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What does cuck mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always ask people their definition of things when they say 'I'm into XYZ' just to check that we're both on the same wavelength.

But if you're into cuck, what does it mean to you? And what is it about cuck that you particularly enjoy?

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I like to make people happy !

Although with cuckolding the rules have to be set right from the start - exactly what is wanted by the couple - because I have met couples who are very much in love and want to stay together - and just enjoy the hubby being used and abused and watching his Mrs with another man. But also I have met 'nasty' women who really seem like they hate their other half and want to see him basically tortured.

Me - I am just a horny fecker who likes to play. Discuss the scenario beforehand and I will try and oblige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cuck is a husband whose wife sleeps with other men. Any humiliation or abuse is extra and not something Emily or I would stand for. She plays with others, I enjoy the show and thats it. If anybody tried to disrespect either of us they would be shown the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a miss spelling but really no we are not into that all should join in ...... Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cuck is a husband whose wife sleeps with other men. Any humiliation or abuse is extra and not something Emily or I would stand for. She plays with others, I enjoy the show and thats it. If anybody tried to disrespect either of us they would be shown the door "

It really has a different meaning for everyone of us, some like the humiliation, others wouldn't entertain that side of things.

The key is to find out from the couple what they are after

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A cuck is a husband whose wife sleeps with other men. Any humiliation or abuse is extra and not something Emily or I would stand for. She plays with others, I enjoy the show and thats it. If anybody tried to disrespect either of us they would be shown the door "

What is it that you like about watching your partner sleep with other men? Is it the humiliation of it in a supposedly (outwardly?) monogamous relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no humiliation what so ever. Ive always been turned on by a women acting like, for want of a better word, a complete slut. What more slutty thing is there than fucking another person or better still group of people right in front of your husband. Using them for her pleasure. The less shes chatted to them and got to know them the dirtier it seems and the more I enjoy watching it. Plus she enjoys feeling dirty and more so when theyve left and I fuck her while we both watch her being fucked. Its like watching a porno being made then fucking the star at the premier. Absaloutely no humiliation what so ever and no feeling of rejection or assumption that I wasnt good enough that I would feel if I joined in

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"A cuck is a husband whose wife sleeps with other men. Any humiliation or abuse is extra and not something Emily or I would stand for. She plays with others, I enjoy the show and thats it. If anybody tried to disrespect either of us they would be shown the door

What is it that you like about watching your partner sleep with other men? Is it the humiliation of it in a supposedly (outwardly?) monogamous relationship?"

For us it is the joy of knowing the other is enjoying him/herself.

It makes no difference whether B is with another man or Garry is with another woman we both get enjoyment from the other being happy.

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By *imherukCouple
over a year ago

fun town

we love the humiliation side of it. Nothing hornier than the mrs riding a big fat cock while im sitting there with my tiny erection as they are both insulting me and to top it off I enter her after they have finished for her to say she can't feel me inside her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we love the humiliation side of it. Nothing hornier than the mrs riding a big fat cock while im sitting there with my tiny erection as they are both insulting me and to top it off I enter her after they have finished for her to say she can't feel me inside her"

That would utterly destroy me and I cant think of anything more horrible. But each to their own.

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By *imherukCouple
over a year ago

fun town

yes each to there own but with your wife taking extra lovers there is a risk of her enjoying one of them better than yourself but without telling you. The only difference is I like to be told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may well be better than me. But Ill be there long after they are gone and forgotten!

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By *imherukCouple
over a year ago

fun town

same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we love the humiliation side of it. Nothing hornier than the mrs riding a big fat cock while im sitting there with my tiny erection as they are both insulting me and to top it off I enter her after they have finished for her to say she can't feel me inside her"

I'm interested in this kind of thing. One of my partners and I (a submissive partner) are looking to start playing with some cuck scenarios.

