kg plate out infront of me between thumb and fingers for as long as possible. I can wank to completion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just be happy to get one, rather than having to do it myself lol

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By *ay1990Man
over a year ago

wrexham


"Depending on guy then spit, oil or liquid silk lube is used, start by slowly teasing the tip with my thumb in gentle circle, its hard to explain but i dont do a straight up and down wank my wrist twists ever so slightly and my thumb continues to work up and over the head, build it up to a really good hard wank then slow them down again and tease it, always vary it until you know they are on the point of exploding "

Would love a demonstration of this technique:p

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By *-aint-a-crowdCouple
over a year ago

lingerie n heels

Tie his hands to the bed, lube his cock up and work it with a full hand wrap. Twist very slightly as I wank it, starting slow, wanking the full length, then as the pace gathers use shorter faster strokes. Then I start to tease his balls with my tongue before I work back and gently rim his arse, continuing to maintain eye contact whilst wanking him faster and faster. As he starts to quiver aim his cock slightly forward so his load shoots on to me as I continue to rim his ass.

Then demand he returns the favour xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two hands with plenty of oil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something that most women I have met don't do spontaneously, if at all. If any ladies want to give me a demonstration on how it should be done, I promise to pay attention, or at least stand to it!

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