Just really curious to work out what guys tend to get out of it, because we have no fixed ideas of preconceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was a miss spelling but really no we are not into that all should join in ...... Simple "

Easier said than done. If your partner was the love of your life, but to others as sexually appealing as an elephant seal, would you never meet again knowing your insistance that everybody play stopped people coming because nobody would play with your partner?? If they were the one saying all or nothing maybe. But what if they said hey dont worry I know nobody else would touch me with a 10 foot barge pole but I dont want you to miss out so Ill just watch because I love watching you enjoy yourself...

Thats what Ive said to Emily. Im fat, Ive got a minute cock. Im quasemodos ugly twin. If we said fuck us both or dont come we would never get a meet again, Im happy to accept that and I dont care. Because I love watching Emily for reasons I gave earlier. So if for you guys its all or nothing then good for you. But to say everyone should join in isnt always true at all

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

There are females who enjoy the cuck side of things as well but you never seem to hear about those who as a female watch their partners with other women for what every reasons.

Surely I can't be the only one ! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are females who enjoy the cuck side of things as well but you never seem to hear about those who as a female watch their partners with other women for what every reasons.

Surely I can't be the only one ! lol"

No I've done that in the past too with a partner. It's great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are females who enjoy the cuck side of things as well but you never seem to hear about those who as a female watch their partners with other women for what every reasons.

Surely I can't be the only one ! lol"

Ill be honest if we got a message saying my wife wants to watch me fuck Emily we would both almost instantly think bullshit/fake profile etc clearly there are some women who enjoy it but I believe far less than men and a fair few men lying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

humiliating, but if he enjoys it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really annoys me that people instantly think that if a fem is a cuck then the man must be forcing her or its just a single guy. I am a proud cuckquean and although not into humiliation I love Silk going of and doing his own thing. It took a long time and a lot of conversations to get to where we are now.

There are so few cuckquean out there that is why I have my own blog account to give people more on an insight into this niche group.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, no humiliation what so ever. Ive always been turned on by a women acting like, for want of a better word, a complete slut. What more slutty thing is there than fucking another person or better still group of people right in front of your husband. Using them for her pleasure. The less shes chatted to them and got to know them the dirtier it seems and the more I enjoy watching it. Plus she enjoys feeling dirty and more so when theyve left and I fuck her while we both watch her being fucked. Its like watching a porno being made then fucking the star at the premier. Absaloutely no humiliation what so ever and no feeling of rejection or assumption that I wasnt good enough that I would feel if I joined in "

couldn't have put it better!

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I enjoy the humiliation, but I think its the variation you can have with it that's the best

In your face or ,wondering whats going on while your out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really annoys me that people instantly think that if a fem is a cuck then the man must be forcing her or its just a single guy. I am a proud cuckquean and although not into humiliation I love Silk going of and doing his own thing. It took a long time and a lot of conversations to get to where we are now.

There are so few cuckquean out there that is why I have my own blog account to give people more on an insight into this niche group.

MissD "

We have had one couple here where the wife clearly enjoyed watching her hubby fuck Emily but she joined in too. If we ever had a guy want to come alone claiming his wife would want to hear all about it later it would be a big no from us. Too many liars have spoilt that. You say it annoys you when people think its a lie, be annoyed at all the liars who have made them believe that, not them for thinking it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different things to different couples.

As a (sometimes) "bull" ..... The correct word but not one I particularly like. It is my job to find out fully what the couple both want and to act out THEIR fantasy/scenario.

What far too many guys fail to realise is that the whole scene is steered by the couple. Too many guys on here confuse Bull with Dom which is so far wrong it makes me giggle!

A good relationship can last.....I have a developing one at the moment....but always room for one or two more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really annoys me that people instantly think that if a fem is a cuck then the man must be forcing her or its just a single guy. I am a proud cuckquean and although not into humiliation I love Silk going of and doing his own thing. It took a long time and a lot of conversations to get to where we are now.

There are so few cuckquean out there that is why I have my own blog account to give people more on an insight into this niche group.

MissD

We have had one couple here where the wife clearly enjoyed watching her hubby fuck Emily but she joined in too. If we ever had a guy want to come alone claiming his wife would want to hear all about it later it would be a big no from us. Too many liars have spoilt that. You say it annoys you when people think its a lie, be annoyed at all the liars who have made them believe that, not them for thinking it!"

This Is exactly why I am happy to speak either on the phone or in a social with the other women/couple. I do this to alleviate any preconceived misconceptions about myself as a cuckquean and our relationship. I am just as happy to meet, watch and be involved to a level as well as silk having solo meets.

It is unfair that cuckquean couples have such a bad deal when it comes to being believed but this is the reason why I am heavily involved in the planning of a meet.

MissD

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

It can also mean the cuck husband may be in chastity to please his partner/mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different things to different couples.

As a (sometimes) "bull" ..... The correct word but not one I particularly like. It is my job to find out fully what the couple both want and to act out THEIR fantasy/scenario.

What far too many guys fail to realise is that the whole scene is steered by the couple. Too many guys on here confuse Bull with Dom which is so far wrong it makes me giggle!

A good relationship can last....."

Exactly this.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different things to different couples.

As a (sometimes) "bull" ..... The correct word but not one I particularly like. It is my job to find out fully what the couple both want and to act out THEIR fantasy/scenario.

What far too many guys fail to realise is that the whole scene is steered by the couple. Too many guys on here confuse Bull with Dom which is so far wrong it makes me giggle!

A good relationship can last.....I have a developing one at the moment....but always room for one or two more!"

This is spot on in the time we've been exploring the cuck scene on here so many guys didn't even think of us as a couple but thought it meant they'd be able to meet 1-1 instead of as 3 of us.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"yes each to there own but with your wife taking extra lovers there is a risk of her enjoying one of them better than yourself but without telling you. The only difference is I like to be told"
I have to say this is my perfect kind of cuck cpl. Appeals to my dom side but I respect all cuck cpls and the boundaries they wish to play in. J

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Cuck is to us, quite simple, as we seem

to be embarking on some form of Cuck venture. Lou has sex with two guys, her husband(me) and her BBC 'lover'(we hate the term fuck-buddy).

I set up the meets whenever, and watch/photo/film, occassionly join in and will also eventually, listen and leave them in the bedroom.

No humiliation or verbal or sissy stuff. That's already stated as it is, something different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, interesting to hear lots of different points of views.

I'm looking to cuck my submissive parther, although we're still working on the fine details of exactly how it will work for us - so other peoples input is interesting. Because we're poly and each have other partners we're really working out between us what the essence of cuck is *for us* and then working out how we can incorporate that into our relationship.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Thanks guys, interesting to hear lots of different points of views.

I'm looking to cuck my submissive parther, although we're still working on the fine details of exactly how it will work for us - so other peoples input is interesting. Because we're poly and each have other partners we're really working out between us what the essence of cuck is *for us* and then working out how we can incorporate that into our relationship."
Does the humiliation appeal to him or what elements appeal the most to both of ye? J

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Different things to different couples.

As a (sometimes) "bull" ..... The correct word but not one I particularly like. It is my job to find out fully what the couple both want and to act out THEIR fantasy/scenario.

What far too many guys fail to realise is that the whole scene is steered by the couple. Too many guys on here confuse Bull with Dom which is so far wrong it makes me giggle!

A good relationship can last.....I have a developing one at the moment....but always room for one or two more!

This is spot on in the time we've been exploring the cuck scene on here so many guys didn't even think of us as a couple but thought it meant they'd be able to meet 1-1 instead of as 3 of us. "

I think it is a question of finding someone with whom you are both comfortable and can rely on them to play out the scenarios that you want. Make it clear from the beginning what are the boundaries and what role each of the 3 of you will play.

There is a lot of scope for a lot of fun !!

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